FabSwingers.com forum: Just here for socials

By *lippery-when-wet-180 OP Woman
over a year ago

South Dub

I’ve been here a good few years now and the whole one on one meeting has definitely lost it’s fun! The parties and socials are what keep me here. Anyone else finding that after a good while on the site?

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By *orny-angelWoman
over a year ago

somewhere

Yes.

Finding it harder & harder to want to do one on one meets with new people. To many no shows. So much effort goes into chat etc & then they vanish or its last second cancellations.

At least at socials or party people turn up & u have better odds of even just a decent chat.

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By *oft_sexy_sweetWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

"Yes.

Finding it harder & harder to want to do one on one meets with new people. To many no shows. So much effort goes into chat etc & then they vanish or its last second cancellations.

Couldn't agree more! I'm mostly here for the community these days, absolutely not holding my breath for meets cos the number of ghosts / flakes is overwhelming.

I actually DID have a meet today that actually happened and I was totally caught off guard when he said he was on his way, I had to get ready in like 20 mins... That's how used I am to being flaked on!!!!

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By *asual777Man
over a year ago

i travel all over

"Yes.

Finding it harder & harder to want to do one on one meets with new people. To many no shows. So much effort goes into chat etc & then they vanish or its last second cancellations.

Couldn't agree more! I'm mostly here for the community these days, absolutely not holding my breath for meets cos the number of ghosts / flakes is overwhelming.

Whilst parties are a very efficient use of one’s time (who said romance Is dead?) there is always a delicious anticipation about a new 1:1 meet

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By *cottybear74Man
over a year ago

kilkenny

Parties nó... Been there done that not for me.

Socials.. Yes... I've even hosted a few.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aahh. You cannot beat the excitement and anticipation of a new meet. IMHO

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't be arsed with any of it anymore

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By *ilderMan
over a year ago

dublin

"I can't be arsed with any of it anymore

People! Bah humbug!!

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By *ilderMan
over a year ago

dublin

"I’ve been here a good few years now and the whole one on one meeting has definitely lost it’s fun! The parties and socials are what keep me here. Anyone else finding that after a good while on the site?"

I think both have their pluses and minuses with totally different vibes. With a one on one of course there are less distractions and it's much easier to focus on the job in hand (as it were

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By *lippery-when-wet-180 OP Woman
over a year ago

South Dub

"Yes.

Finding it harder & harder to want to do one on one meets with new people. To many no shows. So much effort goes into chat etc & then they vanish or its last second cancellations.

Couldn't agree more! I'm mostly here for the community these days, absolutely not holding my breath for meets cos the number of ghosts / flakes is overwhelming.

I know the feeling I am shocked when they turn up !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Socials and parties never appealed to us anyway. One-on-one, honestly, left me wondering why when I could have spent the evening with Lee (no disr_spect to the meets who were lovely men). More interested in 3somes or couple swap (and a compatible couple is a needle in a haystack for us). Now with health issues and life demands which make it nigh on impossible to schedule anything should we feel so inclined....

As someone above said, couldn't be arsed at thus point

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you are ever up north ladies you will be guaranteed a meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I can't be arsed with any of it anymore

People! Bah humbug!!

Yes...the older I get the grumpier I get

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im not here that long, but the effort that goes into getting to know someone and arranging new meets has lost its appeal already I have to say!

Now that there are socials on I'm gonna take those opportunities to meet people in person and just enjoy the nights out.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I've only been to one social 18 months ago and even though it was a great night and well organised I haven't spoken to anyone who was there since.

It didn't add anything to my fab journey.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I enjoy the socials and look forward to going to more, parties never been but don't think they for me, I prefer one to one meets but have lost interest in trying to arrange them as the effort isn't worth it

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...

Im here over 6yrs or so and being honest play meets have lost all interest to me between one thing and another,however i do enjoy the socials side not that ive been to many but its one on one socials for me now till they resume....

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By *ol_ieMan
over a year ago

Dublin west

This thread makes me sad...

Sad to see that the excitement of meeting someone is gone for so many.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive been so busy with work and other stuff going on in my life i just dont have the time or the energy to invest into getting to know new guys. One on one meets lost their appeal for me long ago,for me to make an effort to meet a new guy now, he'd have to really impress me.

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

At present new one on one meets are just too much effort. Life outside of fab is just too hectic and I don't have the time or energy to be arranging them right now .

I do enjoy socials and look forward to them again. I've never been to a party and wouldn't mind going to one at some point just to see if they are something that I'd like to explore more .

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By *eductively_SweetWoman
over a year ago

wexford

This so Me for a long time now. It seems to much of same chat over and over so I don't get that same excited feeling I use to.

Maybe a partner in crime is the way forward for me all new experiences bringing the excitement of meets back.

For now it's definitely the parties and socials that keep me here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This thread makes me sad...

Sad to see that the excitement of meeting someone is gone for so many. "

Interesting that they're all female...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've also struggled lately, and the excitement and anticipation in the run up to meeting new people has been replaced with doubt that they'll turn up and irritability when they inevitably don't.

I used to spend the day before a meet doing all my lady prep; it was all part of the thrill. Now it's been for nothing so often, my time the day before is better spent cracking on with the housework

It does seep into my interactions with others too. I feel less motivated to make the effort with conversations with new people because I'm just so cynical.

Having said all that, I had my first solo meet with a guy a couple of weeks ago; it all went without a hiccup but he's someone we'd been talking to for the best part of two years. We don't have the time or energy for that kind of investment in every conversation that might potentially lead to a meet.

I've much more flexibility with my time than E so the social side is holding increasing appeal to me. We've never been to any parties though. There's certainly curiosity around whether they're something we'd enjoy but it's nigh on impossible for us to get away on weekends as I'm very much at "mum's taxi" stage of my children's lives.

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By *3nsesMan
over a year ago

Dublin

I've very little expectations of what I'll get out of fab so disappointment with it never happens. I have always found it difficult to get excited about meeting a stranger and even less excited about engaging with one via text. Fab isn't a format that suits me.

I still very much enjoy the website though and using it.

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By *affa31Woman
over a year ago

Galway

I’m struggling to find someone who I click with enough to really want to organise a meet.

I definitely want to get back to meeting but it’s just not working at the min.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m struggling to find someone who I click with enough to really want to organise a meet.

I definitely want to get back to meeting but it’s just not working at the min. "

Ah sure you can always meet me again.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Working 6 days a week in a small 2 person company leaves me with no time or energy to be driving around the country to meet others.

Even an overnight stay is nigh on impossible at the moment.

In saying that though, in four years here I'm still in single figures in regard to meets.

I often wonder how people are able to be so flexible with spontaneous meets or do they prioritise those above other less important things like their job?

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By *affa31Woman
over a year ago

Galway

"I’m struggling to find someone who I click with enough to really want to organise a meet.

I definitely want to get back to meeting but it’s just not working at the min.

Ah sure you can always meet me again.

Cmere to me so

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By *affa31Woman
over a year ago

Galway

"Working 6 days a week in a small 2 person company leaves me with no time or energy to be driving around the country to meet others.

Even an overnight stay is nigh on impossible at the moment.

In saying that though, in four years here I'm still in single figures in regard to meets.

I often wonder how people are able to be so flexible with spontaneous meets or do they prioritise those above other less important things like their job?"

My only r_sponsibility is my job so outside of that I can usually be fairly flexible around meets. Being single and childless is handy sometimes

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By *ickheadcuntCouple
over a year ago

Cork Ireland

100% parties and socials are were its at and we prefer.

Meeting 2 on 2 is for us more stressful and awkward.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Working 6 days a week in a small 2 person company leaves me with no time or energy to be driving around the country to meet others.

Even an overnight stay is nigh on impossible at the moment.

In saying that though, in four years here I'm still in single figures in regard to meets.

I often wonder how people are able to be so flexible with spontaneous meets or do they prioritise those above other less important things like their job?"

Ive been out of work for ages

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By *asual777Man
over a year ago

i travel all over

I think both have their pluses and minuses with totally different vibes. With a one on one of course there are less distractions and it's much easier to focus on the job in hand (as it were

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This is true. Last Wednesday I was trying to concentrate on the job at hand with 2 conversations either side of me one on Afghanistan and one on how someone became a veggie once they talked through how a duck’s leg was actually from an amputated duck .

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By *antra MassageMan
over a year ago

South Side.

I've taken a break from meeting people for the past two months, and reviewing what I want from fab. I'm coming around to thinking, I want a community of friends, who think like me (around relationships) and are open minded around sexuality. I've had lots of very enjoyable meets, but i particularly cherish repeat meets, whether for massage, or a walk, or coffee,(or mint tea!). I want more of these. Friendship, thats what I want. I'm considering hosting socials aimed at fabbers who live a short drive from me, lets see what works.

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By *ogladyWoman
over a year ago

The bog

"Parties nó... Been there done that not for me.

Socials.. Yes... I've even hosted a few. "

And they were brilliant socials.

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By *eepixieWoman
over a year ago

belfast

Never done parties or more than one at a time

so for me it’s been boring anyway lol. Only meets I’m doing at the mo are the verification coffee meets…

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By *he SophisticatsCouple
over a year ago

Casa Del Fun

We agree totally.

One/one has lost its appeal, maybe because of all the lockdowns etc or that it can be difficult for us both to have a spark with a meet (But we won’t close that door just yet)…

Kind of the same with socials but with everything starting to open we’re looking forward to getting out and about to those nights again. We look at socials as a good night out with other like minded people, and if there’s a connection with someone then it’s a BRUCIE BONUS

Either way it’s always a good night out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kinda sad reading this and I thought I was the only one that had lost the faith here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Kinda sad reading this and I thought I was the only one that had lost the faith here. "

Its actually an eye-opener of a thread isnt it.

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary

"Im not here that long, but the effort that goes into getting to know someone and arranging new meets has lost its appeal already I have to say!"
that's why I find other sites much better. the effort u have to go through on here and the hoops u have to jump before u even get a meet is enormous.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

....at this rate the nuns should expect an influx of novices. Nuns in general appear very happy and content and.....didyasee their longevity!?

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By *spMan
over a year ago

Who know's

I so get what you are saying for sure. Hand on heart I’ll know I will enjoy socials again now that I know certain people run there own social evenings. And yes the one on ones are gone way too hit and miss

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

"Im not here that long, but the effort that goes into getting to know someone and arranging new meets has lost its appeal already I have to say!that's why I find other sites much better. the effort u have to go through on here and the hoops u have to jump before u even get a meet is enormous. "

I don't know other sites and I know you can't name them but why is that do you think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"....at this rate the nuns should expect an influx of novices. Nuns in general appear very happy and content and.....didyasee their longevity!?

They're building a new convent in Galway

I have my name down

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"....at this rate the nuns should expect an influx of novices. Nuns in general appear very happy and content and.....didyasee their longevity!?

They're building a new convent in Galway

I have my name down"

Fabland's loss

Nunnery's gain

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

"....at this rate the nuns should expect an influx of novices. Nuns in general appear very happy and content and.....didyasee their longevity!?

They're building a new convent in Galway

I have my name down"

There's a few builders in here looking for fun with clients.....

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By *he SophisticatsCouple
over a year ago

Casa Del Fun

"....at this rate the nuns should expect an influx of novices. Nuns in general appear very happy and content and.....didyasee their longevity!?

They're building a new convent in Galway

I have my name down

There's a few builders in here looking for fun with clients....."

That reminds me, anyone here with a long set of ladders to help Tabs paint the gable end of the house?

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

"....at this rate the nuns should expect an influx of novices. Nuns in general appear very happy and content and.....didyasee their longevity!?

They're building a new convent in Galway

I have my name down

There's a few builders in here looking for fun with clients.....

That reminds me, anyone here with a long set of ladders to help Tabs paint the gable end of the house?

Can she not use the one in her tights?

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

"....at this rate the nuns should expect an influx of novices. Nuns in general appear very happy and content and.....didyasee their longevity!?

They're building a new convent in Galway

I have my name down

There's a few builders in here looking for fun with clients.....

That reminds me, anyone here with a long set of ladders to help Tabs paint the gable end of the house?

I'll supply the ladder. I'll even hold it for her if she wears a dress

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By *he SophisticatsCouple
over a year ago

Casa Del Fun

"....at this rate the nuns should expect an influx of novices. Nuns in general appear very happy and content and.....didyasee their longevity!?

They're building a new convent in Galway

I have my name down

There's a few builders in here looking for fun with clients.....

That reminds me, anyone here with a long set of ladders to help Tabs paint the gable end of the house?

Can she not use the one in her tights?

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By *he SophisticatsCouple
over a year ago

Casa Del Fun

"....at this rate the nuns should expect an influx of novices. Nuns in general appear very happy and content and.....didyasee their longevity!?

They're building a new convent in Galway

I have my name down

There's a few builders in here looking for fun with clients.....

That reminds me, anyone here with a long set of ladders to help Tabs paint the gable end of the house?

I'll supply the ladder. I'll even hold it for her if she wears a dress

And there was me, thinking you’d be offering to trim her bush Mikey

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By *issMollyXXXWoman
over a year ago

Limerick

"....at this rate the nuns should expect an influx of novices. Nuns in general appear very happy and content and.....didyasee their longevity!?

They're building a new convent in Galway

I have my name down"

s1ren can I come too. Yes I must agree with all of the comments above, the appeal of 1 on 1 meets has certainly lost its appeal for me recently unless its a repeat. The time and effort isnt worth it! The lack of understanding is shocking as to peoples various situations Im sick of having to explain myself tbh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"....at this rate the nuns should expect an influx of novices. Nuns in general appear very happy and content and.....didyasee their longevity!?

They're building a new convent in Galway

I have my name down

Why explain yourself? If your profile says you aren't interested in something, you don't have to remotely entertain anyone's demands to know why not!

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I'm thinking of giving up work and becoming a gigolo

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

"....at this rate the nuns should expect an influx of novices. Nuns in general appear very happy and content and.....didyasee their longevity!?

They're building a new convent in Galway

I have my name down

There's a few builders in here looking for fun with clients.....

That reminds me, anyone here with a long set of ladders to help Tabs paint the gable end of the house?

I'll supply the ladder. I'll even hold it for her if she wears a dress

And there was me, thinking you’d be offering to trim her bush Mikey

Well sure, I'd need to have a look at it first. It might need a full crew to sort it out but I'd do the surveying in advance myself first.

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By *ilderMan
over a year ago

dublin

Am I the only one that hasn't had a cancellation that I can think of? Not last minute at least

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Am I the only one that hasn't had a cancellation that I can think of? Not last minute at least"

Yes, by the sounds of it

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I've never had a cancellation or a no show and I've never been one either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"....at this rate the nuns should expect an influx of novices. Nuns in general appear very happy and content and.....didyasee their longevity!?

They're building a new convent in Galway

I have my name down

*Claps excitedly*

Come here my pretty and we will skip off to the convent together

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

"....at this rate the nuns should expect an influx of novices. Nuns in general appear very happy and content and.....didyasee their longevity!?

They're building a new convent in Galway

I have my name down

*Claps excitedly*

Come here my pretty and we will skip off to the convent together"

Fecking nuns on the run

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

"Am I the only one that hasn't had a cancellation that I can think of? Not last minute at least"

No I've never had one either.

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

I had to cancel once but in fairness I was locked into a car showroom by mistake on the way to it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"....at this rate the nuns should expect an influx of novices. Nuns in general appear very happy and content and.....didyasee their longevity!?

They're building a new convent in Galway

I have my name down

*Claps excitedly*

Come here my pretty and we will skip off to the convent together

Fecking nuns on the run

I'm onto something here...

Will gather myself a nice little harem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have never been a No Show but have had some last minute cancellations...definitely the meet & greet socials are preferable in many cases to 1 on 1 meets...being in a venue with like mi ded people for chat & craic certainly beats a coffee meet.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

"....at this rate the nuns should expect an influx of novices. Nuns in general appear very happy and content and.....didyasee their longevity!?

They're building a new convent in Galway

I have my name down

*Claps excitedly*

Come here my pretty and we will skip off to the convent together

Fecking nuns on the run

I'm onto something here...

Will gather myself a nice little harem

There's always an ulterior motive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Am I the only one that hasn't had a cancellation that I can think of? Not last minute at least"

We had one once, he cancelled a few hours beforehand.

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By *ocketman99Man
over a year ago

fermanagh

Hopefully people’s opinions of meets will change because sadly this thread is unfortunate. It is not in any way a criticism, I guess it’s the way it is for these people who have gotten fed up.

I know I’d always show when I’d say I would, if I were fortunate to get that cup of coffee meet!

I also am under no illusion that a meet entails a journey to the bedroom. It doesn’t work that way..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never had a no-show

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By *atiePWoman
over a year ago

Secret Location

Definitely interested in this nunnery, need to practice my kneeling and praying first though

I’ve had 1 last minute cancellation and 1 no show, but I made alternative plans which ended up more than making up for it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Definitely interested in this nunnery, need to practice my kneeling and praying first though

I’ve had 1 last minute cancellation and 1 no show, but I made alternative plans which ended up more than making up for it

Oh and another fine recruit for the convent

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

"Definitely interested in this nunnery, need to practice my kneeling and praying first though

I’ve had 1 last minute cancellation and 1 no show, but I made alternative plans which ended up more than making up for it

Oh and another fine recruit for the convent

You're going to be acting all superior now aren't you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't even think its about no shows. The last year and a bit has made meeting a little bit harder for most people. Some just think if they send a message that the person should drop all and meet to satisfy them straight away. ( that's men, women and couples).

I get messages from guys from Cork etc and they may be lovely but realistically I'm not going to chat as chances of meeting are slim to none and as I always have a social meet first I wouldn't expect anyone to travel that far.

I do think things will improve in a few months and hopefully more socials start up and the fun of fab can start again.

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By *ilderMan
over a year ago

dublin

"Definitely interested in this nunnery, need to practice my kneeling and praying first though

I’ve had 1 last minute cancellation and 1 no show, but I made alternative plans which ended up more than making up for it

Oh and another fine recruit for the convent

Nobody would believe either of ye were nuns by looking into your eyes

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary

I don't know other sites and I know you can't name them but why is that do you think "
Why what?

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By *asual777Man
over a year ago

i travel all over

Do you think we should allocate a week in the near future , then have a top 10 forum contributors social based on that week’s contributions ? 5 lads 5 ladies or something . Get a bit of forum mojo back

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By *affa31Woman
over a year ago

Galway

"Do you think we should allocate a week in the near future , then have a top 10 forum contributors social based on that week’s contributions ? 5 lads 5 ladies or something . Get a bit of forum mojo back

Cue everyone going quiet that week

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary

the site should be fun but for eg, if u sign up here looking for meets, chatting with lovely polite mails and getting nowhere. thats not fun and the novelty will wane very quickly. I have seen numerous lads on here say they have been here for 3/4 months sending nice mails and can't get meets.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Like a keyboard warrior challenge?

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Like a keyboard warrior challenge?"

It would depend on interplanetary travel restrictions as some would have further to come.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hope top refers to quality, not quantity

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By *OCONO5Couple
over a year ago

Sensual Center

sounds like alot of effort

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By *ust4funcoupleCouple
over a year ago

Moira

Yes def find parties much easier and less pressure.. If you feel the connection then fun happens and if not no one is offended... But still have a few scenarios woukd like to act out in a more intimate way as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Definitely interested in this nunnery, need to practice my kneeling and praying first though

I’ve had 1 last minute cancellation and 1 no show, but I made alternative plans which ended up more than making up for it

Oh and another fine recruit for the convent

Nobody would believe either of ye were nuns by looking into your eyes

they scream come to bed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hope top refers to quality, not quantity

Lmao

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By *asual777Man
over a year ago

i travel all over

I hope top refers to quality, not quantity

Subjective though

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By *amson4DelilahCouple
over a year ago

ballina

I'm going to reserve judgement anymore till I see who sparks my fancy.. ?? I discovered that I really need to fancy someone & have chemistry or else I'm just going through the motions.Its not about someone looking like Brad pit.. back in the day, cause what I find sexy is hard to put my finger on.. Having a cock & knowing how to use it doesn't quite cut it for me...my mind has to be sparked too.. maybe I'm just weirder than I thought.. lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hope top refers to quality, not quantity

Subjective though "

I quite agree, so who's going to decide who they are?

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By *affa31Woman
over a year ago

Galway

I hope top refers to quality, not quantity

Subjective though

I quite agree, so who's going to decide who they are? "

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

I hope top refers to quality, not quantity

Subjective though

I quite agree, so who's going to decide who they are? "

I'll take one for the team and decide...

Mind you, wouldn't it be tragic if my favourite five ladies turned up to find only me waiting for them,jocks around my ankles!

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By *ilderMan
over a year ago

dublin

"Definitely interested in this nunnery, need to practice my kneeling and praying first though

I’ve had 1 last minute cancellation and 1 no show, but I made alternative plans which ended up more than making up for it

Oh and another fine recruit for the convent

Nobody would believe either of ye were nuns by looking into your eyes

they scream come to bed"

Or 'oh I'm a divil

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hope top refers to quality, not quantity

Subjective though

I quite agree, so who's going to decide who they are?

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over a year ago

I hope top refers to quality, not quantity

Subjective though

I quite agree, so who's going to decide who they are?

I'll take one for the team and decide...

Mind you, wouldn't it be tragic if my favourite five ladies turned up to find only me waiting for them,jocks around my ankles!

To quote yourself Mick

Phwoar!!

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By *asual777Man
over a year ago

i travel all over

I hope top refers to quality, not quantity

Subjective though

I quite agree, so who's going to decide who they are?

I'll take one for the team and decide...

Mind you, wouldn't it be tragic if my favourite five ladies turned up to find only me waiting for them,jocks around my ankles!

That’s quite a visual you have painted

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By *ittlekinks38Woman
over a year ago

outside belfast x

Yeah I find one on one meets aren't doing it for me either! Haven't done for a longtime! Am definitely here for group socials not only am I out with friends but also making new ones along the way! That keeps me here! Social groups and meet & greets...anyone who isn't for that kinda night out they probably not for me! Am a social butterfly even arranging my own socials is great too xx

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By *asual777Man
over a year ago

i travel all over

"the site should be fun but for eg, if u sign up here looking for meets, chatting with lovely polite mails and getting nowhere. thats not fun and the novelty will wane very quickly. I have seen numerous lads on here say they have been here for 3/4 months sending nice mails and can't get meets. "

I have literally never encountered such enthusiasm on the site . It’s like everyone is making up for lost covid time . I think they need to come to the forum so problem receiving tonnes of emails can at least recognise them and consider a coffee . Who wants to turn down a cappuccino anyway ? You d be mad too . With no obligations. Can’t think of a better way to spend an hour . Well I can but not In Costa

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By *asual777Man
over a year ago

i travel all over

Sorry two typos

People not problem

To not too

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By *lippery-when-wet-180 OP Woman
over a year ago

South Dub

I’m so glad it’s not just me!!! I’m looking forward to getting back to the socials

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By *3nsesMan
over a year ago

Dublin

I hope top refers to quality, not quantity

Subjective though

I quite agree, so who's going to decide who they are?

I'll take one for the team and decide...

Mind you, wouldn't it be tragic if my favourite five ladies turned up to find only me waiting for them,jocks around my ankles!

Dont be silly, I'd say they'd love to peg you.

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over a year ago

I hope top refers to quality, not quantity

Subjective though

I quite agree, so who's going to decide who they are?

I'll take one for the team and decide...

Mind you, wouldn't it be tragic if my favourite five ladies turned up to find only me waiting for them,jocks around my ankles!

Dont be silly, I'd say they'd love to peg you.

Did someone say peg?

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By *3nsesMan
over a year ago

Dublin

I hope top refers to quality, not quantity

Subjective though

I quite agree, so who's going to decide who they are?

I'll take one for the team and decide...

Mind you, wouldn't it be tragic if my favourite five ladies turned up to find only me waiting for them,jocks around my ankles!

Dont be silly, I'd say they'd love to peg you.

Did someone say peg?

Yes, Michael did. Lube it up for him.

actually no wait, I think he prefers it without.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Working 6 days a week in a small 2 person company leaves me with no time or energy to be driving around the country to meet others.

Even an overnight stay is nigh on impossible at the moment.

In saying that though, in four years here I'm still in single figures in regard to meets.

I often wonder how people are able to be so flexible with spontaneous meets or do they prioritise those above other less important things like their job?"

Much the same as that, don't see myself doing a social as im off the drink over a year now and unfortunately what's offered here is nights out in pubs/hotels.

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over a year ago

"Working 6 days a week in a small 2 person company leaves me with no time or energy to be driving around the country to meet others.

Even an overnight stay is nigh on impossible at the moment.

In saying that though, in four years here I'm still in single figures in regard to meets.

I often wonder how people are able to be so flexible with spontaneous meets or do they prioritise those above other less important things like their job?

Much the same as that, don't see myself doing a social as im off the drink over a year now and unfortunately what's offered here is nights out in pubs/hotels. "

Don't have to drink at the socials , last one I was at I had 4 drinks

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over a year ago

Tbh i cant even get a conversation to start to get as far as a meet 1:1, constantly messaging ladies and couples but either not being read or left on read but no replies. would be no harm to give a lad a shot anyway ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm going to reserve judgement anymore till I see who sparks my fancy.. ?? I discovered that I really need to fancy someone & have chemistry or else I'm just going through the motions.Its not about someone looking like Brad pit.. back in the day, cause what I find sexy is hard to put my finger on.. Having a cock & knowing how to use it doesn't quite cut it for me...my mind has to be sparked too.. maybe I'm just weirder than I thought.. lol"

Nope, you're not....the best sex starts in the brain

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Working 6 days a week in a small 2 person company leaves me with no time or energy to be driving around the country to meet others.

Even an overnight stay is nigh on impossible at the moment.

In saying that though, in four years here I'm still in single figures in regard to meets.

I often wonder how people are able to be so flexible with spontaneous meets or do they prioritise those above other less important things like their job?

Much the same as that, don't see myself doing a social as im off the drink over a year now and unfortunately what's offered here is nights out in pubs/hotels.

Don't have to drink at the socials , last one I was at I had 4 drinks "

True, for me though its either all out or no out, I don't often have the luxury of a morning off due to work and other commitments so a night out is a rare thing

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

"Working 6 days a week in a small 2 person company leaves me with no time or energy to be driving around the country to meet others.

Even an overnight stay is nigh on impossible at the moment.

In saying that though, in four years here I'm still in single figures in regard to meets.

I often wonder how people are able to be so flexible with spontaneous meets or do they prioritise those above other less important things like their job?

Much the same as that, don't see myself doing a social as im off the drink over a year now and unfortunately what's offered here is nights out in pubs/hotels.

Don't have to drink at the socials , last one I was at I had 4 drinks

True, for me though its either all out or no out, I don't often have the luxury of a morning off due to work and other commitments so a night out is a rare thing "

Try and see if anyone organises a daytime social just for coffees

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By *amien88Man
over a year ago

wicklow

Still wondering how people don't turn up....its amazing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Working 6 days a week in a small 2 person company leaves me with no time or energy to be driving around the country to meet others.

Even an overnight stay is nigh on impossible at the moment.

In saying that though, in four years here I'm still in single figures in regard to meets.

I often wonder how people are able to be so flexible with spontaneous meets or do they prioritise those above other less important things like their job?

Much the same as that, don't see myself doing a social as im off the drink over a year now and unfortunately what's offered here is nights out in pubs/hotels.

Don't have to drink at the socials , last one I was at I had 4 drinks

True, for me though its either all out or no out, I don't often have the luxury of a morning off due to work and other commitments so a night out is a rare thing

Try and see if anyone organises a daytime social just for coffees "

Would be good yeah, but, priorities, no shit I've checked my calender and looking at a potential day off around about December sometime

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same here. "

I thought that read "my mind has to be spanked" ye lot and this place have my mind corrupted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Working 6 days a week in a small 2 person company leaves me with no time or energy to be driving around the country to meet others.

Even an overnight stay is nigh on impossible at the moment.

In saying that though, in four years here I'm still in single figures in regard to meets.

I often wonder how people are able to be so flexible with spontaneous meets or do they prioritise those above other less important things like their job?

Much the same as that, don't see myself doing a social as im off the drink over a year now and unfortunately what's offered here is nights out in pubs/hotels.

Don't have to drink at the socials , last one I was at I had 4 drinks

True, for me though its either all out or no out, I don't often have the luxury of a morning off due to work and other commitments so a night out is a rare thing

Try and see if anyone organises a daytime social just for coffees

Would be good yeah, but, priorities, no shit I've checked my calender and looking at a potential day off around about December sometime "

See you for Christmas dindins so

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

I don't think there is anything weird about that at all unless I'm weird as well

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Working 6 days a week in a small 2 person company leaves me with no time or energy to be driving around the country to meet others.

Even an overnight stay is nigh on impossible at the moment.

In saying that though, in four years here I'm still in single figures in regard to meets.

I often wonder how people are able to be so flexible with spontaneous meets or do they prioritise those above other less important things like their job?

Much the same as that, don't see myself doing a social as im off the drink over a year now and unfortunately what's offered here is nights out in pubs/hotels.

Don't have to drink at the socials , last one I was at I had 4 drinks

True, for me though its either all out or no out, I don't often have the luxury of a morning off due to work and other commitments so a night out is a rare thing

Try and see if anyone organises a daytime social just for coffees

Would be good yeah, but, priorities, no shit I've checked my calender and looking at a potential day off around about December sometime

See you for Christmas dindins so

What's for dessert

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By *asual777Man
over a year ago

i travel all over

"Working 6 days a week in a small 2 person company leaves me with no time or energy to be driving around the country to meet others.

Even an overnight stay is nigh on impossible at the moment.

In saying that though, in four years here I'm still in single figures in regard to meets.

I often wonder how people are able to be so flexible with spontaneous meets or do they prioritise those above other less important things like their job?"

People’s circumstances are different, but also their priorities . A few weeks ago a lady suggested a coffee and actually we ended meeting for about 5 minutes as the coffee shop was closed and the weather wasn’t good enough for outdoor dining etc. It took me about 15 minutes to drive there and back . It was great use of 35 minutes because we had established a rapport online and she just wanted to know what I look like , that I turn up and get a sense that I wasn’t odd (given some of my impulsive posting I don’t blame her). If that 35 minutes hasn’t happened the subsequent meet wouldn’t have happened and now there is a possibility of repeat future meets who knows . But I think if you don’t put yourself out there then you won’t meet . That’s not the fault of the site . It’s not your fault either if you’re busy or not in the zone mind you

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over a year ago

"Working 6 days a week in a small 2 person company leaves me with no time or energy to be driving around the country to meet others.

Even an overnight stay is nigh on impossible at the moment.

In saying that though, in four years here I'm still in single figures in regard to meets.

I often wonder how people are able to be so flexible with spontaneous meets or do they prioritise those above other less important things like their job?

I get really fucking sick of guys asking for an impulsive coffee meet. I work 12-14 hours a day and can't just flit off for a coffee. Persistent pushiness around this is my biggest reason for liberally using the block button of late.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Working 6 days a week in a small 2 person company leaves me with no time or energy to be driving around the country to meet others.

Even an overnight stay is nigh on impossible at the moment.

In saying that though, in four years here I'm still in single figures in regard to meets.

I often wonder how people are able to be so flexible with spontaneous meets or do they prioritise those above other less important things like their job?

Much the same as that, don't see myself doing a social as im off the drink over a year now and unfortunately what's offered here is nights out in pubs/hotels.

Don't have to drink at the socials , last one I was at I had 4 drinks "

And the more drink taken the more it is for a person to get somewhat irrational

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Reading the replies I wonder if people are even taking time out for themselves, never mind time out for meets... all work may pay the bills but mentally & physically we need down time to recover & rest... to continue working we also need to look after ourselves ... ourselves & family 1st not always the job 1st

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

"Reading the replies I wonder if people are even taking time out for themselves, never mind time out for meets... all work may pay the bills but mentally & physically we need down time to recover & rest... to continue working we also need to look after ourselves ... ourselves & family 1st not always the job 1st"

Right at this moment unfortunately it is all about the job. I've done all the crazy 60-80 hour weeks and driving 1000 miles with no down time.

That changed due to covid and losing my job.

The one I have now was initially to help a friend keep his business afloat during an uncertain year.

Due to hard work, word of mouth and fortunate circumstance, turnover has increased by 100% while competitors have closed their doors.

Therefore until we find our natural level in this new world that has to be the focus right now.

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By *wagman30Man
over a year ago

sligo

Any one just up for getting there pussy eaten and fucked

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By *he SophisticatsCouple
over a year ago

Casa Del Fun

"Any one just up for getting there pussy eaten and fucked "

You smooth talker you

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By *affa31Woman
over a year ago

Galway

I wonder do newbies who are told that they should try to get to socials in order to increase their chances of meets, get frustrated to hear that people who don’t meet are filling up socials.

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over a year ago

"I wonder do newbies who are told that they should try to get to socials in order to increase their chances of meets, get frustrated to hear that people who don’t meet are filling up socials. "

Wouldn't see why, it's not a prerequisite that you are meeting to go to a social. I'm sure for parties it's different

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always happy to meet new people, went to my first social last weekend, was brilliant

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

"I wonder do newbies who are told that they should try to get to socials in order to increase their chances of meets, get frustrated to hear that people who don’t meet are filling up socials. "

Hmmm yes I think you're onto something there, imagine as a single lad fetching on of those social invites, dreaming of endless sex, only to find out at the social that most don't meet.

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By *affa31Woman
over a year ago

Galway

"I wonder do newbies who are told that they should try to get to socials in order to increase their chances of meets, get frustrated to hear that people who don’t meet are filling up socials.

Hmmm yes I think you're onto something there, imagine as a single lad fetching on of those social invites, dreaming of endless sex, only to find out at the social that most don't meet.

Hearts broken and cocks wilting all across the land

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over a year ago

"I wonder do newbies who are told that they should try to get to socials in order to increase their chances of meets, get frustrated to hear that people who don’t meet are filling up socials.

Hmmm yes I think you're onto something there, imagine as a single lad fetching on of those social invites, dreaming of endless sex, only to find out at the social that most don't meet.

Hearts broken and cocks wilting all across the land

The End is Nigh

it was fun while it lasted

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By *atiePWoman
over a year ago

Secret Location

"I wonder do newbies who are told that they should try to get to socials in order to increase their chances of meets, get frustrated to hear that people who don’t meet are filling up socials.

Hmmm yes I think you're onto something there, imagine as a single lad fetching on of those social invites, dreaming of endless sex, only to find out at the social that most don't meet.

Hearts broken and cocks wilting all across the land

Expectations - the cause of all disappointment

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Attending socials is meeting though. Those who go regularly are there to meet old and new friends without the hassle of having to organise one on one meets.

Newbies are still in with a chance of an aul roide as long as they tick the right boxes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Attending socials (not parties) is chance to meet people , friends

etc you wouldn't have many chances to due to distance, real life etc ... Normal fun night out drinking, dancing and making new connections... If you wanna have Fun after then that's what hotel rooms are for ... should never assume anything different

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By *mmmm300Woman
over a year ago

cork

I haven't attended social since coming back on the site as a single female. But having fun with the 1-1's. Met some great people. Still having fun.

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By *lippery-when-wet-180 OP Woman
over a year ago

South Dub

"I wonder do newbies who are told that they should try to get to socials in order to increase their chances of meets, get frustrated to hear that people who don’t meet are filling up socials. "

Ah but it means you are meeting lots of people at once. Like a big coffee meet, not guaranteed to get a meet but definitely in your favour for attending

oh and not being a knobend on the night

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By *affa31Woman
over a year ago

Galway

"I wonder do newbies who are told that they should try to get to socials in order to increase their chances of meets, get frustrated to hear that people who don’t meet are filling up socials.

Ah but it means you are meeting lots of people at once. Like a big coffee meet, not guaranteed to get a meet but definitely in your favour for attending

oh and not being a knobend on the night

Oh I know that, I mean more that there’s very few places left for newbies when guest lists are full of the regulars.

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By *pin21Man
over a year ago

Killarney

Each to their own. To all the people flaking without genuine excuses, shame on you. Granted life can sometimes get in the way, but I've heard stories of people that have no real intentions of meeting and are just time-wasters. IMO socials are great if you go with no preconceived expectation. You will encounter a good mixture of people and any playmates you engage with tend to come as a sort of sexy surprise, as you may not have arranged a specific meet with someone pre-social.

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

"Each to their own. To all the people flaking without genuine excuses, shame on you. Granted life can sometimes get in the way, but I've heard stories of people that have no real intentions of meeting and are just time-wasters. IMO socials are great if you go with no preconceived expectation. You will encounter a good mixture of people and any playmates you engage with tend to come as a sort of sexy surprise, as you may not have arranged a specific meet with someone pre-social. "

And what is a genuine excuse and by flaking do you mean not fucking all around them or what exactly ?

It's a pity people don't pay more attention to their own fab journey and less time giving out about what they think others should do on here .

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By *pin21Man
over a year ago

Killarney

And what is a genuine excuse and by flaking do you mean not fucking all around them or what exactly ?

It's a pity people don't pay more attention to their own fab journey and less time giving out about what they think others should do on here . "

As in people that never had any real intention of meeting and were just leading people on. Its not about fucking everybody all around them, it's just about basic common r_spect. Well I suppose it's hard to know if an excuse is genuine or not, but I've heard stories where people have offered to pay half or all of cost of hotel/dinner/coffee because something came up last minute. It might be a made up excuse, but at least it's better than people who just go MIA without any communication, or reason for a no show.

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over a year ago

And what is a genuine excuse and by flaking do you mean not fucking all around them or what exactly ?

It's a pity people don't pay more attention to their own fab journey and less time giving out about what they think others should do on here .

Its all part of fab and life in general, having a go at people here I a waste of time. Some people are on here to meet some aren't , the best plan is do what you want and stick with people who are here for the same reasons.

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By *pin21Man
over a year ago

Killarney

And what is a genuine excuse and by flaking do you mean not fucking all around them or what exactly ?

It's a pity people don't pay more attention to their own fab journey and less time giving out about what they think others should do on here .

Lol that's not having a go at people, that's just my own observation that I'm pretty sure 99% don't care about either way. Eamon Dunphy would be insulted if that was classified as "having a go", haha. I'm not here to change Fab, or the world

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How does one apply for this nunnery?? asking for a Friend

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over a year ago

"How does one apply for this nunnery?? asking for a Friend

I heard its in the Midlands

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By *eterdunneMan
over a year ago

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By *phrodite72Woman
over a year ago

dublin/galway

"How does one apply for this nunnery?? asking for a Friend

I heard its in the Midlands "

Oooh close enough to me so i always fancied wearing a habit

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By *eterdunneMan
over a year ago

leixlip

In r_sponse to the OP

I can't agree or disagree since I've not had the good fortune to arrange an intimate meet. I have had two social ones and would never arrange one unless I was sure I could be there. No showing is just pure bad manners. I hope you girls all talk behind the scenes about guys like that

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over a year ago

"How does one apply for this nunnery?? asking for a Friend

I heard its in the Midlands

Oooh close enough to me so i always fancied wearing a habit "

I reckon you look well in a habit

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By *phrodite72Woman
over a year ago

dublin/galway

"How does one apply for this nunnery?? asking for a Friend

I heard its in the Midlands

Oooh close enough to me so i always fancied wearing a habit

I reckon you look well in a habit

U will have me whipped into shape to b sure i do lol

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By *phrodite72Woman
over a year ago

dublin/galway

"How does one apply for this nunnery?? asking for a Friend

I heard its in the Midlands

Oooh close enough to me so i always fancied wearing a habit

I reckon you look well in a habit

U will have me whipped into shape to b sure i do lol"

I bought skipping rope and all

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over a year ago

"How does one apply for this nunnery?? asking for a Friend

I heard its in the Midlands

Oooh close enough to me so i always fancied wearing a habit

I reckon you look well in a habit

U will have me whipped into shape to b sure i do lol

I bought skipping rope and all

Woohoo

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over a year ago

This is certainly an interesting thread!

I'm shocked at the amount of people that think 1-1 meets are too much effort!

There's lads crying out for meets on the forums, and the advice they get as to what way to have their profile and then to put the 'effort' in to get what they want - by people that aren't arsed putting in the effort

I do think if you are repeatedly getting last minute cancellations and no shows from loads of different members of the site then you need to look at your own profile / meet criteria and figure out why it's constantly happening to you. There's loads here that are meeting 1-1 without any of that happening.

I do agree that socials are a great way to meet a number of new people at once, but there's still room for the 1-1 imo

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

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"This is certainly an interesting thread!

I'm shocked at the amount of people that think 1-1 meets are too much effort!

I do agree that socials are a great way to meet a number of new people at once, but there's still room for the 1-1 imo"

Of course one to ones are important as well but sometimes life outside of fab is too hectic to do them _specially new ones. They're are always plenty of people doing one on one meets. Just because people are willing to actually say it on the forums that they aren't for whatever reasons is no need for little digs at them.Like I have said numerous times concentrate on your own fab journey and do things your own way .

Or do you expect people on here to do pity shags/meets just to keep others happy ?

Most of the people who give advice on those threads are people who have been on here a good while and are actually giving good advice which actually is rarely taken anyhow by the person posting .Just because some are not doing one on one meets at the that time does not mean the advice is invalid.

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over a year ago

"This is certainly an interesting thread!

I'm shocked at the amount of people that think 1-1 meets are too much effort!

I do agree that socials are a great way to meet a number of new people at once, but there's still room for the 1-1 imo

Or do you expect people on here to do pity shags/meets just to keep others happy ?

We agree on a few things so, but I didn't make any 'little digs' at anyone! I just replied to a thread giving my opinion, same way you and everyone else has!

And no, I do not expect people to do pity shags/meets. I don't know where you got that idea from my comment? As you say, concentrate on your own fab journey and do things your own way.

I do agree with you about the advice, it's given in good faith and rarely ever followed.

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

"This is certainly an interesting thread!

I'm shocked at the amount of people that think 1-1 meets are too much effort!

I do agree that socials are a great way to meet a number of new people at once, but there's still room for the 1-1 imo

Or do you expect people on here to do pity shags/meets just to keep others happy ?

We agree on a few things so, but I didn't make any 'little digs' at anyone! I just replied to a thread giving my opinion, same way you and everyone else has!

And no, I do not expect people to do pity shags/meets. I don't know where you got that idea from my comment? As you say, concentrate on your own fab journey and do things your own way.

I do agree with you about the advice, it's given in good faith and rarely ever followed.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

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"This is certainly an interesting thread!

I'm shocked at the amount of people that think 1-1 meets are too much effort!

I do agree that socials are a great way to meet a number of new people at once, but there's still room for the 1-1 imo

Or do you expect people on here to do pity shags/meets just to keep others happy ?

We agree on a few things so, but I didn't make any 'little digs' at anyone! I just replied to a thread giving my opinion, same way you and everyone else has!

And no, I do not expect people to do pity shags/meets. I don't know where you got that idea from my comment? As you say, concentrate on your own fab journey and do things your own way.

I do agree with you about the advice, it's given in good faith and rarely ever followed.

Your comment about the people giving advice not being arsed to make an effort isn't correct though.

Most of the people giving advice have made the effort and often got little in return.

Life moves on, priorities change and people adapt.

Where once people may have had the time to chat to numerous people in the hope of making that one connection and taking it further now they may find it less hassle to go to a social and use that to narrow the field.

I agree about the way some people vet those they are chatting to and I often wonder how the same people can have so many no shows or are ghosted when others don't have any of those issues.

It's no coincidence that I've never been a no show or never had someone not turn up and at the same time the vast majority of women I have chatted to have never had that happen either.