FabSwingers.com forum: Submissive

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi , so question!

Are women into submissive guys ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s a good question. I’m guessing there’s plenty of men into dominant women. My wife and I have experimented and I’m definitely submissive. She wanted me to try dominating her but any time I did it just felt completely weird to me. She enjoys being in control but probably not to the extent that would keep me from wandering online.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lots of women are. Me personally no as I'm attracted to the opposite.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jesus dont be reading my profile then lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Jesus dont be reading my profile then lol

Getting battered around the room? Wow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah vanilla cold sex does nothing for me, has to be rough and passionate both of us fighting off each other advances love a woman to give as good as she gets dont just give it to me.

best sex is always on the edge of just not been able to handle it otherwise what's the point lol ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yeah vanilla cold sex does nothing for me, has to be rough and passionate both of us fighting off each other advances love a woman to give as good as she gets dont just give it to me.

best sex is always on the edge of just not been able to handle it otherwise what's the point lol .."

Well ive had lots of hot sex that didn't involve me getting battered around anywhere. I also think there is a place and time for sensual sex. In my world there is anyway.

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas

Some are but it’s not for me sorry

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

"Yeah vanilla cold sex does nothing for me, has to be rough and passionate both of us fighting off each other advances love a woman to give as good as she gets dont just give it to me.

best sex is always on the edge of just not been able to handle it otherwise what's the point lol ..

Well ive had lots of hot sex that didn't involve me getting battered around anywhere. I also think there is a place and time for sensual sex. In my world there is anyway. "

I agree but at least he is being honest in what he is looking for on here and doesn't hide it that can only be a good thing because if people aren't interested in that then they can avoid his profile. Unlike the people who are untruthful and you find this out when suddenly you find yourself with someone who is pushing themselves on you and being a hell of a lot rougher than anything you want. That to me is a lot worse than someone who is truthful from the start about what they want and there are some women who like that scenario also.

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By *ofusplusCouple
over a year ago

Limerick

This is an interesting topic for me as I have discovered my submissive side during our journey here. To me, you can have a dom/sub interaction which can be very sensual, it's not necessarily about force or pain, just raw passion which can be super hot. Mrs

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By *t777Woman
over a year ago

close by

Depends on the situation but I prefer a guy to take control

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe I should explain the term getting battered is a bit general.

Face slapping, hair pulling, rough jostling, ripping off clothes , throwing her around the room onto the bed, floor kitchen table etc...

No body marking and nothing painful.

Hard face slapping and rough hair pulling would be as rough as it gets...

Seriously this type of play is very very passionate after fifteen minutes of fighting were all hot n sweaty and horny as fuck..

So getting battered terminology was my fault Apologies x

Yes my profile says exactly what I am Looking for on here , easy to decide if interested or not...

Love pushing a women to her limits then watching her have unbelievable orgasms because of it...

Sales pitch over lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agree with this..control is much more sexy than just the physical aspects

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By *oft_sexy_sweetWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

"Maybe I should explain the term getting battered is a bit general.

Face slapping, hair pulling, rough jostling, ripping off clothes , throwing her around the room onto the bed, floor kitchen table etc...

No body marking and nothing painful.

Hard face slapping and rough hair pulling would be as rough as it gets...

Seriously this type of play is very very passionate after fifteen minutes of fighting were all hot n sweaty and horny as fuck..

So getting battered terminology was my fault Apologies x

Yes my profile says exactly what I am Looking for on here , easy to decide if interested or not...

Love pushing a women to her limits then watching her have unbelievable orgasms because of it...

Sales pitch over lol "

Your profile is really violent and alarming and that's coming from a woman who enjoys rough sex. It gives the impression that you don't give much (or any) consideration to consent, negotiation, or boundaries. As an experienced sub, I wouldn't in a million years consider meeting you with a profile like that.

In answer to the OP's question, yes LOTS of women enjoy submissive men!! It's not the cultural standard but it's very common indeed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *expitCouple
over a year ago

cork

"Maybe I should explain the term getting battered is a bit general.

Face slapping, hair pulling, rough jostling, ripping off clothes , throwing her around the room onto the bed, floor kitchen table etc...

No body marking and nothing painful.

Hard face slapping and rough hair pulling would be as rough as it gets...

Seriously this type of play is very very passionate after fifteen minutes of fighting were all hot n sweaty and horny as fuck..

So getting battered terminology was my fault Apologies x

Yes my profile says exactly what I am Looking for on here , easy to decide if interested or not...

Love pushing a women to her limits then watching her have unbelievable orgasms because of it...

Sales pitch over lol "

Jesus if you slapped me in the face my first reaction would be to kick you in the goolies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oops deleted my reply by accident.

That's fair enough everyone is different ,but I do have a social meet up first and usually what happens is we discuss the do and don'ts list , create a safe word and decide together what exactly happens, usually a role play scenario, everything is decided before we play....all my meets have been this way ,I presumed it was the norm ??

Set the boundaries, rules ,safe word the play?? Maybe I'm just too nice lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think a lot of men totally misunderstand what a submissive woman really is. Its a very sensual and exciting path of two minds meeting long before their bodies even touch.

Rough sex even with consentual agreement is very very different.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think a lot of men totally misunderstand what a submissive woman really is. Its a very sensual and exciting path of two minds meeting long before their bodies even touch.

Rough sex even with consentual agreement is very very different.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think a lot of men totally misunderstand what a submissive woman really is. Its a very sensual and exciting path of two minds meeting long before their bodies even touch.

Rough sex even with consentual agreement is very very different.

I can't visualise that scenario, I think we need to meet up and try both ways see who wins

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think a lot of men totally misunderstand what a submissive woman really is. Its a very sensual and exciting path of two minds meeting long before their bodies even touch.

Rough sex even with consentual agreement is very very different.

I would say it’s the same with sub men that aren’t after a quick wank. As I’ve said before. I never had a physical relationship with my Domme but we had a connection that I don’t think I’ll ever be able to completely break

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think a lot of men totally misunderstand what a submissive woman really is. Its a very sensual and exciting path of two minds meeting long before their bodies even touch.

Rough sex even with consentual agreement is very very different.

I would agree that it is very similar for both submissive women and men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think a lot of men totally misunderstand what a submissive woman really is. Its a very sensual and exciting path of two minds meeting long before their bodies even touch.

Rough sex even with consentual agreement is very very different.

I can't visualise that scenario, I think we need to meet up and try both ways see who wins

I don't think so. We are so far removed from what each other likes.

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By *uanpacMan
over a year ago

Cork/Limerick/Dublin

McGrgeor once said he would never submit but he tapped..never believe what you read on fab...mmmm sexy sex xoxoxox

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes exactly this is right he is saying it which is exactly what everyone wants, it should be encouraged. 100%

I think some people here do not realize there are some woman that want what Fergal200 has to offer., A lot more than you think. But it's not for some, or most at all.

Also Fergal I think your profile text makes you out to be a bit worse than in your comments here, better to take this tone as you may have more result.

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By *unsigntwoCouple
over a year ago

athlone

"Hi , so question!

Are women into submissive guys ? "

Here no mrssun is more submissive herself.. so 2 sub playing together would get nothing done lol lol

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By *oft_sexy_sweetWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

"McGrgeor once said he would never submit but he tapped..never believe what you read on fab...mmmm sexy sex xoxoxox "

Speaking of sexual violence...

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By *oft_sexy_sweetWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

I think some people here do not realize there are some woman that want what Fergal200 has to offer., A lot more than you think. But it's not for some, or most at all.

Also Fergal I think your profile text makes you out to be a bit worse than in your comments here, better to take this tone as you may have more result."

I know for a fact that some women like that kind of sex but as you've said, his profile tone is implies something completely different than his comments here.

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By *oft_sexy_sweetWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

"I think a lot of men totally misunderstand what a submissive woman really is. Its a very sensual and exciting path of two minds meeting long before their bodies even touch.

Rough sex even with consentual agreement is very very different.

100%, I can have and enjoy rough sex without submitting for one second. Submission is about WAY more than being "battered".

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

It’s by no means in a violent way being a sub , for me it’s just to serve a woman or a couple how they see fit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think a lot of men totally misunderstand what a submissive woman really is. Its a very sensual and exciting path of two minds meeting long before their bodies even touch.

Rough sex even with consentual agreement is very very different.

100%, I can have and enjoy rough sex without submitting for one second. Submission is about WAY more than being "battered". "

Absolutely...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yeah vanilla cold sex does nothing for me, has to be rough and passionate both of us fighting off each other advances love a woman to give as good as she gets dont just give it to me.

best sex is always on the edge of just not been able to handle it otherwise what's the point lol ..

Well ive had lots of hot sex that didn't involve me getting battered around anywhere. I also think there is a place and time for sensual sex. In my world there is anyway. "

Harping on about getting batterd.

Hardly.

If you do t understand the dynamic then dont get involved

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yeah vanilla cold sex does nothing for me, has to be rough and passionate both of us fighting off each other advances love a woman to give as good as she gets dont just give it to me.

best sex is always on the edge of just not been able to handle it otherwise what's the point lol ..

Well ive had lots of hot sex that didn't involve me getting battered around anywhere. I also think there is a place and time for sensual sex. In my world there is anyway.

Harping on about getting batterd.

Hardly.

If you do t understand the dynamic then dont get involved"

I was referring to his mentions in his profile of the word battered, and you have no idea as to what i know or don't know about the dynamic.

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By *uanpacMan
over a year ago

Cork/Limerick/Dublin

Nothing will beat a battered sausage...

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By *aid backMan
over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out

"Yeah vanilla cold sex does nothing for me, has to be rough and passionate both of us fighting off each other advances love a woman to give as good as she gets dont just give it to me.

best sex is always on the edge of just not been able to handle it otherwise what's the point lol ..

Well ive had lots of hot sex that didn't involve me getting battered around anywhere. I also think there is a place and time for sensual sex. In my world there is anyway.

Harping on about getting batterd.

Hardly.

If you do t understand the dynamic then dont get involved"

But getting involved is what the forums are for. Anyone can comment on any thread regardless of knowing a dynamic or not.

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By *ensualandslow321Man
over a year ago

Tullamore

I'm just out of a 3 year D/S relationship. It was sensual and very passionate and developed over time. I find it hard to imagine any woman being attracted to what's described by the OP.

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By *3nsesMan
over a year ago

Dublin

"I'm just out of a 3 year D/S relationship. It was sensual and very passionate and developed over time. I find it hard to imagine any woman being attracted to what's described by the OP. "

You need to expand your imagination.

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By *ensualandslow321Man
over a year ago

Tullamore

"I'm just out of a 3 year D/S relationship. It was sensual and very passionate and developed over time. I find it hard to imagine any woman being attracted to what's described by the OP.

You need to expand your imagination. "

Believe me, there is absolutely nothing wrong with my imagination, unlike yours it is based on mutual enjoyment

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By *3nsesMan
over a year ago

Dublin

"I'm just out of a 3 year D/S relationship. It was sensual and very passionate and developed over time. I find it hard to imagine any woman being attracted to what's described by the OP.

You need to expand your imagination.

Believe me, there is absolutely nothing wrong with my imagination, unlike yours it is based on mutual enjoyment"

Sounds your imagination can only extend as far as imagining that everyone woman in the world wants to be submissive.

There are a lot of women out there who enjoy being the D in a D/s relationship.

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By *ensualandslow321Man
over a year ago

Tullamore

"I'm just out of a 3 year D/S relationship. It was sensual and very passionate and developed over time. I find it hard to imagine any woman being attracted to what's described by the OP.

You need to expand your imagination.

Believe me, there is absolutely nothing wrong with my imagination, unlike yours it is based on mutual enjoyment

Sounds your imagination can only extend as far as imagining that everyone woman in the world wants to be submissive.

There are a lot of women out there who enjoy being the D in a D/s relationship.

I'm sure there are but they're not for me. I like women who prefer not to take the lead and delegate that to me. Your version of submissiveness is at the extreme end of a D/S dynamic which isn't my cup of tea. Each to his/her own

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By *oft_sexy_sweetWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

"Your version of submissiveness is at the extreme end of a D/S dynamic which isn't my cup of tea. Each to his/her own"

I think you're a bit muddled... The OP was asking about submissive men, which I'm sure you can agree is a thing that many women are attracted to.

Your criticism of the extreme end of D/s isn't about the OP, it's another poster.

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By *ensualandslow321Man
over a year ago

Tullamore

"Your version of submissiveness is at the extreme end of a D/S dynamic which isn't my cup of tea. Each to his/her own

I think you're a bit muddled... The OP was asking about submissive men, which I'm sure you can agree is a thing that many women are attracted to.

Your criticism of the extreme end of D/s isn't about the OP, it's another poster. "

Apologies to OP just annoyed/dismayed at the tone/content of some of the posts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I enjoy playing with submissive males. My preference however runs to masochists and service submissives. There are quite a few women here who enjoy it but from experience once you post something like this the floods of mails start. Just as an added extra I always find the biggest self proclaimed male doms here are always the most eager to kneel and serve....

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By *3nsesMan
over a year ago

Dublin

"I'm just out of a 3 year D/S relationship. It was sensual and very passionate and developed over time. I find it hard to imagine any woman being attracted to what's described by the OP.

You need to expand your imagination.

Believe me, there is absolutely nothing wrong with my imagination, unlike yours it is based on mutual enjoyment

Sounds your imagination can only extend as far as imagining that everyone woman in the world wants to be submissive.

There are a lot of women out there who enjoy being the D in a D/s relationship.

I don't have a version of submissiveness.

The whole thing isn't really my cup of tea. I understand dominant women might not be for you but they do exist.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm off together a battered sausage and battered burger for me dinner, dunno where I got a craving for it today lol

Think a good summary is rough sex play scenarios need to be agreed and discussed with both participants, set boundaries and go for it !

But I already do this lol

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By *3nsesMan
over a year ago

Dublin

I now see it's a case of crossed wires more than anything else.

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By *exy Saucy SocialsCouple
over a year ago

Dublin

Lots of women like submissive men I for one had many submissive lads on my journey but alas they can be drama lamas so hense my change of role keep looking lad there out there

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By *oft_sexy_sweetWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

"I'm off together a battered sausage and battered burger for me dinner, dunno where I got a craving for it today lol

Think a good summary is rough sex play scenarios need to be agreed and discussed with both participants, set boundaries and go for it !

But I already do this lol

Maybe amend your profile to make it sound less like aggravated assault then "lol"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe I let you write my profile for me and we can share our next victims lol

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By *oft_sexy_sweetWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

"Maybe I let you write my profile for me and we can share our next victims lol "

You seem to think this is all a laugh which exactly confirms my impression of you tbh. There aren't enough red flags in the world.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a bold boy lol if you want to be sweet talked join plenty of fish

Just ask yourself have you ever been pushed to your sexual limits before ? I fuck your mind first body second...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh boy.....

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

"I'm just out of a 3 year D/S relationship. It was sensual and very passionate and developed over time. I find it hard to imagine any woman being attracted to what's described by the OP. "

But that is the thing there are women who like that .There might not be many who do and no I'm not one but for some women reading his profile would fit right in with what they are looking for .

Just because it seems so far out there for you does not mean it doesn't happen. It's their kink and everyone has their own.

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

"I'm off together a battered sausage and battered burger for me dinner, dunno where I got a craving for it today lol

Think a good summary is rough sex play scenarios need to be agreed and discussed with both participants, set boundaries and go for it !

But I already do this lol

Maybe amend your profile to make it sound less like aggravated assault then "lol""

But by doing that people won't get a real impression of what he wants. So no he should let his profile exactly the way it is .This same thing happened a while ago where someone completely changed their profile because people didn't agree with it. I think it may even have been the op who did that. How is changing it going to help anyone bar him to get meets. Women won't see what he wants and surely that is far worse for them .

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By *laveishMan
over a year ago

kildare

Personally I have found if a strong physical and mental attraction develops then the unexpected shock of a harsh slap or any such can only intensify the senses and thus increase the sexual enjoyment. A safe word can then come into play if the body can take no more. Personally I have surprised myself the level of pain I have endured in heightened situations. And also have been surprised by the same of playmates.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The answer is yes ,I have a few regular women and couples who love this type of play.

Obviously not for everyone but you never know unless you give it a go .

What's that saying try everything once then decide if you like it.

I've converted two mf couples so far and they were unsure the first time now they love it.

Next time you're in a restaurant try a new dish it might surprise you!!

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By *ensualandslow321Man
over a year ago

Tullamore

"I'm just out of a 3 year D/S relationship. It was sensual and very passionate and developed over time. I find it hard to imagine any woman being attracted to what's described by the OP.

But that is the thing there are women who like that .There might not be many who do and no I'm not one but for some women reading his profile would fit right in with what they are looking for .

Just because it seems so far out there for you does not mean it doesn't happen. It's their kink and everyone has their own.

Totally agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I decided to tone down my profile page, I'm a good listener and I will take the Advice suggested. I'm still Looking for the same stuff but as a first impression on my profile I can see it would be a bit aggressive and disrespectful to women.

Takes a bigger man to admit when he is wrong or being disrespectful to women.

I have re worked my profile so it's not as intimidating,thanks for all your replies and advice it was a good topic.

I would recommend you try it once ,I'm trying to think of a good annogly, dont dismiss anything without giving it a chance, you might love it.!

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

"I decided to tone down my profile page, I'm a good listener and I will take the Advice suggested. I'm still Looking for the same stuff but as a first impression on my profile I can see it would be a bit aggressive and disrespectful to women.

Takes a bigger man to admit when he is wrong or being disrespectful to women.

I have re worked my profile so it's not as intimidating,thanks for all your replies and advice it was a good topic.

I would recommend you try it once ,I'm trying to think of a good annogly, dont dismiss anything without giving it a chance, you might love it.!

You shouldn't have had to change it to suit what others think just because they didn't agree with it especially if it was a true representation of you.

Sad that this is what happens when people decide what's on others profiles bothers them so much and a profile ends up not showing what the person is looking for especially when the first one was so detailed it was easy to see if it was something that would interest the person reading it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes normally I wouldn't have changed it, but unfortunately my inbox doesn't lie, I got zero mails with that profile text content.

Women rule this website and are very fussy who they chat with, maybe I'm just an option that is too extreme for most.

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

"Yes normally I wouldn't have changed it, but unfortunately my inbox doesn't lie, I got zero mails with that profile text content.

Women rule this website and are very fussy who they chat with, maybe I'm just an option that is too extreme for most.

I would say it is the latter rather than anything else. I wouldn't say women are overly fussy but they just won't fuck anyone on here and the ratio is in their favour.

Personally I would have preferred to see what you wanted from a meet and know we aren't compatible than wasting both of our time chatting and meeting to find that out.

And I'm speaking from experience after meeting a guy who seemed like he wanted the same as me until we met and it got what I consider to be very scary very fast when he decided he could get rough with me.Luckily I got him to stop and got away .This is why I prefer if someone is onto more extreme kinks to know before I chat or meet and I think hiding it does no favours to anyone including the person with the kinks .

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By *rakesterlingMan
over a year ago

Dublin

"Jesus dont be reading my profile then lol

Getting battered around the room? Wow

was there not a post recently in one of the "worst experiences on fab" thread how one lady went around knee-balling and face punching the guy/s she met with?

match made in heaven I think

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

"Maybe I let you write my profile for me and we can share our next victims lol

You seem to think this is all a laugh which exactly confirms my impression of you tbh. There aren't enough red flags in the world. "

From a woman's perspective does it make any sense to you at all that he tames/tamed his profile text like you suggested?

Why get anyone to change their blurb if you wish that the profile reflects the person behind it with his/her wants,needs and desires?

Next time when a profile doesn't appeal to you I recommend to move on.

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

"Maybe I let you write my profile for me and we can share our next victims lol

You seem to think this is all a laugh which exactly confirms my impression of you tbh. There aren't enough red flags in the world.

From a woman's perspective does it make any sense to you at all that he tames/tamed his profile text like you suggested?

Why get anyone to change their blurb if you wish that the profile reflects the person behind it with his/her wants,needs and desires?

Next time when a profile doesn't appeal to you I recommend to move on. "

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Surely red flags are good and the more there are the more people can decide if they wish to ignore them.

Any thread asking for profile advice is given lots of suggestions and people then complain that their advice isn't taken.

However anyone taking a random list of suggestions and incorporating them in their profile when few if any of them reflect their true personality should then identify as fake.

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

Back to the topic

I'd say there's women out there that are into sub guys, but not as many as some make to believe here on this thread. So if you wish to live out this particular kink I think more specific fetish or bdsm sites will increase your chances.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

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"Yes normally I wouldn't have changed it, but unfortunately my inbox doesn't lie, I got zero mails with that profile text content.

Women rule this website and are very fussy who they chat with, maybe I'm just an option that is too extreme for most.

So would you say that in changing it you submitted to the women on here?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Back to the topic

Agree with this. Fetlife would be good place to start

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By *oft_sexy_sweetWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

"Maybe I let you write my profile for me and we can share our next victims lol

You seem to think this is all a laugh which exactly confirms my impression of you tbh. There aren't enough red flags in the world.

From a woman's perspective does it make any sense to you at all that he tames/tamed his profile text like you suggested?

Why get anyone to change their blurb if you wish that the profile reflects the person behind it with his/her wants,needs and desires?

Next time when a profile doesn't appeal to you I recommend to move on. "

Next time when my comments don't appeal to you I recommend you move on

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By *sLittleRedRidingHoodWoman
over a year ago

Magical Forrest

Everyone has their own kinks.... I am sure there is...

Personally I prefer dominat partners....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Jesus dont be reading my profile then lol

Getting battered around the room? Wow

was there not a post recently in one of the "worst experiences on fab" thread how one lady went around knee-balling and face punching the guy/s she met with?

match made in heaven I think"

Heyy yeah that was my point you stole my bit (Moe in the simpsons) then I couldn't find this thread to link it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thinking on it now from other opinions, I suggested he change it to get more messages even, but yes don't change it really that much at all, make it very very very clear what you want. Better everyone is clear.

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By *3nsesMan
over a year ago

Dublin

Takes a bigger man to admit when he is wrong or being disrespectful to women.

I have re worked my profile so it's not as intimidating,thanks for all your replies and advice it was a good topic.

I would recommend you try it once ,I'm trying to think of a good annogly, dont dismiss anything without giving it a chance, you might love it.!

If you are going to change your profile every time some women doesn't it like it then you'll forever be changing your profile.

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

This whole "pushing boundaries" thing makes me shudder. If someone had boundaries then they should be respected.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Takes a bigger man to admit when he is wrong or being disrespectful to women.

I have re worked my profile so it's not as intimidating,thanks for all your replies and advice it was a good topic.

I would recommend you try it once ,I'm trying to think of a good annogly, dont dismiss anything without giving it a chance, you might love it.!

If you are going to change your profile every time some women doesn't it like it then you'll forever be changing your profile. "

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

"Maybe I let you write my profile for me and we can share our next victims lol

You seem to think this is all a laugh which exactly confirms my impression of you tbh. There aren't enough red flags in the world.

From a woman's perspective does it make any sense to you at all that he tames/tamed his profile text like you suggested?

Why get anyone to change their blurb if you wish that the profile reflects the person behind it with his/her wants,needs and desires?

Next time when a profile doesn't appeal to you I recommend to move on.

Next time when my comments don't appeal to you I recommend you move on

Well if you're honest with yourself you know I've a point.;-) As for the rest it's a public forum where opinions can be exchanged within the rules.

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By *lameBoyMan
over a year ago

Enfield & Dublin

"This whole "pushing boundaries" thing makes me shudder. If someone had boundaries then they should be respected. "

I joined fab specifically to explore my own sexuality and push my boundaries. I have definitely done that and had an amazing journey of discovery so far. It was all discussed in advance and during play. Informed consent and trust are absolutely vital for it to work. I am learning more about what I can and cannot do as well as what I can and cannot have done to me. The thrill is exhilarating and almost addictive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I already have my small circle of friends who love this extremely rough sex play scenario.

If anyone can accommodate daytime week days I can bring one of my women and you can watch what we do, join in or not your choice, women or mf couples only ...maybe seeing it up close might make your mind up...

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

"This whole "pushing boundaries" thing makes me shudder. If someone had boundaries then they should be respected.

That sounds to me a bit more like you were exploring and discoving your boundaries, and that's what a lot of people do when they come to this game. What's bad is when folks define what they are comfortable with and communicate that, and then folks "push" beyond these.

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