FabSwingers.com mobile

Join us FREE, we're FREE to use

Web's largest swingers site since 2006.

Already registered?
Login here

Back to forum list
Back to Ireland

Automatic response

Jump to newest
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Does anyone think it would be a good idea for fab to have an automatic response to people you’re not interested in meeting up with? A polite no thanks. Not sure how it would work, could it be done? Might save a lot of hassle for some. Maybe it could also be used for people who are taking a break from meeting or just not on the site when you message them! Just a suggestion I’m putting forward to see if anyone thinks it’s a good idea. Thoughts please folks.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is that not worse than no response.

Ah sorry Incocknitohh but I/we are not interested in you. Yours 'sincerely', Fabs Algorithm xx

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think OP you need to forget about the responses you do not get and focus on the responses you do get.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *3nsesMan
over a year ago

Dublin

Don't think it would make a difference. You'd still have people whinging gabout people not having the "manners" or "respect" to respond in person to someone.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think OP you need to forget about the responses you do not get and focus on the responses you do get."

Your correct, just gauging the response to the idea. See if anyone thinks it’s worth doing, that all.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Why do so many people want the site to do all the work for them?

If you genuinely don't have the patience to engage with people and spend all your time analysing why things do and don't happen you'll never get anywhere.

Lack of replies to messages is a daily topic of discussion. It's always been the same and will continue to be that way so adding an extra button or filter is a bit like a belt and braces approach.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why do so many people want the site to do all the work for them?

If you genuinely don't have the patience to engage with people and spend all your time analysing why things do and don't happen you'll never get anywhere.

Lack of replies to messages is a daily topic of discussion. It's always been the same and will continue to be that way so adding an extra button or filter is a bit like a belt and braces approach."

Just putting the idea out there, so far it seems to be going down as well as ringing to renew your car insurance and getting put on hold. Would just lead to more frustration than anything else.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd have thought it was simple enough to deduce a lack of interest from the absence of a response.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *affa31Woman
over a year ago

Galway

It would be less useful than a limit on the amount of threads one person can start per day

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork


"Does anyone think it would be a good idea for fab to have an automatic response to people you’re not interested in meeting up with? A polite no thanks. Not sure how it would work, could it be done? Might save a lot of hassle for some. Maybe it could also be used for people who are taking a break from meeting or just not on the site when you message them! Just a suggestion I’m putting forward to see if anyone thinks it’s a good idea. Thoughts please folks. "

No

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ohng69Man
over a year ago

athenry


"It would be less useful than a limit on the amount of threads one person can start per day "
you have a good point there

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast


"It would be less useful than a limit on the amount of threads one person can start per day "

Or the amount of times one person can start the same thread.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does anyone think it would be a good idea for fab to have an automatic response to people you’re not interested in meeting up with? A polite no thanks. Not sure how it would work, could it be done? Might save a lot of hassle for some. Maybe it could also be used for people who are taking a break from meeting or just not on the site when you message them! Just a suggestion I’m putting forward to see if anyone thinks it’s a good idea. Thoughts please folks. "

No. The site FAQs already cover this. No response is a response. A response of no thank you.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It would be less useful than a limit on the amount of threads one person can start per day "

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think OP you need to forget about the responses you do not get and focus on the responses you do get."

The fab rules state no reply=not interested. I don't see how difficult that is to comprehend

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It would be less useful than a limit on the amount of threads one person can start per day

Or the amount of times one person can start the same thread. "

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *indenMan
over a year ago

Naas which is South West of Dublin

Or how about Fab automatically massage everyone who’s profile matches my requirements and vice versa?

Also people should be able to upload a calendar of their available dates that could be cross referenced with matching profiles and arrange a meet automatically, I can drive and accommodate so won’t always need to tick the “taxi and/or hotel booking required” function, but some might require this.

I’m off to the site feedback thread….

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

How about fab just goes 1 step further further leaves a verification saying that we think someone gives good oral and should be treated with respect

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does anyone think it would be a good idea for fab to have an automatic response to people you’re not interested in meeting up with? A polite no thanks. Not sure how it would work, could it be done? Might save a lot of hassle for some. Maybe it could also be used for people who are taking a break from meeting or just not on the site when you message them! Just a suggestion I’m putting forward to see if anyone thinks it’s a good idea. Thoughts please folks. "

Wow you post a lot.

Maybe that's why people aren't replying? Nobody wants to end up the subject of a thread.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *asual777Man
over a year ago

i travel all over


"Does anyone think it would be a good idea for fab to have an automatic response to people you’re not interested in meeting up with? A polite no thanks. Not sure how it would work, could it be done? Might save a lot of hassle for some. Maybe it could also be used for people who are taking a break from meeting or just not on the site when you message them! Just a suggestion I’m putting forward to see if anyone thinks it’s a good idea. Thoughts please folks.

Wow you post a lot.

Maybe that's why people aren't replying? Nobody wants to end up the subject of a thread."

I do worry about that sometimes but actually being active on the forum is generally a good thing for generating meets . You can post about general things and not specific people and people get a sense of what kind of person you are I guess and some will like you and some won’t

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Does anyone think it would be a good idea for fab to have an automatic response to people you’re not interested in meeting up with? A polite no thanks. Not sure how it would work, could it be done? Might save a lot of hassle for some. Maybe it could also be used for people who are taking a break from meeting or just not on the site when you message them! Just a suggestion I’m putting forward to see if anyone thinks it’s a good idea. Thoughts please folks.

Wow you post a lot.

Maybe that's why people aren't replying? Nobody wants to end up the subject of a thread."

What other way could I get you to notice me IsserleyJones.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just wondering op when you out at night say in a pub or nightclub and approach a woman, get a polite hello but she doesn't engage in conversation do you take a walk around and come back and try again, and again and again.

My advice is send a message if who are what the couple or female is looking for, make a note on their profile you sent a message, than delete it from your sent messages and next time you go to send a message you will see your note. You know than they didn't reply, than block so don't need to worry about it.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *affa31Woman
over a year ago

Galway

So I noticed yesterday that if you go to message a person who hasn’t replied to your last message, fab has a helpful reminder of this. Makes me wonder even more why people continue to send repeat messages without a reply when there’s an auto message reminding you that the person doesn’t appear to be interested.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So I noticed yesterday that if you go to message a person who hasn’t replied to your last message, fab has a helpful reminder of this. Makes me wonder even more why people continue to send repeat messages without a reply when there’s an auto message reminding you that the person doesn’t appear to be interested. "

Some people don’t even read their messages, considering I don’t read all of mine. Get messages from guys, not interested in that and never will be. Some I’ve replied to simply saying no thanks, then the old verbal starts. Blocked straight away, clearly they’ve not read my profile.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So I noticed yesterday that if you go to message a person who hasn’t replied to your last message, fab has a helpful reminder of this. Makes me wonder even more why people continue to send repeat messages without a reply when there’s an auto message reminding you that the person doesn’t appear to be interested.

Some people don’t even read their messages, considering I don’t read all of mine. Get messages from guys, not interested in that and never will be. Some I’ve replied to simply saying no thanks, then the old verbal starts. Blocked straight away, clearly they’ve not read my profile. "

How do you know they haven't read it? I often get a message it doesn't suit to reply so I mark it unread to come back too.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *phrodite72Woman
over a year ago

dublin/galway


"So I noticed yesterday that if you go to message a person who hasn’t replied to your last message, fab has a helpful reminder of this. Makes me wonder even more why people continue to send repeat messages without a reply when there’s an auto message reminding you that the person doesn’t appear to be interested.

Some people don’t even read their messages, considering I don’t read all of mine. Get messages from guys, not interested in that and never will be. Some I’ve replied to simply saying no thanks, then the old verbal starts. Blocked straight away, clearly they’ve not read my profile.

How do you know they haven't read it? I often get a message it doesn't suit to reply so I mark it unread to come back too.

"

I do this too

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *affa31Woman
over a year ago

Galway


"So I noticed yesterday that if you go to message a person who hasn’t replied to your last message, fab has a helpful reminder of this. Makes me wonder even more why people continue to send repeat messages without a reply when there’s an auto message reminding you that the person doesn’t appear to be interested.

Some people don’t even read their messages, considering I don’t read all of mine. Get messages from guys, not interested in that and never will be. Some I’ve replied to simply saying no thanks, then the old verbal starts. Blocked straight away, clearly they’ve not read my profile.

How do you know they haven't read it? I often get a message it doesn't suit to reply so I mark it unread to come back too.

I do this too"

Yup I do this all the time. The only problem is I tend to forget to come back and reply and then the message is lost in the ether

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *phrodite72Woman
over a year ago

dublin/galway


"So I noticed yesterday that if you go to message a person who hasn’t replied to your last message, fab has a helpful reminder of this. Makes me wonder even more why people continue to send repeat messages without a reply when there’s an auto message reminding you that the person doesn’t appear to be interested.

Some people don’t even read their messages, considering I don’t read all of mine. Get messages from guys, not interested in that and never will be. Some I’ve replied to simply saying no thanks, then the old verbal starts. Blocked straight away, clearly they’ve not read my profile.

How do you know they haven't read it? I often get a message it doesn't suit to reply so I mark it unread to come back too.

I do this too

Yup I do this all the time. The only problem is I tend to forget to come back and reply and then the message is lost in the ether "

Lol this too

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for replying folks.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *indenMan
over a year ago

Naas which is South West of Dublin


"So I noticed yesterday that if you go to message a person who hasn’t replied to your last message, fab has a helpful reminder of this. Makes me wonder even more why people continue to send repeat messages without a reply when there’s an auto message reminding you that the person doesn’t appear to be interested.

Some people don’t even read their messages, considering I don’t read all of mine. Get messages from guys, not interested in that and never will be. Some I’ve replied to simply saying no thanks, then the old verbal starts. Blocked straight away, clearly they’ve not read my profile. "

Hang on, weren’t you wondering why women don’t reply sometimes?

And yet according to own experience “Get messages from guys, not interested in that and never will be. Some I’ve replied to simply saying no thanks, then the old verbal starts.”, you’re aware of the problems that occur when people reply to profiles they’re not interested in, “the old verbals start.”……

I’m confused…..

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *affa31Woman
over a year ago

Galway


"So I noticed yesterday that if you go to message a person who hasn’t replied to your last message, fab has a helpful reminder of this. Makes me wonder even more why people continue to send repeat messages without a reply when there’s an auto message reminding you that the person doesn’t appear to be interested.

Some people don’t even read their messages, considering I don’t read all of mine. Get messages from guys, not interested in that and never will be. Some I’ve replied to simply saying no thanks, then the old verbal starts. Blocked straight away, clearly they’ve not read my profile.

Hang on, weren’t you wondering why women don’t reply sometimes?

And yet according to own experience “Get messages from guys, not interested in that and never will be. Some I’ve replied to simply saying no thanks, then the old verbal starts.”, you’re aware of the problems that occur when people reply to profiles they’re not interested in, “the old verbals start.”……

I’m confused….. "

Sure the man has forum diarrhoea! I don’t think he’s asking questions for any reason than to try get noticed. Unfortunately for him, I’m not sure the attention he’s getting is overly positive.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *phrodite72Woman
over a year ago

dublin/galway


"So I noticed yesterday that if you go to message a person who hasn’t replied to your last message, fab has a helpful reminder of this. Makes me wonder even more why people continue to send repeat messages without a reply when there’s an auto message reminding you that the person doesn’t appear to be interested.

Some people don’t even read their messages, considering I don’t read all of mine. Get messages from guys, not interested in that and never will be. Some I’ve replied to simply saying no thanks, then the old verbal starts. Blocked straight away, clearly they’ve not read my profile.

Hang on, weren’t you wondering why women don’t reply sometimes?

And yet according to own experience “Get messages from guys, not interested in that and never will be. Some I’ve replied to simply saying no thanks, then the old verbal starts.”, you’re aware of the problems that occur when people reply to profiles they’re not interested in, “the old verbals start.”……

I’m confused…..

Sure the man has forum diarrhoea! I don’t think he’s asking questions for any reason than to try get noticed. Unfortunately for him, I’m not sure the attention he’s getting is overly positive. "

Lol.i luv u girl spot on as always

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *eijaWoman
over a year ago

City Centre

I'm nearly sure Fab had automated responses when it first started the site years ago

I was not a fan.I would rather no response.

B x

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 
 

By *oft_sexy_sweetWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

Absolutely not, what a buzzkill. Imagine logging on and being like 'omg I have ten messages' and they're all essentially rejection spam. No thanks!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
Post new Message to Thread
back to top