FabSwingers.com forum: Belfast full play club

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

As u may be aware we use to run r club in Derry until it was destroyed by arson. We have been working hard behind the scenes to try and secure and new venue and it looks like we could b opening before Xmas! So who wants to cum? What facilities do U expect!?

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

Good luck with that...can't be easy setting up again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would be great to see some gloryholes, either a small playroom for women/couples with holes in the walls or a full 'female gloryhole'/'czech gloryhole' setup - would be super unique and a lot of fun!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good luck! Hopefully we will visit when open

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By *oxyvixen99Woman
over a year ago

Newtownabbey

In Belfast?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yes. Full play venue in Belfast. R next social is in Belfast is 25th September. These have all been fund raisers to get to kit out the club once we’ve found a venue. Hopefully securing the venue nx week then full steam ahead!!

As for female glory holes, get in pornos but a complete health risk in real life.

But other ideas r welcome.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some padded benches and St Andrew's cross would be nice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A viewing area is fun for those who enjoy watching and been watched

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By *oxyvixen99Woman
over a year ago

Newtownabbey

Good luck with it

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By *ecentguy321Man
over a year ago

nearby

Best of luck with the new venture!

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By *un LaoghaireMan
over a year ago

newry

Great news and good luck!

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By *artyHardMan
over a year ago

North

The last club was fantastic so here’s hoping it’ll be even better as Belfast is a busier city! The gay club in Belfast does a good run so can’t see why it wouldn’t be a hit! Good luck guys

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By *ay_Gatsby_D4Man
over a year ago

City Centre, Dublin

Jeez bringing Belfast into the 21st century

Best of luck, I hope it all goes well

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By *peeddateMan
over a year ago

Armagh

Good luck! Sounds exciting and long over due!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We’ll be following this with avid interest, we’ve always toyed with the idea of our first time being watching only

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also following with interest!

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By *acmullyCouple
over a year ago

in the land of diet coke and club orange

Omg that be brillant best of luck getting it back running. I even travel down for a night.

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By *londy84Man
over a year ago

Scotstown

Sounds great

Hopefully u succeed

Would love to attend one of the social events for support

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Great idea and the best of luck. I’ve been to 4-5 clubs and my advice is a few private rooms.

Furthermore restrict booze

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By *scapism123Man
over a year ago

belfast

"As u may be aware we use to run r club in Derry until it was destroyed by arson. We have been working hard behind the scenes to try and secure and new venue and it looks like we could b opening before Xmas! So who wants to cum? What facilities do U expect!?"

Fantastic news and very best of luck with the new venture / start up, look forward to hearing of the progress as it’s definitely something me and play partner would visit.

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By *ex coupleCouple
over a year ago

wexford

Keep us posted please

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By *amDaveCouple
over a year ago

somewhere

This sounds great, looking forward to hearing more

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By *mac123Man
over a year ago

Belfast

Good luck

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By *antra MassageMan
over a year ago

South Side.

Best of luck.

Based on my experience,

Start early so people arrive sober,

Limit booze, no free drinks,

Provide spotless changing rooms, lockable lockers, dressing gowns, maybe.

Have private rooms, dark, pvc, etc,

Don't mix swinging with fetish, kink, its a different dynamic.

A hot tub is always popular.

Try to ensure all activities are healthy and safe, provide free condoms all night long.

The organising staff stay sober and don't play... Your job is to care for your guests.

Screen guests.. Real couples only, no rent a partner, it is easily spotted and ruins the dynamic.

Have a pre meet and greet to validate couples, maybe in a nearby pub, just to be sure both parties are aware they are going to a swingers club.

Have a policy on chucking out, arguments, jealousy, d*unkeness. It's Ireland, it will happen.

As you said earlier, it's not a porn set, so safe, sane, consensual activity in clean surroundings and guests will return.

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By *dfabMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne

Excellent idea!

Hope you get a brilliant turnout and repeat business.

I'll be looking forward to going myself.

I think the previous post said almost everything.

I'd echo the lockers, changing rooms, dark room and glory hole as the suggestions

So hope it goes well and becomes established

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By *oc1066Man
over a year ago

Belfast

Great news, good luck with it

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

Showers and lockers are really really appreciated. I know its tricky tho.

Wish you all the best with it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Build it and they will cum

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By *onderingpurposeMan
over a year ago

Belfast

"Showers and lockers are really really appreciated. I know its tricky tho.

Wish you all the best with it!"

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds like it's gonna be great. Best of luck with it and I hope to be able to visit when it opens.

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By *tandmanXXXMan
over a year ago

letterkenny

Good news from the bad I would live to attend one some night seems very relaxed wish yous the best of luck for your new venue

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By *atbWoman
over a year ago

belfast

Well that’s my tickets purchased for the meet in Belfast on the 25th …. I’m a group social virgin so get in touch if you are going xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Showers and lockers are really really appreciated. I know its tricky tho.

Wish you all the best with it!"

A shower room with about 4 shower heads to allow group play. Lots of towels.

Best of luck with everything

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By *igdave.rgbyMan
over a year ago

monaghan

Douche facilities Sling Rim Stool watersports area smoking area would be good

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By *elfastSteamWhistleMan
over a year ago

bangor

Sounds like it might be fun.

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By *elfastpantyguyMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Good luck with the new venture hope it works out for you x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes. Full play venue in Belfast. R next social is in Belfast is 25th September. These have all been fund raisers to get to kit out the club once we’ve found a venue. Hopefully securing the venue nx week then full steam ahead!!

As for female glory holes, get in pornos but a complete health risk in real life.

But other ideas r welcome. "

Good point, I had noticed that some clubs in the UK have female gloryholes as a temporary installation on certain nights, and even then a supervisor is required. I can imagine it's not worth the risk/responsibility.

That said, regular gloryholes would be a welcome feature

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By *lu_i2Man
over a year ago

Belfast

Do you need a licence for this? Can’t imagine you’d get that by the council. You know what they’re like here! But best of luck with it. I don’t think it’s be short of customers in Belfast

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By *ure thing 400Man
over a year ago

Belfast/tenerife

Great look forward to going when you are open

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thats sounds fantastic. I for one would be interested in attending

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By *-4pleasureCouple
over a year ago

Belfast

"Best of luck.

Based on my experience,

Start early so people arrive sober,

Limit booze, no free drinks,

Provide spotless changing rooms, lockable lockers, dressing gowns, maybe.

Have private rooms, dark, pvc, etc,

Don't mix swinging with fetish, kink, its a different dynamic.

A hot tub is always popular.

Try to ensure all activities are healthy and safe, provide free condoms all night long.

The organising staff stay sober and don't play... Your job is to care for your guests.

Screen guests.. Real couples only, no rent a partner, it is easily spotted and ruins the dynamic.

Have a pre meet and greet to validate couples, maybe in a nearby pub, just to be sure both parties are aware they are going to a swingers club.

Have a policy on chucking out, arguments, jealousy, d*unkeness. It's Ireland, it will happen.

As you said earlier, it's not a porn set, so safe, sane, consensual activity in clean surroundings and guests will return. "

Good post - follow the rules of French / Spanish clubs and you can’t go wrong. Particular vetting needed to out the guys with escorts.

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By *ittlekinks38Woman
over a year ago

outside belfast x

All sounds great hope everything works out and maybe in due time I'll attend with a friend...x

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By *ustin-SiderMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I used to be co-owner of an adult shop that was out the back of Castlecourt in Belfast. The council refused to grant any of the adult shops a licence despite the owners continuously jumping through all the necessary hoops. In fact the council used to harass and raid the adult shops all the time.

I really can't see the Belfast Council being ok with this and not giving you a continuously hard time. I also think the local media would be constantly all over this (though negative publicity is still publicity).

I genuinely hope this works out for you guys though and wish you all the best as this is exactly the kind of thing Belfast needs to drag it out of the dark ages. But I really don't think it shall be easy for you at all. Good luck.

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By *tiffler400Man
over a year ago

belfast

I really hope that yous make this work. It's exactly what belfast needs. Good luck. X

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

we see ourselves as a "lifestyle, sexual health and wellness centre". we work with the council on other events and hope this will help us register it above board. if the gay sauna can open then so can we!! legally, we won't be doing anything wrong, and we (as a club) made it on the front page of the sunday world before!!!

we are doing this for ourselves as much as everyone else. trips to dublin, london, liverpool, paris, amsterdam or where ever else were getting to expensive and we truly love the lifestyle.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Best of luck.

Based on my experience,

Start early so people arrive sober,

Limit booze, no free drinks,

Provide spotless changing rooms, lockable lockers, dressing gowns, maybe.

Have private rooms, dark, pvc, etc,

Don't mix swinging with fetish, kink, its a different dynamic.

A hot tub is always popular.

Try to ensure all activities are healthy and safe, provide free condoms all night long.

The organising staff stay sober and don't play... Your job is to care for your guests.

Screen guests.. Real couples only, no rent a partner, it is easily spotted and ruins the dynamic.

Have a pre meet and greet to validate couples, maybe in a nearby pub, just to be sure both parties are aware they are going to a swingers club.

Have a policy on chucking out, arguments, jealousy, d*unkeness. It's Ireland, it will happen.

As you said earlier, it's not a porn set, so safe, sane, consensual activity in clean surroundings and guests will return. "

u r so on r wavelength ... we have a website from the previous club which is listed on the "club reviews' section here on fab. there is a page on rules for both social and play events and most of the points raised are covered ... we will of coarse add those we have missed

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By *corps74Man
over a year ago

Lancashire/midlands travelling

I love my fairly regular trips to Belfast and as others have said, this is exactly what’s needed in the country. I would love to be able to visit you, if you can pull it off (no pun intended!) and I have my fingers crossed for you! Good luck!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"we see ourselves as a "lifestyle, sexual health and wellness centre". we work with the council on other events and hope this will help us register it above board. if the gay sauna can open then so can we!! legally, we won't be doing anything wrong, and we (as a club) made it on the front page of the sunday world before!!!

we are doing this for ourselves as much as everyone else. trips to dublin, london, liverpool, paris, amsterdam or where ever else were getting to expensive and we truly love the lifestyle.

Have the council expressed any initial views on the project?

I believe the gay saunas were supported by multiple agencies, to reduce cruising and the associated homophobic attacks that took place. Also the press have to be very careful in reporting any negative stories on the LGBTQ+ community.....Swingers? Not so much..

In the past, Swinging events at a venue in Belfast were actually objected to by the gay community and had to cease!!

There will be other 'issues' unique to Northern Ireland, which I hope you have considered but good luck, someone has to take the vanguard, to make any progress towards a more liberal society

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By *ay_Gatsby_D4Man
over a year ago

City Centre, Dublin

we are doing this for ourselves as much as everyone else. trips to dublin, london, liverpool, paris, amsterdam or where ever else were getting to expensive and we truly love the lifestyle.

Have the council expressed any initial views on the project?

In the past, Swinging events at a venue in Belfast were actually objected to by the gay community and had to cease!!

There will be other 'issues' unique to Northern Ireland, which I hope you have considered but good luck, someone has to take the vanguard, to make any progress towards a more liberal society"

Hopefully the liberalisation of pub opening hours is a sign that the council etc are more open minded and less likely to bow to puritanical pressure.

Any kind of kind of progress is good, and I hope the project goes well

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By *ustin-SiderMan
over a year ago

Belfast

we are doing this for ourselves as much as everyone else. trips to dublin, london, liverpool, paris, amsterdam or where ever else were getting to expensive and we truly love the lifestyle.

Have the council expressed any initial views on the project?

In the past, Swinging events at a venue in Belfast were actually objected to by the gay community and had to cease!!

There will be other 'issues' unique to Northern Ireland, which I hope you have considered but good luck, someone has to take the vanguard, to make any progress towards a more liberal society

Hopefully the liberalisation of pub opening hours is a sign that the council etc are more open minded and less likely to bow to puritanical pressure.

Any kind of kind of progress is good, and I hope the project goes well"

When a Hooters bar opened up back in 2008 (I think it was that year) it had customers and interest but the council very quickly shut it down.

I experienced the harassment from the council through having a shop.

I can't see this going well because the local council has not changed much since then.

I want to see this club happen and work out well.

Northern Ireland really needs things like this to put the rest of us in modern times alongside so many other countries in Europe. Will it happen soon? I don't think so. Will it happen eventually? I think it shall. But only once the Council is no longer a group of religious nuts.

Hedonism. I sincerely wish you good luck with the venture. If you want to pm me at any time with questions for any info please do so at any time. I hope this works out for not only yourselves but all those that might benefit. Best of luck.