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By *ackie 100 OP   Man
over a year ago

galway

Hi guys . Newbie here looking for advice . A married couple are hoping I join them for a FMM . I’m a straight guy and not sure what to expect , yes I have asked but details are slow to come , I’m not sure what’s usually expected in these situations but doing my research here lol . I am curious but looking for advice . Thanks

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By *ouple 0073Couple
over a year ago

donegal

Surly this must be between you and the couple only... Oh and sorry for calling you surly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well couples are all different so have a chat and see what they are looking for in a guy. Also define if it's a FMM or MFM there's a difference. Main thing is be polite and respectful. Maybe have a social first if you are feeling a bit nervous about it.

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By *ackie 100 OP   Man
over a year ago

galway

Y it’s FMM that said , a bit of nerves alright hence the post .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Y it’s FMM that said , a bit of nerves alright hence the post . "

Are you bi and ok with playing with the guy too along with the girl?

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By *ackie 100 OP   Man
over a year ago

galway

Ya I’m aware the details are surely lol between the three of us . They are looking to have a phone later about details . Just getting my head around the possibility and thought I’d open it up on here . The wife is hot but I never touched another mans penis in my life and don’t want to start now .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ya I’m aware the details are surely lol between the three of us . They are looking to have a phone later about details . Just getting my head around the possibility and thought I’d open it up on here . The wife is hot but I never touched another mans penis in my life and don’t want to start now . "

Well then just listen to what they say and what there looking for and be clear and honest about what you are ok to do any what your not, the open,honest and frank the conversation the better for everyone

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By *ackie 100 OP   Man
over a year ago

galway

No I’m not Bi - Straight guy , wouldn’t be interested in playing with guy but curious all the same - I suppose that’s why I’m on here .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well if it's a bi mmf that they're expecting and that's not what you're up for then if I were you I'd pull the plug and explain why. We're always very clear from the outset if bi play is what we're after, rather than assume the other person will know. The last thing we'd want is for someone to be uncomfortable and not at ease in play situations as it has an impact on everyone's experience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ya just roide it

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By *ackie 100 OP   Man
over a year ago

galway


"Well if it's a bi mmf that they're expecting and that's not what you're up for then if I were you I'd pull the plug and explain why. We're always very clear from the outset if bi play is what we're after, rather than assume the other person will know. The last thing we'd want is for someone to be uncomfortable and not at ease in play situations as it has an impact on everyone's experience "

Good advice Molly - makes sense . So this is how this whole couple think works I suppose , lol , yep you can tell I’m a newbie alright

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have a few drinks and go with the flow is my advice

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere


"Have a few drinks and go with the flow is my advice "

Definitely don't go with this.

You shouldn't use alcohol to do something you wouldn't do sober

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Social....social....social! And a kiss test!

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By *unnitoesWoman
over a year ago

Belfast


"Hi guys . Newbie here looking for advice . A married couple are hoping I join them for a FMM . I’m a straight guy and not sure what to expect , yes I have asked but details are slow to come , I’m not sure what’s usually expected in these situations but doing my research here lol . I am curious but looking for advice . Thanks "

You're due to meet tonight and there has been no definition? Seems suspicious

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By *ackie 100 OP   Man
over a year ago

galway

No , not tonite . In a weeks time .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No , not tonite . In a weeks time . "

How did you get the invite , was it on this site?

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By *oeblack09Man
over a year ago

Cork

Block ur butt hole and only use ur tongue lol

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere


"No , not tonite . In a weeks time . "

As others have said ..have a social drink or coffee to discuss all options and confirm that it is a couple and not just a bloke

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By *ackie 100 OP   Man
over a year ago

galway

Ok thanks guys . So I’m figuring that I need to set any boundaries beforehand , see if the husband is bi , make sure he’s not expecting anything off me and maybe just go and enjoy . I did already explain my straightness lol to them but they still keen . I suppose I posted here to see - this is obviously a thing with some couples , for the husband just to watch the wife getting pleasured by another man . I suppose I could manage that , if I thought it was safe and relaxed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love the scene in The Sopranos when Tony say Hey Puss, she even really exist

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By *ackie 100 OP   Man
over a year ago

galway


"No , not tonite . In a weeks time .

How did you get the invite , was it on this site?"

Must have been through here originally , can’t remember chatting them , the message came through unexpectedly on kik , that’s why I’m thinking I must have chatted them before , not 100 percent was it here .

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down


"No , not tonite . In a weeks time .

How did you get the invite , was it on this site?

Must have been through here originally , can’t remember chatting them , the message came through unexpectedly on kik , that’s why I’m thinking I must have chatted them before , not 100 percent was it here . "

Do you not even know who they are on here so ? It all sounds very suss

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere


"No , not tonite . In a weeks time .

How did you get the invite , was it on this site?

Must have been through here originally , can’t remember chatting them , the message came through unexpectedly on kik , that’s why I’m thinking I must have chatted them before , not 100 percent was it here . "

If you can't run away ..walk

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down


"No , not tonite . In a weeks time .

How did you get the invite , was it on this site?

Must have been through here originally , can’t remember chatting them , the message came through unexpectedly on kik , that’s why I’m thinking I must have chatted them before , not 100 percent was it here .

If you can't run away ..walk

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By *ackie 100 OP   Man
over a year ago

galway


"No , not tonite . In a weeks time .

How did you get the invite , was it on this site?

Must have been through here originally , can’t remember chatting them , the message came through unexpectedly on kik , that’s why I’m thinking I must have chatted them before , not 100 percent was it here .

Do you not even know who they are on here so ? It all sounds very suss "

No I don’t actually , good point though , I’ve kik d them on it . Wow wouldn’t you know I don’t get out too often lol - the drama

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

Details slow to come...

Messaged you randomly on kik...

You don't know who they are...

They agreed to meet immediately...

Block them and forget. This simply isn't going to happen

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By *ackie 100 OP   Man
over a year ago

galway


"Details slow to come...

Messaged you randomly on kik...

You don't know who they are...

They agreed to meet immediately...

Block them and forget. This simply isn't going to happen

"

Ya starting to think that way myself , although didn’t want to miss out on an opportunity if it were legit , good advice on here from experienced people . Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're welcome

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By *unnitoesWoman
over a year ago

Belfast


"Details slow to come...

Messaged you randomly on kik...

You don't know who they are...

They agreed to meet immediately...

Block them and forget. This simply isn't going to happen

Ya starting to think that way myself , although didn’t want to miss out on an opportunity if it were legit , good advice on here from experienced people . Thanks "

Forget it...this is someone's wind up fantasy!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Details slow to come...

Messaged you randomly on kik...

You don't know who they are...

They agreed to meet immediately...

Block them and forget. This simply isn't going to happen

"

The wives always in the shower or busy and can't chat

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By *he SophisticatsCouple
over a year ago

Casa Del PURRRR!!


"Details slow to come...

Messaged you randomly on kik...

You don't know who they are...

They agreed to meet immediately...

Block them and forget. This simply isn't going to happen

The wives always in the shower or busy and can't chat "

Except it’s Fooey who’s always working, showering or snoozing here

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By *ubal1Man
over a year ago

Newry Down

Meet them socially in a public place and chat with them openly and honestly; if they spook you withdraw gracefully, but learn from the encounter.

Crucially, appreciate the distinction between MMF and MFM!

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By *hilaboutMan
over a year ago

kilkenny

Think your for the birds to be honest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Details slow to come...

Messaged you randomly on kik...

You don't know who they are...

They agreed to meet immediately...

Block them and forget. This simply isn't going to happen

"

With all of the above… take that advice and be glad you’re not waking up after being sedated and missing a kidney….. urban legend stuff …. But you’ve got to be aware there Jackie…. There is danger out there…

Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get the fuck away from them!!!

Yes im sure the wife is a stunner!!

They always are!! ( No disrespect meant to the ladies! ).

But there's always an excuse that you can't talk to her!!??

Red flag!!

Complete time wasters!!!

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By *ackie 100 OP   Man
over a year ago

galway

Fair play , all good advice that’ll be taken on board . Glad I posted . Thanks

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By *eijaWoman
over a year ago

City Centre

OP you really need to talk in detail with them and gauge their expectations... but why would you even agree to meet a couple for a fmm if you aren't even bi curious? There are plenty of couples on the site you could meet for a mfm...

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By *antra MassageMan
over a year ago

Old bog road

When you chat on the phone, insist on talking to Mrs. With most women, it matters what you look and sound like. If she's unavailable to chat, it's likely she doesn't exist. Sorry to burst your fantasy bubble. That's the way the site is. You'll learn though, and eventually you'll have some fun.

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By *attooYouMan
over a year ago

just about northside

Thought this thread would get little traction. Had to read it to see where it went. Come on.....pull the other one

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