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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Like title says, how far would you travel for a meet, I've been tempted to get a flight across the water when I see some of the pics on here lol, once I was also going to drive to Dublin from Belfast

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

30 mins max

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By *ouple 0073Couple
over a year ago

donegal

Roy orbison..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

30/45 mins.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

For a coffee meet no more than an hour.

For anything more about the same and I would expect anyone I'm meeting to make a similar effort.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

An hour max, although we generally arrange meets for weekends away, killing two birds with one stone

Had a man fly from London to meet me pre-fab

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By *ecentguy321Man
over a year ago

nearby

I wouldnt rule out any distance for the right person. If you click with someone it would be worth the journey!

Albeit a first social id line it up with something else like work or similar

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

There is a direct correlation between distance travelled and expectation.

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By *asual777Man
over a year ago

i travel all over

788 kms was no bother so might go the full 500 miles

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By *atherjackhackettMan
over a year ago

Tipperary


"30 mins max "

There must be alot of hot fabbers down your way

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By *rezMan
over a year ago

Mungret

I would not mind to travel even 3hrs

I did travel before 2hrs one way and it was worth it.

Not too sure why it is such a big deal for people...

We do not live in Texas but little island of Ireland. Everywhere is close enough.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For a coffee an hour give or take.

I don't mind driving between Fri and Sat this week another 700km clocked up and that's on top of the 200km mon-fri

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork


"There is a direct correlation between distance travelled and expectation. "

This.

And expectation means feeling pressure and other unpleasantness

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By *dyseussMan
over a year ago

Dublin

1hr would be fine as my time is limited most of the time

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By *r Hung4funMan
over a year ago

craigavon

Previously being part of a couple we travelled as far as Tipperary so guess if the company is right its worth it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Previously being part of a couple we travelled as far as Tipperary so guess if the company is right its worth it "

So was the song right..." It's a long way to Tipperary...it's a long way to go ..."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have flown to the UK for meets, so yes I would Walk 500 miles

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By *iscuits8Man
over a year ago

Meath / Dublin / Birmingham

Sure, you'd walk 500 miles. But would you walk 500 more?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't mind travelling a long distance for even a coffee meet if there was a mental connection established in chatting beforehand,the way l look at it is if a lady is kind enough to give me the opportunity to meet and there's a connection there well then why not ..it's a road trip .. something to look forward to in the meet ..and a return road trip... everything thing about it is wayyyy better than the alternative...no road trip... nothing to look forward to...like on that given night what else might you be doing ?... watching the TV... doing nothing much ? ...so like l said if a lady is kind enough to give a guy an opportunity to meet and give you her time isn't it well worth the effort to go meet her .. wherever she is ..it's definitely something to look forward to , even if it only means or ends up happening the one time.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I wouldn't mind travelling a long distance for even a coffee meet if there was a mental connection established in chatting beforehand,the way l look at it is if a lady is kind enough to give me the opportunity to meet and there's a connection there well then why not ..it's a road trip .. something to look forward to in the meet ..and a return road trip... everything thing about it is wayyyy better than the alternative...no road trip... nothing to look forward to...like on that given night what else might you be doing ?... watching the TV... doing nothing much ? ...so like l said if a lady is kind enough to give a guy an opportunity to meet and give you her time isn't it well worth the effort to go meet her .. wherever she is ..it's definitely something to look forward to , even if it only means or ends up happening the one time."

I agree, sometimes you just click so well with someone, if I found someone like that I wouldn't mind travelling an hour or 2 to see them regularly

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By *rezMan
over a year ago

Mungret


"I wouldn't mind travelling a long distance for even a coffee meet if there was a mental connection established in chatting beforehand,the way l look at it is if a lady is kind enough to give me the opportunity to meet and there's a connection there well then why not ..it's a road trip .. something to look forward to in the meet ..and a return road trip... everything thing about it is wayyyy better than the alternative...no road trip... nothing to look forward to...like on that given night what else might you be doing ?... watching the TV... doing nothing much ? ...so like l said if a lady is kind enough to give a guy an opportunity to meet and give you her time isn't it well worth the effort to go meet her .. wherever she is ..it's definitely something to look forward to , even if it only means or ends up happening the one time.

I agree, sometimes you just click so well with someone, if I found someone like that I wouldn't mind travelling an hour or 2 to see them regularly "

Amen to that...

On the other hand I would not expect to get fun just because I have travelled a bit.

I would not take it for granted.

If chemistry would be there...well you know the drill.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For a coffee meet no more than an hour.

For anything more about the same and I would expect anyone I'm meeting to make a similar effort. "

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast


"I wouldn't mind travelling a long distance for even a coffee meet if there was a mental connection established in chatting beforehand,the way l look at it is if a lady is kind enough to give me the opportunity to meet and there's a connection there well then why not ..it's a road trip .. something to look forward to in the meet ..and a return road trip... everything thing about it is wayyyy better than the alternative...no road trip... nothing to look forward to...like on that given night what else might you be doing ?... watching the TV... doing nothing much ? ...so like l said if a lady is kind enough to give a guy an opportunity to meet and give you her time isn't it well worth the effort to go meet her .. wherever she is ..it's definitely something to look forward to , even if it only means or ends up happening the one time."

I might consider travelling if there was a connection and we had been chatting for a while. For someone who was kind enough to give me an opportunity? Not so much. I prefer to meet people as equals rather than out of gratitude.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn't mind travelling a long distance for even a coffee meet if there was a mental connection established in chatting beforehand,the way l look at it is if a lady is kind enough to give me the opportunity to meet and there's a connection there well then why not ..it's a road trip .. something to look forward to in the meet ..and a return road trip... everything thing about it is wayyyy better than the alternative...no road trip... nothing to look forward to...like on that given night what else might you be doing ?... watching the TV... doing nothing much ? ...so like l said if a lady is kind enough to give a guy an opportunity to meet and give you her time isn't it well worth the effort to go meet her .. wherever she is ..it's definitely something to look forward to , even if it only means or ends up happening the one time.

I might consider travelling if there was a connection and we had been chatting for a while. For someone who was kind enough to give me an opportunity? Not so much. I prefer to meet people as equals rather than out of gratitude. "

If there's a connection there it's as equals,you might be mad about someone but you're not her type so it's not gonna happen , you might be mad about someone and she feels the same so it will happen but only because she also wants to ,she's meeting you cause she wants to ,not out of anything else.

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

Like a lot of people I don't have a lot of spare time so I'd travel an hour at most and I wouldn't want anyone to travel farther either to meet me.

The only exception is if I was going somewhere anyhow.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

500km round trip and worth every single second.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"500km round trip and worth every single second."

I'll meet you half way

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By *ingleStud85Man
over a year ago

Donegal


"There is a direct correlation between distance travelled and expectation. "

I drove from Donegal to Limerick to get my Fab cherry popped. It was worth it at the time. But, this is a good point, time and distance can create too much nervous build-up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on the kind of meet and the chemistry.

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By *ameswXXXMan
over a year ago

Killarney

I would travel any distance for the right woman

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By *oubtingtomasMan
over a year ago

Dundalk

London to Singapore for a weekend furthest I've gone to meet someone just for sex. It was so worth it and I'd do it again for the lady in question.

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By *iscreet_divorced_guyMan
over a year ago

central


"I would travel any distance for the right woman "

This, I have travelled two hours for a meet and it was worth it, but there was a connection built up beforehand!

Living in rural north Mayo means that I have to travel an hour at least anyway!

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...

Bout an hour or so but ill always offer to split the distance for a social....

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By *innerboy86Man
over a year ago

on the border

An hour is always a nice round number tho would be willing to go a bit further for the right person/people

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By *asual777Man
over a year ago

i travel all over


"Bout an hour or so but ill always offer to split the distance for a social.... "

Are there decent coffee shops in Tullamore or Mountmellick ?

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By *oo32Man
over a year ago

tipperary


"Bout an hour or so but ill always offer to split the distance for a social.... "

I'll do supermacs manorstone so next weekend....

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By *ightower2021Man
over a year ago

donegal

Like travelling a bit too don't like meeting too local

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By *arajeanCouple
over a year ago

mayo

All depends on who meeting distance no problem

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By *errardNo8Man
over a year ago

Galway/Mayo

Mate I'd ravel far and wide. Make a day of it. The world is your oyster

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Distance doesn't bother me I like to go for drives and take different roads of the country.

I've had people say that I'm too far and I get it, some people just aren't bothered to make the effort and other silly reasons it's a tiny country and I'm not saying I'm the best thing since sliced bread but whoever iy is that's not willing to go the extra leg...ya could miss out on something that ends up being great!?

I've even said I'll go to where as far as they'd travel but still a no......maybe it's not about the distance..... Hahaha

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By *asual777Man
over a year ago

i travel all over


"Distance doesn't bother me I like to go for drives and take different roads of the country.

I've had people say that I'm too far and I get it, some people just aren't bothered to make the effort and other silly reasons it's a tiny country and I'm not saying I'm the best thing since sliced bread but whoever iy is that's not willing to go the extra leg...ya could miss out on something that ends up being great!?

I've even said I'll go to where as far as they'd travel but still a no......maybe it's not about the distance..... Hahaha"

Maybe its that expectation thing ? They d worry that if you are travelling that much you ll be expecting them to spend the night with you regardless

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By *t777Woman
over a year ago

close by

I depends on the person as to how far you'd travel

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By *ka ..Agent k ..Man
over a year ago

..

Iv once travelled to

Esbjerg tho not tru fab

Wouldn't be too sure of the km but its not beside ya.

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By *hilaboutMan
over a year ago

kilkenny

Generally anything up to an hr

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By *unnitoesWoman
over a year ago

Belfast


"Like title says, how far would you travel for a meet, I've been tempted to get a flight across the water when I see some of the pics on here lol, once I was also going to drive to Dublin from Belfast "

Fair play to ya I wouldn't be travelling too far based on pix

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By *ligolad321Man
over a year ago

Donegal

To Kildare... easy.

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By *issme39Woman
over a year ago

kildare

would be willing to travel also

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *eralt80Man
over a year ago

cork


"would be willing to travel also "

What kind of radius we talking about. Asking for a friend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To Kildare... easy. "

Watch out for the bog Road

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By *issme39Woman
over a year ago

kildare


"would be willing to travel also

What kind of radius we talking about. Asking for a friend "

lol ya brat

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By *eanbelfastMan
over a year ago

Belfast

When I’m meeting someone it’s because there’s chemistry there and would have been chatting back and forth building it and a social would be a natural extension of that and if we wanted to meet distance wouldn’t put me off

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