FabSwingers.com forum: Couples - who made the first move?

By *3nses OP Man
over a year ago

Dublin

Always interested about how couples who started out only playing with each other ended up swinging.

Who was the first one to suggest something additional? Was it an easy process? Anyone extremely reluctant but is now much happier?

I'm sure there has been plenty of situations when it has gone wrong and finished things so if anyone wants to share those incidents, feel free.

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We both met here so for us it was taking the time to build a relationship without swinging or allowing others to stir shit. We took our time and when we felt the time was right and we were solid as a couple we came back. We have our rules that work for us and we don't expect either to meet anyone for the sake of the other. Open, honest communication at all times

By *amson4DelilahCouple
over a year ago

ballina

I can't remember who suggested it first, but we have been on about it literally from the start. We had both given each other the OK, if when out to fuck someone you had chemistry, but it never happened & to be fair, playing together is the real turn on for us..

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We both met here so for us it was taking the time to build a relationship without swinging or allowing others to stir shit. We took our time and when we felt the time was right and we were solid as a couple we came back. We have our rules that work for us and we don't expect either to meet anyone for the sake of the other. Open, honest communication at all times "

We met here too, and we are going slow at the swinging side till be find our happy place.

Mrs S x

By *3nses OP Man
over a year ago

Dublin

Thanks for the response.

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I certainly was first to bring up with my wife. She’s yet to act on it but I feel like she’s getting fed up with my inability to provide regular intercourse so I may find out what it’s like soon enough. I am curious how I’ll feel if she does act on it.