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"Not sure if there's been a thread on this subject, but I'm sure most have seen the released vid of the couple in the back of the cab.....hearing a lot of talk about the after effects. Any thoughts?" The video was released without consent Did the female try to take her own life | |||
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"Bad decisions all around but it’s also worth remembering that the Taxi driver himself is a victim here too. Those people (both adults) made a choice to perform a sex act in this persons car and without his consent. It was indecent exposure and a crime! Had this been a female taxi driver the couple would have been arrested and the public view that their actions were disgusting towards the driver. As for “The driver enjoyed it”, turn the tables again and consider if you would have said that of a female driver in this situation." How is the taxi driver a victim ?At any point during the ride he could have stopped it, stopped his taxi and told them to get out. Told them about the cctv but didn't do anything | |||
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"Bad decisions all around but it’s also worth remembering that the Taxi driver himself is a victim here too. Those people (both adults) made a choice to perform a sex act in this persons car and without his consent. It was indecent exposure and a crime! Had this been a female taxi driver the couple would have been arrested and the public view that their actions were disgusting towards the driver. As for “The driver enjoyed it”, turn the tables again and consider if you would have said that of a female driver in this situation. How is the taxi driver a victim ?At any point during the ride he could have stopped it, stopped his taxi and told them to get out. Told them about the cctv but didn't do anything " With respect we just don’t know how people will react these days, they could have become violent. Any person in a frame of mind to do THAT in the back of a cab in daylight is clearly unstable. The driver may just not have had the confidence or been unable to act. Either way what they did was indeed a crime and not acting to stop it does not make it otherwise, it’s literally victim shaming. Again I ask you, if it had been a female driver, would you expect her to confront a clearly unstable couple? | |||
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"Bad decisions all around but it’s also worth remembering that the Taxi driver himself is a victim here too. Those people (both adults) made a choice to perform a sex act in this persons car and without his consent. It was indecent exposure and a crime! Had this been a female taxi driver the couple would have been arrested and the public view that their actions were disgusting towards the driver. As for “The driver enjoyed it”, turn the tables again and consider if you would have said that of a female driver in this situation. How is the taxi driver a victim ?At any point during the ride he could have stopped it, stopped his taxi and told them to get out. Told them about the cctv but didn't do anything With respect we just don’t know how people will react these days, they could have become violent. Any person in a frame of mind to do THAT in the back of a cab in daylight is clearly unstable. The driver may just not have had the confidence or been unable to act. Either way what they did was indeed a crime and not acting to stop it does not make it otherwise, it’s literally victim shaming. Again I ask you, if it had been a female driver, would you expect her to confront a clearly unstable couple?" Did he ask them to stop? Did he tell them they were being recorded? Did he pullover and ask them to get out ? What the driver did was upload a sexual video on the internet without consent, clearly causing distress and committed a crime himself | |||
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"The two perspectives shown here are interesting. Both were wrong but I think it’s important to recognise that only one person had this situation forced upon them. Still, it’s always good to explore alternative opinions and I appreciate those of you who have politely disagreed with mine!" Is it not also true that the sharing of the video was a situation which was forced upon the passengers? | |||
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"The two perspectives shown here are interesting. Both were wrong but I think it’s important to recognise that only one person had this situation forced upon them. Still, it’s always good to explore alternative opinions and I appreciate those of you who have politely disagreed with mine! Is it not also true that the sharing of the video was a situation which was forced upon the passengers? " Absolutely! And it was completely wrong! I think however that there would have been a different reaction to this video being posted had the guy hopped into the cab alone and started playing with himself, but because a pretty girl was involved there is much more outrage towards the video posting and little towards the couple. | |||
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"The two perspectives shown here are interesting. Both were wrong but I think it’s important to recognise that only one person had this situation forced upon them. Still, it’s always good to explore alternative opinions and I appreciate those of you who have politely disagreed with mine! Is it not also true that the sharing of the video was a situation which was forced upon the passengers? Absolutely! And it was completely wrong! I think however that there would have been a different reaction to this video being posted had the guy hopped into the cab alone and started playing with himself, but because a pretty girl was involved there is much more outrage towards the video posting and little towards the couple." Completely different reaction....the taxi driver would have put a stop to it if it was a single bloke playing with himself | |||
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"The two perspectives shown here are interesting. Both were wrong but I think it’s important to recognise that only one person had this situation forced upon them. Still, it’s always good to explore alternative opinions and I appreciate those of you who have politely disagreed with mine!" I don't think it excuses in any way the taxi driver's unprofessional behaviour during and after the event. Posting the vid online without consent is a crime imo. | |||
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"The two perspectives shown here are interesting. Both were wrong but I think it’s important to recognise that only one person had this situation forced upon them. Still, it’s always good to explore alternative opinions and I appreciate those of you who have politely disagreed with mine! Is it not also true that the sharing of the video was a situation which was forced upon the passengers? Absolutely! And it was completely wrong! I think however that there would have been a different reaction to this video being posted had the guy hopped into the cab alone and started playing with himself, but because a pretty girl was involved there is much more outrage towards the video posting and little towards the couple." So not only one person had the situation forced upon them then | |||
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"The two perspectives shown here are interesting. Both were wrong but I think it’s important to recognise that only one person had this situation forced upon them. Still, it’s always good to explore alternative opinions and I appreciate those of you who have politely disagreed with mine! Is it not also true that the sharing of the video was a situation which was forced upon the passengers? Absolutely! And it was completely wrong! I think however that there would have been a different reaction to this video being posted had the guy hopped into the cab alone and started playing with himself, but because a pretty girl was involved there is much more outrage towards the video posting and little towards the couple." It's nothing to do with a "pretty girl" being involved. It's the issue of consent. He uploaded a video without their consent which is a crime. If you meet a guy or couple, have sex, he/she/they video it with your knowledge or consent and upload it to a porn site with your faces clearly visible... what's the difference ? | |||
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"I don't think this should be being discussed on the forums - the video was shared without consent and so any discussions about it are also harmful to the victims. " I doubt the couple are on Fab ,so that statement is silly,this situation is being discussed all over the Internet,Twitter,Reddit etc,i doubt what one swinger says on Fab will have any bearing over the legal proceedings | |||
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"I don't think this should be being discussed on the forums - the video was shared without consent and so any discussions about it are also harmful to the victims. I doubt the couple are on Fab ,so that statement is silly,this situation is being discussed all over the Internet,Twitter,Reddit etc,i doubt what one swinger says on Fab will have any bearing over the legal proceedings" Sharing intimate things without consent is NEVER OK. Regardless of legal issues it's still not OK. Regardless of swinger or no swinger. Regardless of drugs or alcohol consumption. Regardless of marital status. Regardless of how many peoole already saw it. Regardless of whether anyone committed suicide. It's just not OK ever. | |||
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"I don't think this should be being discussed on the forums - the video was shared without consent and so any discussions about it are also harmful to the victims. I doubt the couple are on Fab ,so that statement is silly,this situation is being discussed all over the Internet,Twitter,Reddit etc,i doubt what one swinger says on Fab will have any bearing over the legal proceedings Sharing intimate things without consent is NEVER OK. Regardless of legal issues it's still not OK. Regardless of swinger or no swinger. Regardless of drugs or alcohol consumption. Regardless of marital status. Regardless of how many peoole already saw it. Regardless of whether anyone committed suicide. It's just not OK ever." You obviously didn't read the statement properly"I don't think this should be being discussed on the forums" the key word is discussed,everyone's talking about it unfortunately.For someone who responds on every forum thread i thought you would have understood that,but maybe too quick to get your tuppence worth in... | |||
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"Leave these peoole to what remains of the tatters of their privacy. The gossip here and elsewhere isn't helping anyone." With the best will in the world, and as I've already said I think it was unacceptable for the driver to share the video, the two people in question weren't particularly concerned about their privacy when they were going at it in broad daylight in the back of the taxi in the middle of Belfast where they could have been seen by anyone - families with children included - who may have pulled up alongside at a junction. Hence my limited sympathy and actually where I agree with the statement about how the attitudes would likely be very different if it was some oul fella jacking himself off | |||
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"Leave these peoole to what remains of the tatters of their privacy. The gossip here and elsewhere isn't helping anyone. With the best will in the world, and as I've already said I think it was unacceptable for the driver to share the video, the two people in question weren't particularly concerned about their privacy when they were going at it in broad daylight in the back of the taxi in the middle of Belfast where they could have been seen by anyone - families with children included - who may have pulled up alongside at a junction. Hence my limited sympathy and actually where I agree with the statement about how the attitudes would likely be very different if it was some oul fella jacking himself off" If they were committing indecent exposure or any other offense then they should absolutely be charged. Thats a given I wouldn't support them any more than a guy flashing a stiffy in a mac. That doesn't excuse the further crime of sharing a sex video without consent. Their punishment should be that which is required by law, not some kind of vigilante public punishment by titillating video sharing. | |||
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"Leave these peoole to what remains of the tatters of their privacy. The gossip here and elsewhere isn't helping anyone. With the best will in the world, and as I've already said I think it was unacceptable for the driver to share the video, the two people in question weren't particularly concerned about their privacy when they were going at it in broad daylight in the back of the taxi in the middle of Belfast where they could have been seen by anyone - families with children included - who may have pulled up alongside at a junction. Hence my limited sympathy and actually where I agree with the statement about how the attitudes would likely be very different if it was some oul fella jacking himself off If they were committing indecent exposure or any other offense then they should absolutely be charged. Thats a given I wouldn't support them any more than a guy flashing a stiffy in a mac. That doesn't excuse the further crime of sharing a sex video without consent. Their punishment should be that which is required by law, not some kind of vigilante public punishment by titillating video sharing." In their case no way should they be charged with anything and definitely the vid should not have been uploaded. | |||
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"Leave these peoole to what remains of the tatters of their privacy. The gossip here and elsewhere isn't helping anyone. With the best will in the world, and as I've already said I think it was unacceptable for the driver to share the video, the two people in question weren't particularly concerned about their privacy when they were going at it in broad daylight in the back of the taxi in the middle of Belfast where they could have been seen by anyone - families with children included - who may have pulled up alongside at a junction. Hence my limited sympathy and actually where I agree with the statement about how the attitudes would likely be very different if it was some oul fella jacking himself off If they were committing indecent exposure or any other offense then they should absolutely be charged. Thats a given I wouldn't support them any more than a guy flashing a stiffy in a mac. That doesn't excuse the further crime of sharing a sex video without consent. Their punishment should be that which is required by law, not some kind of vigilante public punishment by titillating video sharing." Agree with this. Both sides committed criminal acts. I will say that anywhere that is recording your image is obliged to have signage letting you know. It's been a while since I was in a value cab but I think it is. If it was Value cabs footage, they may also be subject to very hefty fines from the information commissioner for breaching GDPR as well as the criminal act of sharing the video. | |||
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"Leave these peoole to what remains of the tatters of their privacy. The gossip here and elsewhere isn't helping anyone. With the best will in the world, and as I've already said I think it was unacceptable for the driver to share the video, the two people in question weren't particularly concerned about their privacy when they were going at it in broad daylight in the back of the taxi in the middle of Belfast where they could have been seen by anyone - families with children included - who may have pulled up alongside at a junction. Hence my limited sympathy and actually where I agree with the statement about how the attitudes would likely be very different if it was some oul fella jacking himself off If they were committing indecent exposure or any other offense then they should absolutely be charged. Thats a given I wouldn't support them any more than a guy flashing a stiffy in a mac. That doesn't excuse the further crime of sharing a sex video without consent. Their punishment should be that which is required by law, not some kind of vigilante public punishment by titillating video sharing." And I've already said it doesn't excuse the actions of the driver | |||
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"The taxi driver recorded a video of a couple having sex in the back of his black cab then he posted it ?" It was recorded on the cctv in the taxi and it was na copy of the cctv that was posted online. | |||
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