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Couples into Cuckold but single males blocked?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

My conundrum of the day. I can’t figure this one out. Most Cuckold scenarios require a single male, am I missing something here? The wonders of Fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They get too many messages from single guys so put on the filters and they reach out to anyone that interests them. Lots of profiles use that method

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By *isAdventure69Woman
over a year ago

Hampshire

They might not be looking right now … it’s a way of stopping unwanted messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Awk it's potentially nothing more than another 'filter', Ohpee!

A way for them, or anyone, to search and reach out to people themselves directly rather than receive any and all unwanted messages!

Always make your profile work for you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most of these profiles usually have "if we want you we'll find you".

Good system in fairness.

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By *ixty eight plus oneWoman
over a year ago

Tramore

Also a lot of people don’t seem to know what cuckolding actually involves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Also a lot of people don’t seem to know what cuckolding actually involves"

"What do you mean? I'm here holding my cuck aint i?"

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By *asual777Man
over a year ago

i travel all over


"Also a lot of people don’t seem to know what cuckolding actually involves"

The full experience is a bit humiliating IMO. Mild cuckolding is where it’s at IMO

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By *xperimental CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Fab

Maybe there interested in cuckolding, but as the bull.

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By *al2001Man
over a year ago

kildare

If you were a true cuck you would love the humiliation of them blocking you

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By *adrarfjordr VoyeurMan
over a year ago

Waterford


"If you were a true cuck you would love the humiliation of them blocking you "

Yo be fair if he were a true cuck he wouldn't be trying to meet a couple

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By *adrarfjordr VoyeurMan
over a year ago

Waterford


"Also a lot of people don’t seem to know what cuckolding actually involves"

Have to agree. Just from these boards you can see they haven't a clue. It could lead to unfortunate misunderstandings

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By *exy Two-Shoes40Man
over a year ago

bolton

this is not copy on paste as some people suggest......this is just my opinion.....

I have real experience with this

What most guys don't understand is that it’s a THREE-WAY RELATIONSHIP. In fact it is more complex than a normal relationship because it involves THREE people, not two.

On the other hand if you want to learn something that could lead to a higher quality, more satisfying sex life than chasing 20-something year old, clingy, airheaded Being a Bull means the couple has already discussed what they want long before reaching out for someone like me

Like any sexual relationship, learning the needs and desires of the other person is a process.

cuckold/Hotwife play. Communication is key to getting a clear picture of the desired relationship

As a Bull, it’s important to realize that you’re dealing with a married couple with job(s), a family, social obligations, perhaps children,

Some of the hottest experiences I’ve been involved with have been spontaneous texts that resulted in late-night, last minute encounters (Horny? Can you come over? Or can I come see you?).

This can be a fun area for the Bull to participate, perhaps demanding that the wife refrain from fucking her husband before their dates, etc. The Bull may even get enjoyment from voicing his demands to the husband in the wife’s presence (i.e., I don’t want you fucking her until I do her Friday night).

Some couples prefer that the husband coordinate meetings between his wife and the Bull. Other husband’s grant their wife complete freedom, and she can call, email, text, etc. These are by far the easiest and hottest arrangements, as you can tease, flirt and engage the wife 1-on-1 with complete privacy.

Some couples only play together. This can range from MFM threesomes, to the cuckold husband merely being present and watching. Other couples prefer that the husband be on the premises, but not necessarily in the same room, such as waiting in the living room or in the guest bedroom, perhaps listening in, etc.

contacting the husband before the date and dictating what he wants the wife to wear for the date, and the husband will select those items for his wife. Some Hotwife-Bulls will call the husband while having sex and let him listen in, or videotape themselves having sex so the wife can show it to the cuckold-husband later.

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork


"Also a lot of people don’t seem to know what cuckolding actually involves

The full experience is a bit humiliating IMO. Mild cuckolding is where it’s at IMO "

The humiliation is required for it to be cuckolding.

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By *ocketman99Man
over a year ago

fermanagh

Very interesting and informative. I think you have thought of everything

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By *ickheadcuntCouple
over a year ago

Cork Ireland


"this is not copy on paste as some people suggest......this is just my opinion.....

I have real experience with this

What most guys don't understand is that it’s a THREE-WAY RELATIONSHIP. In fact it is more complex than a normal relationship because it involves THREE people, not two.

On the other hand if you want to learn something that could lead to a higher quality, more satisfying sex life than chasing 20-something year old, clingy, airheaded Being a Bull means the couple has already discussed what they want long before reaching out for someone like me

Like any sexual relationship, learning the needs and desires of the other person is a process.

cuckold/Hotwife play. Communication is key to getting a clear picture of the desired relationship

As a Bull, it’s important to realize that you’re dealing with a married couple with job(s), a family, social obligations, perhaps children,

Some of the hottest experiences I’ve been involved with have been spontaneous texts that resulted in late-night, last minute encounters (Horny? Can you come over? Or can I come see you?).

This can be a fun area for the Bull to participate, perhaps demanding that the wife refrain from fucking her husband before their dates, etc. The Bull may even get enjoyment from voicing his demands to the husband in the wife’s presence (i.e., I don’t want you fucking her until I do her Friday night).

Some couples prefer that the husband coordinate meetings between his wife and the Bull. Other husband’s grant their wife complete freedom, and she can call, email, text, etc. These are by far the easiest and hottest arrangements, as you can tease, flirt and engage the wife 1-on-1 with complete privacy.

Some couples only play together. This can range from MFM threesomes, to the cuckold husband merely being present and watching. Other couples prefer that the husband be on the premises, but not necessarily in the same room, such as waiting in the living room or in the guest bedroom, perhaps listening in, etc.

contacting the husband before the date and dictating what he wants the wife to wear for the date, and the husband will select those items for his wife. Some Hotwife-Bulls will call the husband while having sex and let him listen in, or videotape themselves having sex so the wife can show it to the cuckold-husband later."

We very much don't like the work "bull" in this setting. If we want a guy or girl for a threesome that's just it we have no interest in anyone being over either of us.

We both have sat back and watched each other fucking over people and love it.

Guess my point is everyone sees it differently

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By *ickheadcuntCouple
over a year ago

Cork Ireland


"My conundrum of the day. I can’t figure this one out. Most Cuckold scenarios require a single male, am I missing something here? The wonders of Fab "

But yeah to answer your question its because we will get 100+ messages from guys. We will entertain when we want

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By *adrarfjordr VoyeurMan
over a year ago

Waterford


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We very much don't like the work "bull" in this setting. If we want a guy or girl for a threesome that's just it we have no interest in anyone being over either of us.

We both have sat back and watched each other fucking over people and love it.

Guess my point is everyone sees it differently "

This proves the point, people don't understand what cuckolding means.

I'm not arguing against your preferences in fact what you described sounds great to me but it is not a cuckold situation. The humiliation element is essential to cuckolding without it it's just a threesome or voyeurism

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By *ickheadcuntCouple
over a year ago

Cork Ireland


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We very much don't like the work "bull" in this setting. If we want a guy or girl for a threesome that's just it we have no interest in anyone being over either of us.

We both have sat back and watched each other fucking over people and love it.

Guess my point is everyone sees it differently

This proves the point, people don't understand what cuckolding means.

I'm not arguing against your preferences in fact what you described sounds great to me but it is not a cuckold situation. The humiliation element is essential to cuckolding without it it's just a threesome or voyeurism"

I'd have to disagree with humiliation part I don't believe its essential but yeah whatever floats your boat

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By *ixty eight plus oneWoman
over a year ago

Tramore

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By *ixty eight plus oneWoman
over a year ago

Tramore


"

We very much don't like the work "bull" in this setting. If we want a guy or girl for a threesome that's just it we have no interest in anyone being over either of us.

We both have sat back and watched each other fucking over people and love it.

Guess my point is everyone sees it differently

This proves the point, people don't understand what cuckolding means.

I'm not arguing against your preferences in fact what you described sounds great to me but it is not a cuckold situation. The humiliation element is essential to cuckolding without it it's just a threesome or voyeurism

I'd have to disagree with humiliation part I don't believe its essential but yeah whatever floats your boat "

Someone having sex with your wife/partner in front of you is not cuckholding

Watching them having sex while one or both humiliate you is. It’s the definition not a matter likes/dislikes

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By *adrarfjordr VoyeurMan
over a year ago

Waterford


"

We very much don't like the work "bull" in this setting. If we want a guy or girl for a threesome that's just it we have no interest in anyone being over either of us.

We both have sat back and watched each other fucking over people and love it.

Guess my point is everyone sees it differently

This proves the point, people don't understand what cuckolding means.

I'm not arguing against your preferences in fact what you described sounds great to me but it is not a cuckold situation. The humiliation element is essential to cuckolding without it it's just a threesome or voyeurism

I'd have to disagree with humiliation part I don't believe its essential but yeah whatever floats your boat "

It doesn't really float my boat actually. I don't want to be humiliated and I don't particularly want to humiliate anyone.

When I said it was essential I was talking about the definition of the act itself.

The whole point of Cuckolding is the humiliation element without that what you are doing is not Cuckolding

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By *ickheadcuntCouple
over a year ago

Cork Ireland

Have tried putting cuckold in Google about 15 times now and humiliation doesn't come up.

Not disputing guys just always taught humiliation was a completely different thing

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By *dfabMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne

Perhaps this helps - https://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=Cuckold&utm_source=search-action

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By *ixty eight plus oneWoman
over a year ago

Tramore


"Have tried putting cuckold in Google about 15 times now and humiliation doesn't come up.

Not disputing guys just always taught humiliation was a completely different thing "

Really? I tried and It was the first thing that popped up for me.

The term originally referred to a guy having sex with someones wife which of course was one of the most humiliating things you could possibly do to them (apart from having sex with him possibly) Leading to the cockold being disgraced and look down upon in society until he killed the wife and possibly the perpetrator.

Humiliation is of course completely a thing in it’s own right it doesn’t need more that two people and doesn’t even need to involve sex but that’s a story for another day

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