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By *asual777 OP   Man
over a year ago

i travel all over

Can we have a big (ooh err) and grown up debate about penises? There are numerous preferences expressed throughout fab about length and girth . As a bi guy and also from observations during group meets it’s difficult to judge a book by its cover.

You can get lesser endowed guys with unbelievable stamina , confidence and who are able to use chemistry and other body parts to work miracles. Also It’s impossible to DP a lady with a bigger guy, there is simply no space left !

Thoughts ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can we have a big (ooh err) and grown up debate about penises? There are numerous preferences expressed throughout fab about length and girth . As a bi guy and also from observations during group meets it’s difficult to judge a book by its cover.

You can get lesser endowed guys with unbelievable stamina , confidence and who are able to use chemistry and other body parts to work miracles. Also It’s impossible to DP a lady with a bigger guy, there is simply no space left !

Thoughts ? "

Its a load of cock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Guess it’s boils down to the age old say “it’s not the size, it’s what you do with it that counts”

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its not the size of the liner it's the motion of the ocean

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's one of those questions that has people talking forever.. maybe it's down to preference and like destiny says how you use it.

Who knows?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s how it’s used

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

An adult conversation usually comes without a sugar coating so the answer to the above is who really cares?

I've only ever seen size threads started by men.

You can drive a mini and complete the Italian job or you can talk about your HGV licence all day but can't park your Focus in the staff carpark.

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By *ouple 0073Couple
over a year ago

donegal


"An adult conversation usually comes without a sugar coating so the answer to the above is who really cares?

I've only ever seen size threads started by men.

You can drive a mini and complete the Italian job or you can talk about your HGV licence all day but can't park your Focus in the staff carpark."
brilliant x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Generally, women care a lot less about penis size than men do

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By *3nsesMan
over a year ago

Dublin

Threads like this nearly always seem to go down the path of trying to convince women that a big cock isn't actually that important, that it's what you do with it that counts.

If women want a big cock, they want a big cock. I don't think going down the road of telling them they are actually wrong or don't really know what they want is going to be a successful approach.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was once with a blind girl who told me I was the biggest she'd ever been with!

I think she was just pulling my leg though

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By *oft_sexy_sweetWoman
over a year ago

Dublin


" You can get lesser endowed guys with unbelievable stamina , confidence and who are able to use chemistry and other body parts to work miracles. "

People with smaller cocks can absolutely get their partners off in a number of different ways, no argument there. But as someone who enjoys a big cock, being fingered or eaten out or fucked with a toy is not scratching the itch. Are they pleasurable and do they make me cum? Yes. Are they mentally and physically what I crave? No.

If your only goal is to have an orgasm, you don't need a big cock. You don't actually need a cock at all, or even a partner. Being fucked is a specific physical sensation, one I enjoy as an act regardless of whether I cum or not, and for me, being fucked is the main event. If I'm not getting a good solid dicking, I am not sexually satisfied.

That doesn't mean I exclusively sleep with people with monster cocks, but it does mean that I am, unfortunately, less interested in people with smaller cocks. (I'd classify 'smaller' as below the national average, which is 5.5 - 6 inches.)

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By *atherjackhackettMan
over a year ago

Tipperary

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By *atherjackhackettMan
over a year ago

Tipperary


" You can get lesser endowed guys with unbelievable stamina , confidence and who are able to use chemistry and other body parts to work miracles.

People with smaller cocks can absolutely get their partners off in a number of different ways, no argument there. But as someone who enjoys a big cock, being fingered or eaten out or fucked with a toy is not scratching the itch. Are they pleasurable and do they make me cum? Yes. Are they mentally and physically what I crave? No.

If your only goal is to have an orgasm, you don't need a big cock. You don't actually need a cock at all, or even a partner. Being fucked is a specific physical sensation, one I enjoy as an act regardless of whether I cum or not, and for me, being fucked is the main event. If I'm not getting a good solid dicking, I am not sexually satisfied.

That doesn't mean I exclusively sleep with people with monster cocks, but it does mean that I am, unfortunately, less interested in people with smaller cocks. (I'd classify 'smaller' as below the national average, which is 5.5 - 6 inches.)

"

As all male fabbers rush for the tape measure

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

I like a woman with small hands it makes my cock look bigger

Who needs a measuring tape

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By *antra MassageMan
over a year ago

South Side.

I like a size debate. I'm very happy with mine. There was a time in my youth when I used to be mortified when it slowly crept down my leg while sitting on the bus... Vibrations I think. Most guys are more concerned about cock size than women. Most women don't choose a partner based on cock size, they use other criteria. Lots of guys have anxiety around their cock size, too small,? too slender? ,Size is a fashion anyway. Look at all the beautiful marble statues, of David, Adonis, etc with small cocks. (likewise the female nudes with large feet!). The size of your cock, is probably inherited, genetic perhaps. So, if you come from a long line of men with assorted size cocks, who are otherwise healthy, you're grand. And remember, some man somewhere in the world is envious of your cock size, because he has inherited a small one,and believes he should be bigger(like in the movies, right).

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By *ublinguy99Man
over a year ago

Dublin South

For those with size criteria, how can you actually be sure someone satisfies the criteria in advance. Or on reaching the point of no return do you whip out your trusty stanley measuring tape and decide then whether to close up shop or not?

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"I like a woman with small hands it makes my cock look bigger

Who needs a measuring tape "

That's me with my big paws out of the picture, yes who needs a measuring tape, from thumb tip to little finger tip hand spread wide it's exactly 8 inch.

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By *assie2019Couple
over a year ago

Kilkenny

Mrs here. Size don't matter to me. I'm pretty small so too big can be a problem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Generally, women care a lot less about penis size than men do"

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By *atherjackhackettMan
over a year ago

Tipperary


"I like a woman with small hands it makes my cock look bigger

Who needs a measuring tape

That's me with my big paws out of the picture, yes who needs a measuring tape, from thumb tip to little finger tip hand spread wide it's exactly 8 inch. "

Goes for the measuring tape again

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By *asual777 OP   Man
over a year ago

i travel all over

On a different note what are the advantages of a hidden profile ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"On a different note what are the advantages of a hidden profile ? "

Less attention when you're not in the mood for it

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By *antra MassageMan
over a year ago

South Side.


"On a different note what are the advantages of a hidden profile ? "

I'm taking time out, to decide what I really want from Fab. So, less messages,.. And hopefully, create a rewritten profile,with different pics to attract what I want.

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By *asual777 OP   Man
over a year ago

i travel all over

Thanks

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

I genuinely don't really care about cock size the only exception is when it is the extreme end of the scale either way ,neither of which would particularly be of interest of me. I have never asked about the size of anyones cock before I met them and never will.

Cliche as it sounds it's the person interests me more than their cock.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"On a different note what are the advantages of a hidden profile ? "

I often hide mine, its easier than deleting it.

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By *oft_sexy_sweetWoman
over a year ago

Dublin


"For those with size criteria, how can you actually be sure someone satisfies the criteria in advance. Or on reaching the point of no return do you whip out your trusty stanley measuring tape and decide then whether to close up shop or not?"

You can't move for tripping over a dick pic here so on the (brave) assumption that it's their actual penis, you can generally just tell whether it appeals or not. Hands in the pic helps!

But I'm not going around asking for measurements or whipping out the tape measure ever, and if I find IRL it was misrepresented or didn't do it for me, I just wouldn't meet that person again.

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