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By *lippery-when-wet-180 OP Woman
over a year ago

South Dub

Why is it different for attached females on fab to attached males on here? Men get such a bad rep, why is it ok for the women but not for men? Genuinely curious to why there’s such a divide

I’m not bashing anyone here just totally curious

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By *3nsesMan
over a year ago

Dublin

Because a lot of men just really want the ride so they are far more willing to over look a woman being attached.

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary

men are different to women In many many one. it's a fantasy for alot of men to have sex with a married woman.

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary

"men are different to women In many many one. it's a fantasy for alot of men to have sex with a married woman. "
ways.

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

I could think of an endless list of reasons but the most obvious ones are:

-Ratio men to women

-Getting a kick out of fucking someone's partner

- just couldn't be arsed

- more openminded or tolerant

- she's got lovely tits

- pussy power

Etc.

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By *hilaboutMan
over a year ago

kilkenny

Look hey it is what it is

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By *homasxxx07Man
over a year ago

dublin

The reason why it’s ok for women and not men in my opinion,is because in society if a woman is sexual deprived it’s considered a real shame that she can’t have amazing sex and for fill her erotic desires so she looks elsewhere like she’s almost suppressed and no one will bat an eyelid as for men they are considered filthy dogs for looking for sex outside there relationship,

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By *angero3aMan
over a year ago

swords

yes sex with a married woman always big turn on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it is the different attitudes to cheating and the collateral damage it causes.

In saying that I am not saying all men or all women for that matter fit into tidy little boxes.

Definitely women dont want to be a part of hurting another woman....

Whereas guys possibly think "sure she'll get it somewhere else if I don't do it".

Or maybe it could be the direction the wind is blowing on a certain night

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why is it different for attached females on fab to attached males on here? Men get such a bad rep, why is it ok for the women but not for men? Genuinely curious to why there’s such a divide

I’m not bashing anyone here just totally curious

I am happily attached but without a sex life. Also I am bi. I am not only looking for the ride, I genuinely want to make like minded friends who are on the same wavelength. I am not cheating, the wife has no interest and she doesn't want to know the details. Once I don't bring any one home she's ok with it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because a lot of men just really want the ride so they are far more willing to over look a woman being attached. "

This for many, while for others it's a kind of one-up competitive thing to fuck another man's woman.

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By *affa31Woman
over a year ago

Galway

Because a lot of people don’t want to lose their chance of a ride by being as judgey towards attached women as they are towards attached men.

Good old fab double standards at play as per.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because it's currently fashionable to blame everything on toxic masculinity.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both men and women are equally capable of cheating. People cheat for a myriad of reasons mostly because they are lonely and horny and trapped in a loveless and sexless marriage/relationship, so I don't think there is anything to be gained by demonising them. Unfortunately there will always be literally minded judgemental people who just love to take the take the high moral ground.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Both men and women are equally capable of cheating. People cheat for a myriad of reasons mostly because they are lonely and horny and trapped in a loveless and sexless marriage/relationship, so I don't think there is anything to be gained by demonising them. Unfortunately there will always be literally minded judgemental people who just love to take the take the high moral ground.

Well said, this is very true

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By *issusWoman
over a year ago

Belfast

Personally I disapprove of all types of cheaters no matter if they're male, female or identify as a cupboard.

My guess why attached women have it easier is because men generally just pass it as "mmmmmmmm horny housewife" or "mmmmmmmmm danger"

Those types of men make me cringe just as much as cheaters themselves do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I blame the inventor of monogamy

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By *3nsesMan
over a year ago

Dublin

Trapped in a loveless/sexless marriage.

of course, I forgot seperation and divorce are illegal. Pull the other one!

People do cheat for a myriad of reason. Often because they are weak and selfish. I don't think there is anything to be gained by pretending anything different. But there will always be people who think they can do whatever they want with no consequences.

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By *lippery-when-wet-180 OP Woman
over a year ago

South Dub

I do know there are a lot of people who frown on people stepping outside the marriage. Just seems one sided like the men get bashed and called names but the women are fine to go ahead!

I don’t have issues with anyone doing anything they choose to do with their lives. Was just something I had been made more aware of lately

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By *issusWoman
over a year ago

Belfast

"I do know there are a lot of people who frown on people stepping outside the marriage. Just seems one sided like the men get bashed and called names but the women are fine to go ahead!

I don’t have issues with anyone doing anything they choose to do with their lives. Was just something I had been made more aware of lately

I feel like it's usually the women who don't like cheating people, so naturally men get bashed, while men don't mind it that much so women don't get bashed as much.

As a person who has been cheated on in a worst possible way- I wouldn't wish it on my worst enemy, so can't blame me for refusing to be a part of it.

Think many can agree with my train of thought simply due to their own life changing experiences.

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By *laveishMan
over a year ago

kildare

"I do know there are a lot of people who frown on people stepping outside the marriage. Just seems one sided like the men get bashed and called names but the women are fine to go ahead!

I don’t have issues with anyone doing anything they choose to do with their lives. Was just something I had been made more aware of lately

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By *lippery-when-wet-180 OP Woman
over a year ago

South Dub

"I do know there are a lot of people who frown on people stepping outside the marriage. Just seems one sided like the men get bashed and called names but the women are fine to go ahead!

I don’t have issues with anyone doing anything they choose to do with their lives. Was just something I had been made more aware of lately

I feel like it's usually the women who don't like cheating people, so naturally men get bashed, while men don't mind it that much so women don't get bashed as much.

As a person who has been cheated on in a worst possible way- I wouldn't wish it on my worst enemy, so can't blame me for refusing to be a part of it.

Think many can agree with my train of thought simply due to their own life changing experiences.

I have been cheated on too I’ve also been in a controlling relationship. I don’t want to be apart of it but is also their decision what they do with their lives. We on here have no clue what is happening in their home life

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By *ilverfox74Man
over a year ago

dublin offaly

A couple of reasons why men get badged and women don’t.

Men don’t want to rock the boat with their chances of a meet so they kept quiet.

It’s usually the same people that bash men in this the whole time even though some of them are with married men playing alone snd they know it. Men jump on the band wagon then to make themselves look good.

Basically men will keep their mouths shut about married women as it’s none or their business where as some women will won’t.

And finally not many women will say public they are married as men will say it to be up front about it so women can make up their mind in it.

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

I believe cheating is cowardly and wrong. Same goes for men and women who cheat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a very long and fantastic debate about this with a previous fabber,bottom line was women reach an age of realization that the need to fuck and be fucked regardless of any situation had arrived, no more wasting time, and most men were happy to oblige...there was no judgement on wether a guy was worse or a lady was worse for doing so regardless of any potential fallout , both were doing it for their own personal reasons, and ships that pass in the night attitude, not only here in this joint but in real life..the clock was ticking...get laid or don't ..

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

"I had a very long and fantastic debate about this with a previous fabber,bottom line was women reach an age of realization that the need to fuck and be fucked regardless of any situation had arrived, no more wasting time, and most men were happy to oblige...there was no judgement on wether a guy was worse or a lady was worse for doing so regardless of any potential fallout , both were doing it for their own personal reasons, and ships that pass in the night attitude, not only here in this joint but in real life..the clock was ticking...get laid or don't .."

Bullshit. Women are in control of their own bodies and are able to choose not to have sex. It's not some unstoppable thing. It's a choice, just like for men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because a lot of people don’t want to lose their chance of a ride by being as judgey towards attached women as they are towards attached men.

Good old fab double standards at play as per. "

No way!! There's no such thing as double standards here. That's outrageous !!! Equality for all remember

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By *affa31Woman
over a year ago

Galway

"Because a lot of people don’t want to lose their chance of a ride by being as judgey towards attached women as they are towards attached men.

Good old fab double standards at play as per.

No way!! There's no such thing as double standards here. That's outrageous !!! Equality for all remember"

My sincere apologies, I take it all back

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am married and love my wife very much and maybe ye find that strange but i do

Only here because i have a sexless life because of my wifes health at times

I know its not right but just at times i feel alone and just need the feel and touch of someone

If only for a few hrs now and then

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By *eijaWoman
over a year ago

City Centre

I certainly don't approve of either men or women cheating...cheating is cheating.

I wouldn't get involved with anyone playing without their partner's consent. That is my perogative.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As individuals we are all different and we all have the ability to chat and choose, no one on fab(my opinion) has the right to stand in judgement over anyone else.

The human individual is a complex creature, seeking thrill and desire at a time they feel they may be coming up short.

I would not disrespect anyone, we all have a reason to be here, how about chatting, being honest and if common ground exists proceed in a most respectful and exciting way, We all need happy!!

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By *oft_sexy_sweetWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

"Why is it different for attached females on fab to attached males on here? Men get such a bad rep, why is it ok for the women but not for men? Genuinely curious to why there’s such a divide

I’m not bashing anyone here just totally curious

It's not ok - cheating is shitty no matter who's doing it. As other posters have said, women don't get bashed as much because the men have less of an issue with it - and perhaps because I rarely see a thread or post from a cheating woman in the forum outlining the reasons that it's OK for her to be cheating. Don't know whether that's a lack of entitlement, or just a higher level of self awareness!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am married and love my wife very much and maybe ye find that strange but i do

Only here because i have a sexless life because of my wifes health at times

I know its not right but just at times i feel alone and just need the feel and touch of someone

If only for a few hrs now and then

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By *shornMan
over a year ago

Very narrow minded view of men collectively ??

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