FabSwingers.com forum: "Looking for a Date..."

By *andomCaptain OP Man
over a year ago

Roscommon

So many new profiles, which is great. Seen a few mentioning - looking for a 'date' or suggesting they've tried the usual sites so 'thought give this one a go' But do these newbies really get the concept of swinging I wonder? I'd never first off think of it as a dating site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like everyone else, I joined fab to meet like minded women for naughty no strings attached fun and a few laughs.

I'm on the mainstream dating sites in the hope I can meet and marry a wealthy woman who has a weak heart.

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By *he English OneMan
over a year ago

west

Everyone has their reasons for being here yes this site is what it is doesn't mean it's set in stone and if people don't treat it as such that's their business nobody else's

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Everyone has their reasons for being here yes this site is what it is doesn't mean it's set in stone and if people don't treat it as such that's their business nobody else's"

Agreed!

Also, what people are looking for on Fab changes over time. Wether it be a poly relationship or casual sex. As long as their expectations are clearly stated on their profile there's no harm done.

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By *onedbodMan
over a year ago

co Galway

Swinging which might actually lead to dating if you get along great with the female and meet regulary! So nothing wrong with them putting that in their profiles!

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By *ensualandslow321Man
over a year ago

Tullamore

"Everyone has their reasons for being here yes this site is what it is doesn't mean it's set in stone and if people don't treat it as such that's their business nobody else's

Agreed!

Also, what people are looking for on Fab changes over time. Wether it be a poly relationship or casual sex. As long as their expectations are clearly stated on their profile there's no harm done.

I think fabbers can put what they like on their profile without any obligation to amend it if and when they adjust their expectations. Its a free and open country !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So many new profiles, which is great. Seen a few mentioning - looking for a 'date' or suggesting they've tried the usual sites so 'thought give this one a go' But do these newbies really get the concept of swinging I wonder? I'd never first off think of it as a dating site. "

Even though this is classed as a" swingers " site there are a lot of people here that arent interested in actually swinging, wont meet married or attached ,they are here to meet other singles to have sex with , and there are those that have met others here and are now dating ..so who knows what can happen when two stars collide here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just because the site has a certain name. It's up to each person how they use it..Having been on here over 12 years. Ive enjoyed regular meets and know people who met here and are now married..Its the ones that treat this place like a text a ride site that need to realise its got different uses for everyone. Each to their own.

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By *he English OneMan
over a year ago

west

"Just because the site has a certain name. It's up to each person how they use it..Having been on here over 12 years. Ive enjoyed regular meets and know people who met here and are now married..Its the ones that treat this place like a text a ride site that need to realise its got different uses for everyone. Each to their own. "

I would much like to get to know you though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People use the site for whatever suits them, at least by saying they want to date , you can avoid them if its not what you are looking for?

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By *andomCaptain OP Man
over a year ago

Roscommon

"People use the site for whatever suits them, at least by saying they want to date , you can avoid them if its not what you are looking for? "

That's a very good point

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By *ittlekinks38Woman
over a year ago

outside belfast x

Yeah I was wondering that too as I mostly get single/married men looking a quickie...thats not what swinging is about to me..thats regular vanilla stuff lol am into couples and group play and the kinker side of life!

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By *aint_or_SinnerWoman
over a year ago

South County Dublin

I know "date" in the traditional sense means taking someone out for a bit of romancing. Not what the initial intention of this site was or is, given the name. But many different people, many different uses...

I personally have to admit that I cannot stand the term "meet". It implies meat, cattle mart, Copperface Jacks mentality of quick and meaningless hookups. Been there, done that. I'm into sex with a connection, even if it's NSA.

And I may very well have that slip of the tongue when arranging a "meet" and say "it's a date" when I know full well, it's not a date in the traditional sense. But it's a particular day chosen in a particular week at a particular time to meet for whatever, a coffee, a meal, a fuck, passionate sex, whatever...

And for those who are free and single, what's wrong with keeping an open mind, should you actually be lucky enough to find a like-minded soul whom you can have a bit of fun with outside of the sexual aspect. I always think it's about honesty and communication. Setting boundaries and if goal posts change, discussing those...

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By *oft_sexy_sweetWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

There was a thread here recently where couples were saying where they met and I'd say 90% of the responses were that they met on Fab.

There's absolutely nothing wrong with looking for a date on Fab, just the same as there's nothing wrong with looking for casual sex on Tinder - as long as you're upfront about it.

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