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By *uinn79 OP   Man
over a year ago

the west

So should people just say not interested thanks immediately? Rather than ghosting you yet constantly viewing ur profile? Very common? Discuss lol

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

Ghosting is bad form. You could always block if you don't want them to be viewing your profile.

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By *uinn79 OP   Man
over a year ago

the west

Yes might do that, manners not that common on fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes might do that, manners not that common on fab "

No one on fab owes you a reply or an explanation, block and move on.. Makes life easier

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

Why do people always claim it is not manners because someone hasn't answered them ? They will answer you if they are interested in chatting if not they won't answer for whatever reason.

If they are viewing your profile and it annoys you block them and forget about them .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To me if they don't reply its the same as flat out saying not interested so it doesn't really bother me.

Manners would be letting you down gently but women get that many messages its impossible so us lads have to consider that and take it on the chin.

Fab was never a place for the sensitive soul. Swinging in general isn't really for a sensitive soul in any country I've been.

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By *phrodite72Woman
over a year ago

dublin/galway


"So should people just say not interested thanks immediately? Rather than ghosting you yet constantly viewing ur profile? Very common? Discuss lol "

If they havent replied to your message its not ghosting its simply not replying

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By *affa31Woman
over a year ago

Galway

It’s only bad manners not to reply if the person asked for the interaction in the first place.

No one on fab owes you anything, particularly a reply to a message they never asked for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I took it personal when i got ghosted or no replies I'd need a shit tonne of therapy!

Just means they not interested, their loss (well I tell myself that ) I'd say I'm a good 3 or 4 outta 10

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ghosting - the practice of ending a personal relationship with someone by suddenly and without explanation.

Hardly a relationship if you have only interacted on here.

Just block them if it bothers you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jesus if I worried about all the replies I didn’t get I’d never get any work done if you don’t get a reply delete the thread and move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seen someone post before when they send a message they delete it from their sent messages so can't check if it's been read or unread, it's a good idea. Have done it myself.

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By *dventureSeanMan
over a year ago

Kerry

All dating and meeting sites, have some level of ghosting.

The person doing the ghosting have the issue not you.

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By *ubal1Man
over a year ago

Newry Down

The incivility of some people when they are operating under a pseudonym, is predictive of their behaviour in other scenarios such as on a meet.

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By *phrodite72Woman
over a year ago

dublin/galway


"All dating and meeting sites, have some level of ghosting.

The person doing the ghosting have the issue not you.

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Its not ghosting if u havent chatted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Seen someone post before when they send a message they delete it from their sent messages so can't check if it's been read or unread, it's a good idea. Have done it myself."

That’s a really good idea destiny. I might try that. I’ll only forget what I said tho lol

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By *uinn79 OP   Man
over a year ago

the west

Great point

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Seen someone post before when they send a message they delete it from their sent messages so can't check if it's been read or unread, it's a good idea. Have done it myself.

That’s a really good idea destiny. I might try that. I’ll only forget what I said tho lol"

Benefit of been site supporter when they do message you, your message will show.

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