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A change of heart

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By *asual777 OP   Man
over a year ago

i travel all over

So head over feet by Alanis is the inspiration for this thread.

Have you ever not been bowled over by a someone , here or outside fab , then later realised that they are a gem inside and out?

Might be a friend , a partner , or a fab member whose initial messages and interactions were meh but have now blossomed into wonderfulness

Keep it anonymous and respectful .

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By *ome_wild_girlWoman
over a year ago

Antrim Town

Yup

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some have been slow burners, but yes.

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By *0ndayMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

Nope but I have raised one of my eyebrows a few times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. I tend to be pretty quick at sussing people out.

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By *iss3BWoman
over a year ago

north down

Yeah definitely have done and always hopeful for another

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So head over feet by Alanis is the inspiration for this thread.

Have you ever not been bowled over by a someone , here or outside fab , then later realised that they are a gem inside and out?

Might be a friend , a partner , or a fab member whose initial messages and interactions were meh but have now blossomed into wonderfulness

Keep it anonymous and respectful ."

Yes, but it's usually because I'm not paying enough attention. Busy place in my life or preoccupied by something. I've been left sorry more than once lol

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By *ogladyWoman
over a year ago

The bog

Most definitely I'm ashamed to say it but I have judged a book by its cover only to find out that it was actually a great book..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep for sure. Maybe more so now than when I was young...I think I'm mellowing with age. That said, there are people who were complete dicks to me when I was a teenager that I still loathe with absolute venom and nothing will change that regardless of whether they've grown up to be sound adults.

K

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think this can come as qe get older, we don't judge people so much and definitely learn to not believe what other people have to say about them. I know I can come across as unapproachable but I'm not great in groups and kinda stand to the side but anyone that gets to know me knows what I'm like

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By *affa31Woman
over a year ago

Galway

Yup I’ve met people for a coffee where I was shocked at how attracted to them I was both physically and their personality. Sometimes people don’t fully shine behind a screen.

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By *asual777 OP   Man
over a year ago

i travel all over

There are some gems on here whose profiles literally say nothing

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By *arajeanCouple
over a year ago

mayo

Yes

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By *andsome HandMan
over a year ago

roundabout

It's definitely happened and taught me not to take folk on here at face value

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

More often the reverse.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yup I’ve met people for a coffee where I was shocked at how attracted to them I was both physically and their personality. Sometimes people don’t fully shine behind a screen. "

I definitely agree with that

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By *asual777 OP   Man
over a year ago

i travel all over


"More often the reverse. "

That’s a different thread I don’t have the courage to start

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By *eterdunneMan
over a year ago

leixlip


"Some have been slow burners, but yes. "

I love you too lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes i have learned not to judge a book by its cover.

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By *igglesMan
over a year ago

Dublin


"Yup I’ve met people for a coffee where I was shocked at how attracted to them I was both physically and their personality. Sometimes people don’t fully shine behind a screen. "

Yep that's definitely very true

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

I reckon everyone I've ever chatted to might well be in that boat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With age comes the wisdom to be less judgemental, whether it be on Fab or in life.

Writing or conversations on phones are not everyone forte, yet the meet in person reveals the person & personality...so yes there are without doubt those I have passed by& those that have passed me by...but what is meant for you won't pass.

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By *ofusplusCouple
over a year ago

Limerick

Getting better at assessing profiles, but nothing beats the face to face to decide on attraction.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Getting better at assessing profiles, but nothing beats the face to face to decide on attraction."

Agreed .. mush to mush is best ..

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By *ofusplusCouple
over a year ago

Limerick


"Getting better at assessing profiles, but nothing beats the face to face to decide on attraction.

Agreed .. mush to mush is best .. "

It's all in the mush, Keano

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By *oxic1998Woman
over a year ago

Belfast

Can be the other way too......someone thats very popular on here and thought they were great too until I met them in person

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


"Can be the other way too......someone thats very popular on here and thought they were great too until I met them in person "

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By *asual777 OP   Man
over a year ago

i travel all over


"Can be the other way too......someone thats very popular on here and thought they were great too until I met them in person "

I guess it can get to your head if you start being very popular

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By *oxic1998Woman
over a year ago

Belfast


"Can be the other way too......someone thats very popular on here and thought they were great too until I met them in person

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Michael still luvvvv you

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By *lassy lady 216Woman
over a year ago

Craigavon

As someone said above I'm not great in groups or large crowds have been kicked off a few kik groups but people have said to me when they meet me in person they can't believe how bubbly and friendly I actually am as previously said its hard to show your true personality behind a screen plus we definitely don't judge people as much as we get older and more willing to take people as they are

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By *asual777 OP   Man
over a year ago

i travel all over


"As someone said above I'm not great in groups or large crowds have been kicked off a few kik groups but people have said to me when they meet me in person they can't believe how bubbly and friendly I actually am as previously said its hard to show your true personality behind a screen plus we definitely don't judge people as much as we get older and more willing to take people as they are "

A bit of a legend actually

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


"Can be the other way too......someone thats very popular on here and thought they were great too until I met them in person

Michael still luvvvv you "

Phew!

*wipes sweat from brow!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As someone said above I'm not great in groups or large crowds have been kicked off a few kik groups but people have said to me when they meet me in person they can't believe how bubbly and friendly I actually am as previously said its hard to show your true personality behind a screen plus we definitely don't judge people as much as we get older and more willing to take people as they are "

Here's your sister xx

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By *oncupiscent_dreamMan
over a year ago

City

Never a guy, boom 2 seconds dickhead or not.

Women, I've never thought one was bad then changed my mind, but have been fooled into thinking bad ones are good.

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By *asual777 OP   Man
over a year ago

i travel all over

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By *asual777 OP   Man
over a year ago

i travel all over


"As someone said above I'm not great in groups or large crowds have been kicked off a few kik groups but people have said to me when they meet me in person they can't believe how bubbly and friendly I actually am as previously said its hard to show your true personality behind a screen plus we definitely don't judge people as much as we get older and more willing to take people as they are

Here's your sister xx"

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