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By *r.boo OP   Man
over a year ago

Raphoe

Hi has anyone got any suggestions for poly dating apps or sites? The usual dating sites seem to be full of purely monogamous thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OKCupid is the only one I believe.

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By *r.boo OP   Man
over a year ago

Raphoe

Thanks, I'll check it out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I mean, it's a regular dating app. But you can fill in if are poly, open, monogamous, married etc. And it will match you to similar people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I mean, it's a regular dating app. But you can fill in if are poly, open, monogamous, married etc. And it will match you to similar people. "

And you'll still get cockwombles

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By *phrodite72Woman
over a year ago

dublin/galway


"I mean, it's a regular dating app. But you can fill in if are poly, open, monogamous, married etc. And it will match you to similar people.

And you'll still get cockwombles"

Hahahaha weak here

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By *r.boo OP   Man
over a year ago

Raphoe

Do I even wanna know what cockwombles are? Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do I even wanna know what cockwombles are? Lol"

You find them in Cockwimbledon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I mean, it's a regular dating app. But you can fill in if are poly, open, monogamous, married etc. And it will match you to similar people.

And you'll still get cockwombles"

At least you can blame it on an algorithm

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By *r.boo OP   Man
over a year ago

Raphoe

Just googled cockwomble lol yea there everywhere unfortunately lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I mean, it's a regular dating app. But you can fill in if are poly, open, monogamous, married etc. And it will match you to similar people.

And you'll still get cockwombles

At least you can blame it on an algorithm "

Aye

It says more about me really

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By *ilderMan
over a year ago

dublin

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By *arryEssenceMan
over a year ago

Waterford

Tough to find poly dating in Ireland but okc is about your best bet.

Best of luck!

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By *r.boo OP   Man
over a year ago

Raphoe

Iv been on and set up a profile, not many people close by so far

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Iv been on and set up a profile, not many people close by so far"

You should answer a load of the personality questions in the mean time to get a better match.

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By *lameBoyMan
over a year ago

Enfield & Dublin

There’s a group on face book for polyamory Ireland. It has all the details of meets and supports In Ireland.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There’s a group on face book for polyamory Ireland. It has all the details of meets and supports In Ireland. "

Would the ratio of the aforementioned cockwombles be high there?

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By *riangleCouple
over a year ago

galway/dublin

What’s a cockwomble ?

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By *r.boo OP   Man
over a year ago

Raphoe

Google it, I had to aswel lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do I even wanna know what cockwombles are? Lol

You find them in Cockwimbledon "

Is that on the tube to Cockfosters

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By *uckoldDesiresMan
over a year ago

Dublin

Trying to find a woman interested in a cuckold relationship is almost impossible so I can imagine the other poly situations arent much easier to locate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds exhausting

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By *ngloirishcoupleCouple
over a year ago

Dundalk

Poly dating is quite difficult on Ireland tbh.

Joined the Irish Poly group on Facebook and unless you fit into their criteria of polyamory you are not made feel welcome. If you are an M/F couple wanting to meet a woman you are accused of being a unicorn hunter and pretty much ignored.

Oh and read up on ALL the labels and names, pronouns of sexuality and Poly lifestyle or you are classed as ignorant.

Funny thing its mostly female members who are outraged all the time.

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By *r.boo OP   Man
over a year ago

Raphoe

I joined the group on fb yesterday but doesn't seem to be much about it, all very serious

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try the Feeld app.

Not many Irish users but it's gaining popularity.

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork


"Poly dating is quite difficult on Ireland tbh.

Joined the Irish Poly group on Facebook and unless you fit into their criteria of polyamory you are not made feel welcome. If you are an M/F couple wanting to meet a woman you are accused of being a unicorn hunter and pretty much ignored.

Oh and read up on ALL the labels and names, pronouns of sexuality and Poly lifestyle or you are classed as ignorant.

Funny thing its mostly female members who are outraged all the time. "

I suspect the issue is the number of couples who don't really understand that polyamoury isn't about sex and theeways. It's about relationships. "Poly" meaning multiple and "Amour" meaning love. Not sex. Love.

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By *ngloirishcoupleCouple
over a year ago

Dundalk


"Poly dating is quite difficult on Ireland tbh.

Joined the Irish Poly group on Facebook and unless you fit into their criteria of polyamory you are not made feel welcome. If you are an M/F couple wanting to meet a woman you are accused of being a unicorn hunter and pretty much ignored.

Oh and read up on ALL the labels and names, pronouns of sexuality and Poly lifestyle or you are classed as ignorant.

Funny thing its mostly female members who are outraged all the time.

I suspect the issue is the number of couples who don't really understand that polyamoury isn't about sex and theeways. It's about relationships. "Poly" meaning multiple and "Amour" meaning love. Not sex. Love. "

Yes we understand polyamory, we have been in a relationship with another woman before.

I understand a predisposition of mistrust towards coming from a swinger background but tarring everyone with the same brush is not the open mindedness that is portrayed.

There is an underlying arrogance with the admins , that their image of polyamory is the only one that counts.

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

I suspect mistrust from women on there is from jaded experience of being taken advantage of by couples. They are in a weak position in comparison to a preexisting couple and exposing themselves to hurt and giving the level trust needed is a big ask. I would be very cautious if I were them, PARTICULARLY if said couple had a swinging background. Noone wants to feel used or second best in their love life.

I'm not saying you guys will do this I don't know you at all... its just that this is a pattern that comes up which is probably the cause of the suspicion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try Feeld it is especially for poly dating and their app is beautiful!

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork


"Try Feeld it is especially for poly dating and their app is beautiful! "

It's not so popular in Ireland so there aren't many profiles on there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Try Feeld it is especially for poly dating and their app is beautiful!

It's not so popular in Ireland so there aren't many profiles on there"

It’s very new so hopefully that changes soon!

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By *ngloirishcoupleCouple
over a year ago

Dundalk


"I suspect mistrust from women on there is from jaded experience of being taken advantage of by couples. They are in a weak position in comparison to a preexisting couple and exposing themselves to hurt and giving the level trust needed is a big ask. I would be very cautious if I were them, PARTICULARLY if said couple had a swinging background. Noone wants to feel used or second best in their love life.

I'm not saying you guys will do this I don't know you at all... its just that this is a pattern that comes up which is probably the cause of the suspicion. "

Yeah we get that, but they welcome couples looking for bi men with open arms. If they haven't the ability to treat everyone equally they shouldn't be an admin for the page.

As it is we are more likely to find someone in the swinging community who is also looking for more. As it is we enjoy both lifestyles and sit happily between both.

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By *okenutopianWoman
over a year ago

London

My understanding of okcupid is if you list as non-monogamous looking ONLY for the same, your profile won't be visible to all the mono people... so it's good for people looking for real relationships but not to risk being exposed as a bit different to the vanilla folk.

Also if partnered you can link to their profile.

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By *unflower500Woman
over a year ago

M

Thanks a million for Feeld suggestion- I would love to have a poly relationship

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By *unflower500Woman
over a year ago

M


"My understanding of okcupid is if you list as non-monogamous looking ONLY for the same, your profile won't be visible to all the mono people... so it's good for people looking for real relationships but not to risk being exposed as a bit different to the vanilla folk.

Also if partnered you can link to their profile."

Will try this also

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By *itlbeeCouple
over a year ago

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Feeld App is nice and I would love to see a more active Irish community on it.

Its basically a swipe type dating app thats open to swing/open/poly/threesome/

You can link to your partners profile.

I prefer it to fab personally.

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By *ngloirishcoupleCouple
over a year ago

Dundalk


"Thanks a million for Feeld suggestion- I would love to have a poly relationship "

Tried messaging you but you don't allow couples

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By *inaandterryCouple
over a year ago

Westmeath

Intentions intentions

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