FabSwingers.com forum: Curvy men

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Being a lover of the more curvy female figure, and as a somewhat curvy figure myself. Im just wondering if there is much of a following where women lust after the bigger boned fellas, personally I love every shape and size, but those extra curvy ladies just do it for me

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By *asual777Man
over a year ago

i travel all over

Don’t know about ladies but loads of guys like bigger guys only

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By *ummer_XOWoman
over a year ago

Tyrone

As a plus size lady myself I tend to be more attracted to those who also have curves.

Well to be fair if you've a good personality and the banter is good, and we connect to me that's more important

Laugh my knickers off basically!

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By *amalusMan
over a year ago

Tullamore

I've experienced faaarrrrr more fetishisation from men who like bigger guys than women, so either women are just less likely to do it, or they are far less outspoken about it.

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By *al2001Man
over a year ago

kildare

So hit the gym or start liking cock

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By *amalusMan
over a year ago

Tullamore

"So hit the gym or start liking cock"

Great personality there mate

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By *affa31Woman
over a year ago

Galway

"I've experienced faaarrrrr more fetishisation from men who like bigger guys than women, so either women are just less likely to do it, or they are far less outspoken about it."

Or just less likely to see a person as a fetish rather than just a person.

Fat women, in particular, experience a lot of fetishisation so I think we’re less likely to do that to another person. There will always be exceptions of course.

For me, it’s about the person and whether we click, not their body type. I’ve been with very slim guys and with big guys and I can’t say that I prefer one over the other.

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By *amalusMan
over a year ago

Tullamore

Or just less likely to see a person as a fetish rather than just a person.

Well in fairness there are plenty of women with BBC fetishes and such, but I'd agree that, at least with bigger people, men are more likely to fetishise a big person than a woman would.

Not to say having the fetish itself is bad, but ignoring the person as a whole and only focusing on the fetishised quality isn't ideal, imo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Or just less likely to see a person as a fetish rather than just a person.

Well in fairness there are plenty of women with BBC fetishes and such, but I'd agree that, at least with bigger people, men are more likely to fetishise a big person than a woman would.

Not to say having the fetish itself is bad, but ignoring the person as a whole and only focusing on the fetishised quality isn't ideal, imo"

Just as many women play into the fetishisation as men.

You just need to see the amount of profile names or profile bios with BBW included in it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer a "dad bod"...its a comfy ride

Mrs S

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By *3nsesMan
over a year ago

Dublin

"Just as many women play into the fetishisation as men.

You just need to see the amount of profile names or profile bios with BBW included in it"

I'd be fascinated how you've come to the conclusion that women play into fetishisation as much as men.

Apart from BBC I can't think of anything else that is a popular enough fetish for women. I could spend all day listing some of the stuff off for men.

In terms of porn consumption, it's vastly done by men, if you look at the purchasing of sex, again, it is vastly done by men.

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By *affa31Woman
over a year ago

Galway

Or just less likely to see a person as a fetish rather than just a person.

Well in fairness there are plenty of women with BBC fetishes and such, but I'd agree that, at least with bigger people, men are more likely to fetishise a big person than a woman would.

Not to say having the fetish itself is bad, but ignoring the person as a whole and only focusing on the fetishised quality isn't ideal, imo

Just as many women play into the fetishisation as men.

You just need to see the amount of profile names or profile bios with BBW included in it"

That’s true, a lot of people do play into it. I think sometimes that comes from a sort of wanting to find your tribe thing…I can’t find the right words for what I’m trying to say

But anyway…all bodies are good bodies especially when the person inside them is good craic

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By *affa31Woman
over a year ago

Galway

"Just as many women play into the fetishisation as men.

You just need to see the amount of profile names or profile bios with BBW included in it

I'd be fascinated how you've come to the conclusion that women play into fetishisation as much as men.

Apart from BBC I can't think of anything else that is a popular enough fetish for women. I could spend all day listing some of the stuff off for men.

In terms of porn consumption, it's vastly done by men, if you look at the purchasing of sex, again, it is vastly done by men. "

I think he means playing in to the BBW fetishisation by identifying oneself as a BBW in a username or profile text.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just as many women play into the fetishisation as men.

You just need to see the amount of profile names or profile bios with BBW included in it

I'd be fascinated how you've come to the conclusion that women play into fetishisation as much as men.

Apart from BBC I can't think of anything else that is a popular enough fetish for women. I could spend all day listing some of the stuff off for men.

In terms of porn consumption, it's vastly done by men, if you look at the purchasing of sex, again, it is vastly done by men. "

If you read the thread and my comments again you might see that we are discussing size fetishisation specifically. And I've said why I think so.

But in a broader sense I see plenty female and couples profiles that also play into themilf/cougar dynamic too.

I'm also not saying it's a bad thing. Just that it's not solely men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Or just less likely to see a person as a fetish rather than just a person.

Well in fairness there are plenty of women with BBC fetishes and such, but I'd agree that, at least with bigger people, men are more likely to fetishise a big person than a woman would.

Not to say having the fetish itself is bad, but ignoring the person as a whole and only focusing on the fetishised quality isn't ideal, imo

Just as many women play into the fetishisation as men.

You just need to see the amount of profile names or profile bios with BBW included in it

That’s true, a lot of people do play into it. I think sometimes that comes from a sort of wanting to find your tribe thing…I can’t find the right words for what I’m trying to say

But anyway…all bodies are good bodies especially when the person inside them is good craic"

Agreed its why all of those labels grate on me in general tbh.

But I dont think it's fair to generalise that women are less likely to see people as a fetish.

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By *indenMan
over a year ago

Naas which is South West of Dublin

"So hit the gym or start liking cock"

“Magic Mike grossed 167 million, if you think girls like dad bods keep dreaming pal”……

“Shrek grosses 484 million, just so we’re clear”.

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By *affa31Woman
over a year ago

Galway

But I dont think it's fair to generalise that women are less likely to see people as a fetish."

May have been an eye rolling, snap reaction from someone whose body type is subject to frequent fetishisation

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By *amalusMan
over a year ago

Tullamore

I think both men and women are equally capable of having a fetish related to body shape or colour etc etc, but men, 100%, are the ones more likely to actively fetishise a person based on one physical aspect, simply because men are, as a broad generalisation, wired to be more physical and visual, and women, more mental and emotional.

But, ofc, outliers exist!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But I dont think it's fair to generalise that women are less likely to see people as a fetish.

May have been an eye rolling, snap reaction from someone whose body type is subject to frequent fetishisation"

You and me both sister

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By *affa31Woman
over a year ago

Galway

But I dont think it's fair to generalise that women are less likely to see people as a fetish.

May have been an eye rolling, snap reaction from someone whose body type is subject to frequent fetishisation

You and me both sister

Ah now, I’ve never seen anyone fetishise a shadow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But I dont think it's fair to generalise that women are less likely to see people as a fetish.

May have been an eye rolling, snap reaction from someone whose body type is subject to frequent fetishisation

You and me both sister

Ah now, I’ve never seen anyone fetishise a shadow

It's on the dark Web

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By *affa31Woman
over a year ago

Galway

But I dont think it's fair to generalise that women are less likely to see people as a fetish.

May have been an eye rolling, snap reaction from someone whose body type is subject to frequent fetishisation

You and me both sister

Ah now, I’ve never seen anyone fetishise a shadow

It's on the dark Web

Eep

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By *3nsesMan
over a year ago

Dublin

"Just as many women play into the fetishisation as men.

You just need to see the amount of profile names or profile bios with BBW included in it

I'd be fascinated how you've come to the conclusion that women play into fetishisation as much as men.

Apart from BBC I can't think of anything else that is a popular enough fetish for women. I could spend all day listing some of the stuff off for men.

In terms of porn consumption, it's vastly done by men, if you look at the purchasing of sex, again, it is vastly done by men.

If you read the thread and my comments again you might see that we are discussing size fetishisation specifically. And I've said why I think so.

But in a broader sense I see plenty female and couples profiles that also play into themilf/cougar dynamic too.

I'm also not saying it's a bad thing. Just that it's not solely men"

I had been assuming that it was a reference to women fetishising men's traits, like bbm for example, rather than you referring to playing on the fetishisation so that was a mistake on my part.

I can understand why women play into the role as being a target of someone fetish though and realise it's not that rare.

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

There's a difference between a preference and fetishisation imo. You could start a whole new thread about that.

I think the op referred to preference.

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By *3nsesMan
over a year ago

Dublin

I was actually wondering what is the definition of a preference vs a fetish and at what point does preference start to become a fetish. A whole other thread as you say!

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By *affa31Woman
over a year ago

Galway

I’ll stop participating in the hijacking of this thread

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By *oft_sexy_sweetWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

"Just as many women play into the fetishisation as men.

You just need to see the amount of profile names or profile bios with BBW included in it

I'd be fascinated how you've come to the conclusion that women play into fetishisation as much as men.

Apart from BBC I can't think of anything else that is a popular enough fetish for women. I could spend all day listing some of the stuff off for men.

In terms of porn consumption, it's vastly done by men, if you look at the purchasing of sex, again, it is vastly done by men. "

The BBC fetish is also something created by porn, which is for the most part created by men. Just because women enjoy it doesn't mean it came from women's desires originally. A LOT of what women desire is influenced and driven by the desires of men, on some level, even though we genuinely enjoy those things.

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By *indenMan
over a year ago

Naas which is South West of Dublin

"I prefer a "dad bod"...its a comfy ride

Mrs S "

Finally, I can stop sucking it in….

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By *indenMan
over a year ago

Naas which is South West of Dublin

"There's a difference between a preference and fetishisation imo. You could start a whole new thread about that.

I think the op referred to preference. "

Exactly, I didn’t know a particular body type had now become a fetish.

Although I think in this case it’s just the way the thread progressed.

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By *amalusMan
over a year ago

Tullamore

"There's a difference between a preference and fetishisation imo. You could start a whole new thread about that.

I think the op referred to preference.

Exactly, I didn’t know a particular body type had now become a fetish.

Although I think in this case it’s just the way the thread progressed."

Yeah that's probably my fault, oops

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By *indenMan
over a year ago

Naas which is South West of Dublin

"There's a difference between a preference and fetishisation imo. You could start a whole new thread about that.

I think the op referred to preference.

Exactly, I didn’t know a particular body type had now become a fetish.

Although I think in this case it’s just the way the thread progressed.

Yeah that's probably my fault, oops

Shame on you, 50 lashes as punishment, unless you consider that a fetish or a kink and enjoy it, in which case, no lashes for you at all…

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I've experienced faaarrrrr more fetishisation from men who like bigger guys than women, so either women are just less likely to do it, or they are far less outspoken about it."

Yeah that's another thing I've noticed it's massive in the gay community, bears do very well apparently

would be nice to hear from more ladies who like a chunky fella

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I like the face and the attitude, I like the rest

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I've experienced faaarrrrr more fetishisation from men who like bigger guys than women, so either women are just less likely to do it, or they are far less outspoken about it.

Or just less likely to see a person as a fetish rather than just a person.

Fat women, in particular, experience a lot of fetishisation so I think we’re less likely to do that to another person. There will always be exceptions of course.

For me, it’s about the person and whether we click, not their body type. I’ve been with very slim guys and with big guys and I can’t say that I prefer one over the other. "

That's an interesting thought, I get that completely. Life as a women online is so contrasted from a mans, we forget ourselves at times.

Being a chubby fella growing up and finding confidence in my self now, I sort of just want to flaunt it and be with someone who loves themselves and there body. Whatever form they cum.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"So hit the gym or start liking cock

“Magic Mike grossed 167 million, if you think girls like dad bods keep dreaming pal”……

“Shrek grosses 484 million, just so we’re clear”.

I fucking love you buddy

unreal

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I was with a girl once from here she was really cool, she rubbed my belly and said she really liked it, that i had a total dad vibe and she digged it, I was always a bit self conscious, this made me feel like a million bucks afterwards, so I dunno about fetishising or preference. I was just thinking that was a nice body positive experience, wondering to myself how common this was with women

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Just as many women play into the fetishisation as men.

You just need to see the amount of profile names or profile bios with BBW included in it

I'd be fascinated how you've come to the conclusion that women play into fetishisation as much as men.

Apart from BBC I can't think of anything else that is a popular enough fetish for women. I could spend all day listing some of the stuff off for men.

In terms of porn consumption, it's vastly done by men, if you look at the purchasing of sex, again, it is vastly done by men.

That's some real talk, lots of the things we have come to enjoy have been developed sub consciously from the media we consume. Then again if we were to go down the psychological route of fetishes well we would need several different threads. THICK THIGHS SAVE LIVES folks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im a big lad i much prefer the term cuddly

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By *dfabMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne

Curvy/fat, hairy moobs but you'll have a very cosy spoon

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By *al2001Man
over a year ago

kildare

"Just as many women play into the fetishisation as men.

You just need to see the amount of profile names or profile bios with BBW included in it

I'd be fascinated how you've come to the conclusion that women play into fetishisation as much as men.

Apart from BBC I can't think of anything else that is a popular enough fetish for women. I could spend all day listing some of the stuff off for men.

In terms of porn consumption, it's vastly done by men, if you look at the purchasing of sex, again, it is vastly done by men.

Wha?

A lot of what a woman desires comes from what men want?

Dont tell any of the single independent women that here for their very own reasons and pleasure that has sweet FA to do with any man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In my younger years & when starting out in the lifestyle I admit I was attracted by the bodies.. guilty of judging the book by the cover...but experience has shown me its all about the personality, it really doesn't matter what body, (slim, athletic, curry, or fabulous) the personify is wrapped in, if you don't click with the person it's never going to happen.

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By *upermanslovechildMan
over a year ago

Glasnevin

"So hit the gym or start liking cock"

Looks like someone's trying to fight their inner desires

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By *razy-88Man
over a year ago

Belfast

Can we all just agree that shrek is the optimum shape for the male body

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By *amalusMan
over a year ago

Tullamore

"There's a difference between a preference and fetishisation imo. You could start a whole new thread about that.

I think the op referred to preference.

Exactly, I didn’t know a particular body type had now become a fetish.

Although I think in this case it’s just the way the thread progressed.

Yeah that's probably my fault, oops

Shame on you, 50 lashes as punishment, unless you consider that a fetish or a kink and enjoy it, in which case, no lashes for you at all…

I usually prefer giving the lashes tbf

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By *ustaniceguyMan
over a year ago

find out…

Haha I’ll be happy just just get a reply

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By *asual777Man
over a year ago

i travel all over

I don’t know if this is a preference or a fetish but in terms of my bi side I never ever ever ever meet with younger guys and have zero interest in skinny guys

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Can we all just agree that shrek is the optimum shape for the male body

This man gets it

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By *dfabMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne

"In my younger years & when starting out in the lifestyle I admit I was attracted by the bodies.. guilty of judging the book by the cover...but experience has shown me its all about the personality, it really doesn't matter what body, (slim, athletic, curry, or fabulous) the personify is wrapped in, if you don't click with the person it's never going to happen."

A curry body?

Jaysus! I'd eat that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hey lucifer - from your pic I wouldn’t have said you’re a bigger guy. Clearly I need to see more! Kik me privately!!

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By *onguentasticMan
over a year ago

Ballymoney

Being of the curvy variety myself I personally feel that personality is what defines the final decision not the shape but then again I could be wrong

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Hey lucifer - from your pic I wouldn’t have said you’re a bigger guy. Clearly I need to see more! Kik me privately!!

Oh now I'll have to get all my nice curvy bits photographed especially for you darling ??

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