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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What is it with people saying "read profile before contacting" then have an actual book going on. Some profiles are way to long, its meant to be a bit of fun not a reading lesson. Then by the time you to the bottom you realise I'm never getting those minutes back again.

And those profiles that say " no pic, no reply" when they've no pics at all and their profile is empty, do these profiles actually get the response they hope for.

Some folk take this way to seriously, this is meant to take you away from normal life, not control it.

P.S. Rant over.

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By *abybellWoman
over a year ago

mid-ulster

And u know wot I think is funny, women who say they won't meet married or attached men and then do, double standards me thinks

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By *uncpl2015Couple
over a year ago

Bridgend Area


"What is it with people saying "read profile before contacting" then have an actual book going on. Some profiles are way to long, its meant to be a bit of fun not a reading lesson. Then by the time you to the bottom you realise I'm never getting those minutes back again.

And those profiles that say " no pic, no reply" when they've no pics at all and their profile is empty, do these profiles actually get the response they hope for.

Some folk take this way to seriously, this is meant to take you away from normal life, not control it.

P.S. Rant over. "

Well have to say ours is 'war and peace' started out quite small and short, but then the full force of the idiots and weirdos (as in alot of the single guys and married ones) hit us ... and well with each encounter of yet another idiot who has got off the bus at the gab swingers stop.. means we add more.

This is supposed to be fun but sadly the number of grown up mature (mentally as well) genuine swingers on this site seem to be few and far between. So ours gets added to very regularly. We are busy people and have a hectic life outside fab and do not have time to bother with the idiots. so what we are about and what we will and wont do is in the profile. People dont have to read it and if they clearly dont we delete their message and block. we have standards and arent lowering them for anyone. and no marrieds or in relationships playing away with us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol....have to say ours started off short but the longer your on here the longer it gets...big chunk of my profile is giving off about other profiles and how agressive people can be on here your right it is meant to be fun...SEX to be blunt...my pet hate aswell is no pic no reply or people message "you got any face pics"? without even chatting grrrrrrrrrrr lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think its important to outline what you want on your profile but some profiles I have read just come across as quite intimidating. People banging on about how gorgeous and sexy they are and how pissed off they are about x y and z. There's nothing wrong with stating what you do and don't want but rambling on about things that annoy you about the site isn't really the most alluring and arousing thing to read. Constant negative status updates are a warning sign to me as well. Frustration is never sexy.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I can fully understand the profile getting longer over time, what really gets me about some huge profiles is the ones that say use a certain word placed in a particular place in the profile if messaging so we know youve read it all.

Yeah face pic is a big thing, " you send yours first and if we like the look of you we will send one back" balls to that, we end that conversation right there and then.

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By *uncpl2015Couple
over a year ago

Bridgend Area


"I think its important to outline what you want on your profile but some profiles I have read just come across as quite intimidating. People banging on about how gorgeous and sexy they are and how pissed off they are about x y and z. There's nothing wrong with stating what you do and don't want but rambling on about things that annoy you about the site isn't really the most alluring and arousing thing to read. Constant negative status updates are a warning sign to me as well. Frustration is never sexy."

Agree but we do put up the odd update as it does annoy us how single guys can be.

When our profile does lay out clearly what we will and will not consider, and then you get messages from people well outside that that wont take no.

People like that are not real genuine swingers..

Its a swingers site after all not actually a sex site.. there is an option to watch others. soft swing etc. think thats where people get confused.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can fully understand the profile getting longer over time, what really gets me about some huge profiles is the ones that say use a certain word placed in a particular place in the profile if messaging so we know youve read it all.

Yeah face pic is a big thing, " you send yours first and if we like the look of you we will send one back" balls to that, we end that conversation right there and then. "

Its mostly to get rid of the time wasters I think. But if its a more than a few lines they expect a big long message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think its important to outline what you want on your profile but some profiles I have read just come across as quite intimidating. People banging on about how gorgeous and sexy they are and how pissed off they are about x y and z. There's nothing wrong with stating what you do and don't want but rambling on about things that annoy you about the site isn't really the most alluring and arousing thing to read. Constant negative status updates are a warning sign to me as well. Frustration is never sexy.

Agree but we do put up the odd update as it does annoy us how single guys can be.

When our profile does lay out clearly what we will and will not consider, and then you get messages from people well outside that that wont take no.

People like that are not real genuine swingers..

Its a swingers site after all not actually a sex site.. there is an option to watch others. soft swing etc. think thats where people get confused.

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Don't get me wrong I've had my share of ranty updates but I have seen people update their status sometimes several times a day with angry comments about people on the site. Of course we all get annoyed on here at times and want to vent but just constantly being pissed off doesn't make me want to get in contact as I would be too scared! lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Rinky , we should start a group lol we will meet once a week to vent our anger then drink and shag lol

No more need for angry updates lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lol...i know some on here are a bit scary and who wants too meet with people who are always giving off....here to have fuuuuuuuuun.....yeehoooooo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes i know hapened to me a few times...SHALLOW...i like to chat first and i never ask for a face pic first it makes me crindge...i can tell from the first few messages whether or not i click with someone.....thats more important tbh !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

*takes notes* I've been here a month or two now, but have yet to really message anyone as I am painfully shy and I think it can come across in my emails and that could put people off straight away Of course, as this is the "internet" I could lie but then I would be certain to get caught out - I think it's a bit of a balancing act and a very thin line for us single males, there are so many on here you need to stand out - but also, you can't come across as too pushy or it's straight to the delete bin for you One of these days I'll take the plunge and start messaging, but until then I'll happily sit back and observe, so when that day comes I (hopefully) won't make a tit of myself and might actually be able to talk to somebody on here without getting all embarrassed and shy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Rinky , we should start a group lol we will meet once a week to vent our anger then drink and shag lol

No more need for angry updates lol"

Would be a great idea lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hey it is hard for males in here and i do agree they get a raw deal..i had my page opened to males at the start and they all were very nice and polite...a few weird but nothing major..i always try and reply to everyone as we are all human and it is rude when someone has taken the time to message you...just be yourself and keep the messages simple (no cut and pastes)hate them lol and no cock pics..if they dont get back to you then thats their loss!!good luck....

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