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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Do you send the first message?

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By *ofusplusCouple
over a year ago

Limerick


"Do you send the first message? "

Rarely but if I do, it's in response to an interesting Forum comment. Mrs

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By *indenMan
over a year ago

Naas which is South West of Dublin

Not often enough for the shy but hunky lads…

Whoever they are….

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By *rmrs1234Couple
over a year ago

Waterford

If someone caught my eye i would outside of forums. Unfortunately none have worked out but cest la vie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Occasionally I would send a first message and its nearly always through the forums.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Not often enough for the shy but hunky lads…

Whoever they are…. "

Who??

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

Ye I've sent first messages a good few times. I've no problem sending one sure the worst that can happen it gets deleted.

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By *rmrs1234Couple
over a year ago

Waterford


"Ye I've sent first messages a good few times. I've no problem sending one sure the worst that can happen it gets deleted. "

Whyyyyy dont i get replies or my messages get deleted whhhyyyyyy

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By *affa31Woman
over a year ago

Galway

Not a whole lot. More likely to wink and see if they respond

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By *assie2019Couple
over a year ago

Kilkenny


"Not a whole lot. More likely to wink and see if they respond"

Yeah that's my go to aswell.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good topic Op. I'm often happy to send the first message if the profile intrigues me even if they are new or unverified. Some of my best meets have being from me taking a chance and reaching out first. I'm confident enough to know what I want so I'm never too shy to make the first move

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Good topic Op. I'm often happy to send the first message if the profile intrigues me even if they are new or unverified. Some of my best meets have being from me taking a chance and reaching out first. I'm confident enough to know what I want so I'm never too shy to make the first move "

Thats cos you are a sexy minx and any lad or lady would be delighted to have got your attention

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say about 95% of the time and I'm terrible at it

Pretty much every time I send that first message I'm like "what was I thinking" or "Well that's shit"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any hot woman from cork

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very rarely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Once or twice and I don't like it lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Once or twice and I don't like it lol "

Haha I feel the same

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Any hot woman from cork "

Go hijack another thread!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lady's sending an opening message.

(Laughter,shock face )

Surely this is an urban myth

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By *ecentguy321Man
over a year ago

nearby

I prefer to wait for a message, Or a wink to let me know theres interest. I try to avoid sending messages as most ladies complain about the volume they receive. Not always, but mostly.

So theres probably others of the same view. so go on, send him a wee message!

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down


"Ye I've sent first messages a good few times. I've no problem sending one sure the worst that can happen it gets deleted.

Whyyyyy dont i get replies or my messages get deleted whhhyyyyyy "

that will be my next thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I find one I like then I've no problem sending a message. It rarely happens though...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you send the first message? "

Always. Have men blocked from messaging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm far more likely to send a message than a wink - winks make me cringe..

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By *issusWoman
over a year ago

Belfast

I send first messages all the time. No biggie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have done a few times and have had some good results from them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I send them, mostly off the forums if i appreciate a comment or just because here is where I spend most of my fab time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whenever someone piques my interest, be that a sexual interest or otherwise.

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By *indenMan
over a year ago

Naas which is South West of Dublin


"Ye I've sent first messages a good few times. I've no problem sending one sure the worst that can happen it gets deleted. "

I’m going to try to encourage men to stop doing this and I’ll start with me….

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By *eterdunneMan
over a year ago

leixlip


"Not often enough for the shy but hunky lads…

Whoever they are….

Who?? "

Well being shy means we are hard to find. Lol

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By *eterdunneMan
over a year ago

leixlip


"Good topic Op. I'm often happy to send the first message if the profile intrigues me even if they are new or unverified. Some of my best meets have being from me taking a chance and reaching out first. I'm confident enough to know what I want so I'm never too shy to make the first move "

Good on you.

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By *eterdunneMan
over a year ago

leixlip


"I have done a few times and have had some good results from them."

Show me a man who wouldn't respond to you lol

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By *aint_or_SinnerWoman
over a year ago

South County Dublin


"Do you send the first message? "

Absolutely! I've sent first messages because of something that piqued my interest on the Forum, be that to just chat about opinions on something. Or because it's a profile which caught my interest...possibilities

I personally don't look at winks, and would rarely use winks to get someone's attention, though I have done it.

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By *onegal82Man
over a year ago

letterkenny/Belfast

I've only got 1 or 2 first messages tbh . Guess better than none. Lol but always nice to get one but always nice to be a gent too qnd send first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Exactly the attitude I like, I know women who wont make the first move because the want the man to ... Men are slow on the pick up ha ha... We need it obvious!

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By *dfabMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne

F All in my experience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Received a first message? Very rare.

Received a first wink? Yes. Then responded with a message which is left unread .

So question for the lady's. We follow the rule no response means not interested. Does that apply for unreal messages?

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By *cottybear74Man
over a year ago

kilkenny

I have done this.

I have also winked.

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