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By *asual777 OP   Man
over a year ago

i travel all over

Do you prefer to meet older or younger people ? Is this set in stone ? Any meets where the age gap has been huge ? Has something ever happened when you were together which brought home just how big the age gap was (for example one of you listening to a cassette tape and the other having no idea what that is?)

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

It's very much set in stone for me. Always has and always will be. I won't meet anyone within 10 years of my kids ages and it's not even up for discussion.

I've never met anyone more than 10 years younger than me so there have never been any age related conversations or issues.

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By *lassy lady 216Woman
over a year ago

Craigavon

Would never meet anyone under 38 just don't have what I am looking for I find with age comes maturity

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By *asual777 OP   Man
over a year ago

i travel all over


"Would never meet anyone under 38 just don't have what I am looking for I find with age comes maturity "

Yes I Also wouldn’t know what to talk about with a much younger person. I am a massive technophobe for a start

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By *iss3BWoman
over a year ago

north down

Those I've met have usually been in and around my age for it to be anyone younger than that they would need to be really impressive lol.

I guess my preference then would be older

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By *asual777 OP   Man
over a year ago

i travel all over


"Those I've met have usually been in and around my age for it to be anyone younger than that they would need to be really impressive lol.

I guess my preference then would be older "

Impressive mature , 6 pack or both lol

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By *harpdressedman40Man
over a year ago

Galway

i agree

i must say i am more comfortable chatting and playing with a mature lady

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im pretty open about age as Ive friends of all ages irl as well.

Conversation is never an issue for me with anyone lol and thats how I connect with anyone I meet on here, good chat and mutual attraction.

I was given a minimum age rule by a wise 15year old, 'half your age plus 7' and it seems a good guideline.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Those I've met have usually been in and around my age for it to be anyone younger than that they would need to be really impressive lol.

I guess my preference then would be older

Impressive mature , 6 pack or both lol "

Well he is Mature, intelligent and has a 4 pack

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've had repeat meets with a 30 something, it depends on the person. Generally though, I would find a lot of under 35 males to be pretty immature and we filter them out. Age does matter, you are the cumulation of your life experiences.

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By *asual777 OP   Man
over a year ago

i travel all over


"We've had repeat meets with a 30 something, it depends on the person. Generally though, I would find a lot of under 35 males to be pretty immature and we filter them out. Age does matter, you are the cumulation of your life experiences. "

I was once in a pool overseas and two millennials were chatting and said it had been the worst holiday ever . This was because they hadn’t taken any underwater pics and uploaded them on Snapchat . had no idea that was a thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We've had repeat meets with a 30 something, it depends on the person. Generally though, I would find a lot of under 35 males to be pretty immature and we filter them out. Age does matter, you are the cumulation of your life experiences. "

Some are old and have done nothing and then you have younger folk who have achieved loads and gained great experience in a short period. Wouldn't judge just because of age.

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

I prefer meeting people around my own age and while my filters aren't set in stone I can't see myself going beyond them much especially at the lower end of them.

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By *oxyvixen99Woman
over a year ago

Newtownabbey

I prefer a 40+ because Im more attracted to my age and older. Maturity plays a big part but also life experience. I have zero in common with a 20 year old and doubt we'd have anything to talk about

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By *oxic1998Woman
over a year ago

Belfast


"I prefer a 40+ because Im more attracted to my age and older. Maturity plays a big part but also life experience. I have zero in common with a 20 year old and doubt we'd have anything to talk about "

This......never met anyone below 30 that I want to jump their bones

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We've had repeat meets with a 30 something, it depends on the person. Generally though, I would find a lot of under 35 males to be pretty immature and we filter them out. Age does matter, you are the cumulation of your life experiences.

Some are old and have done nothing and then you have younger folk who have achieved loads and gained great experience in a short period. Wouldn't judge just because of age."

I'm not talking about "doing" or "achieving" but the experience that comes from life's twists of fate.

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By *amson4DelilahCouple
over a year ago

ballina

We like to keep to our own age or up to 5 years older or 15 years younger.

But with so many people fibbing about their age it's a big eye opener & such a let down when you meet a 45 year old who has an extra ten years on the clock. Not saying we wouldn't meet 55 year old but like it when the person and the age matches otherwise it just gives us bad vibes.

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas

I don’t really look at age much if I’m honest if I get on with the person age doesn’t come into it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow…. That’s actually my rule ????

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...

My filters are set at 25-50...Ive been lucky to have met some amazing people in that age range,and some outside of them also...I don't judge on age but there ability to have a conversation and enjoy themselves maturity comes in all age groups.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not that there is a lit of choice at my age, but definitely no one under 40.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My filters say 25-55 but generally I prefer 40-50 years old

Much more in common to chat about, I find.

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By *ogladyWoman
over a year ago

The bog

I go with who I'm attracted to not age..

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By *risharrowMan
over a year ago

clare

I don't really see age, I just see beauty. If I fancy a woman then age is irrelevant.

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By *iss3BWoman
over a year ago

north down


"Those I've met have usually been in and around my age for it to be anyone younger than that they would need to be really impressive lol.

I guess my preference then would be older

Impressive mature , 6 pack or both lol "

No need for a 6 pack

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Those I've met have usually been in and around my age for it to be anyone younger than that they would need to be really impressive lol.

I guess my preference then would be older

Impressive mature , 6 pack or both lol

No need for a 6 pack "

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By *scouple07Couple
over a year ago

louth, Ireland

We have a strictish lower age, maybe go 1 or 2 years lower max but the higher age doesn't really have such strictness, if we find them attractive them the higher age doesn't come into it

Mrs Gs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most do have age filters set on profiles but u can always be suprised by someone u meet outside them age ranges.Have done this recently..Will look at a profile before deciding to arrange a coffee meet..

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By *hatCoupleNextDoorCouple
over a year ago

nearby

For me (Mrs) I won't go over 50 for now cos it feels too close to my parents age group (they're only late 50s). I dunno i think the lower end is harder to call, I think prob no more than 10 years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For me (Mrs) I won't go over 50 for now cos it feels too close to my parents age group (they're only late 50s). I dunno i think the lower end is harder to call, I think prob no more than 10 years "

That sounds a bit dodge

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mature Ladies who like to be in charge.

Yes, please!

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By *onedbodMan
over a year ago

co Galway

Go by attraction/ personality not age! Alot of "older" are more immature than "younger" people!

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By *ettaManMan
over a year ago

Kerry and Dublin

I've always tended to click more with older women, for some reason, but I don't have a rule. If I click with someone I'm open to exploring where it goes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On the basis of have something in common I tend to go 10 years either side of my age.

And as some have said I find myself more attracted to those near my own age...beauty is in the eye of the beholder, these old eyes wear rose coloured glasses...everyone looks attractive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In or around my own age +/- 5/6 years, tbh l need a mental connection , need to ignite mentally before anything happens ,if there's no mental connection it's a non runner and I certainly wouldn't get any mental connection with anyone way younger than me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My preference is older….good bit older in fact I’ve found myself attracted to women in their late 60’s

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By *atts n titsCouple
over a year ago

everywhere

We don't mind age it's more about looks some 50 years old look better than 30year olds and have better bodies

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"Once they don't come with a jail sentence

Its all about attraction and communication here I have been lucky to find some younger to share my experiences and I am still looking for people that are mature enough to enjoy experiences and push boundaries "

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