FabSwingers.com forum: Most unread messages

By *akeorDeath OP Man
over a year ago

City

It’s a crazy site, I might get a few messages a week if I’m talking to someone but the inbox has never got past more than 2 at any given time

What’s the most unread messages everyone has had in a day

Obvs high scores work be going to the ladies

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

Currently at 29... but its usually into the hundreds

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I leave the begging ones unread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Currently at 29... but its usually into the hundreds "

If I make that 30 would you read it?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m thinking of employing a PA to help me with mine

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By *iver80Man
over a year ago

south side ,

Im doing interviews for a PA

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

"Currently at 29... but its usually into the hundreds

If I make that 30 would you read it?!"

I'd like to say yes... but no. Its not you, its laziness and not being bothered about new peoole right now.

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By *rmrspumpCouple
over a year ago

narnia

Currently 415

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

I've seen a profile with a couple of hundred unread messages

She sent me a screenshot to show me how mad it got for her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've seen a profile with a couple of hundred unread messages

She sent me a screenshot to show me how mad it got for her "

Well that's through not using filters, doesn't have to be like that

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

"I've seen a profile with a couple of hundred unread messages

She sent me a screenshot to show me how mad it got for her

Well that's through not using filters, doesn't have to be like that"

My thoughts exactly. It's only mad if you allow it to be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It’s a crazy site, I might get a few messages a week if I’m talking to someone but the inbox has never got past more than 2 at any given time

What’s the most unread messages everyone has had in a day

Obvs high scores work be going to the ladies "

Oooh Mr big shot with his 2 messages banked up.

I'd wager it's partially the reason there are so many fake couple and female profiles. Some dudes just want to ride that light yellow wave.

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By *rakesterlingMan
over a year ago

Dublin

three thousand and counting... oh you mean here? nah, I've red them all

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

"I've seen a profile with a couple of hundred unread messages

She sent me a screenshot to show me how mad it got for her

Well that's through not using filters, doesn't have to be like that"

Exactly

I've none at present the most I've ever had is about 15 especially since I've used tight filters.

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By *owdyboy 890Man
over a year ago

Country West

I'd say a lot of them aren't messages but photos

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By *issusWoman
over a year ago

Belfast

On my old profile one of my photos happened to be on the first page of hot photos.

I got over 1000 messages that day.

That was with set filters..

Those things don't happen every day. Not even once a month.

Women get extra messages after putting up new photos or statuses.

From personal experience not unmanageable (obviously if you don't reply to every "hi" and "gis a buck" message.

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

When I logged on a few minutes ago...I had 4

One was from a couple reading this thread and they have 415

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Back when I was regularly posting pics and stuff and wasn't too savvy about filters it would have gone into the thousands, but right now it's on 17

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Currently 567 and counting

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Having a high number of unread messages is one thing. Telling everyone how high that number is becomes like a badge of honour or a less than humble brag which is why many people decide not to use the available filters. They might feel slightly less popular if those numbers dropped.

Unread message screenshots are the new sky remote. How does yours measure up?

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

"Back when I was regularly posting pics and stuff and wasn't too savvy about filters it would have gone into the thousands, but right now it's on 17"

The number of likes you got for your picture of the year was amazing in fairness

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By *lameBoyMan
over a year ago

Enfield & Dublin

I’m currently at 3 unread. I’m hoping that the ladies I messaged might eventually either read them or delete them. I sent the message, it their move next.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Back when I was regularly posting pics and stuff and wasn't too savvy about filters it would have gone into the thousands, but right now it's on 17

The number of likes you got for your picture of the year was amazing in fairness

I never did get to send everyone their personalised go fuck you message!

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By *lameBoyMan
over a year ago

Enfield & Dublin

"Back when I was regularly posting pics and stuff and wasn't too savvy about filters it would have gone into the thousands, but right now it's on 17

The number of likes you got for your picture of the year was amazing in fairness

I never did get to send everyone their personalised go fuck you message!"

I was slightly disappointed!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've 5 at moment which is unusual.

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By *iver80Man
over a year ago

south side ,

"Currently 415"

I can see why ,

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By *iver80Man
over a year ago

south side ,

I have 57 ,

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By *exysamXXXWoman
over a year ago

The Land of Make Believe

Currently 30 unread but can vary from day to day.

The 'Hi hun' and the simple 'Hey' go unread until it automatically deletes

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By *akeorDeath OP Man
over a year ago

City

I never did get mine

"Back when I was regularly posting pics and stuff and wasn't too savvy about filters it would have gone into the thousands, but right now it's on 17

The number of likes you got for your picture of the year was amazing in fairness

I never did get to send everyone their personalised go fuck you message!"

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By *t777Woman
over a year ago

close by

Currently 62 from today

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

most ever was 20 something maybe...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had 4 one time! 4!!!!!

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

"I leave the begging ones unread

I keep sending the begging ones and they're usually unread as well.

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By *dfabMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne

And then people wonder why folks just Wink

Cos we know that you have hundreds of messages!

Why go to the effort of writing you another one to add to the list??

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By *Sparkie.Man
over a year ago

Ratoath

Highest I got to was 19, most were from "straight" guys looking to meet and that baffles me

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By *oingMan
over a year ago

Co. Antrim

I think I send 316 per day. 2 responses at most

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think I send 316 per day. 2 responses at most"

mine got lost in the post

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Highest I got to was 19, most were from "straight" guys looking to meet and that baffles me"

you are sexy enough to turn them Sparkie

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By *Sparkie.Man
over a year ago

Ratoath

"Highest I got to was 19, most were from "straight" guys looking to meet and that baffles me

you are sexy enough to turn them Sparkie

I think they've turned already but struggling to admit it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most are read ,few that aren't. Then u might get a reply one message or two and then they vanish

Its a spooky place x

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By *ERRIBLE TWOSUMCouple
over a year ago

Suck mammys strap-on

"Highest I got to was 19, most were from "straight" guys looking to meet and that baffles me"
you mean fab straight

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By *ERRIBLE TWOSUMCouple
over a year ago

Suck mammys strap-on

"It’s a crazy site, I might get a few messages a week if I’m talking to someone but the inbox has never got past more than 2 at any given time

What’s the most unread messages everyone has had in a day

Obvs high scores work be going to the ladies "
We read the profile before the message if its for us,it's for us...if not then we delete.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At the moment just ten but have had over a hundred. Dee when she was a single here would regularly have a couple of hundred

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By *aid backMan
over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out

Currently about 4500 unread ...... Oh you don't mean outbox

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By *yeCandyDublinCouple
over a year ago

Lucan

"Currently about 4500 unread ...... Oh you don't mean outbox

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By *OCONO5Couple
over a year ago

Sensual Center

I had 1 once the other 269 we for mrs

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

"I had 1 once the other 269 we for mrs

Brilliant

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas

Just a few

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By *oo32Man
over a year ago

tipperary

"Just a few

I'd say being very modest

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By *iscuits8Man
over a year ago

Meath / Dublin / Birmingham

1224

Oh wait no that's the time. None

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Back when I was regularly posting pics and stuff and wasn't too savvy about filters it would have gone into the thousands, but right now it's on 17

The number of likes you got for your picture of the year was amazing in fairness

I never did get to send everyone their personalised go fuck you message!"

Yeah, still waiting for mine.

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By *ittlekinks38Woman
over a year ago

outside belfast x

I get next to no messages then the odd time I could get upto 20 messages a day suppose it depends what I write as a status or they like what they read on my profile I suppose...am the kinda person who reads and replies too all messages can't have messages sitting unread for some reason...xx

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By *oingMan
over a year ago

Co. Antrim

"I think I send 316 per day. 2 responses at most

mine got lost in the post

It’s the filters stopping my charming messages

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By *imeoutaloneMan
over a year ago

Dublin to Westmeath

Currently 9

if I set that filter right it would be 0 but they make me laugh

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By *t777Woman
over a year ago

close by

"Currently 9

if I set that filter right it would be 0 but they make me laugh

Try 10

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By *iscuits8Man
over a year ago

Meath / Dublin / Birmingham

"Currently 9

if I set that filter right it would be 0 but they make me laugh

Try 10

Nicking my reply to the wink thread the other day

I kid, smooth operator there

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By *t777Woman
over a year ago

close by

"Currently 9

if I set that filter right it would be 0 but they make me laugh

Try 10

Nicking my reply to the wink thread the other day

I kid, smooth operator there

Ah have to keep a fellow English man happy

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By *t777Woman
over a year ago

close by

"Currently 9

if I set that filter right it would be 0 but they make me laugh

Try 10

Nicking my reply to the wink thread the other day

I kid, smooth operator there

One for you too xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Having a high number of unread messages is one thing. Telling everyone how high that number is becomes like a badge of honour or a less than humble brag which is why many people decide not to use the available filters. They might feel slightly less popular if those numbers dropped.

Unread message screenshots are the new sky remote. How does yours measure up? "

Ahh tis my filters, ah feck sure I had them on that's why I've so few. . . (Shakes head disapprovingly). Feckin filters..

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By *affa31Woman
over a year ago

Galway

0 unread with no filters other than age ones…it’s great being so popular

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unread message screenshots are the new sky remote. How does yours measure up?

Ahh tis my filters, ah feck sure I had them on that's why I've so few. . . (Shakes head disapprovingly). Feckin filters.."

They dont build up if you are Fabaddicted either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My sent box looks like the yellow brick road

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By *dventureSeanMan
over a year ago

Kerry

"0 unread with no filters other than age ones…it’s great being so popular

We all have our reasons why we can't accommodate.

But I presume profiles with can accommodate gets loads more messages.

I think added to that

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By *imeoutaloneMan
over a year ago

Dublin to Westmeath

"0 unread with no filters other than age ones…it’s great being so popular

A response like that is like a moth to a flame

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By *affa31Woman
over a year ago

Galway

"0 unread with no filters other than age ones…it’s great being so popular

A response like that is like a moth to a flame

And yet it’s still on 0

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By *scouple07Couple
over a year ago

louth, Ireland

0, they aren't that frequent so tend to open them when we see them

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

"0, they aren't that frequent so tend to open them when we see them "

I'd imagine the mailbox was full with the new profile picture ...great picture

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By *scouple07Couple
over a year ago

louth, Ireland

"0, they aren't that frequent so tend to open them when we see them

I'd imagine the mailbox was full with the new profile picture ...great picture "

Got a couple but not many, thank you was a fun evening

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By *ilderMan
over a year ago

dublin

I had 6 one morning when I checked. A record yet to be matched or bet.....

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By *iablo soloWoman
over a year ago

over younder

I find when I put up a new photo or status it becomes chaotic...hence the reason I dont do both very often

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By *uinn79Man
over a year ago

eh no

No wonder women get fed up with guys here

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By *1n_eaterMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

Zero. I do like a empty box

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Currently about 4500 unread ...... Oh you don't mean outbox

Sounds like a familiar story

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why not put filters to avoid it?we don't have that many at all.Have pretty tight filters.

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