FabSwingers.com forum: Missed opportunities

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I was in my early 20s.. asked by a marries woman to fuck her as her husband watched..

I politely turned her down..

Definitely one missed opportunity as I'd definitely do that now..

What's your missed opportunity?

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By *oft_sexy_sweetWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

I was at a house party with kinky pals, I had a terrible headache so I was waiting for my bf to take me home. A friend asked me to join her and another (suuuuuuper hot guy) friend in the shower to see if it helped my headache... And I said no???????

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

You did the right thing at the time as it woukdnt have been fair to your boyfriend but my god that's definitely 1 missed opportunity.. no chance of a second invite then???

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

While abroad with a group of fellow students I got asked by one girl if I fancied going to her room while the others were all heading off to a local bar for a session. I went to the session instead.

That was back in the eighties. I met her about ten years ago and I commented on how well she was looking. She said that she looked even better naked back in the eighties but I had still turned her down. Ouch

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ouch.... ya have to admit though.. Great comeback by her burn ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

30 odd years ago, first year in college. I was in digs, shared a house with a Dublin lady who had moved abroad, and married with two kids. Tragically her husband was murdered and she had to move back to Dublin. She took in me to help with bills as she was financially strained as her money was frozen in the country abroad. She was lovely, gorgeous figure and pretty but not out there. Anyway one night shortly before Xmas she propositioned me to have soft play with her. I froze and didn’t know what to say. I turned her down as I was so unsure. She was mortified. Poor thing, two young kids and no sexual outlet. We decided I’d leave after Xmas. I came home and was in bits after it! Anyway, went back after Xmas, we never spoke about it again and I finished the year with her. I often think about her. I was so shy. My big regret. Hope she is keeping well.

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

"Ouch.... ya have to admit though.. Great comeback by her burn ??"

It certainly was. It turns out that she was still quite bitter over it.

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

"30 odd years ago, first year in college. I was in digs, shared a house with a Dublin lady who had moved abroad, and married with two kids. Tragically her husband was murdered and she had to move back to Dublin. She took in me to help with bills as she was financially strained as her money was frozen in the country abroad. She was lovely, gorgeous figure and pretty but not out there. Anyway one night shortly before Xmas she propositioned me to have soft play with her. I froze and didn’t know what to say. I turned her down as I was so unsure. She was mortified. Poor thing, two young kids and no sexual outlet. We decided I’d leave after Xmas. I came home and was in bits after it! Anyway, went back after Xmas, we never spoke about it again and I finished the year with her. I often think about her. I was so shy. My big regret. Hope she is keeping well. "

If she was in Glasnevin, she got through a number of students after that!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Glasnevin is a great spot for the ladies too ????

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Sounds like you might have been the only guy ever to turn her down ????

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

"Sounds like you might have been the only guy ever to turn her down ????"

It may not be the same lady but its a remarkably similar situation.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Who takes rejection better do you think... ladies or gents?

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By *oft_sexy_sweetWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

"You did the right thing at the time as it woukdnt have been fair to your boyfriend but my god that's definitely 1 missed opportunity.. no chance of a second invite then???"

Pfff my boyfriend wouldn't have minded, he'd have watched!!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Well for research purposes you should have accepted ????

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

"You did the right thing at the time as it woukdnt have been fair to your boyfriend but my god that's definitely 1 missed opportunity.. no chance of a second invite then???

Pfff my boyfriend wouldn't have minded, he'd have watched!!!! "

Just watched

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By *scouple07Couple
over a year ago

louth, Ireland

After our 2nd visit to a club we got a lift back to hotel with another couple as they was passing it on their way home, plenty of dirty chat and boobs out to compare, got back to hotel and said thanks for the lift and went in

Wasn't til later we realised if we had asked them they actually would have joined us for some fun

Complete newbie stupidity

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ye really had nothing to lose there...pity

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By *oft_sexy_sweetWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

"You did the right thing at the time as it woukdnt have been fair to your boyfriend but my god that's definitely 1 missed opportunity.. no chance of a second invite then???

Pfff my boyfriend wouldn't have minded, he'd have watched!!!!

Just watched

How many people do you think would fit in a domestic shower??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I was in my early 20s.. asked by a marries woman to fuck her as her husband watched..

I politely turned her down..

Definitely one missed opportunity as I'd definitely do that now..

What's your missed opportunity? "

I wouldn’t say missed at all

them offers pop here all the time wouldn’t be for me but drop a few couples txts

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Definitely 3 at a push...??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In my early 20s I was chatting a single woman from Waterford. She was into bdsm and we had talked quite a bit and emailed over and back. Set a date to meet. I was going to drive to Waterford from Dublin. As the date got closer I backed out as I’d a work colleague finishing same day and wanted to go to her drinks. We never met afterwards and i always wondered how it would have worked out. We lost touch but I’d have loved to chat to her now. She was a teacher and my god I got such a hard on as we used to talk on the phone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

While on a night out on the lash with a group of friends about twelve years ago, I was approached by two young 18-19 year old hotties who invited me to star in their next porno movie. I replied rather nonchalantly that my fee for four hours of my time would be €600 in advance, and walked away. I rejoined my friends and casually mentioned what had transpired moments earlier to uproarious laughter, they were convinced that I was just shit talking until the pair or nubile hotties approached me again to see if I would accept a lesser offer of cash and some extra kinky fun once the shoot was finished. So for sheer bloody divilment and bravado front of my pals I again declined their offer, and quipped that some of these younger lads here would be delighted to appear in their porn film. At this stage the pair became quite adamant that it was me they wanted, and not one of the younger lads who would in all likelihood get stage fright and be unable to perform, plus apparently they had heard from an aunt who I dated years before I could do the job properly ??

At the time online dating sites were in their infancy and I was in excellent physical condition, and meeting women for fun was so easyand I was getting as much sex as I could handle, hence my rather cavalier attitude.

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By *atherjackhackettMan
over a year ago

Tipperary

I was in a pub in Dublin a number of years ago. I was chatting a lady who had just about started to appear on our tv screens and is a very prominent figure now and looks quite hot and minxy. They were moving onto another pub and she asked us along but we didnt.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The Opposite really for Me

A number of years ago I stupidly wrote to Jimmy Saville asking him to "Fix It" for me to meet my (then) Hero Rolf Harris and to milk a cow blindfolded with him

Thankfully I never heard back

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By *dfabMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne

"The Opposite really for Me

A number of years ago I stupidly wrote to Jimmy Saville asking him to "Fix It" for me to meet my (then) Hero Rolf Harris and to milk a cow blindfolded with him

Thankfully I never heard back"

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

Homelands dance festival 2000 i think. She was beautiful. We met, we danced, we chatted like old friends, we shared a kiss, and then I lost her in the crowd until seeing her in the train station on then way home around 10am. She tried to engage again, but I was too far gone. I still remember the look of disappointment on her face. I just couldn't. She got away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was in Cincinnati with work in the hotel bar and 2 stunners asked me to join in so we went to my room and watched them go for it and I fell asleep ffs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was staying in a hotel overnight with work. I had just left my colleagues in the restaurant and was having a nightcap in the hotel bar. This couple came back and the girl started chatting to me, asking me what I was looking at on my phone, was it porn?!. She was obviously after a few drinks, but was very chatty and flirty. I totally missed the signals until it was too late. Thinking back on the conversation it was clear what she wanted!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I regret missing every signal any woman ever gave to me, whenever a woman is flirting with me I just think they are being nice then I wish them a good day and leave, only to think to myself later “she wanted me” kinda like father dougal when he was delivering milk

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By *sLittleRedRidingHoodWoman
over a year ago

Magical Forrest

There was this one time a really hot guy ( who I had a crush on for a while) asked me out and I said no ... why ... because I was too insecure and was worried he wouldn't like me.... stupid ejit

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I was same...only mine from childhood..fancied her in later years of primary school..First year secondary school she asked her friend to ask me to shift her ??????

I turned her down because I was so shy ??????

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By *lameBoyMan
over a year ago

Enfield & Dublin

I was doing medic for a white collar boxing event and went to the after party in Coppers. The two ring girls were absolutely gorgeous and they were intent on having myself and my pal for themselves. I was sober and we hadn’t started swinging back then. I turned down the offer. Driving home we just looked at each other, “what have we done!!!”.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I was doing medic for a white collar boxing event and went to the after party in Coppers. The two ring girls were absolutely gorgeous and they were intent on having myself and my pal for themselves. I was sober and we hadn’t started swinging back then. I turned down the offer. Driving home we just looked at each other, “what have we done!!!”. "

Now THATS an OUCH !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a missed opportunity ...l hesitated...and lost being with the most amazing lady probably for the rest of my life...left me totally devastated...the emotional pain was...is...crucifying...but it was 100% my own fault....indeed as the saying goes..." he who hesitates is lost "....and thats the fucking truth ...

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