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By *adylover321 OP   Man
over a year ago

navan

Hi ladies just wondering what you think of man boobs moobs Tits on men I’ve been told some nasty things about mine feel very uncomfortable in football Tops T shirts as a result

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyone who makes you feel bad about yourself is not worth listening to OP... remember that.

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By *adylover321 OP   Man
over a year ago

navan


"Anyone who makes you feel bad about yourself is not worth listening to OP... remember that. "
thank you very much for taking the time too Reply and I know you are right still very hurtful

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Were these comments from other men?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi ladies just wondering what you think of man boobs moobs Tits on men I’ve been told some nasty things about mine feel very uncomfortable in football Tops T shirts as a result "

Says more about the person saying it, block and move on.

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By *adylover321 OP   Man
over a year ago

navan


"Were these comments from other men?"
yes a lot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thats shit OP.

Find clothes you are comfortable in and feck anyone who has a smart comment

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By *adylover321 OP   Man
over a year ago

navan


"Were these comments from other men?"
i work in a pub and often pinched on them out collecting glasses

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just had a look at your profile

Absolutely nothing wrong with you

If people say something negative about you or someone else it says a lot about them, nothing nice. Don’t let it get to you! If it’s brought up again say “ooh but the ladies love them” xx

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By *asual777Man
over a year ago

i travel all over

Others’ behaviour does sound unpleasant . From what I can see in your pics I am surprised they are prominent enough to get you that much unwanted attention given your body shape. No harm seeing your gp to make sure there isn’t a treatable cause for them. Best of luck OP.

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By *adylover321 OP   Man
over a year ago

navan


"I just had a look at your profile

Absolutely nothing wrong with you

If people say something negative about you or someone else it says a lot about them, nothing nice. Don’t let it get to you! If it’s brought up again say “ooh but the ladies love them” xx"
Thank you very much for lovely compliment

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

Try not to let it get to you if you can .People tend to enjoy putting others down and it says more about them than it does to you.

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By *adylover321 OP   Man
over a year ago

navan


"Try not to let it get to you if you can .People tend to enjoy putting others down and it says more about them than it does to you. "
Thank you for taking the time too reply I really do appreciate it

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By *onegal82Man
over a year ago

letterkenny/Belfast

Definitely ignore those people and comments. Ignore block and move on. Plenty will love them and have nice things to say.

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By *j TruckerMan
over a year ago

monaghan

There are a lot of keyboard warriors on here who would rather criticise and insult rather than complement I think it makes them feel better I've had my fair share of them myself

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By *ergalMan
over a year ago

east cork

Ignore the idiots...they must be all so secure and perfect in their warrior keyboard castles !

Don't waste time trying to figure them out,block and move on...chin up

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

This isn't keyboard warrior territory lads. If you read the thread you will see the op said he gets these comments at work.

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By *j TruckerMan
over a year ago

monaghan

They must be so perfect themselves it must be great to have no flaws just remember to take insults as compliments from people that know no better

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By *ergalMan
over a year ago

east cork

Yea,sorry...just see its happening while glass collecting.

OP could you say it to security staff, if any there,about being harassed ?

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By *errardNo8Man
over a year ago

Galway/Mayo

I always say whilst they are picking on me they are leaving someone else alone.

Horses for courses my man. Some women are into them some arnt.

Some men are into big boobs some arnt.

If now you are insecure sort it out, you be the you that you want to be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"In every star

A cute sunflower lives

We can't see her

Except the light she gives

The hidden oasis

In every desert

Voice of water

Classical concert

Your radiant smile

Form of flower

The inner beauty

Love's power"

I know it's easier said than done but pay no mind to people like that, Ohpee! It's their negativity, not yours. I realise when it happens in person it's a lot harder to not let it affect you and/or 'tackle' it head on though.

If you feel comfortable in those clothes, enjoy wearing what you do, that's enough

Never be afraid to be you, stand up and be you, and be proud. Some choose to never really see the whole person, that's their problem

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By *adylover321 OP   Man
over a year ago

navan

Thank you everyone for all the comments yes mostly in day too day life it happens only once or twice on fab

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By *ettaManMan
over a year ago

Based in Kerry, work in Cork.


"Hi ladies just wondering what you think of man boobs moobs Tits on men I’ve been told some nasty things about mine feel very uncomfortable in football Tops T shirts as a result "

No matter who you are, no one likes it when others make fun of them LL, so you're not alone in that. Working in a pub can be even tougher when people have drink on board and you have to maintain a certain level of deference to the customer. Being a guy in that situation can be difficult too bcos sometimes we're expected to just take it. Sharing it here is a positive thing. As, many have already said it doesn't look like you have much to be concerned about. Would it have been something you were insecure about previously?

In situations like that it can be difficult to address the behaviour in such a way as to get it to stop but also to not make it seem like it bothers you - bcos that can sometimes exacerbate the problem.

Humour can be a great tool in situations like that, to turn in it back on the aggressor. You'll be more familiar with the situation so you might know what would work better, but maybe something along the following lines might work. If they do it again try saying:

- [to his friends] that's the closest he's ever come to a pair of tits.

- you're not in the George now mate*

- [in voice of Father Stack] Are you saving that for the wank bank, ya dirty fecker!

*I'm making the presumption that this person will be embarrassed by having their sexuality questioned, not anything else.

A further caveat is that you know the clientele better than I do. I'm assuming they are more likely to be embarrassed by the above. If you think they might get violent as a result then use your own discretion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My son suffered from this and in his case he was drinking a lot of soya milk! Which is known to cause breast development in males.he immediately cut soya from his diet and 18 months later had a normal chest again.

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By *adylover321 OP   Man
over a year ago

navan


"Hi ladies just wondering what you think of man boobs moobs Tits on men I’ve been told some nasty things about mine feel very uncomfortable in football Tops T shirts as a result

No matter who you are, no one likes it when others make fun of them LL, so you're not alone in that. Working in a pub can be even tougher when people have drink on board and you have to maintain a certain level of deference to the customer. Being a guy in that situation can be difficult too bcos sometimes we're expected to just take it. Sharing it here is a positive thing. As, many have already said it doesn't look like you have much to be concerned about. Would it have been something you were insecure about previously?

In situations like that it can be difficult to address the behaviour in such a way as to get it to stop but also to not make it seem like it bothers you - bcos that can sometimes exacerbate the problem.

Humour can be a great tool in situations like that, to turn in it back on the aggressor. You'll be more familiar with the situation so you might know what would work better, but maybe something along the following lines might work. If they do it again try saying:

- [to his friends] that's the closest he's ever come to a pair of tits.

- you're not in the George now mate*

- [in voice of Father Stack] Are you saving that for the wank bank, ya dirty fecker!

*I'm making the presumption that this person will be embarrassed by having their sexuality questioned, not anything else.

A further caveat is that you know the clientele better than I do. I'm assuming they are more likely to be embarrassed by the above. If you think they might get violent as a result then use your own discretion."
Thank you for taking the time I really appreciate everything people are saying

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