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By *ontbesillywrapyourwilly OP   Man
over a year ago

Tipperary

can you females actually do It?

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

Would this be on the ride on Lawnmover

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By *affa31Woman
over a year ago

Galway

I find it’s usually men that can’t cope with it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"can you females actually do It? "

It's a hard one (that's what she said)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agree its the fellas who cant cope, feel used etc.

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...

Absofuckingtly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find it’s usually men that can’t cope with it. "

All I have is a little string

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

CGI is all fine and well but the old Thunderbirds had character.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Find em

Feel em

Fuck em

And

Forget en

Ain't that it boys an girls

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwilly OP   Man
over a year ago

Tipperary

get to know one another on here, meet see if there is attraction and fuck. meet again down the line but not regularly and often, seeing one another loads. easy peasy, right?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwilly OP   Man
over a year ago

Tipperary


"get to know one another on here, meet see if there is attraction and fuck. meet again down the line but not regularly and often, seeing one another loads. easy peasy, right? "
sorry, not seeing one another loads I ment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would this be on the ride on Lawnmover "

Oh Bog you joker you

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By *ed just RedWoman
over a year ago

Dublin City


"I find it’s usually men that can’t cope with it. "

Absolutely.

i hear story after story about men getting clingy and jealous or wanting exclusivity after a while. I get a lot of “I want NSA but also exclusivity”. LOL!!!

If you want friendship/FB it’s one thing but stating you want NSA and then turning whingey is the most unattractive thing a man can ever do. Ugh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its up to every person to know what they like and don't.

Some like no strings

Others like a few strings attached.

To each their own as long as they are happy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its up to every person to know what they like and don't.

Some like no strings

Others like a few strings attached.

To each their own as long as they are happy "

Concur

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

My experience on here was a woman who wanted nsa fun with guys she had been meeting up to that point but she insisted I had to be exclusive to her. I left the site as a result of the drama.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Agree its the fellas who cant cope, feel used etc. "

Psychologicaly most men, and not saying all men, can't distinguish between lust and love, that is if they had not been brought up in a loving house hold or had an over bearing mother. So for most men when they feel attracted to a woman and she is willing to spread her legs they automatically think that the feelings are mutual and so project their "love" lust on to the woman they meet. Which is a typical Beta-male tendencies which leads to over pursuing, clinginess, jealousy and other undesirable traits.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Agree its the fellas who cant cope, feel used etc.

Psychologicaly most men, and not saying all men, can't distinguish between lust and love, that is if they had not been brought up in a loving house hold or had an over bearing mother. So for most men when they feel attracted to a woman and she is willing to spread her legs they automatically think that the feelings are mutual and so project their "love" lust on to the woman they meet. Which is a typical Beta-male tendencies which leads to over pursuing, clinginess, jealousy and other undesirable traits. "

Very romantic

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By *hynot80Man
over a year ago

city


"Absofuckingtly "

Mail me

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By *affa31Woman
over a year ago

Galway


"Agree its the fellas who cant cope, feel used etc.

Psychologicaly most men, and not saying all men, can't distinguish between lust and love, that is if they had not been brought up in a loving house hold or had an over bearing mother. So for most men when they feel attracted to a woman and she is willing to spread her legs they automatically think that the feelings are mutual and so project their "love" lust on to the woman they meet. Which is a typical Beta-male tendencies which leads to over pursuing, clinginess, jealousy and other undesirable traits. "

Ah jaysus

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would this be on the ride on Lawnmover

Oh Bog you joker you "

Itd have to be. A strimmer would be of no use if there were no strings attached.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes it's possible to meet a women who is just into no strings attached sex. I have been lucky enough to meeting up with a one such very cool and easygoing lady regularly for nearly eight years without any drama. She is a self proclaimed slut with a very high sex drive who just loves to fuck for hours on end.

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By *eterdunneMan
over a year ago

leixlip

Once you start pulling on that string, the whole thing can unravel.

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By *oxyvixen99Woman
over a year ago

Newtownabbey


"can you females actually do It? "

Yes

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By *asual777Man
over a year ago

i travel all over

I don’t think it’s related to gender and in fact changes within individuals over a lifeTime . I was furious 20 years ago With someone whom I was fond of enormously who preferred booty calls to a relationship . These days I would build her a statue if she reappeared in my life !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Agree its the fellas who cant cope, feel used etc.

Psychologicaly most men, and not saying all men, can't distinguish between lust and love, that is if they had not been brought up in a loving house hold or had an over bearing mother. So for most men when they feel attracted to a woman and she is willing to spread her legs they automatically think that the feelings are mutual and so project their "love" lust on to the woman they meet. Which is a typical Beta-male tendencies which leads to over pursuing, clinginess, jealousy and other undesirable traits. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Absofuckingtly "

Even without the snackbox??

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By *asual777Man
over a year ago

i travel all over


"My experience on here was a woman who wanted nsa fun with guys she had been meeting up to that point but she insisted I had to be exclusive to her. I left the site as a result of the drama. "

A guy I know doesn’t verify or get verified because his female fab fwb gets upset , which is frankly odd. It’s not bloody e harmony

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By *ofusplusCouple
over a year ago

Limerick


"I find it’s usually men that can’t cope with it.

All I have is a little string "

You actually have two strings and us ladies have just the one

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By *osmicGateMan
over a year ago

louth

You can have nsa and be exclusive to 1 person.. Probably best do this to limit exposure to stds..

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"Find em

Feel em

Finger em

Fuck em

And

Forget en

Ain't that it boys an girls

"

Fixed that there for u bud

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

Some can some can't some want to play the field but they want the guys to only meet them

Thankfully the ones that I have met that can handle NSA are still willing to meet me

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By *oserMan
over a year ago

where the wild roses grow


"I find it’s usually men that can’t cope with it.

Absolutely.

i hear story after story about men getting clingy and jealous or wanting exclusivity after a while. I get a lot of “I want NSA but also exclusivity”. LOL!!!

If you want friendship/FB it’s one thing but stating you want NSA and then turning whingey is the most unattractive thing a man can ever do. Ugh. "

The exclusive thing is a bit weird isn't it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find it’s usually men that can’t cope with it.

Absolutely.

i hear story after story about men getting clingy and jealous or wanting exclusivity after a while. I get a lot of “I want NSA but also exclusivity”. LOL!!!

If you want friendship/FB it’s one thing but stating you want NSA and then turning whingey is the most unattractive thing a man can ever do. Ugh.

The exclusive thing is a bit weird isn't it?

"

More ego-driven than anything, I suspect

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Endorphins rule!

L

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By *illiam tellMan
over a year ago

Dublin

No problem for us older lemons...

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

I don't do ownership.

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By *NawtyCplCouple
over a year ago

Around and about

No strings, easy..... rope on the other hand

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By *razySexyCoolCorkWoman
over a year ago

Cork


"I find it’s usually men that can’t cope with it. "

I have to agree with this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"can you females actually do It? "

Of course we can.

Side note but being referred to as a female makes me cringe.

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By *asual777Man
over a year ago

i travel all over


"can you females actually do It?

Of course we can.

Side note but being referred to as a female makes me cringe. "

This is a very sensitive issue. When arranging group meets I send separate messages referring to the cohort as ladies/girls/women depending on personal preferences !

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By *3nsesMan
over a year ago

Dublin


"Agree its the fellas who cant cope, feel used etc.

Psychologicaly most men, and not saying all men, can't distinguish between lust and love, that is if they had not been brought up in a loving house hold or had an over bearing mother. So for most men when they feel attracted to a woman and she is willing to spread her legs they automatically think that the feelings are mutual and so project their "love" lust on to the woman they meet. Which is a typical Beta-male tendencies which leads to over pursuing, clinginess, jealousy and other undesirable traits. "

Wtf is this?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Agree its the fellas who cant cope, feel used etc.

Psychologicaly most men, and not saying all men, can't distinguish between lust and love, that is if they had not been brought up in a loving house hold or had an over bearing mother. So for most men when they feel attracted to a woman and she is willing to spread her legs they automatically think that the feelings are mutual and so project their "love" lust on to the woman they meet. Which is a typical Beta-male tendencies which leads to over pursuing, clinginess, jealousy and other undesirable traits.

Wtf is this? "

Its mostly drivel..

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwilly OP   Man
over a year ago

Tipperary


"can you females actually do It?

Of course we can.

Side note but being referred to as a female makes me cringe. "
are you not a female?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"can you females actually do It?

Of course we can.

Side note but being referred to as a female makes me cringe. are you not a female?"

I'm female, ADJECTIVE. Using female as a noun is just ugh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find it’s usually men that can’t cope with it. "

Sometimes unexpectedly we can all meet someone who is just a bit extra special snd that we suddenly don't want to lose. It's impossible to have no feelings but you do have to manage them,in a way that respects the original agreement.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"can you females actually do It?

Of course we can.

Side note but being referred to as a female makes me cringe. are you not a female?

I'm female, ADJECTIVE. Using female as a noun is just ugh."

Jasis!

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere


"can you females actually do It?

Of course we can.

Side note but being referred to as a female makes me cringe. are you not a female?

I'm female, ADJECTIVE. Using female as a noun is just ugh."

This should be in the back to school thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"can you females actually do It?

Of course we can.

Side note but being referred to as a female makes me cringe. are you not a female?

I'm female, ADJECTIVE. Using female as a noun is just ugh.

This should be in the back to school thread "

It's just a pet peeve ha ha

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By *eanbelfastMan
over a year ago

Belfast


"can you females actually do It?

Of course we can.

Side note but being referred to as a female makes me cringe. are you not a female?

I'm female, ADJECTIVE. Using female as a noun is just ugh.

This should be in the back to school thread

It's just a pet peeve ha ha "

This made my day as it goes above and beyond the usual misuse of words

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork


"can you females actually do It?

Of course we can.

Side note but being referred to as a female makes me cringe. are you not a female?

I'm female, ADJECTIVE. Using female as a noun is just ugh."

So it's not "come here and sit on me sexy" it's "I find you very sexy, come sit on me"

Got it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"can you females actually do It?

Of course we can.

Side note but being referred to as a female makes me cringe. are you not a female?

I'm female, ADJECTIVE. Using female as a noun is just ugh.

So it's not "come here and sit on me sexy" it's "I find you very sexy, come sit on me"

Got it.

"

You've got it

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By *dfabMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne

Some can, some can't, on both sides.

Having been in no strings scenarios with both attached and unattached women before, it varies. My recollection is that it was the attached who were more prone to "the feels". Those divorcees I engaged with were actually the most definitive No Strings means Absolutely No Strings.

I didn't ever get emotionally attached myself, despite that earlier post saying men were more likely to, so mustn't have had the over protective mother, thankfully.

Keep it clean, keep it safe and enjoy it for what it is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Even though OP's question is a female related one , l found that if during a " meet " a same mental wavelength is discovered it goes way deeper than " no strings " very fast and very naturally and " feelings " develop very fast and very naturally...so the question then becomes...what now ?...

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

During swxual activity and particularly during orgasm the body produces oxytocin. This is the hormone that produces bonding between humans as well as feelings of love and comfort.

It's also produced when a mother breastfeeds a baby to promote bonding, and during childbirth so that motherly instinct to protect the baby kicks in.

It's the chemical route that we have evolved to create meaningful and lasting relationships.

It's can be hard for some peoole to overcome this natural process because its served a purpose to our ancestors.

That's not to say it can't be overcome because of course it can... but its important to recognise that this process exists.

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By *asual777Man
over a year ago

i travel all over

We have very well developed brains which should serve to overcome some of our natural biological tendencies, like rutting at a dinner party or wanting an nsa partner to be exclusive to us when she or he have zero interest

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By *iam756Man
over a year ago

Dublin/Kildare laois

It's not easy to find

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By *atherjackhackettMan
over a year ago

Tipperary


"Find em

Feel em

Fuck em

And

Forget en

Ain't that it boys an girls

"

You forgot finger em

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By *asual777Man
over a year ago

i travel all over


"Find em

Feel em

Fuck em

And

Forget en

Ain't that it boys an girls

You forgot finger em "

Is fingering not a bit 2020 ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"During swxual activity and particularly during orgasm the body produces oxytocin. This is the hormone that produces bonding between humans as well as feelings of love and comfort.

It's also produced when a mother breastfeeds a baby to promote bonding, and during childbirth so that motherly instinct to protect the baby kicks in.

It's the chemical route that we have evolved to create meaningful and lasting relationships.

It's can be hard for some peoole to overcome this natural process because its served a purpose to our ancestors.

That's not to say it can't be overcome because of course it can... but its important to recognise that this process exists."

I'm a safe bet than

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"During swxual activity and particularly during orgasm the body produces oxytocin. This is the hormone that produces bonding between humans as well as feelings of love and comfort.

It's also produced when a mother breastfeeds a baby to promote bonding, and during childbirth so that motherly instinct to protect the baby kicks in.

It's the chemical route that we have evolved to create meaningful and lasting relationships.

It's can be hard for some peoole to overcome this natural process because its served a purpose to our ancestors.

That's not to say it can't be overcome because of course it can... but its important to recognise that this process exists."

This is my experience definitely and when I heard about the couple 'reclaim' sex, I thought to myself us singletons also need to reclaim ourselves after it!

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


"Find em

Feel em

Fuck em

And

Forget en

Ain't that it boys an girls

You forgot finger em

Is fingering not a bit 2020 ? "

The art of fingering is timeless, classic!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Find em

Feel em

Fuck em

And

Forget en

Ain't that it boys an girls

You forgot finger em

Is fingering not a bit 2020 ?

The art of fingering is timeless, classic! "

Concur, nothing like a good finger bashing

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...


"Find em

Feel em

Fuck em

And

Forget en

Ain't that it boys an girls

You forgot finger em

Is fingering not a bit 2020 ?

The art of fingering is timeless, classic!

Concur, nothing like a good finger bashing "

Who says romance is dead

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Find em

Feel em

Fuck em

And

Forget en

Ain't that it boys an girls

You forgot finger em

Is fingering not a bit 2020 ?

The art of fingering is timeless, classic!

Concur, nothing like a good finger bashing

Who says romance is dead "

Pure no strings

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


"Find em

Feel em

Fuck em

And

Forget en

Ain't that it boys an girls

You forgot finger em

Is fingering not a bit 2020 ?

The art of fingering is timeless, classic!

Concur, nothing like a good finger bashing

Who says romance is dead "

Heeeere luvv, will you ask your mate if I can finger her?

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By *yesgreenMan
over a year ago

north and south


"Find em

Feel em

Fuck em

And

Forget en

Ain't that it boys an girls

You forgot finger em

Is fingering not a bit 2020 ?

The art of fingering is timeless, classic!

Concur, nothing like a good finger bashing

Who says romance is dead

Heeeere luvv, will you ask your mate if I can finger her? "
No strings and no demands on height age size married not married single or singer lol

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