FabSwingers.com mobile

Join us FREE, we're FREE to use

Web's largest swingers site since 2006.

Already registered?
Login here

Back to forum list
Back to Ireland

Are lads bottom wrung

Jump to newest
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hey fabbers, I hope you are all well. Just wondering from people’s experience, is it harder for single lads to get meets and attend socials etc because they’re too many of us. Or is it based on bad experiences etc. Just wanted input from you all. Have a great night! Xx

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *oft_sexy_sweetWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

Yes and yes. There are way more single men than women & couples, and bad experiences do make folks wary.

From an events perspective, I've heard from organisers that they have to line up 3 times as many single guys as they have slots for single guys to stand a chance of actually filling those slots - the rate of non-appearance is crazy high.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *he English OneMan
over a year ago

west


"Yes and yes. There are way more single men than women & couples, and bad experiences do make folks wary.

From an events perspective, I've heard from organisers that they have to line up 3 times as many single guys as they have slots for single guys to stand a chance of actually filling those slots - the rate of non-appearance is crazy high. "

And for that reason I have no hope here unless there are 5 lucky golden tickets hidden chocolate bars

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *3nsesMan
over a year ago

Dublin

Requires more effort and thought rather than harder I would say.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *etergemmaCouple
over a year ago

South Dublin Area


"Hey fabbers, I hope you are all well. Just wondering from people’s experience, is it harder for single lads to get meets and attend socials etc because they’re too many of us. Or is it based on bad experiences etc. Just wanted input from you all. Have a great night! Xx"
You would have no problem getting an invite to a social, being new and verified.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *rmrs1234Couple
over a year ago

Waterford

It can be difficult yes. There are lot more in terms of numbers and unfortunately there are quite a few who are full of hot air. Some i think come on here thinking they only have to send a message and theyll get a ride. Usually does not work that way and they then resort to verbal abuse and in our case twice threaten physical violence. (I reiterate some) My hubs also pointed out in our early days that while some men are intrigued and would harbour a fantasy of an mfm, when it comes to the crunch of things, they bottle it. Maybe coz i dont look like a pornstar with huge bazongas i dunno but anyway yes it can be extremely difficult for some single guys on here

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ilderMan
over a year ago

dublin

As long as you're respectful, patient and very thick skinned fingers crossed you'll do ok. Like everything there's often also an element of luck.

It takes a lot of effort though, don't expect everything to fall on your lap (as it were)

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The site is primarily geared towards couples who a interested in meeting up with other couples, and select unicorn bisexual women. It's not all sweetness and light being part of a couple on here either as I used to have a couple profile here with a female friend, but her first priority are her adult children so it was always a chore to get her to commit to attending meets so I eventually deleted it. I prefer being a free agent, even if it means only getting a few meets. If you are reasonably confident and have a cheerful and cheeky sense of humour, it's far far easier to meet women in pubs, restaurants and cultural events.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

Op has been on 5 weeks with 2 meets and been on before

Dont think he has a problem

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *asual777Man
over a year ago

i travel all over

Respectful patient thick skinned , and very good looking ? Definitely asking for a friend btw

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for all the feed back guys

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *rowser79Man
over a year ago

Cork

Didn’t take long after joining here to realise the number of single men far outweighs all others on here. I’ve messaged a few people but realise they’re more than likely swamped with messages from single lads and me being unverified wouldn’t help me.

So a change of approach was needed. Waited to be allowed post on the forums and figure (hope) that chatting in these boards may help me get to know people and go from there.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Didn’t take long after joining here to realise the number of single men far outweighs all others on here. I’ve messaged a few people but realise they’re more than likely swamped with messages from single lads and me being unverified wouldn’t help me.

So a change of approach was needed. Waited to be allowed post on the forums and figure (hope) that chatting in these boards may help me get to know people and go from there."

Sounds like someone with their head screwed on , hope it works for you.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down


"Didn’t take long after joining here to realise the number of single men far outweighs all others on here. I’ve messaged a few people but realise they’re more than likely swamped with messages from single lads and me being unverified wouldn’t help me.

So a change of approach was needed. Waited to be allowed post on the forums and figure (hope) that chatting in these boards may help me get to know people and go from there.

Sounds like someone with their head screwed on , hope it works for you. "

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *rowser79Man
over a year ago

Cork


"Didn’t take long after joining here to realise the number of single men far outweighs all others on here. I’ve messaged a few people but realise they’re more than likely swamped with messages from single lads and me being unverified wouldn’t help me.

So a change of approach was needed. Waited to be allowed post on the forums and figure (hope) that chatting in these boards may help me get to know people and go from there.

Sounds like someone with their head screwed on , hope it works for you. "

Thanks I’ve no doubt I’ll get an insight into things from reading and posting here and should meets happen down the line that’ll be an added bonus!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ofusplusCouple
over a year ago

Limerick


"Didn’t take long after joining here to realise the number of single men far outweighs all others on here. I’ve messaged a few people but realise they’re more than likely swamped with messages from single lads and me being unverified wouldn’t help me.

So a change of approach was needed. Waited to be allowed post on the forums and figure (hope) that chatting in these boards may help me get to know people and go from there.

Sounds like someone with their head screwed on , hope it works for you.

Thanks I’ve no doubt I’ll get an insight into things from reading and posting here and should meets happen down the line that’ll be an added bonus!"

The forums are by far the best place for single guys to spend their time. Chat, be respectful, show your cheeky side, be patient.

I often advise new guys (who send us a nice message) to use the forums, but it usually falls on deaf ears

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It can be difficult yes. There are lot more in terms of numbers and unfortunately there are quite a few who are full of hot air. Some i think come on here thinking they only have to send a message and theyll get a ride. Usually does not work that way and they then resort to verbal abuse and in our case twice threaten physical violence. (I reiterate some) My hubs also pointed out in our early days that while some men are intrigued and would harbour a fantasy of an mfm, when it comes to the crunch of things, they bottle it. Maybe coz i dont look like a pornstar with huge bazongas i dunno but anyway yes it can be extremely difficult for some single guys on here"

I'll play the guitar..you play the Bazongas...or is it the other way round...

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *rmrs1234Couple
over a year ago

Waterford


"It can be difficult yes. There are lot more in terms of numbers and unfortunately there are quite a few who are full of hot air. Some i think come on here thinking they only have to send a message and theyll get a ride. Usually does not work that way and they then resort to verbal abuse and in our case twice threaten physical violence. (I reiterate some) My hubs also pointed out in our early days that while some men are intrigued and would harbour a fantasy of an mfm, when it comes to the crunch of things, they bottle it. Maybe coz i dont look like a pornstar with huge bazongas i dunno but anyway yes it can be extremely difficult for some single guys on here

I'll play the guitar..you play the Bazongas...or is it the other way round... "

Im not sure. Musical instruments arent really my forte

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Will unvaccinated men now have another hurdle?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I get to the bottom I go back to the top of the slide,

Where I stop and I turn and I go for a ride,

Till I get to the bottom and I see you again!

Yeah yeah yeahhhhh

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
Post new Message to Thread
back to top