FabSwingers.com forum: Interests

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

You know what I mean, those boxes you tick off when you're trying to put a half decent profile together.

So what does it mean to you?

Are they a menu of sorts, of what you're willing to do and what you're comfortable with sexually?

Are they a list of things you'd like to try?

Are they prerequisite skills and experience needed in a potential meet?

Or did you just tick everything?

I've none listed cause I'm mysterious n'all that.

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By *affa31Woman
over a year ago

Galway

Haven’t a clue what I ticked and I pay zero attention to them on a profile.

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By *herry...Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere

For me I ticked the boxes in which I would be willing to do if I were to go on a meet, some of the options I don't even know what they mean, others are just not appealing to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same as your lovely self, I haven't selected any as I find a lot of guys dive straight into the list like it's all on the table at the off

Same as saying you can accommodate means most first mails start with 'where abouts are you?'

When reading someone else's profile I don't pay much heed to the list of interests

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had to go check what I had ticked. I don't pass any heed on what people tick , I joined fab to explore

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I ticked a few that interest me but none of it is set in stone which is clearly stated in my bio and none of it is a deal-breaker.

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

I can't remember what I ticked when I joined I remember only ticking a few because I thought anything else could be discussed once I got to know someone. I don't pay any heed to what others have ticked either.

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By *oserMan
over a year ago

where the wild roses grow

I ticked anything that I thought might get me the roide

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Same as your lovely self, I haven't selected any as I find a lot of guys dive straight into the list like it's all on the table at the off

Same as saying you can accommodate means most first mails start with 'where abouts are you?'

When reading someone else's profile I don't pay much heed to the list of interests"

Or if you cannot accommodate the assumption is you're playing away from home.

You can't win.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I can't remember what I ticked when I joined I remember only ticking a few because I thought anything else could be discussed once I got to know someone. I don't pay any heed to what others have ticked either. "

Ye think it's better to talk things over with a potential meet, unless it's a very specific type thing you solely seek.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's so many things I want to add to that list now

then again, they'd just get me more annoying questions.... it's bad enough every time I make a comment on a pegging thread

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By *3nsesMan
over a year ago

Dublin

I ticked what I felt was most appropriate at that specific time but they aren't set in stone or essential. I don't really know what that is without looking but could have a rough guess.

Like a picking from a restaurant menu, there's always a lot I'd like to try but what I select is very situation and mood dependent at that specific time.

I don't pay any attention to it on others people's profiles. I'd get more info from their description or photos.

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By *3nsesMan
over a year ago

Dublin

"There's so many things I want to add to that list now

then again, they'd just get me more annoying questions.... it's bad enough every time I make a comment on a pegging thread

Well, adding one thing to the list would be a start.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"There's so many things I want to add to that list now

then again, they'd just get me more annoying questions.... it's bad enough every time I make a comment on a pegging thread

I take it pegging isn't one of the boxes to tick?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And why does it have voyeurism but not exhibitionism

I feel cheated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There's so many things I want to add to that list now

then again, they'd just get me more annoying questions.... it's bad enough every time I make a comment on a pegging thread

I take it pegging isn't one of the boxes to tick?

I wouldn't recommend it based on my forum comments experience

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"And why does it have voyeurism but not exhibitionism

I feel cheated

Or splodging!

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

"And why does it have voyeurism but not exhibitionism

I feel cheated

What time is the show

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

DP on the list and no DVP on the list

And are you a watersport giver or receiver?

I have too many questions now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And why does it have voyeurism but not exhibitionism

I feel cheated

What time is the show

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you missed it

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By *asual777Man
over a year ago

i travel all over

Have started to search for those into adult parties

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

"DP on the list and no DVP on the list

And are you a watersport giver or receiver?

I have too many questions now

There's a hosepipe ban

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"DP on the list and no DVP on the list

And are you a watersport giver or receiver?

I have too many questions now

And I have too much time on my hands.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"DP on the list and no DVP on the list

And are you a watersport giver or receiver?

I have too many questions now

There's a hosepipe ban

Which reminds me, I don't think squirting is there either

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Have started to search for those into adult parties "

I actually forgot they're linked in the search section.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"DP on the list and no DVP on the list

And are you a watersport giver or receiver?

I have too many questions now

And I have too much time on my hands.

We should pen a new list

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"DP on the list and no DVP on the list

And are you a watersport giver or receiver?

I have too many questions now

And I have too much time on my hands.

We should pen a new list

Over wine.

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By *ubal1Man
over a year ago

Newry Down

Interests listed are more of a sales pitch; the reality would be by negotiation.

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By *ilderMan
over a year ago

dublin

"DP on the list and no DVP on the list

And are you a watersport giver or receiver?

I have too many questions now

There's a hosepipe ban

Which reminds me, I don't think squirting is there either"

Either is incontinence

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"DP on the list and no DVP on the list

And are you a watersport giver or receiver?

I have too many questions now

And I have too much time on my hands.

We should pen a new list

Over wine.

And personal to do lists

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"DP on the list and no DVP on the list

And are you a watersport giver or receiver?

I have too many questions now

There's a hosepipe ban

Which reminds me, I don't think squirting is there either

Either is incontinence

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anything missing you would like to see on the list, wild one?

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By *indenMan
over a year ago

Naas which is South West of Dublin

"I've none listed cause I'm mysterious n'all that.

This…

Plus I like to think I’m a versatile open minded pleaser….

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By *ensualandslow321Man
over a year ago

Tullamore

"I've none listed cause I'm mysterious n'all that.

This…

Plus I like to think I’m a versatile open minded pleaser….

Aren't we all

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By *3nsesMan
over a year ago

Dublin

"I've none listed cause I'm mysterious n'all that.

This…

Plus I like to think I’m a versatile open minded pleaser….

Aren't we all

Well, until it comes to the crunch.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"DP on the list and no DVP on the list

And are you a watersport giver or receiver?

I have too many questions now

And I have too much time on my hands.

We should pen a new list

Over wine.

And personal to do lists"

Well that won't take me long.

Soon

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I've none listed cause I'm mysterious n'all that.

This…

Plus I like to think I’m a versatile open minded pleaser….

I just presume everyone can read my mind

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

"I've none listed cause I'm mysterious n'all that.

This…

Plus I like to think I’m a versatile open minded pleaser….

Aren't we all

Nope. I'm not here to please people. I'm here to enjoy mutual pleasure.

Someone looking me to tick all their boxes for them? Move along.

Someone only interested in ticking all mine? Keep moving.

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By *indenMan
over a year ago

Naas which is South West of Dublin

"I've none listed cause I'm mysterious n'all that.

This…

Plus I like to think I’m a versatile open minded pleaser….

I just presume everyone can read my mind

And I should think it only polite that they should, especially if they were interested enough to to show an interest in your interests….

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

I know exactly which one I ticked, the ones that aren't obviously don't interest me. Never had an issue or hassle over it and at the same time they don't mean the full palette comes into the picture when meeting.

I also check them on people's profile.

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By *indenMan
over a year ago

Naas which is South West of Dublin

"I've none listed cause I'm mysterious n'all that.

This…

Plus I like to think I’m a versatile open minded pleaser….

Aren't we all

Nope. I'm not here to please people. I'm here to enjoy mutual pleasure.

Someone looking me to tick all their boxes for them? Move along.

Someone only interested in ticking all mine? Keep moving. "

I think most would be happy with ticking one or two boxes for a start, and see how many they can tick together along the way after that….

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hey folks,

I've given a go to Buckroney Dunes in Wicklow today for the first time, what an experience ! I saw a beautiful couple there, never had the courage to approach and meet them ...

Daydreaming now what it could've happened ...

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

"I've none listed cause I'm mysterious n'all that.

This…

Plus I like to think I’m a versatile open minded pleaser….

Aren't we all

Nope. I'm not here to please people. I'm here to enjoy mutual pleasure.

Someone looking me to tick all their boxes for them? Move along.

Someone only interested in ticking all mine? Keep moving.

I think most would be happy with ticking one or two boxes for a start, and see how many they can tick together along the way after that….

True but not all of us are here just for the woman's pleasure so therefore not all of us are pleasers.

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By *indenMan
over a year ago

Naas which is South West of Dublin

I also check them on people's profile.

You shouldn’t need to, we should all be mind readers, mysterious, or pleasers…….

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By *indenMan
over a year ago

Naas which is South West of Dublin

"I've none listed cause I'm mysterious n'all that.

This…

Plus I like to think I’m a versatile open minded pleaser….

Aren't we all

Nope. I'm not here to please people. I'm here to enjoy mutual pleasure.

Someone looking me to tick all their boxes for them? Move along.

Someone only interested in ticking all mine? Keep moving.

I think most would be happy with ticking one or two boxes for a start, and see how many they can tick together along the way after that….

True but not all of us are here just for the woman's pleasure so therefore not all of us are pleasers. "

Can’t you be both?

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

I also check them on people's profile.

You shouldn’t need to, we should all be mind readers, mysterious, or pleasers…….

I've no interest in someone reading my filthy mind, I prefer it to be tickled. Besides I'm more the inbetween the line readers, even something simple like a list of interest can provide hidden information

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I rarely look at them, usually something else will have put me right off the profile before I get that far

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By *indenMan
over a year ago

Naas which is South West of Dublin

I also check them on people's profile.

You shouldn’t need to, we should all be mind readers, mysterious, or pleasers…….

Well I’m only an amateur, but I did have a little rummage through your mind there for a few minutes, certainly not for the faint hearted, but very interesting none the less…..

Hidden information eh….

It’s no wonder I left mine blank…

PS - I’ve added tickling to your list of interests….

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By *indenMan
over a year ago

Naas which is South West of Dublin

"I rarely look at them, usually something else will have put me right off the profile before I get that far"

Sounds like I should delete all my photos and fill in my interests…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think I just put don't what I have done or would like to do.

Nothing is a definite. Any new meet starts a fresh and we talk about it with each other I suppose.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You know what I mean, those boxes you tick off when you're trying to put a half decent profile together.

So what does it mean to you?

Are they a menu of sorts, of what you're willing to do and what you're comfortable with sexually?

Are they a list of things you'd like to try?

Are they prerequisite skills and experience needed in a potential meet?

Or did you just tick everything?

I've none listed cause I'm mysterious n'all that.

A menu of sorts

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

I also check them on people's profile.

You shouldn’t need to, we should all be mind readers, mysterious, or pleasers…….

Well I’m only an amateur, but I did have a little rummage through your mind there for a few minutes, certainly not for the faint hearted, but very interesting none the less…..

Hidden information eh….

It’s no wonder I left mine blank…

PS - I’ve added tickling to your list of interests….

Ah now you're a filthy little devil yourself going that far reading that despicable stuff!

I could argue people with no interests aren't interesting

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By *indenMan
over a year ago

Naas which is South West of Dublin

I also check them on people's profile.

You shouldn’t need to, we should all be mind readers, mysterious, or pleasers…….

Well I’m only an amateur, but I did have a little rummage through your mind there for a few minutes, certainly not for the faint hearted, but very interesting none the less…..

Hidden information eh….

It’s no wonder I left mine blank…

PS - I’ve added tickling to your list of interests….

Ah now you're a filthy little devil yourself going that far reading that despicable stuff!

I could argue people with no interests aren't interesting

Don’t blame me, I wasn’t the one thinking them….

Touché on the interests point…..

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By *ilderMan
over a year ago

dublin

"DP on the list and no DVP on the list

And are you a watersport giver or receiver?

I have too many questions now

There's a hosepipe ban

Which reminds me, I don't think squirting is there either

Either is incontinence

anything missing you would like to see on the list, wild one?

Well it includes adult parties and gangbangs but doesn't get down to specifics like MMF, MFM, FFM etc. I guess the list can't be exhaustive but those additions would be useful I think

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