FabSwingers.com forum: Female perspective

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I recently posted on here that I had confessed to my wife that I was sexually very open minded and bi sexual. I was astounded by the response I got. But what stood out was the fact that it was mostly from husbands who had opened up to their wives. So I'm just wondering are there any ladies out there who took the first step and opened up to their husbands.

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By *eterdunneMan
over a year ago

leixlip

I'd imagine most husbands would react like homer simpson when he sees donuts lol.

WOOHOO!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd imagine most husbands would react like homer simpson when he sees donuts lol.

WOOHOO!!"

There is certainly a very different attitude - even here on fab where people are supposedly more open-minded - towards bisexuality in males vs females. It's bizarre.

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By *hilaboutMan
over a year ago

kilkenny

How did your other half react n are you content now

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"How did your other half react n are you content now"
well I wasn't shown the door and we are sill talking so that's a positive. Going to take time tho. But yea I feel great that I finally got it off my chest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It was I (the wife) who said it to my husband after being together over 10 years. At the same time I also told him I wanted a ffm. He was extremely supportive, it was him that suggested we find some kind of web site to join. We have talked alot and from all that talk the things I want have evolved but we would never have gotten to where we are now with out alot of open communication and honesty.

I did follow your previous post to see how you got on. Fair play to you for opening up to your wife. I hope it all works out for you, answer everything she asks with full honesty.

We stopped at the side of the road and discussed it one day

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It was I (the wife) who said it to my husband after being together over 10 years. At the same time I also told him I wanted a ffm. He was extremely supportive, it was him that suggested we find some kind of web site to join. We have talked alot and from all that talk the things I want have evolved but we would never have gotten to where we are now with out alot of open communication and honesty.

I did follow your previous post to see how you got on. Fair play to you for opening up to your wife. I hope it all works out for you, answer everything she asks with full honesty.

We stopped at the side of the road and discussed it one day

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yea thanks. Its still early days. I havent been shown the door and we are still talking. If anything I think it's the most talking we have ever done and I'm enjoying it

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

"I'd imagine most husbands would react like homer simpson when he sees donuts lol.

WOOHOO!!

There is certainly a very different attitude - even here on fab where people are supposedly more open-minded - towards bisexuality in males vs females. It's bizarre. "

Ahh sure you can't possibly be straight as a woman on here.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'd imagine most husbands would react like homer simpson when he sees donuts lol.

WOOHOO!!

There is certainly a very different attitude - even here on fab where people are supposedly more open-minded - towards bisexuality in males vs females. It's bizarre.

Ahh sure you can't possibly be straight as a woman on here.

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your hardly suggesting that people are pretending to be bi?

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

"I'd imagine most husbands would react like homer simpson when he sees donuts lol.

WOOHOO!!

There is certainly a very different attitude - even here on fab where people are supposedly more open-minded - towards bisexuality in males vs females. It's bizarre.

Ahh sure you can't possibly be straight as a woman on here.

your hardly suggesting that people are pretending to be bi? "

Bi women are labelled 'unicorns' on here, or in other words something precious and desirable. As a straight woman you still get plenty of offers namely from couples to play with both of them or just the female part, because it seems hard to grasp that someone doesn't want to be a unicorn.

And then yes there's also the pleasing your male partner by putting on a woman to woman show.

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By *hilaboutMan
over a year ago

kilkenny

Interesting very informative

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

"I'd imagine most husbands would react like homer simpson when he sees donuts lol.

WOOHOO!!

There is certainly a very different attitude - even here on fab where people are supposedly more open-minded - towards bisexuality in males vs females. It's bizarre.

Ahh sure you can't possibly be straight as a woman on here.

your hardly suggesting that people are pretending to be bi? "

There are some indecisive profiles that are straight one week and bi the next.

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By *amson4DelilahCouple
over a year ago

ballina

"I'd imagine most husbands would react like homer simpson when he sees donuts lol.

WOOHOO!!

There is certainly a very different attitude - even here on fab where people are supposedly more open-minded - towards bisexuality in males vs females. It's bizarre.

Ahh sure you can't possibly be straight as a woman on here.

your hardly suggesting that people are pretending to be bi?

There are some indecisive profiles that are straight one week and bi the next. "

Ohh that could be me... lol, I would have always thought of myself as straight, never even entertaining the idea of being with a woman, & to be fair I always got hit on my lesbian but never went there.

But as the song goes.. I kissed a girl and I liked it.. and then a little more playing....and to be honest I cannot wait to get with a woman again... am I bi... no.. maybe bi curious or bi playful.

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary

you can't go wrong with a bit of lesbian porn.

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By *ofusplusCouple
over a year ago

Limerick

"you can't go wrong with a bit of lesbian porn. "

Oh Christ, with all that faux moaning, no thanks

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary

"you can't go wrong with a bit of lesbian porn.

Oh Christ, with all that faux moaning, no thanks

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great videos in that category.

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By *ofusplusCouple
over a year ago

Limerick

"you can't go wrong with a bit of lesbian porn.

Oh Christ, with all that faux moaning, no thanks

great videos in that category. "

All depends on what you're into. Give me 2 guys at it any day. Mrs

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary

"you can't go wrong with a bit of lesbian porn.

Oh Christ, with all that faux moaning, no thanks

great videos in that category.

All depends on what you're into. Give me 2 guys at it any day. Mrs

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a variety of stuff in porn I'm into. could watch one thing this week and something totally diff next week

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By *indenMan
over a year ago

Naas which is South West of Dublin

"you can't go wrong with a bit of lesbian porn.

Oh Christ, with all that faux moaning, no thanks

What?…..

You mean that’s not real?…..

An FFS……

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"you can't go wrong with a bit of lesbian porn.

Oh Christ, with all that faux moaning, no thanks

What?…..

You mean that’s not real?…..

An FFS……

If you've seen the real thing you'd know the difference

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"you can't go wrong with a bit of lesbian porn.

Oh Christ, with all that faux moaning, no thanks

What?…..

You mean that’s not real?…..

An FFS……

If you've seen the real thing you'd know the difference

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what it's not real? Please tell me this can't be true?

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