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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

To meet the same person you like?

Experienced fabbers i expect will know how best to balance the NSA with the FWB.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's nothing to do with experience

It's whether you develop feelings for that person or not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think its different for everyone. I had a fwb for over a year when i joined here, we would meet at least once a week if suited. Some weeks may see each other more than once.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you’re enjoying something why not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you’re enjoying something why not "

So long as there's no jealousy develops or demands for exclusivity, unless both parties agree

That's when it gets sticky and the fun goes...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just thought there might be a secret formula

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just thought there might be a secret formula "

Be open and discuss what you want I would think is the main tip

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just thought there might be a secret formula

Be open and discuss what you want I would think is the main tip"

Yes and keep it simple and fun

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just thought there might be a secret formula

Be open and discuss what you want I would think is the main tip"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just thought there might be a secret formula

Be open and discuss what you want I would think is the main tip

Yes and keep it simple and fun "

Simple? Moi

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just thought there might be a secret formula

Be open and discuss what you want I would think is the main tip

Yes and keep it simple and fun

Simple? Moi

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have more than one on the go

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have more than one on the go "

This is the dream

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have more than one on the go "

Excellent advice

They're damned hard to find tho, the good ones!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have more than one on the go

This is the dream "

Otherwise it's just plain ole monogamy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have more than one on the go

This is the dream

Otherwise it's just plain ole monogamy "
True

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have more than one on the go

This is the dream

Otherwise it's just plain ole monogamy "

No thanks

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By *asual777Man
over a year ago

i travel all over

As long as you both know what it is and what it isn’t , several years of regularly hooking up is grand

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

As long as you are both on the same page about what you both want and enjoy each others company then I don't see why meeting someone regularly is an issue.

It only becomes an issue if one people starts looking for something else or allowing others to influence how they treat the person they are meeting.

It's not easy to find someone who is on the same wavelength but it can happen on here.

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By *ittlekinks38Woman
over a year ago

outside belfast x

All depends on what everyone's looking just a one night stand(nsa) or a regular friend(fwb) which is not always easy to find!As long as feelings don't get involved then alls good!the worst is liking someone you'd like to meet more than once but they aren't interested or string you along for months...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To meet the same person you like?

Experienced fabbers i expect will know how best to balance the NSA with the FWB.

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If its right and theres a strong mental connection ( most important l think ) between both , l think as much as possible , most if not all here have a life outside of this joint and once or at maybe twice a week is maybe the most people could meet anyway as the events of everyday life kick in so twice a week isnt overkill in the context of a week...but of course things like distance and the availability to meet have to be taken on board but l think twice a week is a nice regular amount , and hey, the way l look at it, it gives each other time to miss each other

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