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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Why do people on here require a pic for safety reasons??

How do you know from a picture if a person is a safe person or not??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do people on here require a pic for safety reasons??

How do you know from a picture if a person is a safe person or not?? "

I would expect a face pic if I was meeting someone

As for safety i don't know if that is a sure safe way. For me safety is telling a friend I have a meet and where I'm going etc. If its a social meet I meet somewhere public , coffee shop or with covid had a few social distance coffee but always in a well lit car park with people around.

I know when I joined first I met a guy went in his car and it was only when he popped his dick out for a bj did i realised noone knew where I was, didn't know the guy, didn't know his name.

So if someone asks for a face pic for their reassurance and safety I wouldn't question it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yes fully agree with what you saying and I have no issue in sending a face pic if agreeing to meet.

Chatting to someone new they looked for face pic straight away for safety reasons in case we got on and met.

I perfer to chat with someone to get to know them before a meet also

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes fully agree with what you saying and I have no issue in sending a face pic if agreeing to meet.

Chatting to someone new they looked for face pic straight away for safety reasons in case we got on and met.

I perfer to chat with someone to get to know them before a meet also"

Ya be wary of new profiles looking for pics

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Definitely, I've no problem sending face pic when I'm comfortable with the profile.

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

Trust your instincts. If it feels wrong it probably is wrong.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Trust your instincts. If it feels wrong it probably is wrong."
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a bit like anal sex for many I suppose

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Filtynights, that why I perfer to chat and get to know people before arranging a meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No issue of sending my face pic.

At the end of the day, we all need fun with chemistry same goes to men and woman.

Ladies no like it no light it

Plenty mermaid and Aquaman in the sea

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By *issusWoman
over a year ago

Belfast

I like to exchange photos early on in a conversation.

Nothing more awkward than chatting to someone for ages then finding out that you're in no way attracted to that person then make excuses why you dont want to have sex with them

Op you mentioned safety. It does play a part in it too.

As it could be someone who knows you and they might not want you to know that they're on fab.

For example: someone I used to work with years ago found me on here, recognised me, then after I turned them down - they told all our mutual aquantances that I'm now a prostitute on fab.

I'm not saying you're in any way inclined to such actions, but these things happen. A lot!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone is entitled to ask for a pic just as you ate entitled to say no.

If its a deal breaker right at the start for someone before you can even get a feel for each others I'd say your right to be skeptical.

From the safety aspect as you get closer to arranging a meet I can understand it.

If someone still doesn't want to swap it can be a red flag but also on the flip side someone who maybe pushy might be less likely to act aggressively knowing the other person has a face pic or them should things tern nasty

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By *issusWoman
over a year ago

Belfast


"Everyone is entitled to ask for a pic just as you ate entitled to say no.

If its a deal breaker right at the start for someone before you can even get a feel for each others I'd say your right to be skeptical.

From the safety aspect as you get closer to arranging a meet I can understand it.

If someone still doesn't want to swap it can be a red flag but also on the flip side someone who maybe pushy might be less likely to act aggressively knowing the other person has a face pic or them should things tern nasty"

That is also true

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