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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Whts the best way to grab someone’s attention on fab and i am trying and failing to get any

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Someone specific or the whole site?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

The whole site at this stage

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By *imatureMan
over a year ago

sligo

Call them a c**t only joking respect is king

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yeah I’m def not gonna go around dropping c-bombs anyway lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Whts the best way to grab someone’s attention on fab and i am trying and failing to get any "

Read their profile and work on something that they've said or mentioned in it , it shows them you are interested in them as a person and not just want to fuck them, l think ya gotta connect mentally before physically...but hey...thats just my tuppence worth.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I’ll just have to try harder lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fab is a different world on its own,the harder you tried the more you fail to grab any attention,

"Good things come to those who wait"

Just try your best,and your moment will come, and don't worry too much about it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Seems to be my only option hahaa

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By *t777Woman
over a year ago

close by

Say something complimentary, be funny and especially nice

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By *emper-fudgeMan
over a year ago

Blackrock

Word of advice that works for me, first and formost have manners, secondly try and see what works for other guys on here

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Good idea. Semper I’ll take all the help I can’t get.

I compliment all the time big lol

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast


"Good idea. Semper I’ll take all the help I can’t get.

I compliment all the time big lol "

Remember though that there's a fine line between a complimentary comment and a sychophantic one.

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By *emper-fudgeMan
over a year ago

Blackrock

Pm me if you want mate

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Good idea. Semper I’ll take all the help I can’t get.

I compliment all the time big lol

Remember though that there's a fine line between a complimentary comment and a sychophantic one.

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That’s a very fair point lol

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By *emper-fudgeMan
over a year ago

Blackrock

Very, most guys on fab dont have a clue,complimemts should only be given when deserved, no one respects a simp

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By *3nsesMan
over a year ago

Dublin

No one technique is guaranteed to work for any guy, if they were every guy would be copying it and doing it.

Just try and be yourself with a little extra icing on top. It might not work but you will find it far less stressful.

Fab os like a job interviews ew process. Your profile is like your CV and then conversation is like that interview.nif you apply for a job and try and completely bluff your way through by pretending to be someone different with different skill sets then you will most likely be fond out at done stage in the process. Fab is the same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Say something complimentary, be funny and especially nice"

So if someone said they love your boobies, you'd react in a nice way or eye roll?????

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Say something complimentary, be funny and especially nice

So if someone said they love your boobies, you'd react in a nice way or eye roll?????"

You’d imagine they would say it nicer than that lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No one technique is guaranteed to work for any guy, if they were every guy would be copying it and doing it.

Just try and be yourself with a little extra icing on top. It might not work but you will find it far less stressful.

Fab os like a job interviews ew process. Your profile is like your CV and then conversation is like that interview.nif you apply for a job and try and completely bluff your way through by pretending to be someone different with different skill sets then you will most likely be fond out at done stage in the process. Fab is the same.

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That was very well put... Great advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm in a couple's profile and we get constant messages and honestly guys are unimaginative, creepy, direct...no tact or humour.

Be witty, nice and catch the attention simple as that and you give yourself a chance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Say something complimentary, be funny and especially nice

So if someone said they love your boobies, you'd react in a nice way or eye roll?????

You’d imagine they would say it nicer than that lol"

So tell a story like if you like big boobs say something like " I'd love to climb to the peak of those mountains and mark my territory on them " ????????

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By *andomCaptainMan
over a year ago

Roscommon


"Say something complimentary, be funny and especially nice

So if someone said they love your boobies, you'd react in a nice way or eye roll?????

You’d imagine they would say it nicer than that lol

So tell a story like if you like big boobs say something like " I'd love to climb to the peak of those mountains and mark my territory on them " ????????"

Eeewwwww

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Say something complimentary, be funny and especially nice

So if someone said they love your boobies, you'd react in a nice way or eye roll?????

You’d imagine they would say it nicer than that lol

So tell a story like if you like big boobs say something like " I'd love to climb to the peak of those mountains and mark my territory on them "

Eeewwwww "

That obviously was a joke ????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm in a couple's profile and we get constant messages and honestly guys are unimaginative, creepy, direct...no tact or humour.

Be witty, nice and catch the attention simple as that and you give yourself a chance."
I bet your hubby would be all those things you mentioned about other guys if he hadn't been a couple, so it's probably easy to say,his the nicest none creepy guy on fab,may let him try out as a single

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Good idea. Semper I’ll take all the help I can’t get.

I compliment all the time big lol "
No do not do complementary" girls on fab don't like complements they might fight you for it,thats they called men creeps on fab, just go with the flow, say whatever comes to your mind on the profile you like wait for response, but not complementary at the start.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Say something complimentary, be funny and especially nice"
I bet if you're a man women here don't appreciate complements" you be lucky to get a thank you,some might not even reply

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Word of advice that works for me, first and formost have manners, secondly try and see what works for other guys on here"
You sound like the genius we've all been waiting to hear from here, any more ideas?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Word of advice that works for me, first and formost have manners, secondly try and see what works for other guys on here"
OP asked for ideas, here you are telling how good you are having it

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By *he English OneMan
over a year ago

west

Start a why can't I get a meet thread that usually gets some sort of attention

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By *emper-fudgeMan
over a year ago

Blackrock

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By *emper-fudgeMan
over a year ago

Blackrock

Pm me if you want

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Cheers for all the advice everyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Say something complimentary, be funny and especially nice"

You look stunning in red

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