FabSwingers.com forum: The done thing?!

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

What’s the done thing when meeting someone for the first time, would you give them a bottle of wine or something? Perhaps a strange question to ask, but manners cost nothing and it seems the right thing to do, that’s if the person/persons in question actually bother to show up!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well that depends if your meeting in a public place for a "coffee" meet or landing on their doorstep, the latter yeah probably a bottle in hand would go down well

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Well that depends if your meeting in a public place for a "coffee" meet or landing on their doorstep, the latter yeah probably a bottle in hand would go down well"

Don’t think I’d attempt to go to someone’s house with one arm as long as the other. I was thinking in both cases. Meeting someone for a social and going to someone’s house.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This came up before and got a mixed response, lots of women thought a guy bringing something was inappropriate on a meet.

Personally i dont expect it at all but i do think its nice.

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By *anysicoMan
over a year ago

cork

It is extremely rude to arrive as a invited guest without something

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

The done thing I expect is to bring is a good hygiene, manners and stamina.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But, won't a friendly attitude and a working penis do?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The done thing I expect is to bring is a good hygiene, manners and stamina.

Ahh yes...the basic simple beautiful things are always the best

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By *eaAndBenCouple
over a year ago

Dublin

Going to someone’s house, regardless of the reason, it’s good manners to bring a gift, even a token one.

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By *antra MassageMan
over a year ago

Connemara

I always appreciate wine!. Id never visit a friend empty handed, so you can't go wrong with wine, chocolate.

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By *eanbelfastMan
over a year ago

Belfast

It depends on the dynamic and intention. For me I have brought a dessert I’d made but that was because it was talked about and for me it was to a nice surprise for them.

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By *ol_ieMan
over a year ago

Dublin West

I wouldn't go to anyone home without bringing something..

Even if it's just a packed of buns for the cup of tea afterwards

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My FWB always comes with a bag full of goodies for my kids. Not expected at all but very sweet of him. I think it's little touches like that that just sets you apart from others.

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By *ara198Woman
over a year ago

maynooth

Depends on the situation, hotel meets, it could be nothing but it has been strawberries and bubbly, or simple chocolate, or a massage oil, house visit, again depends if day time or night. Bring something. X

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By *indenMan
over a year ago

Naas which is South West of Dublin

For men it seems to be a fine line between thoughtful and creepy but personally I think it’s just polite to bring something.

You can’t go wrong with a bottle of wine (unless they don’t drink) but sometimes a little something as a laugh can help break the ice, like if there was a joke shared about something in particular, a cream egg is always a good laugh…

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