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By *arl2020 OP   Man
over a year ago

ENNISKILLEN

Ok so does distance matter would you travel to meet someone are what is 2 far to meet someone my opinion, no where is 2 far to travel once u can drive and travel over a hour every day for work

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I generally don't mind travelling as long as the other is willing to travel a bit as well just to make it work. Otherwise your just being taken for a ride.... or not. You get what I mean

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would fly to the moon and back,if you'll be, if you'll be my baby.

Bonus points if you have a savage garden.

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By *issusWoman
over a year ago

Belfast

Wouldn't travel any more than 15-20miles.

Longer the distance - higher the expectations.

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

I wouldn't travel for just anyone. Would need to be someone special.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't mind travelling this Country is so beautiful ya can make a meet into a great roadtrip with scenery ya will see... if someone wanna meet in middle perfect but if they don't then if really wanna meet will go extra distance.

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By *osmicGateMan
over a year ago

louth

I'd only travel a long distance if I could make a weekend out of it or at least an overnight..

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By *arl2020 OP   Man
over a year ago

ENNISKILLEN

Fair enough guys well I dint mind driving and I drive over a hour are more a day to work one way so I'm use to driving and I've drove 3 hours before for a meet but it gets to me plp looking meets and u msg them and they say yiur 2 far away but yet again give out they can't get meets they would travel party events in Cork are Dublin and travel from all over

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Distance not usually an issue for me although it can pose problems getting free time from work but if it's someone I'm keen on, I make it happen.

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By *ogladyWoman
over a year ago

The bog

I Normmally suggest half way that way it the same distances and time for both of us..

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By *arajeanCouple
over a year ago

mayo

Would travel if knowing going to be a hot meet.

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By *ohn400Man
over a year ago

Dublin or anywhere

i will drive for about 30mls /

as long as know the people are genuine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No issue travelling, for a coffee or first social, always meet half way and if a bit of a distance I make it a roadtrip

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By *exy naughty couple 2020Couple
over a year ago

Cork

Distance is not an issue for us as long as work and family situation allows.

We are on holidays for few weeks and as we are not traveling outside the country we are squeezing in few day trips into our holiday plans - can't wait

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It wouldnt be an issue for me as my work takes me all over Ireland anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If there is chemistry distance shouldn't be a problem

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By *eralt80Man
over a year ago

cork

500 miles but only if I do t have to walk

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By *ofusplusCouple
over a year ago

Limerick


"500 miles but only if I do t have to walk "

Badadadah

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am getting a train to the other side of the country to meet someone from fab. Its a place I really wanted to see anyway. She is a great laugh and stunning looking. I also haven't had a break from work and college so the stars kind of aligned to make it happen.

Not something I would do normally.

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

Yes distance does matter to me especially as I meet for a social first and I have found the farther you travel the more expectations people have. So I decided a good while ago I won't travel long distances to meet anyone. The only exception would be if I was traveling somewhere anyhow.

I also wouldn't expect someone travel a long way to meet me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes distance does matter to me especially as I meet for a social first and I have found the farther you travel the more expectations people have. So I decided a good while ago I won't travel long distances to meet anyone. The only exception would be if I was traveling somewhere anyhow.

I also wouldn't expect someone travel a long way to meet me. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am getting a train to the other side of the country to meet someone from fab. Its a place I really wanted to see anyway. She is a great laugh and stunning looking. I also haven't had a break from work and college so the stars kind of aligned to make it happen.

Not something I would do normally."

Risk taker Hope it works out xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am getting a train to the other side of the country to meet someone from fab. Its a place I really wanted to see anyway. She is a great laugh and stunning looking. I also haven't had a break from work and college so the stars kind of aligned to make it happen.

Not something I would do normally.

Risk taker Hope it works out xx "

Even though this is a swingers site I'm here to spend time with good people so whatever happens or doesn't happen it will still be easily worth the trip just to socialise with her.

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By *rmrs1234Couple
over a year ago

Waterford


"Yes distance does matter to me especially as I meet for a social first and I have found the farther you travel the more expectations people have. So I decided a good while ago I won't travel long distances to meet anyone. The only exception would be if I was traveling somewhere anyhow.

I also wouldn't expect someone travel a long way to meet me. "

This

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By *arl2020 OP   Man
over a year ago

ENNISKILLEN

I find thst u either chat to plp.thst close to you and they say they don't want to meet as your 2 local and 2 close and then on the other hand some plp say your 2 far away

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Yes distance does matter. I've done the long 3-4 hour trips across the country and as others have said that comes with a certain level of expectation.

In my experience though the expectation has been that I've done it once so I'll do it again.

As my profile says the first meet will always be a social. It also says mutual pleasure and two way conversation so if someone wants to meet me they will have to make the effort too and that includes travelling.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is like a finger, pointing away to the moon.

Don't concentrate on the finger, or you will miss all that heavenly glory!

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By *iablo soloWoman
over a year ago

southside

I'd even travel to another country if needs be!

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By *aint_or_SinnerWoman
over a year ago

South County Dublin


"It is like a finger, pointing away to the moon.

Don't concentrate on the finger, or you will miss all that heavenly glory!"

You and that stinkin' finger again

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By *quinnMan
over a year ago

Limerick


"It is like a finger, pointing away to the moon.

Don't concentrate on the finger, or you will miss all that heavenly glory!

You and that stinkin' finger again "

A stinky finger?

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By *aint_or_SinnerWoman
over a year ago

South County Dublin

For me, social first always in a public space. And yes, for what I feel might have "potential", I will travel... now to interpret potential

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By *aint_or_SinnerWoman
over a year ago

South County Dublin


"It is like a finger, pointing away to the moon.

Don't concentrate on the finger, or you will miss all that heavenly glory!

You and that stinkin' finger again

A stinky finger? "

He'll have to explain that - or you may have to read the Forum to understand

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In my opinion distance not an issue as usually meet takes some planning that's why I would think and most of here like to arrange it carefully so doesn't matter is it first social meet or proper meet with play shouldn't be any problem in travel in this small country... Well I have travelled and would again not a problem whatsoever. In the other hand if you very spontaneous and have limited times only so as local as possible probably works better in this case xx

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By *angtasticallyMan
over a year ago

Drogheda

Meeting halfway good idea and after that if you like the person travelling easier

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By *eanbelfastMan
over a year ago

Belfast

For me if I feel there’s a connection and chemistry then yes it’s worth travelling. I tend to keep an open mind and who does t like a social

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For me, social first always in a public space. And yes, for what I feel might have "potential", I will travel... now to interpret potential "

For me you know within 10 seconds if things will reach or go to the next level ..its all in the eyes..you see it there straight away...either the disapoointed look or the " potential " look...the eyes are the windows to your soul..my tuppence worth anyway...so just make sure they're not wearing shades

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