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By *asual777 OP   Man
over a year ago

i travel all over

Might regret this but you only live once . I heard it as a song lyric today and it made me wonder : do you think YOUR heart is obtainable ? by one person ? Obviously the fab actual couples here are likely to say it is already is but perhaps the others will say a variety of different things

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

No. Between the kids and my partner... I've literally no room

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't know , think it's been hurt too many times so other than my family and friends.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thats such a strange question OP.

"Is your heart attainable"

Can you elaborate?

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By *asual777 OP   Man
over a year ago

i travel all over

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By *ara198Woman
over a year ago

maynooth

No, I think monogamy is next to impossible

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By *asual777 OP   Man
over a year ago

i travel all over

Can you imagine falling in love with one person in the future and giving your heart to them as such ?

That might mean giving up swinging or swinging with them but ultimately them being the one ?

Or is this lifestyle too hard to give up , and the idea of commitment In any way too burdensome and potentially laden with pain ? Are you no longer cut out for it ?

I had no idea it was gonna be that hard to explain !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My heart is not unattainable, I love many many people in my life. Love is great.

I dont believe in 'The One' but Ive no problem with monogamy at times.

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By *happy2021Woman
over a year ago

Dublin

I think I could with the right person but not sure youd necessarily find them on the scene

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely attainable to the right person. Never say never etc

Whether it’s on fab or in real world is the question ??

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By *oisyoctopusWoman
over a year ago

Drogheda

I've way too much love to give for my heart to be obtained by anyone. Wonderful thing, love, the more you give the more you have.

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By *dfabMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne


"No, I think monogamy is next to impossible "

Agreed.

It's what this site is about but some put conditions on even that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont think i actually have a heart. If i did, it froze over when my one and only true love died. 20 plus years ago

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By *asual777 OP   Man
over a year ago

i travel all over


"I dont think i actually have a heart. If i did, it froze over when my one and only true love died. 20 plus years ago "

So sorry to hear. Not easy to talk about these things

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dont think i actually have a heart. If i did, it froze over when my one and only true love died. 20 plus years ago "

Im so sorry xx

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"I dont think i actually have a heart. If i did, it froze over when my one and only true love died. 20 plus years ago "

Sorry to hear that even reading this u can feel the pain, but even frozen glaciers melt with the propper conditions prevail hopefully some day some one will suprise u and melt u

Wipes a tear from his eye for all the glaciers out there

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By *eterdunneMan
over a year ago

leixlip


"No, I think monogamy is next to impossible "

What about serial monogamy?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yup l do , ok of course there are people you love..kids... family..very close friends etc but l also believe someone can completely take your heart ..fill your soul ..make you feel so alive ..l absolutely do..how do l know or why do l think that ?.. cause it happened me...and l met her here, and there's not a single day goes by that l don't think of her and even in real life l have absolutely no interest in dating or trying to date anyone else ,might be stupid of me maybe , but when someone owns your heart they own it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yup l do , ok of course there are people you love..kids... family..very close friends etc but l also believe someone can completely take your heart ..fill your soul ..make you feel so alive ..l absolutely do..how do l know or why do l think that ?.. cause it happened me...and l met her here, and there's not a single day goes by that l don't think of her and even in real life l have absolutely no interest in dating or trying to date anyone else ,might be stupid of me maybe , but when someone owns your heart they own it."

Only you own your heart!!!

I remember when my first child was born I felt love so great, so consuming I thought 'thats it theres no room for any more'. I couldnt imagine loving anyone else that much. How could I have another child. But I did and there was more love!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yup l do , ok of course there are people you love..kids... family..very close friends etc but l also believe someone can completely take your heart ..fill your soul ..make you feel so alive ..l absolutely do..how do l know or why do l think that ?.. cause it happened me...and l met her here, and there's not a single day goes by that l don't think of her and even in real life l have absolutely no interest in dating or trying to date anyone else ,might be stupid of me maybe , but when someone owns your heart they own it.

Only you own your heart!!!

I remember when my first child was born I felt love so great, so consuming I thought 'thats it theres no room for any more'. I couldnt imagine loving anyone else that much. How could I have another child. But I did and there was more love!!

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So beautiful to read!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thank you

Its just an illustration of how we are made to give and recieve love, the capacity is infinite and the head is the only brake!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think love is a score in tennis.

Feelings come and go and are more based in my stomach than my heart. I've adored many women, and will adore many more, in and out, up and down, before and after...

In saying that, I also appreciate that this is my opinion and respect all of the above.

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By *oxic1998Woman
over a year ago

Belfast

I've never met anyone that I've given my heart too.....but maybe one day

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By *1n_eaterMan
over a year ago

Newcastle


"I've never met anyone that I've given my heart too.....but maybe one day "

In and around Xmas would be perfect for future years

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By *oxic1998Woman
over a year ago

Belfast


"I've never met anyone that I've given my heart too.....but maybe one day

In and around Xmas would be perfect for future years "

So that's where I'm going wrong....looking at the wrong time of year

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

Why am I singing Wham

" last Christmas "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why am I singing Wham

" last Christmas ""

Your brain is a jukebox BogM!

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere


"I've never met anyone that I've given my heart too.....but maybe one day "

I also singing

Well I hope and I pray

That maybe one day

You'll walk in the room with my heart

Add and subtract ..but as a matter of fact

Now that you're gone I still want you back

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"I've never met anyone that I've given my heart too.....but maybe one day

In and around Xmas would be perfect for future years

So that's where I'm going wrong....looking at the wrong time of year "

Its the christmas markets divert ur attention

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