FabSwingers.com forum: Winks

By *hynot80 OP Man
over a year ago

city

Waste of time or not ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Waste of time or not ?"

Some couples use them to nudge people in their direction. Useful for breaking ice I guess.

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...

I don't look at them ever id rather a message,same as if I like a profile ill message them never wink....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I Don't look at them,bulk delete them...

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

One thing I take from this thread tonight is that a sexy Blue colour is what the ladies are wearing this evening

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ah i don't mind a the odd wink

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Awk I like that Fab offers different means of interacting! Be it a wink, sending a message or even 'Fabbing' a picture!

Not everyone is great at writing a first message, some may even be a bit nervous to get in touch, but that doesn't mean they aren't worth chatting to!

So I think it's good to at least have options when it comes to breaking the ice, so to speak. How each person decides to interpret them, how much stock they put in them, is personal to them much like everything else!

Nothing ventured, nothing gained sure

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By *ittlekinks38Woman
over a year ago

outside belfast x

Not so sure on the winks it's like a thanks but no thanks to me so I'll tend to either just quick browse then block delete them...if you like me enough you'll message me with no wink needed! Well I think so anyways

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As Petersprout said.

Sometimes writing a first message can be easy or difficult depending of the profile.

Then they often are ignored or deleted so a wink can be a simple option to draw attention, much like fabbing a nice pic or two, if it's ignored then it's less of time wasted.

At the end of the day if someone is interested they'll reach out in some way or other, if they're not then they won't.

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By *parkie2Man
over a year ago

mullingar

I think the wink is kinda lazy, it's like I want your attention but I couldn't be arsed writing a message or making an effort to get same.

Thays just my opinion on them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As Petersprout said..."

I can't change my username back quick enough!

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By *eterdunneMan
over a year ago

leixlip

"Ah i don't mind a the odd wink

You luv it! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i check the winks out of curiousity, have winked back but rarely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As Petersprout said...

I can't change my username back quick enough!

"Petersprout" hahaha!!

Not sexy, not sexy at all

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By *eterdunneMan
over a year ago

leixlip

"As Petersprout said...

I can't change my username back quick enough!

"Petersprout" hahaha!!

Not sexy, not sexy at all

I just winked you. Sorry, couldn't help myself lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As Petersprout said...

I can't change my username back quick enough!

Thought you'd like that...

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

I use to look at winks bit rarely do anymore.I don't actually know why I stopped because I met some great people because of a wink at the start.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As Petersprout said...

I can't change my username back quick enough!

"Petersprout" hahaha!!

Not sexy, not sexy at all

It’s a clever play on words but awfully gassy.

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas

I don’t look at them

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By *ol_ieMan
over a year ago

Dublin west

Have just checked mine as I usually done bother and they all from other blokes..

So waste of time

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By *eanbelfastMan
over a year ago

Belfast

As has been said fab has winks, messages, fab a picture or forum posts.

With pictures I will fab when I think its nice though dont just fab all pictures for the sake of it.

I generally dont wink as i think its a bit more than a fab, for me a wink is more a sign of interest and if winked at i will wink back and message.

A message is straight to the point and it all depends what you are trying to achieve as to what you will first say.

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By *enuinecpl101Couple
over a year ago

Co armagh

Easily lost is a wink x

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By *oey4somefunMan
over a year ago

Dublin Louth

I have had plenty of winks sent and received that led to chats and even meets. It's a good way of sending interest that can be followed by a message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Id be partial to the odd wink myself. There's no harm in it and you never have to wait or worry about a reply , you can't torment yourself by wondering if it was seen or not and you can only wink someone once every 30 days, so consider yourselves lucky

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By *elfastblondMan
over a year ago

Belfast

It started with a wink

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By *ed just RedWoman
over a year ago

Dublin City

I’ll look at winks if things are slow. I’ll wink back if someone really catches my attention.

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By *asual777Man
over a year ago

i travel all over

I am starting to love winks . Sometimes you don’t know what to say. Sometimes you’ve had a lovely chat but didn’t carry on. Sometimes they don’t know to say . Sometimes there is a new pic very or video that catches the eye . Sometimes they have looked at you twice in a day . All these things could be a good reason for a wink

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Total waste of time.

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By *scouple07Couple
over a year ago

louth, Ireland

Think it's a good way of testing the water to see if any mutual interest

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By *hynot80 OP Man
over a year ago

city

Wink me lol

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By *hynot80 OP Man
over a year ago

city

Bet you get more than the odd one lol

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By *onedbodMan
over a year ago

co Galway

Just another way of letting a female know she is indeed rather nice

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By *oxyvixen99Woman
over a year ago

Newtownabbey

I've no issues with them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always reply with at least a wink of my own, I’m afraid sometimes I forget to follow up with a message but it’s great for sparking interest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ah i don't mind a the odd wink

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As you wish

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Winks are mainly used to show interest. Some might not have enough messages left to send and is a way to gage interest. Nothing wrong sending winks. But don't always expect one back..

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By *asual777Man
over a year ago

i travel all over

They’re proving a very useful ice breaker this week I must say

I might go on a massive winking session once or twice a week

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By *ouple 0073Couple
over a year ago

donegal

Use them alot

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