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Are face to face meets now old fashioned

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Always feel that things are never the same online as in person to person meets, the chemistry might be good in text but flat as a pancake in person and vice versa. I love a coffee meet and the anticipation. How does everyone else feel I'm only 41 but feel ancient lol!!

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

I would be surprised if there was anyone here would disagree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh god no I love meeting people face to face lol. I have been pleasantly surprised that there's more chemistry in person, I've had one or two meets where the chemistry was OK through texts but in person wowsers. Seemingly its rude to rip the clothes off a guy in public

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Agree 100pc meet in public when the initial shyness dissipates and the flirty banter starts and you know where it's going. What a feeling surely nothing better

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By *3nsesMan
over a year ago

Dublin

Sure if you never have face to face meets how exactly do you get the ride?

In saying that, video calls are very handy in terms of getting an initial sense of a person without having to make any time/travel commitment. Especially on traditional dating apps where you can end up on lots of first dates.

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By *aint_or_SinnerWoman
over a year ago

South County Dublin


"Always feel that things are never the same online as in person to person meets, the chemistry might be good in text but flat as a pancake in person and vice versa. I love a coffee meet and the anticipation. How does everyone else feel I'm only 41 but feel ancient lol!!"

Meeting face to face for the first time through being out and about seems to be a thing of the past with apps, sex, swinging and dating sites having taken over. Gone are the good old fashioned days where you'd meet someone in the bar, through friends, work or at an event/outing/holiday.

And yes, unfortunately chatting with someone online and meeting them in person may fall flat where sexual chemistry is concerned.

I've still enjoyed every social I had and never felt that I wasted my time because the people I have met were lovely people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sure if you never have face to face meets how exactly do you get the ride?

In saying that, video calls are very handy in terms of getting an initial sense of a person without having to make any time/travel commitment. Especially on traditional dating apps where you can end up on lots of first dates. "

This.

Or even a phone call just to determine if the vibe is right. I can usually tell fairly instantly. I remember it took me ages to meet this one guy, but we had videocalled a couple of times, and I just KNEW we would get along very well. Because of this I had zero nerves when it came down to meeting in person

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Interesting. I guess where I'm coming from is like you say in a pub meeting like minded people knowing your interests etc. Suppose that mist be the socials u are speaking about. Think I best be getting me down to ne of them sounds great

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

I'd be more into doggy style myself alright

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By *errardNo8Man
over a year ago

Galway/Mayo

I've only had 2 meets but they wouldn't be the same on a video.

Too much technology as it is. People have forgotten how to communicate face to face.

I don't mind communicating face to ass either though

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By *unsigntwoCouple
over a year ago

athlone

We here dont mind chatting on here for a bit but then face to face is a must for us ...

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By *unsigntwoCouple
over a year ago

athlone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Usually find the texting or messaging adds to the face to face a lot.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

During lockdown the thing was Zoom/Video chat dating... world going mad

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By *ussie MMan
over a year ago

Sandyford


"Usually find the texting or messaging adds to the face to face a lot. "

Helps add to the anticipation

Nothing like building some anticipation

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By *aint_or_SinnerWoman
over a year ago

South County Dublin


"I've only had 2 meets but they wouldn't be the same on a video.

Too much technology as it is. People have forgotten how to communicate face to face.

I don't mind communicating face to ass either though "

Is that your face in her/his ass or her/his face in your ass

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think if it's good communication and banter and easy going relaxed chat on text then it's gonna be pretty much the same if meeting ..BUT it may not be the same in physical appearance...my tuppence worth anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Texts can get boring and go on too long ,with a face to face meet you know if theres a spark there or if its a one off quicky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Digital coffee is the equivalent of Maxwell house.

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By *ardyboy54321Man
over a year ago

Fermanagh

Hard ta bate a good aul face to face natter in my humble opinion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Texting can only go so far for me with a guy im interested in. It gets to a point where a face to face chat is essential.

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By *ofusplusCouple
over a year ago

Limerick


"Texting can only go so far for me with a guy im interested in. It gets to a point where a face to face chat is essential."

Agreed... bring on the big socials which start this month

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By *ofusplusCouple
over a year ago

Limerick


"Texting can only go so far for me with a guy im interested in. It gets to a point where a face to face chat is essential.

Agreed... bring on the big socials which start this month "

It's great meeting lots of people in the one 'sitting'

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By *ustjack400Man
over a year ago

Bristol


"Oh god no I love meeting people face to face lol. I have been pleasantly surprised that there's more chemistry in person, I've had one or two meets where the chemistry was OK through texts but in person wowsers. Seemingly its rude to rip the clothes off a guy in public "
Depends on where in public usually you can find a quiet spot lol

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By *djohn70TV/TS
over a year ago

Mullingar

I like to meet the person, just for a coffee or chat, nothing expected but just to see if we are both happy to meet. It helps with meeting for fun the second time.

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By *errardNo8Man
over a year ago

Galway/Mayo


"I've only had 2 meets but they wouldn't be the same on a video.

Too much technology as it is. People have forgotten how to communicate face to face.

I don't mind communicating face to ass either though

Is that your face in her/his ass or her/his face in your ass "

Her ass in my face. You wanna give some asssssssistance

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By *errardNo8Man
over a year ago

Galway/Mayo


"Texting can only go so far for me with a guy im interested in. It gets to a point where a face to face chat is essential.

Agreed... bring on the big socials which start this month "

Yeeeeees

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