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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Anyone ever experience chatting with a couple on here and then when they say they'd be interested in meeting it turns out you have to pay for their time?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honestly I've not once been asked for payment on here....

I think people angling towards that are pretty easy to spot from the off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never happened to us, but it seems there's no shortage of sex workers on here, clearly lots willing to pay or they wouldn't be here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's against site rules, report, block, move on

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Never happened to us, but it seems there's no shortage of sex workers on here, clearly lots willing to pay or they wouldn't be here. "

They seem to be a very genuine couple on here with a good few verifications so I was a bit surprised when I was asked to pay something towards the fun. Maybe they are tight for cash.

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By *ed_AliceWoman
over a year ago

Belfast

Being asked to contribute to hotel costs would be different to paying for services though.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I've never once been asked this or had it come up in conversation. From previous threads there seems to be a particular demographic targeted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Being asked to contribute to hotel costs would be different to paying for services though."

True, and hardly unreasonable , perhaps OP needs to be more specific

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

Never asked nor been asked for money.

I have shared hotel costs though.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Being asked to contribute to hotel costs would be different to paying for services though."

Yes that would be fine but that wasn't the case in this instance as it wasnt a meet in a hotel, which I'd have no issue with splitting the cost of the room.. This was more of a donation towards the sex that would be happening.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Being asked to contribute to hotel costs would be different to paying for services though.

True, and hardly unreasonable , perhaps OP needs to be more specific "

He mentioned in his post " it turns out you have to pay for their time "

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork


"Being asked to contribute to hotel costs would be different to paying for services though.

Yes that would be fine but that wasn't the case in this instance as it wasnt a meet in a hotel, which I'd have no issue with splitting the cost of the room.. This was more of a donation towards the sex that would be happening."

I've got nothing against asking for money for services really as long as you are up front about it. I would be annoyed if I had wasted time on the foreplay and ended up with a request for money at the last min though. That's taking advantage of someone and wasting everyone's time.

I'm sure there are some who pay, or otherwise noone would bother asking.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Being asked to contribute to hotel costs would be different to paying for services though.

Yes that would be fine but that wasn't the case in this instance as it wasnt a meet in a hotel, which I'd have no issue with splitting the cost of the room.. This was more of a donation towards the sex that would be happening.

I've got nothing against asking for money for services really as long as you are up front about it. I would be annoyed if I had wasted time on the foreplay and ended up with a request for money at the last min though. That's taking advantage of someone and wasting everyone's time.

I'm sure there are some who pay, or otherwise noone would bother asking."

Ya very true, each to their own though. Was just curious to see if anyone was ever asked this before.

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By *ed_AliceWoman
over a year ago

Belfast


"Being asked to contribute to hotel costs would be different to paying for services though.

Yes that would be fine but that wasn't the case in this instance as it wasnt a meet in a hotel, which I'd have no issue with splitting the cost of the room.. This was more of a donation towards the sex that would be happening."

The phrasing of "being asked to pay something towards the fun" made me wonder if it was time/services or overheads. Thanks for clarifying.

Sex work is work, but it shouldn't be stealthed on anyone. And this site does have rules against so SWs are going to be more circumspect on here. I can understand the disappointment if you felt misled.

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