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By *isnameismargaret OP   Man
over a year ago

Dublin

Which is the bigger turn on before a meet ladies? A fine body or a crackling personality?

Would you meet someone with the ultimate bod for you if their personality didn't do it for you?

Would you meet someone completely in sync, chat wise but their body isn't your type at all?

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By *rmrs1234Couple
over a year ago

Waterford

A bit of both for me. I have to be physically attracted to someone and get on with them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both for me too, I've been laughed into bed a couple of times but equally been very attracted to someone and when they opened their mouths were dull as dishwasher and lost interest immediately

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By *isnameismargaret OP   Man
over a year ago

Dublin


"Both for me too, I've been laughed into bed a couple of times but equally been very attracted to someone and when they opened their mouths were dull as dishwasher and lost interest immediately"

Life is balance so. The hot bod by itself doesn't do it then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Has to be both but more personality definitely! Couldn't meet someone with the personality of a brick no matter how hot they are

Mrs

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By *isnameismargaret OP   Man
over a year ago

Dublin


"Has to be both but more personality definitely! Couldn't meet someone with the personality of a brick no matter how hot they are

Mrs "

Hmm. So do women find funny sexy in itself or is it something to ease nervousness?

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By *ardyboy54321Man
over a year ago

Fermanagh

Humor is my weapon of choice

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By *ed_AliceWoman
over a year ago

Belfast

Bit of both - personality first & foremost. I find a range of bodies attractive, not just a conventional insta model "hot" body.

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By *aint_or_SinnerWoman
over a year ago

South County Dublin

Ah cum on now - who needs personality to get them into bed, like, seriously? Personality vs a George Clooney lookalike???

When the messaging back and forth shows a hunk of a man, a six-pack to die for, a body built like a shitbrick house, hands like shovels which can sweep you off your feet, piercing blue eyes admiring my body, a smile showing perfectly aligned white teeth, lips so full you just know your clit is itching for it, full head of hair to get your hands and fingers lost in, a nicely shaped, biiiiig cock you could suck and lick for hours, a cum load so big you'll need 3 gulps to swallow?!?!?

Who needs personality, like seriously?! (anyone matching those criteria apply within - and, please, nooooo personality, I might want to marry you otherwise )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ah cum on now - who needs personality to get them into bed, like, seriously? Personality vs a George Clooney lookalike???

When the messaging back and forth shows a hunk of a man, a six-pack to die for, a body built like a shitbrick house, hands like shovels which can sweep you off your feet, piercing blue eyes admiring my body, a smile showing perfectly aligned white teeth, lips so full you just know your clit is itching for it, full head of hair to get your hands and fingers lost in, a nicely shaped, biiiiig cock you could suck and lick for hours, a cum load so big you'll need 3 gulps to swallow?!?!?

Who needs personality, like seriously?! (anyone matching those criteria apply within - and, please, nooooo personality, I might want to marry you otherwise )"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ah cum on now - who needs personality to get them into bed, like, seriously? Personality vs a George Clooney lookalike???

When the messaging back and forth shows a hunk of a man, a six-pack to die for, a body built like a shitbrick house, hands like shovels which can sweep you off your feet, piercing blue eyes admiring my body, a smile showing perfectly aligned white teeth, lips so full you just know your clit is itching for it, full head of hair to get your hands and fingers lost in, a nicely shaped, biiiiig cock you could suck and lick for hours, a cum load so big you'll need 3 gulps to swallow?!?!?

Who needs personality, like seriously?! (anyone matching those criteria apply within - and, please, nooooo personality, I might want to marry you otherwise )"

Someone looking for me ?

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By *eanbelfastMan
over a year ago

Belfast

For me personally it has to be both. The attraction is something persons for everyone, some want the stereotype. I look at eyes and smile first and take it from there. Without the chemistry I find things too cold and clinical. Personality helps the spark and teasing even before you meet

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By *iss3BWoman
over a year ago

north down

I definitely need both but with personality more so than looks. I've not 100% got a set body type but I do have a thing for bums and eyes. If someone is as boring and dry as hell they ain't gonna do anything for me

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By *iscuits8Man
over a year ago

Meath / Dublin / Birmingham

Well well! If skinny fellas who aren't much to look at and make awful jokes are your thing, don't look any further because herrrrre's your man. Orderly queue please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both, I'm here to please myself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not demanding great looks or a Mr Universe physique, just someone making an effort to look after themselves. And Christ, don't be boring

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By *isnameismargaret OP   Man
over a year ago

Dublin


"Ah cum on now - who needs personality to get them into bed, like, seriously? Personality vs a George Clooney lookalike???

When the messaging back and forth shows a hunk of a man, a six-pack to die for, a body built like a shitbrick house, hands like shovels which can sweep you off your feet, piercing blue eyes admiring my body, a smile showing perfectly aligned white teeth, lips so full you just know your clit is itching for it, full head of hair to get your hands and fingers lost in, a nicely shaped, biiiiig cock you could suck and lick for hours, a cum load so big you'll need 3 gulps to swallow?!?!?

Who needs personality, like seriously?! (anyone matching those criteria apply within - and, please, nooooo personality, I might want to marry you otherwise )"

I'll volunteer a few Clooneyesque grey hairs of that's any use to you?

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By *isnameismargaret OP   Man
over a year ago

Dublin


"I definitely need both but with personality more so than looks. I've not 100% got a set body type but I do have a thing for bums and eyes. If someone is as boring and dry as hell they ain't gonna do anything for me "

No pirates need apply if eyes are a deal-breaker.

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By *amson4DelilahCouple
over a year ago

ballina

Both.. I cannot be dealing with pretty boys though..

I've always found a personality to hot ratio.... so a bloke with a 6 or a 7 score in the looks department has a decent personality too... sexy eyes & a manly physique & I'm all yours.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Both.. I cannot be dealing with pretty boys though..

I've always found a personality to hot ratio.... so a bloke with a 6 or a 7 score in the looks department has a decent personality too... sexy eyes & a manly physique & I'm all yours. "

yes ive been laughed into bed, if theres a mental click thats 3/4 of the match for me. its a rapport thing, not just physical - though thats important too as I like strong fit men, but it could all fail on a kiss.

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By *iss3BWoman
over a year ago

north down


"I definitely need both but with personality more so than looks. I've not 100% got a set body type but I do have a thing for bums and eyes. If someone is as boring and dry as hell they ain't gonna do anything for me

No pirates need apply if eyes are a deal-breaker."

I'd say more the bump is the deal breaker than the eyes

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By *eralt80Man
over a year ago

cork

So what ye are saying is that I have a chance

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By *oingMan
over a year ago

co. antrim

We all have a chance. The caveat being you must be as girthy as a Coke can and be scobing the ground

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By *affa31Woman
over a year ago

Galway

Personality is key. I won’t play with someone I can’t have a laugh with, I’d be bored senseless

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By *aint_or_SinnerWoman
over a year ago

South County Dublin


"We all have a chance. The caveat being you must be as girthy as a Coke can and be scobing the ground"

Why stop at a Coke can

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By *arajeanCouple
over a year ago

mayo

Personality but looks helps

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By *oingMan
over a year ago

co. antrim


"We all have a chance. The caveat being you must be as girthy as a Coke can and be scobing the ground

Why stop at a Coke can "

There’s a fine line between can and battering ram

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By *t777Woman
over a year ago

close by


"Ah cum on now - who needs personality to get them into bed, like, seriously? Personality vs a George Clooney lookalike???

When the messaging back and forth shows a hunk of a man, a six-pack to die for, a body built like a shitbrick house, hands like shovels which can sweep you off your feet, piercing blue eyes admiring my body, a smile showing perfectly aligned white teeth, lips so full you just know your clit is itching for it, full head of hair to get your hands and fingers lost in, a nicely shaped, biiiiig cock you could suck and lick for hours, a cum load so big you'll need 3 gulps to swallow?!?!?

Who needs personality, like seriously?! (anyone matching those criteria apply within - and, please, nooooo personality, I might want to marry you otherwise )"

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By *t777Woman
over a year ago

close by


"Well well! If skinny fellas who aren't much to look at and make awful jokes are your thing, don't look any further because herrrrre's your man. Orderly queue please "

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By *t777Woman
over a year ago

close by


"Personality but looks helps"

So so true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looks attract you but personality keeps you there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both.. 70% personality and 30% looks

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By *eralt80Man
over a year ago

cork

Looks attracts the eyes, personality attracts the soul

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Looks attracts the eyes, personality attracts the soul "

What about us gingers that don't have souls?

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By *oingMan
over a year ago

co. antrim


"Looks attracts the eyes, personality attracts the soul

What about us gingers that don't have souls? "

You’ll get thrown into the sunshine with no sun cream

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By *eralt80Man
over a year ago

cork


"Looks attracts the eyes, personality attracts the soul

What about us gingers that don't have souls? "

Then drinks are on you

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

What about a BOF instead of a BOD?

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Looks attracts the eyes, personality attracts the soul

What about us gingers that don't have souls?

You’ll get thrown into the sunshine with no sun cream "

Don't be threatening me with a good time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Looks attracts the eyes, personality attracts the soul

What about us gingers that don't have souls?

You’ll get thrown into the sunshine with no sun cream "

you divil

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By *adyandthetramp20Couple
over a year ago

carry on camping

What's the ultimate body??? I've a bit of a soft spot for the dadbod myself. A guy would faster laugh my panties off then flex them but in saying that I won't settle so I would want attraction and personality.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What's the ultimate body??? I've a bit of a soft spot for the dadbod myself. A guy would faster laugh my panties off then flex them but in saying that I won't settle so I would want attraction and personality. "

Defo a dad bod..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What's the ultimate body??? I've a bit of a soft spot for the dadbod myself. A guy would faster laugh my panties off then flex them but in saying that I won't settle so I would want attraction and personality. "

Did someone mention dad bod?

I like your thinking..

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"Both for me too, I've been laughed into bed a couple of times but equally been very attracted to someone and when they opened their mouths were dull as dishwasher and lost interest immediately"

I have being laughed out of bed

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By *scouple07Couple
over a year ago

louth, Ireland

More drawn to personality at 1st but still have to have some attraction too

Mrs

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

So this thread is not about Brian O Driscoll

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you've a nice balance of both then you're in trouble

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By *aint_or_SinnerWoman
over a year ago

South County Dublin


"Both for me too, I've been laughed into bed a couple of times but equally been very attracted to someone and when they opened their mouths were dull as dishwasher and lost interest immediately

I have being laughed out of bed "

As long as she (or he ) landed on top of you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Admittedly we would need to have that physical attraction first, then as the messages are exchanged we get a good jist of their personalities

If both align, then bingo

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By *ittle-unicornWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

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By *ittle-unicornWoman
over a year ago

Dublin


"Admittedly we would need to have that physical attraction first, then as the messages are exchanged we get a good jist of their personalities

If both align, then bingo "

Totally agree with this… physical attraction is important (for me it’s more a face thing than body), but personality is key. Someone that can hold a conversation, make me laugh etc…

I’ve met guys that are insanely HOT, but their personality sucks - instant turn off!

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By *phrodite72Woman
over a year ago

dublin/galway


"Admittedly we would need to have that physical attraction first, then as the messages are exchanged we get a good jist of their personalities

If both align, then bingo

Totally agree with this… physical attraction is important (for me it’s more a face thing than body), but personality is key. Someone that can hold a conversation, make me laugh etc…

I’ve met guys that are insanely HOT, but their personality sucks - instant turn off!"

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

It has to be someone I can have a laugh with and enjoy being with. A good body can certainly be the first attraction on here but if they have a personality I don't like then I lose interest fast.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

What about a grandabod?

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By *isnameismargaret OP   Man
over a year ago

Dublin

Does it stand to reason that if a man isn't an Adonis and had to develop a good personality to get with women then he might have developed other skills to help in that area?

Any thoughts ladies?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ah cum on now - who needs personality to get them into bed, like, seriously? Personality vs a George Clooney lookalike???

When the messaging back and forth shows a hunk of a man, a six-pack to die for, a body built like a shitbrick house, hands like shovels which can sweep you off your feet, piercing blue eyes admiring my body, a smile showing perfectly aligned white teeth, lips so full you just know your clit is itching for it, full head of hair to get your hands and fingers lost in, a nicely shaped, biiiiig cock you could suck and lick for hours, a cum load so big you'll need 3 gulps to swallow?!?!?

Who needs personality, like seriously?! (anyone matching those criteria apply within - and, please, nooooo personality, I might want to marry you otherwise )"

Ammmm....its a " brickshit house "...not a " shitbrick house "...cause am you know it would'nt really stay up if the bricks were made of shit. ...but l get your drift Vee

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down


"What about a grandabod? "

I'd hold your Zimmer frame

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast


"What about a grandabod?

I'd hold your Zimmer frame "

Thats a new name for it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Look...no point in saying it any other way here...its the site it is and from reading through forums...current status...profiles etc here from women the majority of women want to fuck they say " you cant fuck personality " so..l realise there are ladies here who want both..as in a a guy with a good personality and who can fuck...GO YE LADIES

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By *aint_or_SinnerWoman
over a year ago

South County Dublin


"Ah cum on now - who needs personality to get them into bed, like, seriously? Personality vs a George Clooney lookalike???

When the messaging back and forth shows a hunk of a man, a six-pack to die for, a body built like a shitbrick house, hands like shovels which can sweep you off your feet, piercing blue eyes admiring my body, a smile showing perfectly aligned white teeth, lips so full you just know your clit is itching for it, full head of hair to get your hands and fingers lost in, a nicely shaped, biiiiig cock you could suck and lick for hours, a cum load so big you'll need 3 gulps to swallow?!?!?

Who needs personality, like seriously?! (anyone matching those criteria apply within - and, please, nooooo personality, I might want to marry you otherwise )

Ammmm....its a " brickshit house "...not a " shitbrick house "...cause am you know it would'nt really stay up if the bricks were made of shit. ...but l get your drift Vee "

So it is my bad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ah cum on now - who needs personality to get them into bed, like, seriously? Personality vs a George Clooney lookalike???

When the messaging back and forth shows a hunk of a man, a six-pack to die for, a body built like a shitbrick house, hands like shovels which can sweep you off your feet, piercing blue eyes admiring my body, a smile showing perfectly aligned white teeth, lips so full you just know your clit is itching for it, full head of hair to get your hands and fingers lost in, a nicely shaped, biiiiig cock you could suck and lick for hours, a cum load so big you'll need 3 gulps to swallow?!?!?

Who needs personality, like seriously?! (anyone matching those criteria apply within - and, please, nooooo personality, I might want to marry you otherwise )

Ammmm....its a " brickshit house "...not a " shitbrick house "...cause am you know it would'nt really stay up if the bricks were made of shit. ...but l get your drift Vee

So it is my bad "

Its ok Vee ...it happens...l guess you just got excited discribing your perfect type meet ...

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By *asual777Man
over a year ago

i travel all over

hunk of a man, not really

a six-pack to die for, not really

a body built like a brick shithouse, not really

hands like shovels which can sweep you off your feet, not really

piercing blue eyes : not even close

admiring my body, check

a smile showing perfectly aligned white teeth, not really

lips so full you just know your clit is itching for it, not really

full head of hair to get your hands and fingers lost in, not head anyway , but chest !?

a nicely shaped, biiiiig cock you could suck and lick for hours, : possibly

a cum load so big you'll need 3 gulps to swallow?!?!? Can be arranged

This is not going well . I had prepared a lengthy message to woo you and now have to bin it

Can we stay friends ?

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By *aint_or_SinnerWoman
over a year ago

South County Dublin


"Ah cum on now - who needs personality to get them into bed, like, seriously? Personality vs a George Clooney lookalike???

When the messaging back and forth shows a hunk of a man, a six-pack to die for, a body built like a shitbrick house, hands like shovels which can sweep you off your feet, piercing blue eyes admiring my body, a smile showing perfectly aligned white teeth, lips so full you just know your clit is itching for it, full head of hair to get your hands and fingers lost in, a nicely shaped, biiiiig cock you could suck and lick for hours, a cum load so big you'll need 3 gulps to swallow?!?!?

Who needs personality, like seriously?! (anyone matching those criteria apply within - and, please, nooooo personality, I might want to marry you otherwise )

Ammmm....its a " brickshit house "...not a " shitbrick house "...cause am you know it would'nt really stay up if the bricks were made of shit. ...but l get your drift Vee

So it is my bad

Its ok Vee ...it happens...l guess you just got excited discribing your perfect type meet ... "

Absolutely, and don't you forget it

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By *aint_or_SinnerWoman
over a year ago

South County Dublin


"hunk of a man, not really

a six-pack to die for, not really

a body built like a brick shithouse, not really

hands like shovels which can sweep you off your feet, not really

piercing blue eyes : not even close

admiring my body, check

a smile showing perfectly aligned white teeth, not really

lips so full you just know your clit is itching for it, not really

full head of hair to get your hands and fingers lost in, not head anyway , but chest !?

a nicely shaped, biiiiig cock you could suck and lick for hours, : possibly

a cum load so big you'll need 3 gulps to swallow?!?!? Can be arranged

This is not going well . I had prepared a lengthy message to woo you and now have to bin it

Can we stay friends ? "

Sorry, do I know you?!

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By *itlbeeCouple
over a year ago

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Both, I'm fairly particularly, some would describe it as demi-sexual even.

But I have zero attraction to people if I don't like their personality, I find they have to be someone I could consider a friend, or just someone I would want to be friends with, before I feel interested at all.

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