FabSwingers.com forum: Naming and shaming

By *r.and.mrs2018 OP Couple
over a year ago

Dungarvan

Can we set up a post with all the time wasting people that don't show up for meets,just a suggestion it might discourage people from making fools of people, it takes a lot of organising to get away between babysitters and hotel and to be stood up is very frustrating, we are all here for a bit of excitement there is no need for this kind of carry-on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't think the powers that be would allow naming and shaming over forums..

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

It's against site rules

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No because it's against the site rules and open to abuse & misuse

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By *ublinguy99Man
over a year ago

Dublin South

potentially libellous assuming a person was minded to sue, which probably wouldnt be the case, given people like their privacy

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By *oxyvixen99Woman
over a year ago

Newtownabbey

What's to stop someone adding a person's name out of spite?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Spite? Here? Never!

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By *rmrs1234Couple
over a year ago

Waterford

If someone doesnt show for a meet you can report them to admin. Public naming and shaming is open to abuse and i think people get enough of that on here as it is. I understand the frustration as we have been in the same situation but just report, block and move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well simple advice choose wisely who you want to meet. More chat, webcam , phone call get to know the person may be you will come to know who he or she really is before the meet day.

Some people are expert in camouflage

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By *ofusplusCouple
over a year ago

Limerick

Just wondering what proportion of no-shows had a prior social?

I can only surmise, but would think that it is low. Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just wondering what proportion of no-shows had a prior social?

I can only surmise, but would think that it is low. Mrs

I always assume some of the no-show are for socials.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't get why this keeps happening. Why are we here for if its not to meet each other.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can we set up a post with all the time wasting people that don't show up for meets,just a suggestion it might discourage people from making fools of people, it takes a lot of organising to get away between babysitters and hotel and to be stood up is very frustrating, we are all here for a bit of excitement there is no need for this kind of carry-on "

This is what private notes are for. So you can make notes about a person for your own reference without naming and shaming.

Naming and shaming is generally bad form.

Although I do share your frustration as Missus and I get stood up all the time. Our best method of dealing with this is just a simple block and move on.

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By *ofusplusCouple
over a year ago

Limerick

"Just wondering what proportion of no-shows had a prior social?

I can only surmise, but would think that it is low. Mrs

I always assume some of the no-show are for socials."

I'm referring specifically to fun meets, not socials as they require more preparation and expense

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By *ickheadcuntCouple
over a year ago

Cork Ireland

Happens to us all

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By *ol_ieMan
over a year ago

Dublin west

Have never not shown up when I said I would but have been stood up loads of times by girls and couples.

Even been ghosted a few times where they just vanished

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By *aidbare5Couple
over a year ago

down the road

Maybe a "name and commend" list and put all the good ones there.

Especially the genuine singles.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe a "name and commend" list and put all the good ones there.

Especially the genuine singles.

So verifications then?

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
Forum Mod
over a year ago

My Own Little World

No you can't use the forums, your profile or status to name and shame other members.

If someone has arranged a meet and are a no show, then please report so Admin can have a look.

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