FabSwingers.com forum: For Men here, how many messages do you send a day ?

By *ensualandslow321 OP Man
over a year ago

Tullamore

Often wondered given the male/female ratio here, how many messages do guys send on average daily ? Personally I send 1/2 a week. There must be a record out there.

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

372 so far today. I'll probably make it to around the 500 mark before bed. Thank god for copy and paste!

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

"372 so far today. I'll probably make it to around the 500 mark before bed. Thank god for copy and paste!

And there was me thinking the one I got off you was unique.

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

"372 so far today. I'll probably make it to around the 500 mark before bed. Thank god for copy and paste!

And there was me thinking the one I got off you was unique. "

It was.

It didn't include 27 cock pics!

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

"372 so far today. I'll probably make it to around the 500 mark before bed. Thank god for copy and paste!

And there was me thinking the one I got off you was unique.

It was.

It didn't include 27 cock pics!

I only got 10 .I feel under appreciated now

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

"372 so far today. I'll probably make it to around the 500 mark before bed. Thank god for copy and paste!

And there was me thinking the one I got off you was unique.

It was.

It didn't include 27 cock pics!

Ya didn't have to send them to me either ffs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d a short chat with one profile in the last week so maybe 3 or 4 messages, kinda forum related.

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By *rade69Man
over a year ago

dublin

I sent about 20 last night in chat with a lady !! Then out of nowhere blocked mid chat !! I feel defeated

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

5 or 6 a day but usually to friends or queries from people about something I've posted on a thread

If I post a puzzle could be 20 or 30 each way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can you send messages to yourself...asking for a friend

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By *ensualandslow321 OP Man
over a year ago

Tullamore

"I sent about 20 last night in chat with a lady !! Then out of nowhere blocked mid chat !! I feel defeated

Messages to different ladies is what I mean.

Commiserations on being blocked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably about 50 or 60 to people I know or have been chatting to for a while. Very rarely send first messages these days as most would be deleted or worse ...blocked

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By *lay rock69Man
over a year ago

monaghan

2 or 3 a night that all

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Haven't sent a first contact message in 15 months.

On average I receive 1 message every 2 weeks so the answer to your question is I reply to that 1 message every 2 weeks.

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By *onedbodMan
over a year ago

co Galway

Don't send them unless received one as know females get inundated with messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wait... You guys are sending messages?!

I knew I was doing this wrong!

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By *Belfast_FellaMan
over a year ago

belfast

Very few, these days, as I'm not meeting much and I don't see an awful lot of point in the circumstances.

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

"372 so far today. I'll probably make it to around the 500 mark before bed. Thank god for copy and paste!

And there was me thinking the one I got off you was unique.

It was.

It didn't include 27 cock pics!

Ya didn't have to send them to me either ffs "

I set daily targets and have to make the numbers or I feel like I've underachieved.

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By *quinnMan
over a year ago

Limerick

Very few lately and as others have mentioned, tends to be related more to forum topics.

Rarely make an attempt to contact to start up a chat with someone outside of the forum as theres just no substance to it, a bit like cold calling

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By *olourpurpleMan
over a year ago

Waterford

Not much lately. It’s hard to send out a lot and have them tailored to the person you’re sending to.

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By *ildaresubloverMan
over a year ago

gorey

Very rarely

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By *antra MassageMan
over a year ago

Galway

I never initiate messages. But I reply to any messages I receive.

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By *ensualandslow321 OP Man
over a year ago

Tullamore

Its obvious that the guys that send 100s of messages a day are too busy for the forum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I take notions and send one or two but generally speaking it’s a complete waste of time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I lose the will after reading all of the eligibility criteria

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This doesn't bode well for me awaiting the first move from a guy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can you send messages to yourself...asking for a friend

Yes you can

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By *onesome swingerMan
over a year ago

Belfast

If I don't meet their profile criteria or them mine I dont message them, there is no point. I would rather women stated the age range of men on their profile that they are willing to meet rather than just putting up the generic 18-99 age range.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I'm being honest when I first started off I sent quite a few. (4 years back I'd say)

Now I don't send much, maybe 2/3 a week. If even, as some weeks I don't message anyone at all.

I always read the bio, and If I think I'm what their looking for I'll send a message, talking a little about me etc...

I do send winks, say if I'm close to what they're looking for, but not sure. This way they can click and decide.

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By *lectric cockMan
over a year ago

local

I send “what u into?” about 80 times a day

... nah rarely send messages these days unless replies

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

"I send “what u into?” about 80 times a day

... nah rarely send messages these days unless replies "

Jayus that's a well thought out msg i usually just send "Hi"

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By *aid backMan
over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out

None, I very very rarely send messages on here. I let the ladies chase me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I send “what u into?” about 80 times a day

... nah rarely send messages these days unless replies

Jayus that's a well thought out msg i usually just send "would you like to peg me?""
corrected for ya

mwah xxx

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By *atherjackhackettMan
over a year ago

Tipperary

I reply to all messages every day. That makes it zero this week. And last week. And the week before

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don’t bother anymore what’s the point, they have no manners to reply

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By *ensualandslow321 OP Man
over a year ago

Tullamore

"I reply to all messages every day. That makes it zero this week. And last week. And the week before

Ahhh look on the bright side,I'm sure you get lots of ladies viewing your profile and probably waiting for a message from you

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

"I send “what u into?” about 80 times a day

... nah rarely send messages these days unless replies

Jayus that's a well thought out msg i usually just send "would you like to peg me?" corrected for ya

mwah xxx"

Dreamer your nothing but a dreamer

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By *iss3BWoman
over a year ago

north down

"I send “what u into?” about 80 times a day

... nah rarely send messages these days unless replies

Jayus that's a well thought out msg i usually just send "would you like to peg me?" corrected for ya

mwah xxx

Dreamer your nothing but a dreamer

Ah ffs I never get that

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

"I send “what u into?” about 80 times a day

... nah rarely send messages these days unless replies

Jayus that's a well thought out msg i usually just send "would you like to peg me?" corrected for ya

mwah xxx

Dreamer your nothing but a dreamer

Ah ffs I never get that

What

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By *iss3BWoman
over a year ago

north down

"I send “what u into?” about 80 times a day

... nah rarely send messages these days unless replies

Jayus that's a well thought out msg i usually just send "would you like to peg me?" corrected for ya

mwah xxx

Dreamer your nothing but a dreamer

Ah ffs I never get that

What

You're 'would you like to peg me

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

"I send “what u into?” about 80 times a day

... nah rarely send messages these days unless replies

Jayus that's a well thought out msg i usually just send "would you like to peg me?" corrected for ya

mwah xxx

Dreamer your nothing but a dreamer

Ah ffs I never get that

What

You're 'would you like to peg me

Pmsi not me its that other lass she dreaming of one day strapping on mr purp and greasing up me ass but that's it she's a dreamer

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By *iss3BWoman
over a year ago

north down

"I send “what u into?” about 80 times a day

... nah rarely send messages these days unless replies

Jayus that's a well thought out msg i usually just send "would you like to peg me?" corrected for ya

mwah xxx

Dreamer your nothing but a dreamer

Ah ffs I never get that

What

You're 'would you like to peg me

Pmsi not me its that other lass she dreaming of one day strapping on mr purp and greasing up me ass but that's it she's a dreamer

Ah go on ya will love it as much as she will

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I send “what u into?” about 80 times a day

... nah rarely send messages these days unless replies

Jayus that's a well thought out msg i usually just send "would you like to peg me?" corrected for ya

mwah xxx

Dreamer your nothing but a dreamer

Ah ffs I never get that

What

You're 'would you like to peg me

Pmsi not me its that other lass she dreaming of one day strapping on mr purp and greasing up me ass but that's it she's a dreamer

There'll be no greasing CJ

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

"I send “what u into?” about 80 times a day

... nah rarely send messages these days unless replies

Jayus that's a well thought out msg i usually just send "would you like to peg me?" corrected for ya

mwah xxx

Dreamer your nothing but a dreamer

Ah ffs I never get that

What

You're 'would you like to peg me

Pmsi not me its that other lass she dreaming of one day strapping on mr purp and greasing up me ass but that's it she's a dreamer

Ah go on ya will love it as much as she will

Now mrs 3B u know if u have talk someone into it its never the same as someone bending over pulling their ass cheeks apart looking back at u and saying go gentle on me

At first anyway

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

"I send “what u into?” about 80 times a day

... nah rarely send messages these days unless replies

Jayus that's a well thought out msg i usually just send "would you like to peg me?" corrected for ya

mwah xxx

Dreamer your nothing but a dreamer

Ah ffs I never get that

What

You're 'would you like to peg me

Pmsi not me its that other lass she dreaming of one day strapping on mr purp and greasing up me ass but that's it she's a dreamer

There'll be no greasing CJ

Rough

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By *ensualandslow321 OP Man
over a year ago

Tullamore

"I send “what u into?” about 80 times a day

... nah rarely send messages these days unless replies

Jayus that's a well thought out msg i usually just send "would you like to peg me?" corrected for ya

mwah xxx

Dreamer your nothing but a dreamer

Ah ffs I never get that

What

You're 'would you like to peg me

Pmsi not me its that other lass she dreaming of one day strapping on mr purp and greasing up me ass but that's it she's a dreamer

There'll be no greasing CJ

Rough

Typical Fab chat !!! chat about men messaging ends up chatting about a poor fecker being (gently) pegged

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I send “what u into?” about 80 times a day

... nah rarely send messages these days unless replies

Jayus that's a well thought out msg i usually just send "would you like to peg me?" corrected for ya

mwah xxx

Dreamer your nothing but a dreamer

Ah ffs I never get that

What

You're 'would you like to peg me

Pmsi not me its that other lass she dreaming of one day strapping on mr purp and greasing up me ass but that's it she's a dreamer

There'll be no greasing CJ

Rough

Typical Fab chat !!! chat about men messaging ends up chatting about a poor fecker being (gently) pegged

My apologies for derailing your thread

But I have to ask.....

Are you game?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I send “what u into?” about 80 times a day

... nah rarely send messages these days unless replies

Jayus that's a well thought out msg i usually just send "would you like to peg me?" corrected for ya

mwah xxx

Dreamer your nothing but a dreamer

Ah ffs I never get that

What

You're 'would you like to peg me

Pmsi not me its that other lass she dreaming of one day strapping on mr purp and greasing up me ass but that's it she's a dreamer

There'll be no greasing CJ

Rough

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By *ensualandslow321 OP Man
over a year ago

Tullamore

"I send “what u into?” about 80 times a day

... nah rarely send messages these days unless replies

Jayus that's a well thought out msg i usually just send "would you like to peg me?" corrected for ya

mwah xxx

Dreamer your nothing but a dreamer

Ah ffs I never get that

What

You're 'would you like to peg me

Pmsi not me its that other lass she dreaming of one day strapping on mr purp and greasing up me ass but that's it she's a dreamer

There'll be no greasing CJ

Rough

Typical Fab chat !!! chat about men messaging ends up chatting about a poor fecker being (gently) pegged

My apologies for derailing your thread

But I have to ask.....

Are you game?

Rimming I like but pegging

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By *iss3BWoman
over a year ago

north down

"I send “what u into?” about 80 times a day

... nah rarely send messages these days unless replies

Jayus that's a well thought out msg i usually just send "would you like to peg me?" corrected for ya

mwah xxx

Dreamer your nothing but a dreamer

Ah ffs I never get that

What

You're 'would you like to peg me

Pmsi not me its that other lass she dreaming of one day strapping on mr purp and greasing up me ass but that's it she's a dreamer

There'll be no greasing CJ

Rough

Fast you're bound to message plenty ladies asking to be pegged

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I send “what u into?” about 80 times a day

... nah rarely send messages these days unless replies

Jayus that's a well thought out msg i usually just send "would you like to peg me?" corrected for ya

mwah xxx

Dreamer your nothing but a dreamer

Ah ffs I never get that

What

You're 'would you like to peg me

Pmsi not me its that other lass she dreaming of one day strapping on mr purp and greasing up me ass but that's it she's a dreamer

There'll be no greasing CJ

Rough

Typical Fab chat !!! chat about men messaging ends up chatting about a poor fecker being (gently) pegged

My apologies for derailing your thread

But I have to ask.....

Are you game?

Rimming I like but pegging

Don't knock it til you try it

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

"I send “what u into?” about 80 times a day

... nah rarely send messages these days unless replies

Jayus that's a well thought out msg i usually just send "would you like to peg me?" corrected for ya

mwah xxx

Dreamer your nothing but a dreamer

Ah ffs I never get that

What

You're 'would you like to peg me

Pmsi not me its that other lass she dreaming of one day strapping on mr purp and greasing up me ass but that's it she's a dreamer

There'll be no greasing CJ

Rough

Typical Fab chat !!! chat about men messaging ends up chatting about a poor fecker being (gently) pegged

My apologies for derailing your thread

But I have to ask.....

Are you game?

Rimming I like but pegging

Be warned ain't nothing sensual or slow about this siern

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By *iss3BWoman
over a year ago

north down

"I send “what u into?” about 80 times a day

... nah rarely send messages these days unless replies

Jayus that's a well thought out msg i usually just send "would you like to peg me?" corrected for ya

mwah xxx

Dreamer your nothing but a dreamer

Ah ffs I never get that

What

You're 'would you like to peg me

Pmsi not me its that other lass she dreaming of one day strapping on mr purp and greasing up me ass but that's it she's a dreamer

There'll be no greasing CJ

Rough

Typical Fab chat !!! chat about men messaging ends up chatting about a poor fecker being (gently) pegged

My apologies for derailing your thread

But I have to ask.....

Are you game?

Rimming I like but pegging

S1ren he didn't say no

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

"I send “what u into?” about 80 times a day

... nah rarely send messages these days unless replies

Jayus that's a well thought out msg i usually just send "would you like to peg me?" corrected for ya

mwah xxx

Dreamer your nothing but a dreamer

Ah ffs I never get that

What

You're 'would you like to peg me

Pmsi not me its that other lass she dreaming of one day strapping on mr purp and greasing up me ass but that's it she's a dreamer

There'll be no greasing CJ

Rough

Typical Fab chat !!! chat about men messaging ends up chatting about a poor fecker being (gently) pegged

My apologies for derailing your thread

But I have to ask.....

Are you game?

Rimming I like but pegging

S1ren he didn't say no

U noticed that to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I send “what u into?” about 80 times a day

... nah rarely send messages these days unless replies

Jayus that's a well thought out msg i usually just send "would you like to peg me?" corrected for ya

mwah xxx

Dreamer your nothing but a dreamer

Ah ffs I never get that

What

You're 'would you like to peg me

Pmsi not me its that other lass she dreaming of one day strapping on mr purp and greasing up me ass but that's it she's a dreamer

There'll be no greasing CJ

Rough

Typical Fab chat !!! chat about men messaging ends up chatting about a poor fecker being (gently) pegged

My apologies for derailing your thread

But I have to ask.....

Are you game?

Rimming I like but pegging

Be warned ain't nothing sensual or slow about this siern

Don't comment on what you haven't experienced

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I send “what u into?” about 80 times a day

... nah rarely send messages these days unless replies

Jayus that's a well thought out msg i usually just send "would you like to peg me?" corrected for ya

mwah xxx

Dreamer your nothing but a dreamer

Ah ffs I never get that

What

You're 'would you like to peg me

Pmsi not me its that other lass she dreaming of one day strapping on mr purp and greasing up me ass but that's it she's a dreamer

There'll be no greasing CJ

Rough

Typical Fab chat !!! chat about men messaging ends up chatting about a poor fecker being (gently) pegged

My apologies for derailing your thread

But I have to ask.....

Are you game?

Rimming I like but pegging

S1ren he didn't say no

Noted X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I send “what u into?” about 80 times a day

... nah rarely send messages these days unless replies

Jayus that's a well thought out msg i usually just send "would you like to peg me?" corrected for ya

mwah xxx

Dreamer your nothing but a dreamer

Ah ffs I never get that

What

You're 'would you like to peg me

Pmsi not me its that other lass she dreaming of one day strapping on mr purp and greasing up me ass but that's it she's a dreamer

There'll be no greasing CJ

Rough

Typical Fab chat !!! chat about men messaging ends up chatting about a poor fecker being (gently) pegged

My apologies for derailing your thread

But I have to ask.....

Are you game?

Rimming I like but pegging

Don't knock it til you try it

Told ya I’m trysexual

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I send “what u into?” about 80 times a day

... nah rarely send messages these days unless replies

Jayus that's a well thought out msg i usually just send "would you like to peg me?" corrected for ya

mwah xxx

Dreamer your nothing but a dreamer

Ah ffs I never get that

What

You're 'would you like to peg me

Pmsi not me its that other lass she dreaming of one day strapping on mr purp and greasing up me ass but that's it she's a dreamer

There'll be no greasing CJ

Rough

Typical Fab chat !!! chat about men messaging ends up chatting about a poor fecker being (gently) pegged

My apologies for derailing your thread

But I have to ask.....

Are you game?

Rimming I like but pegging

Don't knock it til you try it

Told ya I’m trysexual

*Rubs mitts together in glee*

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By *ensualandslow321 OP Man
over a year ago

Tullamore

"I send “what u into?” about 80 times a day

... nah rarely send messages these days unless replies

Jayus that's a well thought out msg i usually just send "would you like to peg me?" corrected for ya

mwah xxx

Dreamer your nothing but a dreamer

Ah ffs I never get that

What

You're 'would you like to peg me

Pmsi not me its that other lass she dreaming of one day strapping on mr purp and greasing up me ass but that's it she's a dreamer

There'll be no greasing CJ

Rough

Typical Fab chat !!! chat about men messaging ends up chatting about a poor fecker being (gently) pegged

My apologies for derailing your thread

But I have to ask.....

Are you game?

Rimming I like but pegging

Don't knock it til you try it

Not knocking it but I'm a pegging virgin so I'd need a gentle introduction (+lube)

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

"I send “what u into?” about 80 times a day

... nah rarely send messages these days unless replies

Jayus that's a well thought out msg i usually just send "would you like to peg me?" corrected for ya

mwah xxx

Dreamer your nothing but a dreamer

Ah ffs I never get that

What

You're 'would you like to peg me

Pmsi not me its that other lass she dreaming of one day strapping on mr purp and greasing up me ass but that's it she's a dreamer

There'll be no greasing CJ

Rough

Typical Fab chat !!! chat about men messaging ends up chatting about a poor fecker being (gently) pegged

My apologies for derailing your thread

But I have to ask.....

Are you game?

Rimming I like but pegging

Be warned ain't nothing sensual or slow about this siern

Don't comment on what you haven't experienced

All those years of threats of rough rodgering and I haven't experience

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By *ancy38Woman
over a year ago

galway

I reply maybe once or twice a week to male msgs, revive about 50-100 a week.

One guy has sent me 20 msgs with face pics. I would never meet a guy who does this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I send “what u into?” about 80 times a day

... nah rarely send messages these days unless replies

Jayus that's a well thought out msg i usually just send "would you like to peg me?" corrected for ya

mwah xxx

Dreamer your nothing but a dreamer

Ah ffs I never get that

What

You're 'would you like to peg me

Pmsi not me its that other lass she dreaming of one day strapping on mr purp and greasing up me ass but that's it she's a dreamer

There'll be no greasing CJ

Rough

Typical Fab chat !!! chat about men messaging ends up chatting about a poor fecker being (gently) pegged

My apologies for derailing your thread

But I have to ask.....

Are you game?

Rimming I like but pegging

Don't knock it til you try it

Not knocking it but I'm a pegging virgin so I'd need a gentle introduction (+lube)

No problem

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By *ensualandslow321 OP Man
over a year ago

Tullamore

"I send “what u into?” about 80 times a day

... nah rarely send messages these days unless replies

Jayus that's a well thought out msg i usually just send "would you like to peg me?" corrected for ya

mwah xxx

Dreamer your nothing but a dreamer

Ah ffs I never get that

What

You're 'would you like to peg me

Pmsi not me its that other lass she dreaming of one day strapping on mr purp and greasing up me ass but that's it she's a dreamer

There'll be no greasing CJ

Rough

Typical Fab chat !!! chat about men messaging ends up chatting about a poor fecker being (gently) pegged

My apologies for derailing your thread

But I have to ask.....

Are you game?

Rimming I like but pegging

Don't knock it til you try it

Not knocking it but I'm a pegging virgin so I'd need a gentle introduction (+lube)

No problem

Ahhh ya say that but given the opportunity they'd be no lube and you'd wreck me Lol wouldn't be able to walk straight for a week (or two)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe send out 1 or 2 a month if even that. I'm not big on inniating first contact through a random private msg. I find it better to have a bit craic through the forums and maybe private msg from that bit of banter. I'll always reply to msgs unless they are just stupid ones... you all know what I mean.

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By *xplicitMan
over a year ago

donegal

0, but that’s obvious with profile hidden etc, but even if I got back into the whole scene I’d say I wouldn’t send many at all. It’s pointless messaging total strangers on here and I found often pointless trying to have ‘conversations’ on fab with ppl you know. Girls just get far too much mail and any train of thought gets completely lost in unread mail

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very few. I don't if it's old age or working from home but I find my desire to communicate via text has just become non-existent. Just can't muster the effort or interest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not too much recently. Never usually get a reply. Beginning to wonder if there’s any point

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By *dfabMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne

Too early and too sober.

I only message after 3am and 15pts.

Otherwise I CAN'T HANDLE THE REJECTION

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By *ubal1Man
over a year ago

Newry Down

None, at present. I am keeping my powder dry, to coin a phrase, until this viral crisis is over.

In the meantime, I frequent the fora.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Probably about 50 or 60 to people I know or have been chatting to for a while. Very rarely send first messages these days as most would be deleted or worse ...blocked

Meant 50 or 60 a week not a day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be completely honest I get very little but that's because most of the women in my area either don't want to neet from galway or just not interested at all, so really And truly now many for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends tbh, my messages are mostly just to compliment a lady on her written profile or pictures, other than that l dont really bother them, they have loads of other stuff going on, my message would only be another brick in their big yellow wall.

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By *enguin1Man
over a year ago

The sticks

Rarely message on here as good friends which I’ve made here normally have my number. I find this message function painful to use anyways

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By *ilverfox74Man
over a year ago

dublin offaly

Maybe a few a week. Some weeks none. It depends on who catches my eye. No point in sending out loads of messages as the won’t be read and no reply. The ladies here gets too many anyway so I’m hoping the ones I do read and like it.

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By *oo32Man
over a year ago

tipperary

Some times a few....other times none at all...

And other times wayyyyyyy too many

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By *ensualandslow321 OP Man
over a year ago

Tullamore

After extensive anthropological research into why ladies get 100s of messages a day, I have come to the following conclusions.

1) It would appear that most of the guys that are active on the forum don't send 100s of messages a day.

2) There must be 100s of other men that spend hours cutting and pasting messages

3) There are 2 possible solutions

A) Women could hide their profiles

B) The site could limit the number of initial daily messages anyone can send.

4) A safeword is of paramount importance when pegging

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By *he AlternativesCouple
over a year ago

Swingington

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How many messages sent are to couples who blatantly do not want to meet single men? but they still message anyway then cry when they get an ignorant message back.. it seems most men on here do it lol

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

"How many messages sent are to couples who blatantly do not want to meet single men? but they still message anyway then cry when they get an ignorant message back.. it seems most men on here do it lol"

Fair play if you know what all other men do

Every answer so far on here is that we don't

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By *ivelifeMan
over a year ago

Dublin

Try to hit 450 messages a day with a average of 449 replies

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By *iss3BWoman
over a year ago

north down

"After extensive anthropological research into why ladies get 100s of messages a day, I have come to the following conclusions.

1) It would appear that most of the guys that are active on the forum don't send 100s of messages a day.

2) There must be 100s of other men that spend hours cutting and pasting messages

3) There are 2 possible solutions

A) Women could hide their profiles

B) The site could limit the number of initial daily messages anyone can send.

4) A safeword is of paramount importance when pegging

I find keep going is the perfect safe word for use in pegging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Often wondered given the male/female ratio here, how many messages do guys send on average daily ? Personally I send 1/2 a week. There must be a record out there."

When I was a single guy here I'd send maybe one or two mails a day. Always went for people who I found interesting. Never understood the throw shit at the wall and see what sticks approach.

Jay

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Around 10 a day and nothing lol

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By *ensualandslow321 OP Man
over a year ago

Tullamore

"After extensive anthropological research into why ladies get 100s of messages a day, I have come to the following conclusions.

1) It would appear that most of the guys that are active on the forum don't send 100s of messages a day.

2) There must be 100s of other men that spend hours cutting and pasting messages

3) There are 2 possible solutions

A) Women could hide their profiles

B) The site could limit the number of initial daily messages anyone can send.

4) A safeword is of paramount importance when pegging

I find keep going is the perfect safe word for use in pegging

I thought you were going to advise me not to use "Mmmmm" as a safeword

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

Keep going as a safe word....I'll bear that in mind so

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