FabSwingers.com forum: Friends on fab, yes or no ?

By *un_Paul500 OP Man
over a year ago

Dublin

I was reading multiple opinions. For few fab is pure ride, no strings attached. Others prefer friends, bond and fun ,

What kind of person you are?

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

The one and only time I tried a spontaneous NSA meet it was cold and all about her pleasure. I won't be repeating that so it will always be friendship with benefits.

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By *un_Paul500 OP Man
over a year ago

Dublin

That's a valid point

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...

Id never have random sex with anyone that id not had some sort of connection with let it be only through chat a while or a social first...

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By *hatCoupleNextDoorCouple
over a year ago

nearby

We certaibly like having friends with benefits, we like the sociable aspect of the site just as much as the naughtiness

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fan for me is about a community. I make no distinction between fab friends and vanilla friends. I was literally talking to a buddy about this an hour ago. I have at the moment four fab Facebook friends. I know the saying “don’t cross the streams” but you can gauge with some if you can.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have met some great people on fab and thankfully call a few friends, if I wanted random old sex can go out on a Saturday night and have a pointless ride.

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By *un_Paul500 OP Man
over a year ago

Dublin

"Fan for me is about a community. I make no distinction between fab friends and vanilla friends. I was literally talking to a buddy about this an hour ago. I have at the moment four fab Facebook friends. I know the saying “don’t cross the streams” but you can gauge with some if you can. "

That need some courage

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By *ofusplusCouple
over a year ago

Limerick

Friendships for sure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have made friends from here definitely. Friends with benefits are awesome

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By *un_Paul500 OP Man
over a year ago

Dublin

"We have made friends from here definitely. Friends with benefits are awesome "

Agree, though it's tough to find genuine ppl

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By *adylaceWoman
over a year ago

Waterford City

I've been lucky enough to make some very close friends here. I have never been a big fan of random hook ups. Needing a connection of friendship doesn't mean it has to come with strings. Fbuddies and fwb are much better fun.

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

There has to be some connection with someone for me to want to have sex with them .So yes it's more a fwb I prefer on here as well .It has to be someone I'm comfortable with and who I can have a bit of a laugh with as well .

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By *affa31Woman
over a year ago

Galway

Lots of fab friends, some I occasionally play with, some I don’t but all very important to me.

Not a big fan of sex without a connection.

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By *arajeanCouple
over a year ago

mayo

Friends with benefits

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By *hatCoupleNextDoorCouple
over a year ago

nearby

"Lots of fab friends, some I occasionally play with, some I don’t but all very important to me.

Not a big fan of sex without a connection."

Like playing music games and cards against humanity

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By *affa31Woman
over a year ago

Galway

"Lots of fab friends, some I occasionally play with, some I don’t but all very important to me.

Not a big fan of sex without a connection.

Like playing music games and cards against humanity

More that type of playing than any other lately

A repeat needed though!

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By *hatCoupleNextDoorCouple
over a year ago

nearby

"Lots of fab friends, some I occasionally play with, some I don’t but all very important to me.

Not a big fan of sex without a connection.

Like playing music games and cards against humanity

More that type of playing than any other lately

A repeat needed though!"

For sure, guaranteed laughter!

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By *eralt80Man
over a year ago

cork

Friendship for sure and if there are some benefits along the way then that’s just the cherry on top.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Feeling is the key

Spark is the Fuel

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely needs to be some sort of chemistry for fun so has to be a build up of chat first and see what happens in person.

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By *inaandterryCouple
over a year ago

Westmeath

Depends on the situation/people, some meets have been pure sex and nothing else some have been more relaxed an chilled With a night of great sex following a night of laughs.

We have met a lot of freinds throughout the years, people come an go that's fab for ya.

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By *OCONO5Couple
over a year ago

Sensual Center

Friends with Benefits....that's for sure ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

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By *ubal1Man
over a year ago

Newry Down

Long-term contact with discreet like-minded people who understand each others' needs, quirks and preferences.

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By *dfabMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne

So nobody here has met and fucked. On same day? Seriously?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I happy and lucky to say I’ve met some real nice friends on here, whom I’ve actually never been intimate with.

But generally I keep my real life private.

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By *ofusplusCouple
over a year ago

Limerick

"So nobody here has met and fucked. On same day? Seriously?

Some people may have been chatting for months or even years before meeting so the friendship is already there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Met a women on here 6 years ago we had some fun. Still friends to this day we'd speak at least 2 times a week. You never know where you'll find a good friend

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

"So nobody here has met and fucked. On same day? Seriously?

Yes I have and won't be repeating it as I already said above.

We had exchanged a couple of messages the day before and she then sent me a morning horn come and help please message the next day.

We had no idea what each looked like until she opened her hotel room door and 30 mins later I exited that room again as she was late for breakfast with friends.

I remained fully dressed throughout and it was completely one sided.

That was never my thing and still isn't so it was a one off.

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...

"So nobody here has met and fucked. On same day? Seriously?

On here I have twice before with the same person id met earlier at each of the socials we both attended...Each time was amazing so I was very lucky but it's something I generally don't do...

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By *eterdunneMan
over a year ago

leixlip

"Id never have random sex with anyone that id not had some sort of connection with let it be only through chat a while or a social first..."

Same here but I would explain it by saying that sex with a stranger is seldom more than a selfish, somewhat robotic act. If you take some time find out what the person likes, who they are as a person, forcing emotional connection, the it becomes much less selfish. Your aim will be your partners pleasure as much, or more than your own. There are things I would never do with a stranger.

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