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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Does Fab give you permission, a safe space, to be who you really want to be? To explore, to wander, to not be stuck?

Does that effect your real world persona or do you keep it compartmentalised?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its open my mind to what I like, it's open my outlook on life to be more adventurous and to see myself as an attractive sexy person.

As for separate persona's I'm a lot more confident behind the phone in person I'm quite shy and insecure.

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By *eanbelfastMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I think fab allows you to explore more of your desires that a lot of people may not have got the opportunity to do normally. It also helps people build confidence in being themselves. It’s what you take and learn from it once you can navigate from the fuckwits that ruin it for others. Maybe not the best idea to write a reply when just in from the bar

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Its open my mind to what I like, it's open my outlook on life to be more adventurous and to see myself as an attractive sexy person.

As for separate persona's I'm a lot more confident behind the phone in person I'm quite shy and insecure.

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Just something I saw on telly made me wonder.

I think a lot of people are similar that way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fab allows me to explore but i think my persona is the same here as it is in reality.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Fab allows me to explore but i think my persona is the same here as it is in reality. "

Me too. I think I found Fab because it suited me and who I am as a person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fab allows me to explore but i think my persona is the same here as it is in reality.

Me too. I think I found Fab because it suited me and who I am as a person."

I don't have the energy to be anyone other than myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fab allows me to explore but i think my persona is the same here as it is in reality.

Me too. I think I found Fab because it suited me and who I am as a person.

I don't have the energy to be anyone other than myself "

I spent years been what everyone else wanted me to be, I'm at an age now where I'm like "nah I'm done trying to please people, " it's my turn to live my life for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fab allows me to explore but i think my persona is the same here as it is in reality.

Me too. I think I found Fab because it suited me and who I am as a person.

I don't have the energy to be anyone other than myself

I spent years been what everyone else wanted me to be, I'm at an age now where I'm like "nah I'm done trying to please people, " it's my turn to live my life for me."

Good for you. With age comes less giving a shit about what most people think about you. Its one of the few things i like about getting older.

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By *ittlekinks38Woman
over a year ago

outside belfast x

Fab for me has opened my eyes even though am into alot of kinks it definitely has let me be myself 110% when I've met such ppl into the same things its very empowering definitely makes my life alot more interesting...still alot on my list to get round too but that's what makes it hotter! You never know what's around the corner...variety definitely is the spice of life

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Fab allows me to explore but i think my persona is the same here as it is in reality.

Me too. I think I found Fab because it suited me and who I am as a person.

I don't have the energy to be anyone other than myself

I spent years been what everyone else wanted me to be, I'm at an age now where I'm like "nah I'm done trying to please people, " it's my turn to live my life for me."

Love it!! and whole heartedly agree

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By *amalusMan
over a year ago

Tullamore

It let's me explore and meet new people but I still stay unapologetically myself. And if it's not to a person's taste, then their loss!

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By *asual777Man
over a year ago

i travel all over

I think it allows me to compartmentalise . Who I really am is a mixture of the very responsible (a professional with dependents, which fab is irrelevant for ), and thé occasionally impulsive desire driven individual (which fab is great for , and which my everyday life perhaps not inhibits but definitely limits by its nature).

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

Fab has allowed me to enjoy sex more and explore my kinks with others who enjoy the journey as well but it hasn't changed me as a person. I'm the same on here as I am in real life like Redhott says I don't have time or energy to pretend to be anyone else.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

It's a website not an entity or a lifestyle.

It doesn't allow me to do anything apart from being a place to chat to other adults about football, travel and sometimes sex.

Then I log off and come back when I'm in the mood to chat about any of the above again.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast


"It's a website not an entity or a lifestyle.

It doesn't allow me to do anything apart from being a place to chat to other adults about football, travel and sometimes sex.

Then I log off and come back when I'm in the mood to chat about any of the above again.

And no it hasn't changed me as a person at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's a website not an entity or a lifestyle.

It doesn't allow me to do anything apart from being a place to chat to other adults about football, travel and sometimes sex.

Then I log off and come back when I'm in the mood to chat about any of the above again.

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This, without the football

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think it allows me to compartmentalise . Who I really am is a mixture of the very responsible (a professional with dependents, which fab is irrelevant for ), and thé occasionally impulsive desire driven individual (which fab is great for , and which my everyday life perhaps not inhibits but definitely limits by its nature).

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This is understandable. That people can be more adventurous, open and explore and expose different aspects of themselves here, that might be repressed or inhibited in everyday life.

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By *hilaboutMan
over a year ago

kilkenny

Definitely is a massive outlet compared to real life ..its fun n craic n interesting getting to know what goes on in people's lives ..mainly good experiences I have to say

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By *amson4DelilahCouple
over a year ago

ballina

I need to be more than one person so Fab gives me the opportunity to be one of my characters & I'm loving it. Then switch to my vanilla life, but always with Fab underwear. It's being a superhero & wearing your underwear as outerwear

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fab allows me to explore but i think my persona is the same here as it is in reality.

Me too. I think I found Fab because it suited me and who I am as a person.

I don't have the energy to be anyone other than myself

I spent years been what everyone else wanted me to be, I'm at an age now where I'm like "nah I'm done trying to please people, " it's my turn to live my life for me."
I'm still in hiding trying to keep family/people around me happy. Tore inside but gor now it's for the greater good.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Fab allows me to explore but i think my persona is the same here as it is in reality.

Me too. I think I found Fab because it suited me and who I am as a person.

I don't have the energy to be anyone other than myself

I spent years been what everyone else wanted me to be, I'm at an age now where I'm like "nah I'm done trying to please people, " it's my turn to live my life for me.I'm still in hiding trying to keep family/people around me happy. Tore inside but gor now it's for the greater good. "

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By *affa31Woman
over a year ago

Galway

It’s allowed me to explore a side of me that most in my vanilla world don’t know about and I quite like it that way!

I think fan has helped to teach me to give less of a fuck about peoples opinions of me and to have more confidence to go after what I want and express my desires. That may have all happened without fab but I suppose I’ll never know.

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By *eterdunneMan
over a year ago

leixlip

I've seen shit in this life that defies belief and makes this place seem like a coffee shop. It hasn't opened my eyes in any way but Fab does allow the private, personal side of me to emerge and I can be my real self.

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By *ay_Gatsby_D4Man
over a year ago

Belfast

I think that’s one of the most interesting things about this site, is that people are voyeurs, exhibitionists etc etc and yet you could walk past them on the street without an inkling.

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