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By *og-Man OP   Man
over a year ago

somewhere

Lots of threads about who wants to participate in a gangbang

Now I'm not trying to organise one but all the threads seem to collapse in a never ending circle of men saying yes...then what do we do...then who does what to who ...followed usually by a couple saying we invited a huge amount of men but one or none turned up.

I think to myself how the hell do the men line up if they all turn up

Are they all waiting in a line in their socks with their hands on their cocks or in a circle looking at a woman having sex with lots of men at the same time

Who brings the tea and sandwiches

Have you taken part in one

How did it work out

So can this thread be about the best and worst ideas for a gangbang

Or funny stories about actual gangbangs

Or just go off on a tangent like so many others

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Lots of cars with hydraulic suspension in da hood and violence ensues.

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

Good question. I've wondered about this too. I wonder about the practicalities. Like what if one of the men is totally gross, or has poor hygiene or something? Are they pre-vetted? Are rules explained to them? Who chooses the order?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

https://www.google.co.uk/amp/s/slutlessons.wordpress.com/2013/10/30/gang-bang-101-a-guide-to-doing-your-first-gangbang/amp/

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd assume all the finer details are decided by the women or man/partner and are based on why they want to have a gangbang in the first place and what they get out of it.

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By *oserMan
over a year ago

where the wild roses grow

Keep away from the hole with the porridge

Wear goggles and rubber socks

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By *asual777Man
over a year ago

i travel all over


"Lots of threads about who wants to participate in a gangbang

Now I'm not trying to organise one but all the threads seem to collapse in a never ending circle of men saying yes...then what do we do...then who does what to who ...followed usually by a couple saying we invited a huge amount of men but one or none turned up.

I think to myself how the hell do the men line up if they all turn up

Are they all waiting in a line in their socks with their hands on their cocks or in a circle looking at a woman having sex with lots of men at the same time

Who brings the tea and sandwiches

Have you taken part in one

How did it work out

So can this thread be about the best and worst ideas for a gangbang

Or funny stories about actual gangbangs

Or just go off on a tangent like so many others "

Bog you’re asking about a very specific event I think aren’t you ? One lady and lots of strangers taking turns ? Rather than an organised vetted event where people’s profiles have been analysed to death , matched and screened using coffee meets and phone calls etc ?

I ve only been to one of the type you describe , overseas . It happened in a sex club where a lady in the presence of her partner was happy to take on all comers/cummers. No one was very unattractive or smelly , probably because of the country this took place in. No sandwiches but a really great kebab shop next door .

Worse idea for a gang bang ? Post about one in cork then leave fabswingers immediately

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Once spoke to a couple at a social who were into this and did just this before the social

Basically a group of men on fab were picked by the man in the couple. All arrived at their bedroom when the lady was already blindfolded. Each guy took a turn before leaving. She stayed blindfolded until they all have left not knowing the identify of any.

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By *ofusplusCouple
over a year ago

Limerick


"Once spoke to a couple at a social who were into this and did just this before the social

Basically a group of men on fab were picked by the man in the couple. All arrived at their bedroom when the lady was already blindfolded. Each guy took a turn before leaving. She stayed blindfolded until they all have left not knowing the identify of any. "

Genuine question ... do the ladies ever choose their own group of men?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are both options.

Pre arranged and selected guys by the lady/partner.

And the other setup where guys arrive at into a room that have not been pre selected by the lady.

So which setup is chosen is down to the type of event that the lady wants to be involved in.

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By *affa31Woman
over a year ago

Galway

How many participants constitutes a gangbang?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How many participants constitutes a gangbang?"

According to Wikipedia a gang bang is a sexual activity in which several people, usually more than three, engage sexually with one specific person sequentially or at the same time.[1] That specific person is the central focus of the sexual activity;[1] for example, it could be one woman surrounded by several men, or a man with multiple women (a "reverse" gang bang).[2] The term has become associated with the porn industry and usually describes a staged event whereby a woman has sex with several men in direct succession.

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By *ixty eight plus oneWoman
over a year ago

Tramore


"

Genuine question ... do the ladies ever choose their own group of men?"

Why wouldn’t they?

Although in the above example the whole point point was not to know

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By *ixty eight plus oneWoman
over a year ago

Tramore


"How many participants constitutes a gangbang?"

Anything above a foursome I guess

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By *asual777Man
over a year ago

i travel all over


"How many participants constitutes a gangbang?"

This is a very important question

I like to refer to anything I am involved in as a group meet/party and under no circumstances is it ever an orgy or a gang bang

Orgette is ok

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By *ickheadcuntCouple
over a year ago

Cork Ireland

It really depends on what the woman what's.

In that situation a lot of girls just want to be fucked not make love.

Some girls don't even want to kiss.

Just to be used.

Some girls want guys to line up and fuck her one after the other.

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By *ickheadcuntCouple
over a year ago

Cork Ireland


"Once spoke to a couple at a social who were into this and did just this before the social

Basically a group of men on fab were picked by the man in the couple. All arrived at their bedroom when the lady was already blindfolded. Each guy took a turn before leaving. She stayed blindfolded until they all have left not knowing the identify of any.

Genuine question ... do the ladies ever choose their own group of men?"

Yes but very hard

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By *ickheadcuntCouple
over a year ago

Cork Ireland


"How many participants constitutes a gangbang?"

We say 5

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would think three guys at least.....to...ahem....cover all angles!

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By *og-Man OP   Man
over a year ago

somewhere


"It really depends on what the woman what's.

In that situation a lot of girls just want to be fucked not make love.

Some girls don't even want to kiss.

Just to be used.

Some girls want guys to line up and fuck her one after the other.

"

This is the type in gangbang porn movies that I've seen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Once spoke to a couple at a social who were into this and did just this before the social

Basically a group of men on fab were picked by the man in the couple. All arrived at their bedroom when the lady was already blindfolded. Each guy took a turn before leaving. She stayed blindfolded until they all have left not knowing the identify of any.

Genuine question ... do the ladies ever choose their own group of men?"

That I don't know or remember asking. But she certainly didn't know who was doing her at that particular time.

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By *dfabMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne

Then there's the etiquette of how many openings the lady wants filled at the same time to consider, along with the coordinator making sure at least 2, maybe 3, of those are condom protected and no sneaky fucker (ahem!) has slipped one off

Not an easy job OP!

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By *atherjackhackettMan
over a year ago

Tipperary


"It really depends on what the woman what's.

In that situation a lot of girls just want to be fucked not make love.

Some girls don't even want to kiss.

Just to be used.

Some girls want guys to line up and fuck her one after the other.

"

I didn't think I'd ever see making love and gangbang in the same sentence . My interpretation of a gangbang would be a woman taking multiple cocks one after another. To be used. To be filled with loads of cum or covered in it. The thoughts....

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By *omtom 1234Man
over a year ago

very near galway dublin louth meath

I think it should be left to the lady to pick the men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I arranged a gangbang in the past, we had it in Cap d'Agde, in the spa that has a male only part. I would bring the guys in one by one and direct the scene until she had enough. We'd then go back to yhe couples only part of the spa, have a shower, relax in the jacuzzi and had sex on the beds with or without other couples.

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By *ubFunHuntersCouple
over a year ago

dublin


"It really depends on what the woman what's.

In that situation a lot of girls just want to be fucked not make love.

Some girls don't even want to kiss.

Just to be used.

Some girls want guys to line up and fuck her one after the other.

"

This is pretty much accurate its what the women wants, and also those taking part need to understand that 90% of taking part is to please her and give her what she wants.

very often before hand from experience it can also be good to have a code that means time is up and its often the less awkward way to finish it. Also sometimes numbers might drop down rather than all finishing at once and you gotta respect the pecking order of that too.

The pre social aspect of a GB is often not as important as a meet as to DH&C's point the lady just wants to be fucked so males need to come ready and often we their before the lady arrives as that can help make it less awkward.

Set rules are not really a thing but normally the women will have at least one close male and you have to be guided by him and just do as you are told as one guy not following instructions can ruin it for everyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

5 minimum to constitute a gang

2 holes on off (mouth & pussy, anal optional)

2 guys at minimum simultaneously pleasuring the lady.

Of course if what the lady wants is fuck & go...then guys lined up & on the clock.

All sex covered but should be agreement on whether cum in condom or cum on her body.

Defo should be a minder for the lady & keeping control

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By *ymboMan
over a year ago

here and there.


"5 minimum to constitute a gang

2 holes on off (mouth & pussy, anal optional)

2 guys at minimum simultaneously pleasuring the lady.

Of course if what the lady wants is fuck & go...then guys lined up & on the clock.

All sex covered but should be agreement on whether cum in condom or cum on her body.

Defo should be a minder for the lady & keeping control"

There you go! Well summarised!

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By *ickheadcuntCouple
over a year ago

Cork Ireland

Another point is guys need to follow the girls instructions. For example very recently herselfs all time biggest fantasy was about to happen and 2 of the guys repeatedly pinched her tits after being told. End result was her getting pissed off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Another point is guys need to follow the girls instructions. For example very recently herselfs all time biggest fantasy was about to happen and 2 of the guys repeatedly pinched her tits after being told. End result was her getting pissed off "

The minder shud have fucked the guys out...boundaries / instructions/rules/..follow or leave

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By *eijaWoman
over a year ago

City Centre


"Once spoke to a couple at a social who were into this and did just this before the social

Basically a group of men on fab were picked by the man in the couple. All arrived at their bedroom when the lady was already blindfolded. Each guy took a turn before leaving. She stayed blindfolded until they all have left not knowing the identify of any.

Genuine question ... do the ladies ever choose their own group of men?"

I knew a lady years ago (she was part of a couple) who would invite a group of men to a hotel..they would all meet for a drink downstairs in the bar (bit like a m&g). She would have a drink with the group and after a bit would pick the 4/5 guys she wanted to join her upstairs.

I always thought a bit brutal for the poor guys sent home but always worked for her

Much harder to do these days with restrictions though!

B x

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By *ofusplusCouple
over a year ago

Limerick


"Once spoke to a couple at a social who were into this and did just this before the social

Basically a group of men on fab were picked by the man in the couple. All arrived at their bedroom when the lady was already blindfolded. Each guy took a turn before leaving. She stayed blindfolded until they all have left not knowing the identify of any.

Genuine question ... do the ladies ever choose their own group of men?

I knew a lady years ago (she was part of a couple) who would invite a group of men to a hotel..they would all meet for a drink downstairs in the bar (bit like a m&g). She would have a drink with the group and after a bit would pick the 4/5 guys she wanted to join her upstairs.

I always thought a bit brutal for the poor guys sent home but always worked for her

Much harder to do these days with restrictions though!

B x"

That sounds ideal but this is the first time I've heard of the lady doing the choosing. Maybe it's part of a Dom/Sub thing for the guy of the couple to do the choosing, all part of the lady's fantasy to be dominated/used?

I'm just thinking out loud here and open to correction

N x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Once spoke to a couple at a social who were into this and did just this before the social

Basically a group of men on fab were picked by the man in the couple. All arrived at their bedroom when the lady was already blindfolded. Each guy took a turn before leaving. She stayed blindfolded until they all have left not knowing the identify of any.

Genuine question ... do the ladies ever choose their own group of men?

I knew a lady years ago (she was part of a couple) who would invite a group of men to a hotel..they would all meet for a drink downstairs in the bar (bit like a m&g). She would have a drink with the group and after a bit would pick the 4/5 guys she wanted to join her upstairs.

I always thought a bit brutal for the poor guys sent home but always worked for her

Much harder to do these days with restrictions though!

B x"

Oh I kinda love this idea kinda like the X Factor but it's the Sex Factor..congratulations you are through to the next round.

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By *og-Man OP   Man
over a year ago

somewhere


"Once spoke to a couple at a social who were into this and did just this before the social

Basically a group of men on fab were picked by the man in the couple. All arrived at their bedroom when the lady was already blindfolded. Each guy took a turn before leaving. She stayed blindfolded until they all have left not knowing the identify of any.

Genuine question ... do the ladies ever choose their own group of men?

I knew a lady years ago (she was part of a couple) who would invite a group of men to a hotel..they would all meet for a drink downstairs in the bar (bit like a m&g). She would have a drink with the group and after a bit would pick the 4/5 guys she wanted to join her upstairs.

I always thought a bit brutal for the poor guys sent home but always worked for her

Much harder to do these days with restrictions though!

B x

Oh I kinda love this idea kinda like the X Factor but it's the Sex Factor..congratulations you are through to the next round. "

Is there a wank off between the 2 lads left to get back in the game or is there a public vote

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By *eijaWoman
over a year ago

City Centre


"Once spoke to a couple at a social who were into this and did just this before the social

Basically a group of men on fab were picked by the man in the couple. All arrived at their bedroom when the lady was already blindfolded. Each guy took a turn before leaving. She stayed blindfolded until they all have left not knowing the identify of any.

Genuine question ... do the ladies ever choose their own group of men?

I knew a lady years ago (she was part of a couple) who would invite a group of men to a hotel..they would all meet for a drink downstairs in the bar (bit like a m&g). She would have a drink with the group and after a bit would pick the 4/5 guys she wanted to join her upstairs.

I always thought a bit brutal for the poor guys sent home but always worked for her

Much harder to do these days with restrictions though!

B x

Oh I kinda love this idea kinda like the X Factor but it's the Sex Factor..congratulations you are through to the next round. "

Or to the guys going home...you are the weakest link goodbye

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh god, giving me some great fantasy ideas here now!

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Once spoke to a couple at a social who were into this and did just this before the social

Basically a group of men on fab were picked by the man in the couple. All arrived at their bedroom when the lady was already blindfolded. Each guy took a turn before leaving. She stayed blindfolded until they all have left not knowing the identify of any.

Genuine question ... do the ladies ever choose their own group of men?

I knew a lady years ago (she was part of a couple) who would invite a group of men to a hotel..they would all meet for a drink downstairs in the bar (bit like a m&g). She would have a drink with the group and after a bit would pick the 4/5 guys she wanted to join her upstairs.

I always thought a bit brutal for the poor guys sent home but always worked for her

Much harder to do these days with restrictions though!

B x

Oh I kinda love this idea kinda like the X Factor but it's the Sex Factor..congratulations you are through to the next round.

Or to the guys going home...you are the weakest link goodbye "

This was at one of your socials I was chatting to the couple B lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh god, giving me some great fantasy ideas here now! "
L lol. You surprise me

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By *eijaWoman
over a year ago

City Centre


"Once spoke to a couple at a social who were into this and did just this before the social

Basically a group of men on fab were picked by the man in the couple. All arrived at their bedroom when the lady was already blindfolded. Each guy took a turn before leaving. She stayed blindfolded until they all have left not knowing the identify of any.

Genuine question ... do the ladies ever choose their own group of men?

I knew a lady years ago (she was part of a couple) who would invite a group of men to a hotel..they would all meet for a drink downstairs in the bar (bit like a m&g). She would have a drink with the group and after a bit would pick the 4/5 guys she wanted to join her upstairs.

I always thought a bit brutal for the poor guys sent home but always worked for her

Much harder to do these days with restrictions though!

B x

Oh I kinda love this idea kinda like the X Factor but it's the Sex Factor..congratulations you are through to the next round.

Or to the guys going home...you are the weakest link goodbye

This was at one of your socials I was chatting to the couple B lol"

Yes I thought it was remember it well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Once spoke to a couple at a social who were into this and did just this before the social

Basically a group of men on fab were picked by the man in the couple. All arrived at their bedroom when the lady was already blindfolded. Each guy took a turn before leaving. She stayed blindfolded until they all have left not knowing the identify of any.

Genuine question ... do the ladies ever choose their own group of men?

I knew a lady years ago (she was part of a couple) who would invite a group of men to a hotel..they would all meet for a drink downstairs in the bar (bit like a m&g). She would have a drink with the group and after a bit would pick the 4/5 guys she wanted to join her upstairs.

I always thought a bit brutal for the poor guys sent home but always worked for her

Much harder to do these days with restrictions though!

B x

Oh I kinda love this idea kinda like the X Factor but it's the Sex Factor..congratulations you are through to the next round.

Or to the guys going home...you are the weakest link goodbye

This was at one of your socials I was chatting to the couple B lol

Yes I thought it was remember it well "

Gone but not forgotten lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve been to a few. Most are very well organised. Others not so much. I did attend one where the husband remained upstairs in the hotel and she met the group of guys in the bar for drinks. We all parted company and the selected got a message with the room number and a time. It was fun. Relaxed and free flowing. Although one lad got a bit over excited and came on the back of my leg. He was a gent and cleaned it off. Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh god, giving me some great fantasy ideas here now! L lol. You surprise me "

Ill have to ask Mr S nicely for christmas

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh god, giving me some great fantasy ideas here now! L lol. You surprise me

Ill have to ask Mr S nicely for christmas "

now giving me ideas lol

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By *og-Man OP   Man
over a year ago

somewhere


"Oh god, giving me some great fantasy ideas here now! L lol. You surprise me

Ill have to ask Mr S nicely for christmas "

You had to bring the C word into it

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By *andomCaptainMan
over a year ago

Town


"I think it should be left to the lady to pick the men "

Ah the age of chivalry is not dead

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Once spoke to a couple at a social who were into this and did just this before the social

Basically a group of men on fab were picked by the man in the couple. All arrived at their bedroom when the lady was already blindfolded. Each guy took a turn before leaving. She stayed blindfolded until they all have left not knowing the identify of any.

Genuine question ... do the ladies ever choose their own group of men?

I knew a lady years ago (she was part of a couple) who would invite a group of men to a hotel..they would all meet for a drink downstairs in the bar (bit like a m&g). She would have a drink with the group and after a bit would pick the 4/5 guys she wanted to join her upstairs.

I always thought a bit brutal for the poor guys sent home but always worked for her

Much harder to do these days with restrictions though!

B x

Oh I kinda love this idea kinda like the X Factor but it's the Sex Factor..congratulations you are through to the next round. "

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By *asual777Man
over a year ago

i travel all over


"I’ve been to a few. Most are very well organised. Others not so much. I did attend one where the husband remained upstairs in the hotel and she met the group of guys in the bar for drinks. We all parted company and the selected got a message with the room number and a time. It was fun. Relaxed and free flowing. Although one lad got a bit over excited and came on the back of my leg. He was a gent and cleaned it off. Lol"

I was once leaving and had my suit on and someone came And it hit me on the suit pocket

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