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"Bluntly - if they were interested they would reply. They're not, so they don't. And before we get into "manners cost nothing"... I actually agree, it's nice to be nice. But a polite refusal often leads to getting abusive messages, or someone questioning why you're not interested, or trying to argue you out of your own preference. So since not everyone has the manners to take a polite no thank you with grace, it's safer to not respond at all. Not to mention the fact that some people get so many messages that to read and respond to them all would be a full time job. PERSONALLY I would rather get no response than a rejection - partly because I am very prideful and if I don't get a response I can just imagine their phone fell down a well or they forgot how to read, and partly because I am forgetful and there is a high likelihood I won't remember messaging that person to begin with ![]() Funny and true. Actually friend dropped phone in well before. There had been questions about messages beforehand in the day though, so we suspect that it wasn't accidentally ![]() | |||
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"Why would someone read your message and not reply. Is it always as simple as they’re inundated with messages or because they’ve got better things to do? " I'd imagine because women get so many that they can be very selective in whom they reply to. | |||
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"Cause we get hundreds of messages most looking a quick fuck and sending a dick picture. Try and capture attention of the person u send the message too. Or perhaps they just don't want to talk to u. Its very simple. So build a bridge and walk on till the next one and keep walking till u get a reply " Haven’t heard from you in a while, where have you been hiding and who’s the lucky fella! ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Why would someone read your message and not reply. Is it always as simple as they’re inundated with messages or because they’ve got better things to do? " It's nearly always down to lack of interest, although there can be many reasons for that. It's probably better not to know why for sure! Just move on to the next sure ![]() | |||
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"Why would someone read your message and not reply. Is it always as simple as they’re inundated with messages or because they’ve got better things to do? " Depends on the message. If it has no effort put in we ignore it. If it has effort we check the profile and see if it fits what we are looking for and if it does or doesn't we go from there. If we were to reply to every mail we get we would be all day and sorry we have other more important things to be dealing with daily | |||
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"Bluntly - if they were interested they would reply. They're not, so they don't. And before we get into "manners cost nothing"... I actually agree, it's nice to be nice. But a polite refusal often leads to getting abusive messages, or someone questioning why you're not interested, or trying to argue you out of your own preference. So since not everyone has the manners to take a polite no thank you with grace, it's safer to not respond at all. Not to mention the fact that some people get so many messages that to read and respond to them all would be a full time job. PERSONALLY I would rather get no response than a rejection - partly because I am very prideful and if I don't get a response I can just imagine their phone fell down a well or they forgot how to read, and partly because I am forgetful and there is a high likelihood I won't remember messaging that person to begin with ![]() Yes to all of this | |||
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"Bluntly - if they were interested they would reply. They're not, so they don't. And before we get into "manners cost nothing"... I actually agree, it's nice to be nice. But a polite refusal often leads to getting abusive messages, or someone questioning why you're not interested, or trying to argue you out of your own preference. So since not everyone has the manners to take a polite no thank you with grace, it's safer to not respond at all. Not to mention the fact that some people get so many messages that to read and respond to them all would be a full time job. PERSONALLY I would rather get no response than a rejection - partly because I am very prideful and if I don't get a response I can just imagine their phone fell down a well or they forgot how to read, and partly because I am forgetful and there is a high likelihood I won't remember messaging that person to begin with ![]() 100% in agreement with this ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Awk, Ohpee, there's a lot of reasons as to why that might be the case that even go beyond 'interest' and are just practical! For example, say you were out and about and opened a message but didn't have the time or privacy to respond properly! Or, specifically for couples, imagine one reads the message but their partner isn't able to so they have to wait until a more opportune time The above could even lead to a message being 'read' and then marked 'unread' so that the person remembers to look again! As already said though, some people receive an inordinate amount of messages and simply can't reply to them all or they're just not interested; in that case no reply means "no thanks"! Honestly, the best advice I ever received was to delete any and all sent messages! That way you don't find yourself fixating over whether it's been 'read', 'deleted' or whatever it may be! It doesn't do you or your mind any good to be worrying about a message's status; if someone wants to reply, they always will! ![]() ![]() Couldn’t have put it better myself, no point in waiting for a reply that’s not coming, pointless. Thanks for the reply. Take err handy ole Han. ![]() | |||
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"Bluntly - if they were interested they would reply. They're not, so they don't. And before we get into "manners cost nothing"... I actually agree, it's nice to be nice. But a polite refusal often leads to getting abusive messages, or someone questioning why you're not interested, or trying to argue you out of your own preference. So since not everyone has the manners to take a polite no thank you with grace, it's safer to not respond at all. Not to mention the fact that some people get so many messages that to read and respond to them all would be a full time job. PERSONALLY I would rather get no response than a rejection - partly because I am very prideful and if I don't get a response I can just imagine their phone fell down a well or they forgot how to read, and partly because I am forgetful and there is a high likelihood I won't remember messaging that person to begin with ![]() ![]() Seems to be a regular thing threads like this one. Keep err cutting, thanks for the reply. Just what’s you favourite AC/DC song? Might need to start a new thread for this one. | |||
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"I don't get many messages or im not to busy to reply with me it's simply if it doesn't grab my attention from the getgo I won't open or reply,try take something from there profile at least it looks like you made an effort... ![]() Thanks for the reply, I’ll catch you in the pub or supermacs some time for a lock of pints and fish n chips. Don’t tell me, I really know how to spoil a woman. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I don't get many messages or im not to busy to reply with me it's simply if it doesn't grab my attention from the getgo I won't open or reply,try take something from there profile at least it looks like you made an effort... ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Snackbox and a garlic dip and your on ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I don't get many messages or im not to busy to reply with me it's simply if it doesn't grab my attention from the getgo I won't open or reply,try take something from there profile at least it looks like you made an effort... ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Your easily please are you sure you don’t want to up the bar ever so slightly and throw in a portion of onion rings or something. ![]() | |||
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"I don't get many messages or im not to busy to reply with me it's simply if it doesn't grab my attention from the getgo I won't open or reply,try take something from there profile at least it looks like you made an effort... ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Ah sure if your offering be rude not to except ![]() | |||
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"SSS said it bud,if they like they like if they don't they don't.ANY woman can pick and choose on this you need to leave the ego at the door lol. " What ego! | |||
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"No reply is a reply. Take the hint and move on. Also threatening to show up at their house or work place because you didn't get the reply you want is creepy and scary. Good luck fabbing, you'll certainly need it with that attitude " Are you being serious, who in there right mind would do something like that. The mind boggles. | |||
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"No reply is a reply. Take the hint and move on. Also threatening to show up at their house or work place because you didn't get the reply you want is creepy and scary. Good luck fabbing, you'll certainly need it with that attitude Are you being serious, who in there right mind would do something like that. The mind boggles." Nobody I know. | |||
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"Thread delivers. 5 stars. Would read again. ![]() Always aim too please, sure here hi, keeper cuttin big man. ![]() | |||
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"I don't get many messages or im not to busy to reply with me it's simply if it doesn't grab my attention from the getgo I won't open or reply,try take something from there profile at least it looks like you made an effort... ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() With a mesmerising pair off boobs kind yours Lolly your wish is my command, if I fell down in there don’t think I’d ever want to get out. What a way to go, it would be like a moth to a flame. ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Why would someone read your message and not reply. Is it always as simple as they’re inundated with messages or because they’ve got better things to do? " With us I like to wait for other half to see who we're talking to & other times the message was so non specific, or people have no photos, or verifications. | |||
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"No reply is a reply. Take the hint and move on. Also threatening to show up at their house or work place because you didn't get the reply you want is creepy and scary. Good luck fabbing, you'll certainly need it with that attitude " ![]() | |||
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