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By *outh Dub 29 OP   Man
over a year ago

Clapham

So been on here a while and only have the one meet with a couple (got the verification) but I'm wondering how else can guys disgust themselves apart from the sheer onslaught of messages women get. I get age may be an issue but would love to hear how guys stand out. Curious to know and open to suggestions on change the profile if that's an issue. Cheers

Ps: I know no dic pics/straight into sex chat when messaging

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

Id imagine age is an issue as you say as most people steer clear of younger men the same age as their children

Use the forums so your name and personality gets out to otherd

Have you used the search function as there's a fair few younger couples on the forums later

Lastly and maybe I'm reading it wrong but are you calling 99% of the single men on here dogs in the final couple of lines of your profile

If thats what you feel fine but just curious if that's what youre saying

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By *outh Dub 29 OP   Man
over a year ago

Clapham

I figured age maybe it.

In terms of younger couples it usually is more a matter of timing that it falls through.

And lastly no, from the forums I get the impression it's 1% of single males that rude (there will always be, won't there). I figured I'd include it so just in case. It's kinda obvious tho I suppose isn't it. Haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That paragraph about having the courtesy to reply...it's addressed in the site FAQs.

The majority of men on here are perfectly pleasant; in my experience it's the rude ones who are in the minority. Either way, dissing others in your profile isn't a good look. It certainly doesn't make you stand out.

Use your profile to tell people about you, not others. Inject some personality, something that gives the reader a sense of who you are.

If you're happy that your profile already does that, then it's all good

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By *outh Dub 29 OP   Man
over a year ago

Clapham

Cheers. Your right and have updated accordingly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That paragraph about having the courtesy to reply...it's addressed in the site FAQs.

The majority of men on here are perfectly pleasant; in my experience it's the rude ones who are in the minority. Either way, dissing others in your profile isn't a good look. It certainly doesn't make you stand out.

Use your profile to tell people about you, not others. Inject some personality, something that gives the reader a sense of who you are.

If you're happy that your profile already does that, then it's all good "

I agree with this fully.

You don't need a life biography but if what you display looks staged it can raise red flags.

Keep it simple and personal without giving more than you are comfortable with away.

And.... Something I've learned through alot of chatting is fab is not just full of nymphos. It's full of normal people who are here for various reasons and huge percentage of that is loneliness. Don't get me wrong, we are all here for fun, sex and intimacy....kinks etc but being part f a community of like minded individuals is the real reward for alot of us. Patience and honesty are key

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By *ewrideMan
over a year ago

KK

Be patient

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By *he SophisticatsCouple
over a year ago

Casa Del Fun

We sometimes meet with single guys but I suppose it can be down to location for us…

Also, your verification is down as a cam verification, for us that doesn’t hold much

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By *ofusplusCouple
over a year ago

Limerick


"We sometimes meet with single guys but I suppose it can be down to location for us…

Also, your verification is down as a cam verification, for us that doesn’t hold much "

Maybe it was an actual meet but was set as a webcam meet during Covid. I would suggest going back to that couple and asking them to use the same text of that veri to give you a meet verification, assuming you did actually meet them in person

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By *ardyboy54321Man
over a year ago

Fermanagh

The struggle is real hang in their

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By *man79Man
over a year ago

newry dundalk. warrenpoint


"The struggle is real hang in their "

Like u struggle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's actually quite easy to do well on Fab. Be sound sane respectful and not be a dick. Put some effort into profile and pictures and be willing to drink a lot of coffee to get verified. Having a interest in the lifestyle helps as well. You'll see the same guys getting meets and party invites. It's because they have put in the efforts to reap the rewards.

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By *ofusplusCouple
over a year ago

Limerick


"It's actually quite easy to do well on Fab. Be sound sane respectful and not be a dick. Put some effort into profile and pictures and be willing to drink a lot of coffee to get verified. Having a interest in the lifestyle helps as well. You'll see the same guys getting meets and party invites. It's because they have put in the efforts to reap the rewards. "

This is the best advice you'll get here. Guys sometimes forget it's a swing site, so if it's just sex you're looking for, best to stick with Tinder etc

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By *asual777Man
over a year ago

i travel all over

Guys who meet and get invited to things will all have slightly different bits of advice as to how get ‘the break’.

Some have interests or inclinations you may not be interested in, or might have personality styles you might not be able to emulate .

I think the advice from RRL is very sound but you can always contact some of the guys who meet a lot and ask them how they go about forming networks and connections. I have done that before myself

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