FabSwingers.com forum: Profile red flags?

By *limfitlad OP Man
over a year ago

Dublin

Ladies..

I already know for many of you married but no couple /permission is a no go. What other profile posts are red flags?

Feel free to assassinate my profile in pvt - I'm asking for a friend.

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By *onnrodMan
over a year ago

moira

Numerous pics of penetrative sex with obviously different people without a bin bag on...

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By *asual777Man
over a year ago

i travel all over

"Numerous pics of penetrative sex with obviously different people without a bin bag on... "

One veri, hidden, by cam

Or none after ages

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Every pic on a profile slightly out of focus so reverse image search doesn't pick up on them.

Shy reserved profiles with gynaecological pics.

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By *aid backMan
over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out

Any women or cpl profile that are on the site a number of months without a verification screams fake to me and is a red flag

Any single guy with no verifications after a year is a red flag

Same with one verification from a random profile that has verified lots of other profiles that only have a single verification from that same profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Every pic on a profile slightly out of focus so reverse image search doesn't pick up on them.

What is the better app, not having much satisfaction with results

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By *scouple07Couple
over a year ago

louth, Ireland

"Any women or cpl profile that are on the site a number of months without a verification screams fake to me and is a red flag

Any single guy with no verifications after a year is a red flag

Same with one verification from a random profile that has verified lots of other profiles that only have a single verification from that same profile. "

Don't agree with this 1, it's not easy to get a verification on here even for couples, took us a year and we are very much real

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By *scouple07Couple
over a year ago

louth, Ireland

Single male profiles claiming to be a couple that didn't fill in profile correctly, happens more than you think

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By *apmCouple
over a year ago

navan

We’ve been on here for 9 months and still to get a veri - it’s not that easy!

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By *ewrideMan
over a year ago

Green tick without a green flag, verification hidden

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Having the green tick on a profile shows you have been verified. However if someone has has left the site or has blocked the person, the verification itself disappears but shows in the verification summary

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

"We’ve been on here for 9 months and still to get a veri - it’s not that easy!"

Have you tried meeting someone for coffee to get a social veri

Doesn't even have to be someone that you'd normally meet or even want to meet for sex

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By *asual777Man
over a year ago

i travel all over

"We’ve been on here for 9 months and still to get a veri - it’s not that easy!

Have you tried meeting someone for coffee to get a social veri

Doesn't even have to be someone that you'd normally meet or even want to meet for sex "

Anyone who wants to meet for a lot of cake . A big big red flag lol .

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By *aid backMan
over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out

"Any women or cpl profile that are on the site a number of months without a verification screams fake to me and is a red flag

Any single guy with no verifications after a year is a red flag

Same with one verification from a random profile that has verified lots of other profiles that only have a single verification from that same profile.

Don't agree with this 1, it's not easy to get a verification on here even for couples, took us a year and we are very much real"

These are just my opinions so don't take it personally.

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

"We’ve been on here for 9 months and still to get a veri - it’s not that easy!

Have you tried meeting someone for coffee to get a social veri

Doesn't even have to be someone that you'd normally meet or even want to meet for sex

Anyone who wants to meet for a lot of cake . A big big red flag lol . "

Nice of you to say

Surely everyone gets to use the site and meet people in whatever way works for them and the people they meet

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By *asual777Man
over a year ago

i travel all over

Yes absolutely

I suppose it’s being contacted thinking you’re talking to someone genuinely then it turns out you were being sold a pup then on reflection you notice x and y red flags you should have noticed earlier

Once you’re here a while you look for them immediately

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By *oserMan
over a year ago

where the wild roses grow

"We’ve been on here for 9 months and still to get a veri - it’s not that easy!"

I'll meet you for a cuppa if you want ?

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By *1CorkCouple
over a year ago

London

Not necessarily a red flag but a few things we find very frustrating:

Pics of one member of the couple only;

Close up pics of body parts only, with no context making it difficult to get a sense of the overall physique; and

Demand for face pics, or no reply, often from profiles with none or minimal verifications.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Single males here over a year and unverified……oh wait

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By *limfitlad OP Man
over a year ago

Dublin

"Not necessarily a red flag but a few things we find very frustrating:

Pics of one member of the couple only;

Close up pics of body parts only, with no context making it difficult to get a sense of the overall physique; and

Demand for face pics, or no reply, often from profiles with none or minimal verifications.

Yup yup..

And same on the previous comments on veris.. Can be hard to get!

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

Silhouette avatar sorry the excuse people use they don't want to be recognised so won't put any pic up is just an excuse.

Blank 'fill in later' etc bios.

One veri from a hidden profile from ages ago .

Misogyny or misandry coming through on profile text .

Thinking just because they can accomadate is a good enough reason to meet them .

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By *affa31Woman
over a year ago

Galway

"Single males here over a year and unverified……oh wait

How the flup have you not been verified?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Entitlement in the profile text.

Badly taken photos, it's not that hard to set a timer and make sure your photos are well lit and in focus.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Two pin plug sockets. Pics taken from an orbituary website(no I'm not making it up).

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Chameleon penis. Different length,girth shape and colour in each pic.

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By *limfitlad OP Man
over a year ago

Dublin

"Single males here over a year and unverified……oh wait

How the flup have you not been verified?"

Haha.. So is this the new thread? How to get that reaction?

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

"Single males here over a year and unverified……oh wait

How the flup have you not been verified?"

I actually asked him the same thing a few weeks ago

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By *al2001Man
over a year ago

kildare

Anyone that answers my obnoxious opening message is a red flag to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Single males here over a year and unverified……oh wait

How the flup have you not been verified?

I actually asked him the same thing a few weeks ago "

More importantly... "flup"?

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By *affa31Woman
over a year ago

Galway

"Single males here over a year and unverified……oh wait

How the flup have you not been verified?

I actually asked him the same thing a few weeks ago

More importantly... "flup"?"

Flup off ya flupping eejit

I’m being a lady

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By *affa31Woman
over a year ago

Galway

"Single males here over a year and unverified……oh wait

How the flup have you not been verified?

Haha.. So is this the new thread? How to get that reaction?

Well he’s very active on the forum…it’s very unusual for someone that active to not have had an offer of a social at least.

Will take one for the team if needs be

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By *limfitlad OP Man
over a year ago

Dublin

Well he’s very active on the forum…it’s very unusual for someone that active to not have had an offer of a social at least.

Will take one for the team if needs be

If that's an open offer I'll buy the coffee tomorrow morning

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By *affa31Woman
over a year ago

Galway

Well he’s very active on the forum…it’s very unusual for someone that active to not have had an offer of a social at least.

Will take one for the team if needs be

If that's an open offer I'll buy the coffee tomorrow morning

Lol some of us have work

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By *limfitlad OP Man
over a year ago

Dublin

Lol some of us have work

You should leave if they don't allow u a coffee break.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Where to start,

Pics are too good, almost professional. Negative status updates I.e. Everyone is fake blah blah etc

Text speak on the profile. Any mention of narcotics. The Sydney University warning or similar.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fill in later or single men claiming to be 5-10 years older than us but are clearly a lot older

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By *eterdunneMan
over a year ago

leixlip

If his name is Fred, Freddie, Jason, hannibal or Ted, think twice before meeting at his place.

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By *andytownMan
over a year ago

Gods Own Country

Any muppet that's been to Sydney University gets a bye ball

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Any muppet that's been to Sydney University gets a bye ball "

What’s that all about anyway? We see it all the time and laugh at the thought of a university wanting to use 85 pics of the same cock from different angles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Any muppet that's been to Sydney University gets a bye ball

What’s that all about anyway? We see it all the time and laugh at the thought of a university wanting to use 85 pics of the same cock from different angles"

Those cocks are now a publicly floated bodies

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By *andytownMan
over a year ago

Gods Own Country

"Any muppet that's been to Sydney University gets a bye ball

What’s that all about anyway? We see it all the time and laugh at the thought of a university wanting to use 85 pics of the same cock from different angles"

I'd say it's the same lemmings who see something on Fakebook and instantly think it's the truth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Any muppet that's been to Sydney University gets a bye ball

What’s that all about anyway? We see it all the time and laugh at the thought of a university wanting to use 85 pics of the same cock from different angles

I'd say it's the same lemmings who see something on Fakebook and instantly think it's the truth

Whoever started it must be pissing themselves laughing every time they see it

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

"Any muppet that's been to Sydney University gets a bye ball

What’s that all about anyway? We see it all the time and laugh at the thought of a university wanting to use 85 pics of the same cock from different angles

I'd say it's the same lemmings who see something on Fakebook and instantly think it's the truth

Whoever started it must be pissing themselves laughing every time they see it

I take it very seriously. I even updated my profile to embrace it

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

"Any muppet that's been to Sydney University gets a bye ball

What’s that all about anyway? We see it all the time and laugh at the thought of a university wanting to use 85 pics of the same cock from different angles

I'd say it's the same lemmings who see something on Fakebook and instantly think it's the truth

Whoever started it must be pissing themselves laughing every time they see it

I take it very seriously. I even updated my profile to embrace it

Very good RB ....even said with an Aussi accent

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By *andytownMan
over a year ago

Gods Own Country

"Any muppet that's been to Sydney University gets a bye ball

What’s that all about anyway? We see it all the time and laugh at the thought of a university wanting to use 85 pics of the same cock from different angles

I'd say it's the same lemmings who see something on Fakebook and instantly think it's the truth

Whoever started it must be pissing themselves laughing every time they see it

I take it very seriously. I even updated my profile to embrace it

Very good RB ....even said with an Aussi accent "

Gday maaaaaaaaaate

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By *-4pleasureCouple
over a year ago

Belfast

"Chameleon penis. Different length,girth shape and colour in each pic. "

Is Chameleon penis a new member (!) of the Suicide Squad ?

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

"Chameleon penis. Different length,girth shape and colour in each pic.

Is Chameleon penis a new member (!) of the Suicide Squad ?"

I was thinking a new song by Culture club .....you're singing it now aren't you

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By *itlbeeCouple
over a year ago

Bad news for swinging pro photographers so...

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By *uriouscouple_94Couple
over a year ago

Leeds

"Where to start,

Pics are too good, almost professional. Negative status updates I.e. Everyone is fake blah blah etc

Text speak on the profile. Any mention of narcotics. The Sydney University warning or similar. "

What is the story with that warning? Do people really think that's what a publicly traded entity is?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Bad news for swinging pro photographers so... "

You can tell the difference between a swinging photographer and something that being copied off the Internet though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Where to start,

Pics are too good, almost professional. Negative status updates I.e. Everyone is fake blah blah etc

Text speak on the profile. Any mention of narcotics. The Sydney University warning or similar.

What is the story with that warning? Do people really think that's what a publicly traded entity is? "

No idea. It's been around for as long as we've been on fab though so ten plus years

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By *3nsesMan
over a year ago

Dublin

Requesting to put a certain word in the subject title of a message. The notions.

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...

"Requesting to put a certain word in the subject title of a message. The notions. "

So putting supercalifrahilisticexpialidocious is a bit much.....

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

"Requesting to put a certain word in the subject title of a message. The notions.

So putting supercalifrahilisticexpialidocious is a bit much.....

You googled that spelling didn't you?

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By *phrodite72Woman
over a year ago

dublin/galway

"Requesting to put a certain word in the subject title of a message. The notions.

So putting supercalifrahilisticexpialidocious is a bit much.....

Impressive spelling

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By *ettaManMan
over a year ago

Kerry and Dublin

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By *ettaManMan
over a year ago

Kerry and Dublin

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By *ettaManMan
over a year ago

Kerry and Dublin

So putting supercalifrahilisticexpialidocious is a bit much.....

*supercalifragilisticexpialidocious

(I should've just left the bloody first one)

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By *ettaManMan
over a year ago

Kerry and Dublin

So putting supercalifrahilisticexpialidocious is a bit much.....

Impressive spelling

Turns out it was 'really quite atrocious'

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By *ewrideMan
over a year ago

Surely a webcam veri you'd get quickly enough if you ask

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By *ount-IblisMan
over a year ago

Dublin

When the bio says "fill out later" or "..."

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By *hris 1000200Man
over a year ago

kells

"Single males here over a year and unverified……oh wait

This could of been me ,writing this ,,hahaha

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By *asual777Man
over a year ago

i travel all over

"Requesting to put a certain word in the subject title of a message. The notions. "

I am thinking of insisting that anyone writing to me should title it ‘a sphincter says what ?’

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By *ka ..Agent k ..Man
over a year ago

Requesting pics on their fourth message or so surely brings down the checkered flag for me..

Please make sure and provide a clear unobscured face pic. One whereby your eyes aren't concealed by sunglasses, your hair isn't hidden by a hat and you are clearly in the pic as opposed to half a mile from the camera hidden by dark clouds.

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By *ubal1Man
over a year ago

Newry Down

There are dozens of profile red flags, too many to list; the green flags are obvious too.

Use your experience and common sense to separate the wheat from the chaff.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not necessarily a red flag but a few things we find very frustrating:

Pics of one member of the couple only;

Close up pics of body parts only, with no context making it difficult to get a sense of the overall physique; and

Demand for face pics, or no reply, often from profiles with none or minimal verifications.

^^^^^^^ This

Quote - "Close up pics of body parts only, with no context making it difficult to get a sense of the overall physique"...

Must definitely & even after requesting other pics such as body or legs they point blank refuse to. They just keep sending terrible close up Dick Pics

Also there's 2 profiles here who claim to be men but their crotch jean photos look like a female crotch

I've also asked these 2 people for other pics & they point blank refuse to send them too. I said to one of them today "I think you're a wonan" & I haven't heard anything since. I told the same 'guy' months ago he'd need to change his profile pic cos I see pussy in his crotch pic not cock. He didn't change it & has only the 1 pic up & has never sent me any other photos even though `he`s asked me to meet him many times

very strange behaviour

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not necessarily a red flag but a few things we find very frustrating:

Pics of one member of the couple only;

Close up pics of body parts only, with no context making it difficult to get a sense of the overall physique; and

Demand for face pics, or no reply, often from profiles with none or minimal verifications.

^^^^^^^ This

Quote - "Close up pics of body parts only, with no context making it difficult to get a sense of the overall physique"...

Must definitely & even after requesting other pics such as body or legs they point blank refuse to. They just keep sending terrible close up Dick Pics

Also there's 2 profiles here who claim to be men but their crotch jean photos look like a female crotch

very strange behaviour"

Probably those people that identify as a guy even though they have female genitalia....only reason I can think for that one which makes sense

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably those people that identify as a guy even though they have female genitalia....only reason I can think for that one which makes sense

"Those people"?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably those people that identify as a guy even though they have female genitalia....only reason I can think for that one which makes sense

"Those people"?

Yeah "those" people like swingers are THOSE people, haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably those people that identify as a guy even though they have female genitalia....only reason I can think for that one which makes sense

"Those people"?

Thats the part if the above posting you find odd?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably those people that identify as a guy even though they have female genitalia....only reason I can think for that one which makes sense

"Those people"?

Thats the part if the above posting you find odd?"

Which bit should I find odd?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably those people that identify as a guy even though they have female genitalia....only reason I can think for that one which makes sense

"Those people"?

Thats the part if the above posting you find odd?

Which bit should I find odd?"

Well personally the person telling others they look like women, demanding more pics and continuing to engage with people they think are lying and deceiving them rather than blocking and reporting is odder to me than the guy who suggested they may be identifying as male

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably those people that identify as a guy even though they have female genitalia....only reason I can think for that one which makes sense

"Those people"?

Thats the part if the above posting you find odd?

Which bit should I find odd?

Ohhhh I see. I thought you meant specifically the post I quoted.

Totally agree with you - no idea why someone would continue to engage in those circumstances.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably those people that identify as a guy even though they have female genitalia....only reason I can think for that one which makes sense

"Those people"?

Thats the part if the above posting you find odd?

Which bit should I find odd?

Ohhhh I see. I thought you meant specifically the post I quoted.

Totally agree with you - no idea why someone would continue to engage in those circumstances."

I could have been clearer to be fair.

My point was I don't think the guy ment "Those people" in an offensive way at all.

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By *OCONO5Couple
over a year ago

Sensual Center

Big Cock

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By *limfitlad OP Man
over a year ago

Dublin

"Big Cock

No issues there.

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

Probably those people that identify as a guy even though they have female genitalia....only reason I can think for that one which makes sense

"Those people"?

Thats the part if the above posting you find odd?

Which bit should I find odd?

You just don't get it young man, if you want the full package of deceit, drama, abuse and a weirdo story to tell about on the forums later on, you've to go that extra mile.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Probably those people that identify as a guy even though they have female genitalia....only reason I can think for that one which makes sense

"Those people"?

Thats the part if the above posting you find odd?

Which bit should I find odd?

You just don't get it young man, if you want the full package of deceit, drama, abuse and a weirdo story to tell about on the forums later on, you've to go that extra mile.

I'm glad it's not just me then that picked that up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably those people that identify as a guy even though they have female genitalia....only reason I can think for that one which makes sense

"Those people"?

Thats the part if the above posting you find odd?

Which bit should I find odd?

Ohhhh I see. I thought you meant specifically the post I quoted.

Totally agree with you - no idea why someone would continue to engage in those circumstances."

I rarely "engage" with `him` tbh... I'm challenging 'him' to admit He is a She. 'He' has never been abusive or anything like that so why would I "block" `him`.

I never "demand more pics". I did ask nicely after chatting for awhile as `he` has only 1 photo, & I did tell him only very recently his one & only photo looks Female after he asked to meet me again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably those people that identify as a guy even though they have female genitalia....only reason I can think for that one which makes sense

"Those people"?

Thats the part if the above posting you find odd?

Which bit should I find odd?

Ohhhh I see. I thought you meant specifically the post I quoted.

Totally agree with you - no idea why someone would continue to engage in those circumstances.

I rarely "engage" with `him` tbh... I'm challenging 'him' to admit He is a She. 'He' has never been abusive or anything like that so why would I "block" `him`.

I never "demand more pics". I did ask nicely after chatting for awhile as `he` has only 1 photo, & I did tell him only very recently his one & only photo looks Female after he asked to meet me again."

Also I would never ever meet him ever & `he's` finally realising this. I never encouraged 'him' either as I never ever meet unless there's a strong connection/chemistry/attraction etc... & the person can prove who they say they are

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By *addy36Man
over a year ago

Mayo

This is like a guide for cleaning up a dodgy profile

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By *limfitlad OP Man
over a year ago

Dublin

"This is like a guide for cleaning up a dodgy profile

The intent. For a friend

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