FabSwingers.com forum: Sex life

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So I am very late to the party here, I have only just watch Sex life on Netflix.

It got me thinking.

Does everyone have an ex they think of ? Like unfinished business, or what might have been? Maybe the fantasy is better than the reality.

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

No there is no ex of mine that I would want to have sex with again .They are exs for a reason .

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By *oxyvixen99Woman
over a year ago

Newtownabbey

Eurgh no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is the odd time where I find myself thinking “what if…”

But at the end of it all there are waaaaaay more days, even hours, where I think “no, my life good and I’m happy”.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its mostly physiological if you start to romantaise ex partners. Over time you forget about the bad things ie why u broke up but remember the good.

As many above has said normally there's a reason they are an ex and ud have to think long and hard about why u would ever think that would change.

Personally I try to live in the present so wouldn't fantasise over an ex, whats done is done!

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By *amson4DelilahCouple
over a year ago

ballina

I Thank God everyday for my exes.. one of whom may be a millionaire now but I would bored to death

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By *cottybear74Man
over a year ago

kilkenny

Ex for a reason

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By *razySexyCoolCorkWoman
over a year ago

Cork

Not an ex but there's a guy from my younger days that I think of as 'the one that got away'. This is 20 years ago though. He's just moved back to Ireland though so never say never

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very recently I crazily thought about going back to an ex…. The sex was always amazing but everything else wasn’t

Thankfully he quickly reminded me the reality of why I left him so I came to my senses.

So yes an ex is an ex for a very good reason - and should stay that way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As many have so finely put it, an ex is usually an ex for very valid reasons.

I've had lingering thoughts of exes and wanting to go back and make amends. But, the person I was when I was with them isn't the person that I am now, and any lessons I learned from how I messed up those relationships just stand to show me where not to go wrong next time out.

I still haven't seen Sex Life though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not really exes.

But one or 2 girls from my younger days that I should have spent more time with.

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By *ed_AliceWoman
over a year ago

Belfast

I have an ex that I was utterly infatuated with, even though the relationship was a disaster in so many ways. I still think of him wistfully once in a while. But I'd never get back with him. I've grown & changed, and I would hope he has as well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never seen the show. But I know the premise,of it. Some people have came across someone that they think about now and again.

The lucky few, have met people who have gave them memories and feelings that they will never forget or have again.

Other people might satisfy them but will never replace what they once had.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine have a habit of dying, so it's not an option

I get how you could be tempted back to a not necessarily great relationship if the sex was really good

Good sex is extremely hard to come by in my experience

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By *ind PaddyMan
over a year ago

South County Dublin

Any sex would do me

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By *adyandthetramp20Couple
over a year ago

carry on camping

"Mine have a habit of dying, so it's not an option

I get how you could be tempted back to a not necessarily great relationship if the sex was really good

Good sex is extremely hard to come by in my experience"

Omg mine too! I keep telling my hubby to behave or he'll be #7

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Mine have a habit of dying, so it's not an option

I get how you could be tempted back to a not necessarily great relationship if the sex was really good

Good sex is extremely hard to come by in my experience

Omg mine too! I keep telling my hubby to behave or he'll be #7

you're worse than me!

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By *al2001Man
over a year ago

kildare

I wouldnt have to fantasize too hard

Most of them are here on fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So I am very late to the party here, I have only just watch Sex life on Netflix.

It got me thinking.

Does everyone have an ex they think of ? Like unfinished business, or what might have been? Maybe the fantasy is better than the reality. "

Yes ,there is one in particular l always think of everyday ,l can't lie ,we met here and things went to a level we both never thought would.. ,clicked..sparked big time and everything was just absolutely phenomenal so yes l would have thoughts of her and all in a great way,why wouldn't l ?..she filled my soul and made me feel alive.

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By *adyandthetramp20Couple
over a year ago

carry on camping

"Mine have a habit of dying, so it's not an option

I get how you could be tempted back to a not necessarily great relationship if the sex was really good

Good sex is extremely hard to come by in my experience

Omg mine too! I keep telling my hubby to behave or he'll be #7

you're worse than me! "

The black widows

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By *dfabMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne

Just on episode 6 so don't say too much.

She's gorgeous!

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