FabSwingers.com forum: Won't meet smokers

By *orny unicorns OP Couple
over a year ago

Tipperary

Just wanting to rant about not meeting smokers I don't really get it.we both smoke (clearly states on profile)we appreciate ppl don't want to meet smokers but why not?are smokers really that bad to non smokers?like after a fag it's quite easy to pop a mint or gum.so long as we aren't blowing stale smoke in your face or stinking like we've just licked an ashtray are we really that much of a social outcast?rant over phew...

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By *eterdunneMan
over a year ago

leixlip

In a word, yes. It is that bad to some. It is what it is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s more the smell and taste for me as a non smoker u would need to not smoke for a few hours before as it hangs on your clothes and hair .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely someone came refrain from smoking for an hour before and for the duration of a meet ? Can't want one that badly that you're thinking about them while buried up to your

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By *indenMan
over a year ago

Naas which is South West of Dublin

I’m a smoker, I have it on my profile and I’d spoken about it in my bio and I appreciate people having a preference and a choice and I respect that, but….

There is no options for smoking like there is for drinking, social, occasional etc, it’s just yes or no.

I’m not a big smoker, I wouldn’t like to think it defines me, I do it at the moment because I want to when I feel like it but it’s not something I need to do, but I realise saying I am is limiting my interaction with other people here, but I’m just being honest.

I could have said I’m a non smoker and then just don’t smoke if I’m meeting someone who won’t meet smokers, it wouldn’t bother me for the duration of a meet or in the time leading up to it.

Having said all that I realise now that I probably should do that, say I don’t smoke and just don’t if I have a meeting planned……

And then the plan falls into place, so many meets I hardly have a chance to smoke between them…..

Come on people, help a lad out here, it’s a matter of health, give me the best reason ever to quit….

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By *adyandthetramp20Couple
over a year ago

carry on camping

I'm a smoker but I do get it to an extent. I feel like throwing up on people who wear strong perfume like poison, opium, anything with vanilla and lots of other ones too. I don't rule people out for it though because if I did I'd be missing out on some amazing people and not just for play either. Each to their own though

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By *oreignaffairKKMan
over a year ago

Between CW and KK

"Just wanting to rant about not meeting smokers I don't really get it.we both smoke (clearly states on profile)we appreciate ppl don't want to meet smokers but why not?are smokers really that bad to non smokers?like after a fag it's quite easy to pop a mint or gum.so long as we aren't blowing stale smoke in your face or stinking like we've just licked an ashtray are we really that much of a social outcast?rant over phew..."

A mint/gum doesn't help, not even a half bottle of Listerine is able to remove the traces of smoke smell/flavour. It's not about being picky, but some people can stand it, some not.

But it's just one small piece of personal hygiene. Non-smokers can make serious mistakes too.

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By *safunwituMan
over a year ago

Enniscorthy

There is always plenty of Smokers here like myself that are more then happy to meet other Smokers.

I do get why some don't like meeting Smokers and have missed out on some meets because of smoking. Wish I could give them up, at times.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

It's a preference like many other things

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By *xperimental CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Fab

Would you meet a but guy, in a couple.

If he took the cock out of his mouth and put a mint in?

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By *xperimental CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Fab

"It's a preference like many other things"

Exactly.

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

Neither gum nor mint/mouthwash can get rid of the taste and smell. I remember kissing a non-smoking girl in a threesome, and I could taste that the other guy was a smoker, just from the taste of her mouth.. and he had used a mouthwash before kissing her.

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By *irdyxWoman
over a year ago

dublin/ Birmingham

Having been a smoker for years we both gave up about 3 years ago .we use to socially smoke when we went but with lockdown have completely given up . For me now the smell off a cigarette or a smoke makes me feel a bit sick .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s like everything here, personal choices

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

It's a preference more than anything. I can still smell smoke off someone's breath and taste it when I kiss them even if they have had a mint or washed their mouth out after having a cigarette .It's just not something I enjoy .It's not making anyone out to be an outcast I don't think anyhow .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't meet smokers or junkies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't meet smokers or junkies

I don't meet stalkers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't meet smokers or junkies

I don't meet stalkers

I see you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't meet smokers or junkies

I don't meet stalkers

I see you

You wish

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't meet smokers or junkies

I don't meet stalkers

I see you

You wish

You're Smokinnnn

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A mint/gum doesn't help, not even a half bottle of Listerine is able to remove the traces of smoke smell/flavour. It's not about being picky, but some people can stand it, some not.

But it's just one small piece of personal hygiene. Non-smokers can make serious mistakes too. "

I agree. I am a smoker, and I have known some really smelly smokers! I'd like to think I don't reek, but I can only imagine to a non smoker that I probably do

I'd prefer to meet a guy who smokes anyway.

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By *laveishMan
over a year ago

kildare

Getting tougher for us smokes!!

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By *ouple 0073Couple
over a year ago

donegal

Smokers unite

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

Genuinely kissed someone about a year ago that told me they were a non smoker.

My lips felt burned afterwards as they had had a cigarette and masked the smell

Im off them 18 yrs and can't stand the smell off my clothes and the other person

It's just a preference

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By *ogladyWoman
over a year ago

The bog

Im a smoker have it on my profile that I'm one so don't message me if ya ya don't like smokers simple as..we all have our preferences..

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By *laveishMan
over a year ago

kildare

"Im a smoker have it on my profile that I'm one so don't message me if ya ya don't like smokers simple as..we all have our preferences.."

Another hot smoker. Maybe all is not lost

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By *aid backMan
over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out

Would you meet a heroin addict ? Or do do you have a preference to not meet heroin addicts ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't meet smokers or junkies

I don't meet stalkers

I'd invite them in for a cuppa. It must get cold and uncomfortable hiding in the bushes

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By *ogladyWoman
over a year ago

The bog

"Im a smoker have it on my profile that I'm one so don't message me if ya ya don't like smokers simple as..we all have our preferences..

Another hot smoker. Maybe all is not lost

Not yet us smoker's May stick together..ha ha.

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By *ogladyWoman
over a year ago

The bog

Would you meet a heroin addict ? Or do do you have a preference to not meet heroin addicts ?"

Ah here there is a big difference between a smoker and a herion additct

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By *laveishMan
over a year ago

kildare

"Im a smoker have it on my profile that I'm one so don't message me if ya ya don't like smokers simple as..we all have our preferences..

Another hot smoker. Maybe all is not lost

Not yet us smoker's May stick together..ha ha."

Am all for sticking together!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to hate kissing smokers it was yucky.

Then I became one

Sorry its a turn off for some for sure and I get it.

Also serious smoking can cause receding gums which can contribute to poor mouth hygiene.

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By *indenMan
over a year ago

Naas which is South West of Dublin

What if someone smoked a pipe?

Shur doesn’t everyone love the smell of a pipe?

Or a cigar?

Didn’t some of the James Bond lads smoke cigars?

Those lads are cool, I bet the ladies reply to all of their massages even if he had “smoker” ticked on his profile……..

Well I’ve been told I look like the budget version of Daniel Craig, kinda like a 007+/-…….

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No prob with smokers. Wouldn't want to be married to one but for a few hours as long as dental hygiene is good is ok.

I might just add cigarettes make me very nauseous so nothing personal

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By *lippery-when-wet-180Woman
over a year ago

South Dub

I smoked for 20yrs, I have won’t meet smokers because of the smell and taste when kissing. Don’t know if I’m hyper sensitive to it now cause I did smoke!! I don’t mind if someone smokes after we’ve been together but defo not before it’s all I can taste even after mints or brushing teeth!

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By *elljoe 2Man
over a year ago

cork

will just have to use my bong then!

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By *NawtyCplCouple
over a year ago

Around and about

At least your honest about it, we met a 'non smoker' for an outdoor coffee who showed up puffing on a cigarette! Instant no from then on for 2 reasons one he was a smoker and 2 he lied about it on his profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a person's choice to smoke, it's our choice not to meet people who make that choice, I really don't see what the issue is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I stopped smoking 17 years ago but I don't mind smokers. Personal hygiene is all that's important to me. It's the other person's choice if they smoke. If you don't like it don't meet.

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By *arrylanesMan
over a year ago

coleraine

Sperm doesn't taste good when you smoke!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aye, if Bradley Cooper or Tom Hardy showed up smoking on a cigarette I'm sure some of the ladies who don't want smokers would be lining up to smoke on their dicks.......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've no problems meeting smokers, I just make it absolutely clear that smoking isn't allowed in my home or my car.

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By *ianca_GiadaTV/TS
over a year ago

Dublin

Breathing in smoke after spending hours in a room with smokers is not fun , then even after the next day when uv left , you can still get the horrible of your clothes and hair for days

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By *ogladyWoman
over a year ago

The bog

"Breathing in smoke after spending hours in a room with smokers is not fun , then even after the next day when uv left , you can still get the horrible of your clothes and hair for days "

Why do ya go Into to a room with them then ..u made that choice so that's not the smokers fault..

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By *orny unicorns OP Couple
over a year ago

Tipperary

I think I've really stured a mixed reaction but how's ever as I said in the op twas just a rant

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By *oft_sexy_sweetWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

"Sperm doesn't taste good when you smoke!"

This!! Smokers cum is horrible tasting.

Also, smokers always smell of smoking regardless of mints or perfume or anything else. It seeps out of their pores.

Both my parents smoked when I was a child, I grew up smelling of smoke against my will, I absolutely detest it.

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By *ouple 0073Couple
over a year ago

donegal

"Aye, if Bradley Cooper or Tom Hardy showed up smoking on a cigarette I'm sure some of the ladies who don't want smokers would be lining up to smoke on their dicks.......

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... Brilliant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Each to their own and all that I kinda enjoy it...

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By *Sparkie.Man
over a year ago

Ratoath

Smoking is bad for you....very bad actually, kinda baffles me why people actually smoke in the first place, just quit them, you'll look younger, smell better get more meets and live longer....simples folks

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By *onesome swingerMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Live and let live I say. It is very much a non smoker's perogative not to meet smokers or vapours if that is their choice. Though I am a smoker I don't smell like a used ashtray, I don't have nicotined stained fingers or teeth and I make every effort to keep me free of smelling as if I have just smoked a cigarette. Let's just respect people's choices of what they will or will not accept without ridicule.

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By *orny unicorns OP Couple
over a year ago

Tipperary

"Smoking is bad for you....very bad actually, kinda baffles me why people actually smoke in the first place, just quit them, you'll look younger, smell better get more meets and live longer....simples folks"

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By *oft_sexy_sweetWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

"Live and let live I say. It is very much a non smoker's perogative not to meet smokers or vapours if that is their choice. Though I am a smoker I don't smell like a used ashtray, I don't have nicotined stained fingers or teeth and I make every effort to keep me free of smelling as if I have just smoked a cigarette. Let's just respect people's choices of what they will or will not accept without ridicule."

This is honestly not a personal dig, but every smoker on earth thinks they don't smell like a smoker. Often they can't smell it themselves because they're used to it (and smoking damages your sense of smell).

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By *issusWoman
over a year ago

Belfast

I used to be a smoker and thought I could hide it.

Quit smoking 1,5 years ago and I now see how non smokers do get put off smokers.

Personally smoking people don't bother me in a slightest, but it doesn't mean that smell of smoke is very much there no matter how much chewing gum or mints are being used.

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By *onesome swingerMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I take on board what you are saying but my sense of smell, being a smoker is very good compared to some non smokers that I mix with.

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By *ogladyWoman
over a year ago

The bog

I'm a smoker don't have a proble getting meets have been told numberous of time I look younger than I am

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

I used to smoke and didn’t think it was a problem. It’s only when you stop, my dad had stopped smoking but started again recently he only has to walk past me and the smell is as strong and if he tries to have a crafty fag in the kitchen the smells lingers.

You can disguise as much as you want you can’t

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By *ind PaddyMan
over a year ago

South County Dublin

Hate the smell of smoke especially off clothes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have met O/P and they are a spotless and great smelling couple, people should worry more about smelly balls and fishy fannies than they do about people being smokers or not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a smoker don't have a proble getting meets have been told numberous of time I look younger than I am "

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By *indenMan
over a year ago

Naas which is South West of Dublin

What about Vapes, do they smell?

Genuine question.

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

"What about Vapes, do they smell?

Genuine question."

Usually a flavour is added to the liquid so it smells of that

Is there even a cigarette one as I thought they're all flavoured

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone has things they are fussy about. Personally in the past I've had people trying to hide the smell of smoke with chewing gum and sprays. I do not want to taste cigarettes when I kiss someone nor smell it off their clothes. I've tried giving smokers in the past a chance its not for me.

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