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By *asual777 OP   Man
over a year ago

i travel all over

So you’ve seen a couple profile you like . You’ve chatted a bit. There is a connection . You really fancy the person of the opposite sex . You find out they only do bi play . You haven’t dabbled before . Would you ? Or is this an absolute no no ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me its a no. I'm not bi or curious.

No level of attraction to the female of the couples would change that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For me its a no. I'm not bi or curious.

No level of attraction to the female of the couples would change that."

Ditto

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So you’ve seen a couple profile you like . You’ve chatted a bit. There is a connection . You really fancy the person of the opposite sex . You find out they only do bi play . You haven’t dabbled before . Would you ? Or is this an absolute no no ? "

So what we are getting from this post is that you want to eat penis?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a no from me, particularly irritating when the couple cannot seem to accept the boundary because they apparently see being bi as de rigeur for women.

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By *ohng69Man
over a year ago

athenry

Definitely a no no

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By *asual777 OP   Man
over a year ago

i travel all over


"So you’ve seen a couple profile you like . You’ve chatted a bit. There is a connection . You really fancy the person of the opposite sex . You find out they only do bi play . You haven’t dabbled before . Would you ? Or is this an absolute no no ?

So what we are getting from this post is that you want to eat penis?"

Actually just finished brunch .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So you’ve seen a couple profile you like . You’ve chatted a bit. There is a connection . You really fancy the person of the opposite sex . You find out they only do bi play . You haven’t dabbled before . Would you ? Or is this an absolute no no ?

So what we are getting from this post is that you want to eat penis?

Actually just finished brunch . "

Hahaha

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By *Belfast_FellaMan
over a year ago

belfast

I have been in this exact situation; I was told that I wouldn't have to touch or suck the guy, just let him suck me. Although the female half was very attractive, that was just a bridge too far for me, so I had to decline.

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

If they're on here...do they have bi on the male profile ....is so then you'd know

If they don't I'd have to discuss it further but not walking into a meet hopefully...a bit late then

If a single hetro male meets a couple is the attraction only towards the female

Does the male have to be presentable or if the couple looked like quasimodo and Esmeralda would you still meet as there's no sexual interaction between both males in this situation

In a bi mmf is someone taking it for the team

Sorry just further thoughts

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By *aint_or_SinnerWoman
over a year ago

South County Dublin


"So you’ve seen a couple profile you like . You’ve chatted a bit. There is a connection . You really fancy the person of the opposite sex . You find out they only do bi play . You haven’t dabbled before . Would you ? Or is this an absolute no no ? "

If there's chemistry . That can only be found out by meeting in person...

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By *ig A300Man
over a year ago

North. love to chat please.

It's a big NO NO FOR ME TO

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By *antra MassageMan
over a year ago

city


"So you’ve seen a couple profile you like . You’ve chatted a bit. There is a connection . You really fancy the person of the opposite sex . You find out they only do bi play . You haven’t dabbled before . Would you ? Or is this an absolute no no ? "

I'd be open to chat with both, and then clearly state my boundaries, if it led to play.

What would you do? OP

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

Sorry ...I'll start another thread about my question ...interested in an answer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So you’ve seen a couple profile you like . You’ve chatted a bit. There is a connection . You really fancy the person of the opposite sex . You find out they only do bi play . You haven’t dabbled before . Would you ? Or is this an absolute no no ? "

Wouldn’t rule it out entirely, but also wouldn’t meet if I was being expected to perform or so something I wasn’t comfortable with. As for a heat of the moment situation…that could be different

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By *adhatter and coCouple
over a year ago

Middle of mayo n peaceful tranquility

In our personal experience with Bi MMF I won’t take one for the team . It would just be a MM if I don’t think there’s chemistry

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By *asual777 OP   Man
over a year ago

i travel all over


"So you’ve seen a couple profile you like . You’ve chatted a bit. There is a connection . You really fancy the person of the opposite sex . You find out they only do bi play . You haven’t dabbled before . Would you ? Or is this an absolute no no ?

I'd be open to chat with both, and then clearly state my boundaries, if it led to play.

What would you do? OP"

The big picture stuff I am comfortable with but the fine details are important when it comes to the negotiations

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So you’ve seen a couple profile you like . You’ve chatted a bit. There is a connection . You really fancy the person of the opposite sex . You find out they only do bi play . You haven’t dabbled before . Would you ? Or is this an absolute no no ?

I'd be open to chat with both, and then clearly state my boundaries, if it led to play.

What would you do? OP

The big picture stuff I am comfortable with but the fine details are important when it comes to the negotiations "

Ya can't beat reading T&C's for a bit of foreplay

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If they're on here...do they have bi on the male profile ....is so then you'd know

If they don't I'd have to discuss it further but not walking into a meet hopefully...a bit late then

If a single hetro male meets a couple is the attraction only towards the female

Does the male have to be presentable or if the couple looked like quasimodo and Esmeralda would you still meet as there's no sexual interaction between both males in this situation

In a bi mmf is someone taking it for the team

Sorry just further thoughts "

Neither of us would take one for the team no matter what kind of meet we're having. I'd be absolutely mortified if the shoe was on the other foot and someone thought of me in that regard.

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By *asual777 OP   Man
over a year ago

i travel all over


"If they're on here...do they have bi on the male profile ....is so then you'd know

If they don't I'd have to discuss it further but not walking into a meet hopefully...a bit late then

If a single hetro male meets a couple is the attraction only towards the female

Does the male have to be presentable or if the couple looked like quasimodo and Esmeralda would you still meet as there's no sexual interaction between both males in this situation

In a bi mmf is someone taking it for the team

Sorry just further thoughts "

If you don’t fancy someone you don’t fancy someone , and it ll show and the meet will have an awkward atmosphere

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So you’ve seen a couple profile you like . You’ve chatted a bit. There is a connection . You really fancy the person of the opposite sex . You find out they only do bi play . You haven’t dabbled before . Would you ? Or is this an absolute no no ? "

Going by some messages we get there's plenty who would. They're of no interest to us and our profile says as much.

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By *ilverfox74Man
over a year ago

dublin offaly

It’s a no for me. I met a couple at the start of fab on an old profile. Both straight until in the middle of the meet when he went to suck me. I pulled back and left. Everyone should be up front about what expect from a meet. No surprises then.

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By *asual777 OP   Man
over a year ago

i travel all over

That’s why in group meets or threesomes the fine details need discussing before the meet , before you’re physically in the same place

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By *asual777 OP   Man
over a year ago

i travel all over

International coming out day today . Perhaps that will spell the end for the fab straight phenomenon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The longer I'm here the more I hate the phrase "fab straight"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That’s why in group meets or threesomes the fine details need discussing before the meet , before you’re physically in the same place "

Yes interesting Hypothetical scenario MMF and MF only interested in bi play.

Communication is certainly the key.

Am flattered if both MF interested in my cock in a MMF situation but I have no interest in his or anyone else’s cock for that matter so that’s a no.

I certainly don’t judge others but I imagine my perspective is considered too straight or is it fab straight I don’t know

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