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By *oxminx OP   Couple
over a year ago

NaughtyVille *×* Laois

Afternoon all.

We have chatted to many couples new to the scene and have come to recognize that many either attend a party or club and end up with their nerves shattered for one reason or other, including the realization that they were just not ready for the deep end.

Being lovers of being watched and watching we are curious if many couples, especially new couples have an interest in attending a soft swing party which will NOT involve penetration with anyone other than partners?

Please let us know what your thoughts are (PM or in this thread) and if we feel we can sort something we will get to work on plans for something by end of August.

Andy & Mel

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By *oxie2021Man
over a year ago

Dublin

I think for couples like you a social would be the best thing to organise first with like couples of a like mind. There must be other couples like you on here, and without question the fantasy of swapping/group play is a lot different to the reality. So just mu few cents worth, I think you might find couples like you will see this and reach out. Why not organise a night in a city centre as an example where it’s not a hotel setting, just a meet and greet. Get to know each other a little bit more, see if there are sparks, and that might be a good way to examine a ‘make or break’ decision for other couples to join you again for a more intimate setting where there is no penetration etc but maybe watching or touching etc. Just establish the ‘house rules’ first beforehand. If you are all in the same boat then nobody will have an issue with that. That is all!

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By *oxminx OP   Couple
over a year ago

NaughtyVille *×* Laois

Thanks Coxie,

All feedback is welcomed and often helpful.

Whatever we end up organizing will kick off with some form of social to relax folk.

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By *amson4DelilahCouple
over a year ago

ballina

We played with this idea, but would deffo not be interested if "no getting into each other's" ...lol. rule was in place.

Deffo a meet & mingle & chat about all sorts, then let things happen naturally in another room so to speak. Could be a soft swap room & a danger zone where everyone was at ease. ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi single male here be interested

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

There should NEVER be pressure to go any further than you are comfortable. I can't see why soft swap couples can't go to normal parties. They can be up front about their limits just like everyone else, and play or don't play as the feel they want to. Like it's absolutely fine to attend a party and not doing anything whatsoever, not even soft play.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im sure you will find lots of interest in this. Just be aware that you will have a lot of no shows.

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By *oxminx OP   Couple
over a year ago

NaughtyVille *×* Laois


"Im sure you will find lots of interest in this. Just be aware that you will have a lot of no shows."

No shows are fine. We won't be put out. We'll have fun anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In fairness, you are pretty central where you live. Its just finding the right place to have it.

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By *imon2016Man
over a year ago

Dublin

Hi there, if you are interested in singles guys, I'd love to be included. A couple who loves to be watched and nothing else is something I'd be happy to invited too. I totally get the no penetrative or even touching. That's a whole other level in my opinion.

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By *oxminx OP   Couple
over a year ago

NaughtyVille *×* Laois


"There should NEVER be pressure to go any further than you are comfortable. I can't see why soft swap couples can't go to normal parties. They can be up front about their limits just like everyone else, and play or don't play as the feel they want to. Like it's absolutely fine to attend a party and not doing anything whatsoever, not even soft play. "

The reason for the post is due to soft swap couples who have attended party's and discovered when things got heavy it wasn't for them. It wasn't the situation they imagined it would be.

It's quite a regular occurance with folk new to the scene.

This will hopefully open up something in between Vanilla and All Out Play.

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By *oxminx OP   Couple
over a year ago

NaughtyVille *×* Laois


"In fairness, you are pretty central where you live. Its just finding the right place to have it."

Finding a place will be least of our concerns lol

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By *cerlass321Couple
over a year ago

kilkenny

dont be forgetting us now will yee

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a property available for rent if your interested. Adding a couple more apartments to it now also

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is a great option for newbies like ourselves

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By *he English OneMan
over a year ago

west


"Afternoon all.

We have chatted to many couples new to the scene and have come to recognize that many either attend a party or club and end up with their nerves shattered for one reason or other, including the realization that they were just not ready for the deep end.

Being lovers of being watched and watching we are curious if many couples, especially new couples have an interest in attending a soft swing party which will NOT involve penetration with anyone other than partners?

Please let us know what your thoughts are (PM or in this thread) and if we feel we can sort something we will get to work on plans for something by end of August.

Andy & Mel

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Maybe organize a meet and greet event probably the best way to have people feel more at ease

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We’d be interested in something like this so

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By *oxminx OP   Couple
over a year ago

NaughtyVille *×* Laois


"dont be forgetting us now will yee "

You kinky feckers are the entertainment

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By *oxminx OP   Couple
over a year ago

NaughtyVille *×* Laois


"We’d be interested in something like this so "

Great to hear guy's, we will keep you updated over the coming weeks

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By *umalot6973Couple
over a year ago

wexford

We are interested in joining ye for a gathering if ye will have us ??????

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By *oxminx OP   Couple
over a year ago

NaughtyVille *×* Laois


"We are interested in joining ye for a gathering if ye will have us ??????"

You guy's are auto enrolled

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By *dfabMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne

Are "single" guys allowed attend?

A friend texted me to ask

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By *oxminx OP   Couple
over a year ago

NaughtyVille *×* Laois


"Are "single" guys allowed attend?

A friend texted me to ask "

Hi JD

Unfortunately single guy's won't be part of the plan this time around.

We wouldn't rule it out for future occasion.

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By *oncupiscent_dreamMan
over a year ago

City

Good news, I phoned several venues and none will be policing the new vaccine passports so we can get the parties back to normal soon.

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By *ippcoupe2Couple
over a year ago

cahir/cashel

Interested in this

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By *inaandterryCouple
over a year ago

Westmeath

We not newbies but sounds like a nice idea

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By *oxminx OP   Couple
over a year ago

NaughtyVille *×* Laois

Thanks for the interest guy's...

All noted for plans ahead.

We're not so new ourselves so the more the merrier

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By *ewadventures2017Couple
over a year ago

some where near

Would be interested

Have been to clubs and socials love them lol

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By *oxminx OP   Couple
over a year ago

NaughtyVille *×* Laois


"Would be interested

Have been to clubs and socials love them lol "

Interest noted

Thanks Guy's

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By *ex coupleCouple
over a year ago

wexford

Hi guys , only seen your post here , after meeting you guys before we would be interested and would be great full of ye kept us posted , any1 attending feel free to drop us a text

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