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By *asual777 OP   Man
over a year ago

i travel all over

Do you think fab has changed as a result of the pandemic ? Are there many members whose post pandemic behaviour seems very different to how it was before ? Keep it anonymous obviously .

What about you ? Is your approach different ? Is it because you’re still cautious , or the opposite , trying to make up for lost time ? or grateful for that period of reflection which allowed you to evaluate what you really want out of here and how you will go about having your needs met?

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By *asual777 OP   Man
over a year ago

i travel all over

Title should say ‘fab’s new normal’

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By *lderandbolderMan
over a year ago

clonakilty

Bit slower in meeting but still want the same thing

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

It's the same normal it has always been for me but it has definitely changed some people's priorities and attitudes.

As far as pace goes nothing has changed as I've always been selective in who I meet and continue to be so and a little 18 month blip is nothing out of the ordinary.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No difference in my approach tbh few and far between meets.

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

Post pandemic? It's not over yet.

Just doing repeat meets, but that could suddenly change.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think much has changed for us other than there being an additional filter that didn't exist pre-pandemic.

Also, to an extent, it has perhaps crystallised what we want from Fab or perhaps, more accurately, from this journey of sexual exploration in general. Of course this may have occurred regardless and the timing is entirely coincidental.

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By *asual777 OP   Man
over a year ago

i travel all over


"Post pandemic? It's not over yet.

Just doing repeat meets, but that could suddenly change."

Yes to clarify I didn’t mean in terms of it being over , I meant in terms of restrictions stopping meets previously and the yo yoing in and out of lockdown which appears to be resolving

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By *hilaboutMan
over a year ago

kilkenny

Actually think it's got better got to engage with some really nice people over lockdown and now things looking up to maybe actually meet ..

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By *issusWoman
over a year ago

Belfast

Noticed a huge change in guys attitude. Get many more thirsty cringy wanna fuck messages from all newbies who must have joined fab from desperation caused by lockdowns (obviously they couldn't go out on a "pull" with the boys on Saturday nights so had to find some kind of replacement).

My own attitude - nope. I'm still very much the same.

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By *eanbelfastMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I had thought it would mean people took the time to send proper messages and get to know the other person a bit as you could t initially rush into a meet. I always prefer to see if there’s that initial chemistry and spark of each other’s imagination before a social meet. Unfortunately I think the same ones who send the “wanna f&@£” or I’m horny and passing by messages are always going to be the people they are. As we start coming through restrictions maybe people will remember what’s important in life and how much we missed the simple things. Imagine what we would have given for a simple social with someone face to face through lockdown. Make the most of life and enjoy it

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork


"Do you think fab has changed as a result of the pandemic ? Are there many members whose post pandemic behaviour seems very different to how it was before ? Keep it anonymous obviously .

What about you ? Is your approach different ? Is it because you’re still cautious , or the opposite , trying to make up for lost time ? or grateful for that period of reflection which allowed you to evaluate what you really want out of here and how you will go about having your needs met? "

Our needs are met with each other. This is just for rare additional playtime, and as such is not taken too seriously. Same goes pre-pandemic to post-pandemic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some reflection & seeking quality over quantity.

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