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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi guys, joined here during lockdown, now that things are reopening what improvements should I make to my profile to make it catchy without revealing face?

Thanks in advance

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By *issusWoman
over a year ago

Belfast

Honestly pretty much anything you do will be an improvement.

On a serious note - browse through men's profiles (it's not gay, I promise! ) and see what catches your own eye, what do you think is mundane and boring and what you reckon is interesting and strands out.

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By *affa31Woman
over a year ago

Galway

Pictures - no need for face pics. Chest, butt, clothed/partially clothed. Check out some of the guys on the forum for pic idea.

More detail about yourself and what you’re looking for is always a good start

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By *aid backMan
over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out

To improve your chances I'd

show your verifications

Have pictures up

And hope that you've not spent the lockdown sending off "wanna fuck" or annoying emails to everyone within 100 miles of you.

The last one is probably going to determine if you're going to enjoy fab more post lockdown more than anything else

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By *issusWoman
over a year ago

Belfast


"Honestly pretty much anything you do will be an improvement.

On a serious note - browse through men's profiles (it's not gay, I promise! ) and see what catches your own eye, what do you think is mundane and boring and what you reckon is interesting and strands out. "

It would also help immensely if you would be able to add that your partner doesn't mind you being here.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

If you really want to stand out and be unique don't take advice from people on the internet.

If your profile reflects bits and pieces of 20 other people rather than your own personality you won't be able to sustain it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know this may sound it but without wishing to appear rude arguably the best advice anyone could give is to use the forum 'search' function for similar threads, Ohpee! There's lots of helpful advice from friendly Fabbers!

What I would say, personally, is that your profile is an extension of your personality and who you are so never shy away from showing yourself off! Be that through your pics, your bio or whatever it may be! You don't have to put your face on display to show people who you are

As already mentioned with pictures maybe have a look at other men's profiles and see what sort of pictures are popular, variety is the spice of life after all!

Don't be afraid to talk about you and your interests! Be it music, film, sport or whatever it is that makes you you!

More often than not people will look at a profile before reading a message or deciding whether or not to reply so if you can perhaps spark a common interest and passion it can serve as a good ice breaker/conversation starter

Ultimately the big test is if you stumbled upon your profile, would it grab your attention? Again, as people often look at it before deciding anything if it doesn't you're fighting an uphill battle.

In the end though make it work for you, there's no 'copy and paste' formula but there's certainly ways to make it express who you are. However, just be you! Once you do that you'll attract those best suited to you!

Best of luck, Ohpee, and Happy Birthday!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks all

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

Like some of the others have said just be yourself there is no point in putting something on your profile that doesn't reflect who you are.

Basically your profile is what will entice someone to answer any message you send,it's your shop window so to speak and I know I look at a profile before I open any message from someone and a profile that hasn't made an effort to show me some idea of what the person is like in their bio and pictures then the chances of me wanting to chat are slim.

I don't give profile advice on here anymore as 99% of the time the person asking doesn't actually take any advice they are given on board.

All I will say is be yourself on yours there is no point in copying what others do as that is not a reflection of who you are.

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